₦airaland Forum

revolt:
The younger the better

But na una dey complain say them dey bill una.

jimmychang:
,Your husband don blow

Amen.

Kronikuz:
He should deal with evening newspapers like yourself (no offense)

He has already taken the advice, you're too late you broke degenerate.

Kobicove:
Is that why you wrote a whole thesis on the topic?

Yes. E dey pain me.

jimmychang:
You get sense.I would have married you but I still dey womb.

Me wey done marry.

Chnbanc:
sure na our way b that as
[color=#ff8700]Redpillers[/color]

Well, every human is entitled to an opinion. Just cause you don't like it doesn't mean every woman with an opinion is a feminist sha.

seanwilliam:
even the ones that are employed still have entitlement mentality..

Most of them are tifunloran

I'll be honest with you, no woman wants a stingy man but still, the only woman entitled to a man's money is his wife.

I've dated a man who lied to me that he wasn't receiving salary from his government job and for three months, na me dey send am money till I found out it was a big fat lie, it was his dad who exposed him to me and told me to run and not marry him.

I never spent up to 1k of that guy's money. Imagine if I had married a guy like that. I was working and never needed to ask him for a dime, we would go on dates and I'd foot the bill and even choose places that he can afford.

Just cause a woman is employed doesn't mean once a while, you won't give gifts or send money to her once a while.

It goes both ways but the guy should do more. An elderly man counselled me during the time I was dating that lying stingy guy. He said "if he can't spend on you when you are dating, buy you stuff, take you out, make you feel like the only girl on the world while you're dating, he won't do it in marriage. My wife still reminds me of the things I bought for her when we were dating and the places I use to take her to, the reason she has those old gists is cause it happened and still happens. If a man loves a woman, he wants to take her out, buy her the stuff she likes, even when she doesn't expect it". I took that advice to heart and it helped me in my next relationship.

A working woman shouldn't be entitled bit grateful when you give her money or buy her stuff.

Once she starts sounding entitled, she done dey use you be that.

Chnbanc:
I never realized u where this Godly...
I use to feel that u r a feminist..

Any woman with an opinion is tagged a feminist on Nairaland. Na their way.

And some people think just like that OBJ will forgive that statement and endorse Olule.

Rotfl.

FORWARDEVERLY:
Help me greet your mother.. tell her I would soon come get her off the under bridge that she is in,and servicing touts with her dry cunt for peanuts

My mum doesn't associate with low lives like you.

You can enter the nearest mfm close to you, there's still hope for you so the generational curse of stagnation and poverty hanging over your family and making your women lazy can be broken.

All the best child.

Zonefree:
I'm not praying for a female child. To raise a female child in Nigeria is deadlier than Buhari.

All the best.

FORWARDEVERLY:
But you are a product of a community Men Rape case nah

Rotfl.

Delusional ozuor.

As you dey there when e happen.

Hail your mama for me, tell her say her suffering go soon end.

Zonefree:
I'm not surprised. Women hardly believe the truth. They're fascinated with lies.

So if you have daughters, you'd also hang this tag over their heads?

FORWARDEVERLY:
Said by a girl that she and her mother are being Gang Raped by fulani Herdsmen

Coming from a guy who was conceived after his mum was used as a pay off of a loan to his father's family.

Where your mama wan go in the situation?

Na to stay dey serve her slave master.

Son of a slave.

Zonefree:
Faithfulness and respect are bonus cos Nigerian girls are not embedded with those virtues.

I refuse to believe that.

Zonefree:
Men marry just for procreation and to ease societal pressure. I expected you to know this before now, Roman.

I very much doubt it but even if these are the reasons a man marries, does it mean such men do not deserve faithful and respectful partners?

Zonefree:
What I stated earlier is reality not what I think.

The thing is, most Nigerian girls are bad when choosing life partners.

What about the men?

Isn't not the men that are also marrying wives who can't be faithful or respectful?

Choosing bad partners isn't peculiar to a gender o.

FORWARDEVERLY:
That is why all of you females that are married are staying

Cry me a River pls..

Na why your mama and sister dey stay for where them dey beat them, cheat on them and no value.

Your mum without self respect and any iota of self esteem also brought up your sisters to be lazy without self respect and self esteem.

