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Family / Re: Is There Love In This World? by ronald4lif(m): 7:32pm On Jul 26, 2017
Love is interest. You go where your interest are met and assume you're in-love until those interest are no longer met or they become irrelevant. Then you move on with someone who can meets your upgradable set of interest and the cycle continues

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Romance / Re: What Are Married Women Still Looking For On Romance Section by ronald4lif(m): 7:19pm On Jul 26, 2017
Lol grin
Romance / Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by ronald4lif(m): 11:47pm On Jul 25, 2017
thesuave10:

I'm done with you grin

Fortunately, the meme mirrors you and your bland defence for vague validation. Well played mate

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Romance / Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by ronald4lif(m): 11:33pm On Jul 25, 2017
thesuave10:


Why did you bring it up here. It's totally out of context with the message grin

No, it's not out of point. It falls within the message she's trying to convey which is broke guys should work hard and the entire message was fixated on guys without a balance and making it seem like it's a crime for a guy to be broke but not so much for the female folks. A balanced writer should have highlighted even if passively that women and indeed no one should be broke. This is common with Naija girls today that once they come across the word broke or want to mention it guys are their target
Romance / Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by ronald4lif(m): 11:28pm On Jul 25, 2017
PS: As opposed to the insinuation to the previous writer I quoted, I'm not being specific or personal to the writer of this post. I don't know her or her social caste nor her financial muscles and neither do I give a tuppence. My submission is impersonal and aimed at mostly broke girls who takes pleasure in labelling guys broke. Just saying
Romance / Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by ronald4lif(m): 11:25pm On Jul 25, 2017
thesuave10:


It doesn't matter who is telling you as long as its the truth. You can either accept it and work on yourself or go and sleep. Truth is truth. The source doesn't change the fact. As far as the op is concerned you dont know her so stop generalizing and being fallacious and stick to the message. It would help the male folks a lot grin

Generalising and fallacious? Fallacious about what if I may ask or you just love using that word? Please also feel free to tell where I mentioned her opinion as false if you don't mind. My point was and still is, being broke isn't gender based and she shouldn't straitjacket her points to the male folks. Women don't have a pass to be broke more than men have
Romance / Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by ronald4lif(m): 11:08pm On Jul 25, 2017
BobbyKilo:
If u are a broke guy,ask yourself "will u marry urself if u were a woman"when u answer that honestly, u will then understand where some women who have the notion of not settling with a broke guy is coming from.
#IsBobbyKilo

If I were a woman I won't settle for a broke guy for sure and won't advise anyone to. If I were also a woman I won't label guys broke at any given opportunity especially if I'm broke myself or have nothing going on for me. And I won't see relationship/marriage as a free meal ticket but would rather work on self development and being self-reliant so as not to be a liability to any man.

If a lady is broke it's okay to want a rich fella to help her and her family out but it's wrong to openly deride broke guys, an affliction she's also inflicted with. They don't have such right and carte blanche. Doing so is hypocritical and a big mockery to themselves even more than the people they aim to deride

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Romance / Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by ronald4lif(m): 10:52pm On Jul 25, 2017
Benita27:
When you're broke, what have you to spend on a lady?.

What can a broke lady offer a man and how can they spend on him when they're broke?

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Romance / Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by ronald4lif(m): 10:39pm On Jul 25, 2017
handsomeclouds:

You now come and go like spirit

Lol na so. Sometimes are like that
Romance / Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by ronald4lif(m): 10:37pm On Jul 25, 2017
thesuave10:


I have just one question for you. The fact all these posts are directed towards guys [b]does it change the fact that guys should get rich. It's the truth. Stop making a case against women and acknowledge the truth[/b]

Repeating same thing. No where did I say a guy shouldn't get rich, did I? The point is everyone should get rich and being broke is not gender based. She's right about a woman wanting a man who can provide her comfort and a better life from that of her family but wrong when the entire post is centralised on guys brokenness like it's typical of women to do.

The OP is not alone, most ladies always have one or more advice for broke guys but the irony is that they're not different from those they're advising. One ought to first better their lives before teaching others on how to better theirs. Dockinta kwesili ibu-uzo kwuo onyeya tupu okwuo onye-ozo - a doctor ought to first treat themselves before they treat others. Rough translation.

I'm sick and tired of hearing girls who have nothing going on for them nor any assets to their name, some without having earn a penny in their lives call guys broke. No, they don't have such right, they don't

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Romance / Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by ronald4lif(m): 9:56pm On Jul 25, 2017
Oduok:
I love posts as this and I wonder why some guys would pick a fight whenever they hear the word broke from a lady. Being broke is a reality. And even guys do not love themselves when they are broke so why expect someone else to. Broke here is relative though. But I have been reading posts from ladies on this forum and I think I can agree to their concept of brokeness. Like a lady stated sometimes back: a fiance that never afforded transport when she visits, flashes her and all that. And amarabae here stating of guys with income below 30,000naira. These scenarios are clear extent of being broke. So many people were once broke. As you are broke, use you time, your energy and your little resources to work hard and raise your financial status - this is the message these ladies are passing. The ladies are saying that guys should stop using their little income to impress them. Stop using your little income to feed broke girls. It would make you remain broke and expecting sympathy from them. Stop investing your time calling, texting and visiting broke girls, use the time to work hard and be successful. Girls don't need your meagre money, they want to see you developing yourself to be in charge of mega money. Lots of girls that date and marry rich guys donot depend of the guy's money but they just love the idea of having a guy that is financially comfortable.

Mate, you're off the mark. Why are the purveyors of brokenness always ladies and why is it always directed at guys? It's being broke a male thing and is it okay for a woman to be broke? You see an average Nigerian girl with nothing going on for them, no cogent plan on self development and how to better their skint self finds delight in calling a guy broke? Then wake up daily praying for a well-to-do fella to ask her out or marry her so as to ameliorate her sorry ass calling guys broke? Does that make sense?

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Romance / Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by ronald4lif(m): 9:51pm On Jul 25, 2017
I'll take such admonishing seriously when it is directed at both genders. The new wave of Nigerian girls labelling guys broke and/or 'teaching' them how to be hardworking to break the poverty jinx without doing likewise to the female folks is lopsided and further fuels the mentality that it's okay for women to be laid back and broke just like their leeching mentality in a relationship keep soaring. It's never okay for anyone to be broke, male and female alike.

Both guys and girls have equal mental construct and almost same physical abilities to make money and at such no one should have a free pass to be broke while the other get scorned even as both of them face same economic situation in Naija.

And as soon as any guy disagrees or offer a dissenting view they're seen as broke and visited with upbraiding which is just a poor attempt at blackmailing everyone to agree to their narrative

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Romance / Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by ronald4lif(m): 9:37pm On Jul 25, 2017
MissCokie:


Rubbish. I visited your profile, and you said, "Married" , I pity your husband believe me.

I was addressing an issue in one of the conference i attended, and i had to tackle the foolish mentality of our modern day women, thinking that a guy must make money to take care of them. Please why can't you make money too, so in case you meet a broke dude, you can help him out.

I hate girls who are indirectly a liability to guys.

Please read the gibberish you posted above, I am disappointed in you. Yesterday, I came across a thread where u were beefing broke guys up and down, please you should be in the family section because you're married, and also hate broke guys.

By the way, I am sure the guys you call broke here, are not broke. This is a forum, a faceless one at that.

How re u?
Romance / Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by ronald4lif(m): 2:03pm On Jul 25, 2017
But why's broke always associated with guys? Women have a pass to be broke but not the male folks?

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Romance / Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by ronald4lif(m): 2:36pm On May 06, 2017
Toks2008, saw your tags.

Hopefully it isn't so late, happy new month brother. God bless
Romance / Re: Charm Or Luck?...matured Minds Only!! by ronald4lif(m): 11:18pm On Apr 24, 2017
Foxyn:
I will advice you to recite the hail Mary 30 times. After you are done, find or look for a wall and knack your head there like 5 times.

it helps to bring back one's senses to normal

grin
Romance / Re: Nigerian Men, Marry From Your Social Class by ronald4lif(m): 7:49pm On Apr 24, 2017
Beautiful piece though I've some reservation on the submission factor. Love and marriage should depend on your bargaining power for orange and mangoes shouldn't mix. If you don't possess complimentary traits as same or similar to the potential partner stay clear, it won't work. Every shoe get size