That's why you think all women stay in abusive marriages cause they can't take care of themselves.

Now, cry you the atlantic.

FORWARDEVERLY:
Shut up.. y'all stay in marriage cos y'all can't foot your bills on your own ..

Is that why your mum and sister stayed?

GodsOwnMan:
Tell charli boy to remove his make up first

No be by make up, it's his ability I'm talking about.

Zonefree:
A woman is fulfilled only when she's with her own man.

If that's what you think, don't you believe she should take her time to pick a man that she can grow old with, one with more values than just having money?

So Tinubu wants us to believe him and Charly boy are almost age mates.

Wonderful.

Blessedmercy8:
I later used it for the business and schools are now owing me.
I bought my TV with my own hard earned money.

Some twins are known to have this silent competition between them. It's okay to stop telling her stuff about you.

Blessedmercy8:
Not like we can't survive without her but I don't think it wrong to have someone you can run to in time of need especially if she's willing to help.

She kinda does it to prevent us from running to men just like our parents did for us when they were alive. So she's trying to fill that gap but for one person to now be envying the other to the point of blocking her way is what I don't get.

Why you sef no use the money wey she give you for book business?.

Cause it looks like you've diverted the money.

It's not bad if you avoid your twin sis. If you're sure she has a track record of sabotaging you, you might want to give her some space and stop telling her things about you.

You and your twin are freeloaders riding on the good heart of your sister.

If your sister no dey, una no go survive?

It's cause your sis keeps enabling the both of you that you are even willing to betray each other cause of money.

I'm a twin too, FYI.

Hmmn.

The moment you have proof that your spouse is cheating, your life is in danger.

If not from STDs, it will be from the lover.

But na Nigerian woman, she go still stay for the marriage as na "for better or worse".

fman:
How many women are financially stable.
All of them are into billing.
Na client them dey hustle for.
We know the matter

Change the women in your circle. You are obviously dealing with very young and unemployed women.

Ebubu9:
Honestly, going into marriage with God and a God fearing woman who is proverbial and has virtues of a Godly woman, is the only saving grace.

A man who knows and fears God is also the best to go into marriage with. I am not talking about the type that are workers in church, claim to speak in tongues but are steady fornicating.

For a woman who is financially stable and is not driven by hunger to settle for anyhow guy, yes, I agree.

Chnbanc:
Did u type all this with your phone?
Or u copied it....
All the same [color=#cf0077]NICE Epistle[/color]

I typed it with my phone. I am passionate about Godly marriages so it breaks my heart when people just enter marriages without the right values or orientation.

That wife of his probably doesn't even know what feminism is.

A woman that will cheat will cheat. It all depends on the values that she was taught and the values that shaped her.

It's why you have to look well before you marry, man or woman. What kind of values do you have?

For me, infidelity is a deal breaker, domestic abuse is a deal breaker and my husband and I share similar values.

We both know that there's no coming back if any of these two happens in our marriage.

It's not enough for someone to be fine, have money or good job or business, what type of values do they have?

How can you expect total fidelity from someone you were fornicating with and who has several body counts? How can you guarantee that when the opportunity presents itself, that person's flesh will not fail them?

God's way is still the best, stay away from premarital sex.

Go into marriage with God and the way God intended marriage to be to avoid all these unnecessary ex boyfriend ex girlfriend wahala.

Sexual purity cannot be overemphasized.

It's sexual immorality that's leading to most marital issues after money. My wife/ husband has a low sex drive (because they have a mileage of over a million on their sexual experience), my wife/husband cannot satisfy me (when they've spent their youth sampling all kinds and have basis for comparison), my wife/husband always denies me sex (when sex is the solid thing that works well in the marriage).

It all boils down to Immorality my brother and it is getting worse.

I feel really sorry for you.

You obviously married a woman who just chose you cause you were ready to marry.

The guy is the person she really loves. I just wonder why she had to put you through what you are going through, it's wickedness and you are well within your rights to end the marriage.

It's sacrilegious for a married person to commit adultery, worse that she's pregnant and still committing adultery.

Save up and do a DNA test on that child to be sure she didn't pawn off her lover's child as yours.

I am really sorry you're going through this.