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Romance / Re: Check Out How God Favoured My Cousin Sister.....pic by ronald4lif(m): 7:20pm On Apr 24, 2017
How do we know she's a cousin? Pic of you two together or...
Romance / Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by ronald4lif(m): 2:26pm On Apr 24, 2017
Hmmm not until you see your girlfriend cheating on you you'll realise it's not as easy like you put it.
Family / Re: Can an anonymous person Be Harmed With Juju Through The Internet by ronald4lif(m): 2:19pm On Apr 24, 2017
Empty threats, there's no such powers. But return person money, if na you how you go feel. undecided

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Romance / Re: 7 Bedroom Lies Men Tell To Get Women In Bed (ladies Beware) by ronald4lif(m): 2:01pm On Apr 17, 2017
Nice but arrange your piece well for easy read
Romance / Re: Two Nairalanders Hangout For The First Time And Had Fun In UK by ronald4lif(m): 2:00pm On Apr 17, 2017
Griffon:


Ona aga ofuma ofuma. I was worried, really worried that those jamo chicks might have done harm to you nwannem.

Haha, nah they can't. Ihe nine di nma. Happy Easter nwanna

handsomeclouds:

henen, thank God, you disappeared for more than three months.
thank God, been having silly thoughts. how have you been?

I'm very good brother. Just normal paroles. Hope say you dey enjoy the Easter break wella.
Romance / Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by ronald4lif(m): 9:12pm On Apr 16, 2017
Interesting smiley

Oga Toks2008 greetings
Romance / Re: Two Nairalanders Hangout For The First Time And Had Fun In UK by ronald4lif(m): 9:09pm On Apr 16, 2017
Griffon:


Ronald, long time no see. Whats up brother?

Hey bros, I'm good o. Ke ije?
Romance / Re: Two Nairalanders Hangout For The First Time And Had Fun In UK by ronald4lif(m): 11:32pm On Apr 15, 2017
handsomeclouds:

where have u gone again, its over two months?

Happy Easter brother
Romance / Re: Two Nairalanders Hangout For The First Time And Had Fun In UK by ronald4lif(m): 10:26pm On Jan 02, 2017
ireneony:
I'm fine. .I'm not in the capital.
I'm in west midland side

Alright. That's even much better, less crowded and less noisy but colder. Brace up for the cold grin Guess you're either in Wolverhampton, Birmingham or West Brom etc - you don't have to tell if you don't want to.

Happy new year.
Romance / Re: Two Nairalanders Hangout For The First Time And Had Fun In UK by ronald4lif(m): 10:20pm On Jan 02, 2017
ireneony:
thanks grin..longest time

Yea been a while. Trust you're good. You in the capital?
Romance / Re: Two Nairalanders Hangout For The First Time And Had Fun In UK by ronald4lif(m): 10:12pm On Jan 02, 2017
Monalisa185:
lol... These comments won't just kill me cheesycheesycheesy


Op, nice pictures by the way

**Modified** where's Ronald4 lif? This could be us oo cheesy. Coming to meet you toocheesycheesy

Earnestly waiting for you. kiss

Ireneony lovely pics. Welcome to Britain.

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Romance / Re: Tag And Ask by ronald4lif(m): 10:08pm On Jan 02, 2017
Tamee:


So happy to be chatting with you pal smiley Dunno why you give me tingles heyhey. Missed ya too, you just popped into my head one night after exams and I tried seriously to remember my password on here.

You and stfu and Saga mite my naughty daddy

Awww good to know and nice to also know you've been good but just occupied with school work.

Stay safe x
Romance / Re: Tag And Ask by ronald4lif(m): 9:57pm On Jan 02, 2017
Tamee:


Yeah yeah smiley So glad you are still here. Been waiting for you to come online. You good?

Yes I am good, just been occupied and very passive on here. You really went away for so long, trust all has been well. Glad to see you. Please don't stay away that long again, inugo? Missed ya. embarassed
Travel / Re: Nairalanders Visit Araromi Seaside In Ondo, The Largest Coastline In West Africa by ronald4lif(m): 9:53pm On Jan 02, 2017
Biolagurl:
I was dere last week too

Fine girl, happy new year.
Romance / Re: Tag And Ask by ronald4lif(m): 9:46pm On Jan 02, 2017
BoleAndFish:
Eze nnunu of the whole world. grin
Good to see you. Compliments of the season.

Ahh my man, odogwu for the girls grin You just dey on a low key abi.

Good to see you bro and happy new year.

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