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tosyne2much:
Since Dr. Wristbangle has started the Aluta, lemme follow suite.. Oyah Aluta, let's go there.

ALUTA CONTINUA, VICTORIA ASCERTA!!!


Lemme add mine


9. She's Too Obsessed With Suya

I don't think I can ever marry a lady who likes suya and asun so much. If care is not taken, the larger proportion of my salary will go with it.. Guys, marry such ladies at your own peril


10. She Only Flashes And Sends "Please call me

Research has it that ladies who are very economical with their call credit are very risky to marry. However, some of them will have 2,000 on their phones and will still be sending "please call me" to their boyfriends who only have N10 on their phones. Marry such ladies at your peril

11. She's Very Demanding Yet She Tells You No Sex Till Marriage

Before you bite me, please note a lady who is very demanding, she's not a virgin yet she's bent on no sex till marriage, always have something up her sleeves and I will advise you grab race sharp sharp. I won't even recommend such ladies for my enemies. When you marry such a lady, she will always use sex to starve to torment you if you offend her.. I know Ronald4 lif can't cope with this kind of torture


**Quote me to say nonsense and I will show you why Mynd44 is the only supermod that throws 50years ban**

Lol, true that. Can't cope without sex but can cope with a reasonably demanding lady. But sex fvck no. What's the use of a relationship without riding kitty-cat.

Hi Keepingmum, saw your mention earlier on the other thread you created for this same purpose but couldn't reply for some reasons.

As advised by others see if you can get it at Peckham, Brixton and Lewisham area of London. But if you can't and still in need of it I'd be in Nigeria during the Easter hols and could get some for you on my return to Britain. Don't know if that's too far a time for you as we're looking at April to be definite.

And I would really have to try out this choco milo that makes you like it this much. It must a be kinda special candy lol. Cheers.

Deejavuu:
Linda wasn't the only outlet that shared the baby news. Why didn't he confront others or deny the baby

I'm not a fan of Linda or Wiz. Just find it petty when marriage is used as diss for successful single ladies.

She was the first to blog the story and even watermarked the pics as exclusive. Other blogs may just have lifted it from her blog so if anyone should be attacked it should be Linda who first reported the story.

The marriage thing is very annoying. They can only ridicule women who gives a hoot about their marriage rants and I don't think Linda cares as much as they do. Wizkid isn't too young to get married by the way. Anyone from 21 can get married and he's passed that age.

[quote author=Deejavuu post=43166868]Very petty of Wizkid. He should really stop being a dead beat dad and go claim his responsibility. He threw shades and expected Linda to keep shut.



It will take years to change this mentality of Nigerians. Any successful single female is bitter because she ain't married. Thanks goodness he didn't call her an escort or a baby mama.[/quote]I think that's the problem. Is the baby his and did Linda confirm if the boy it's his before taking to press? What if the child isn't his and he's never even slept with this girl

I think Linda Ikeji some how asked for this. She took to press saying Wizkid 2nd baby mama had birth his second son without certain nor confirming if the child is Wizzy's.

I read that story and didn't see any "alleged" attached to it. Was Linda there when Wizzy mated the said lady or was she a witness to a paternity test procedure that confirms child was his?

That was character defamation, unprofessional and she has to be careful and get her facts straight before blogging stories.

Wizkid may just have confirmed, either through DNA or other means, that the boy isn't his and feels ire and infuriated considering the damage that story may have done to his brand. And rightly so to an extend but I think he should suck it up.

Linda never told anyone she's lonely. Being single and lonely are heterogenous and aren't same. One can be single, happy and convivial. While some are dating/married but still feel unhappy, misery and desolated. Daunting unmarried people is fatuous and silly when marriage doesn't guarantee happiness.

ivyT:
uv never liked virgins in the 1st place...

My run away trouble maker, you never sleep ni. How's you?

icedbeatz:
she's really a piece of work. Talking about love so that guys can pity her and give her steps or ways she can use to manipulate him and get her money bag back.
Rule #2? = help no b***h.

I taya o nwanne madu. She obviously thought we're credulous and naive but never knew we can see through her phoniness and facade. Her money bag has moved on, she should too.

Tallestt:
@Tosyne2much
That was a confession and it doesn't mean I don't know what I want in life. Haba! You guys should at least take things easy with who ever is in a delima such as me. Most couple started like a joke and ended well. At least I could prove my love for the said guy if asked to. The hungry poor girl who gave her love without expecting nothing in return. That's how dump guys view women....always say we have nothing to offer in a r/ship. A real man wouldn't say such ofcoz men know what women are capable of when inlove

Are you kidding or what exactly are you saying @ bold. You gave your love without expecting nothing in return when you had confessed what got you attracted to him was his money? Why speaking from the both sides of your mouth?

Princecalm:
I think you must be inane to have figured out the sarcasm in that post.

You obviously is more daft than an oaf.

"Abba Moro was arrested because he is an Igbo man from a village close Enugu, adjacent Anambra state, PMB must follow rule of law while fighting corruption, why did he order the arrest of Abba Moro without taking permision from David Mark, this is pure witch-hunting."

Read the comment again but this time slowly and see if you can grasp the sarcasm in it. I'm guessing you're too clumsy to comprehend. But here's what the writer is inferring - he's taking a jibe at Igbos who always lament that Buhari is a tribalist and his anti-corruption war is lopsided and targeted at Igbos. By indirectly insinuating Abba Moro must also be Igbo since Igbos assume all victims of APC anti corruption crusade is from their neck of the woods. Try to read to comprehend and stop exposing your stupidity publicly.

Princecalm:
get your facts right bro. Abba Moro is not an Igbo man, he hails from Benue state.

Couldn't you figure he was being sarcastic or you're just daft?

Why is this news and why the headline? Aren't visually impaired people supposed and capable of employment? Or is this some sort of mockery or an attempt to take undue credit for being 'compassionate' by employing a visually impaired individual. What kind of fuckéry is this

tosyne2much:
So what do you want us to do now? To follow you to your boyfriend and beg for a second chance?


From your story, I can deduce that you are nothing but a confused being who doesn't know what she wants in life. You claim you love someone so much yet you went behind him saying what a reasonable girlfriend should not say about her boyfriend.. I don't blame the lady who betrayed you, I thank God for using her to reveal your true nature as a sodomizing eeediot to your supposed boyfriend



In as much as I don't cyber bully people, I'm sorry to say that coveteousness has led you to misplaced priorities.. That your initial plan was to milk him dry clearly shows you are a hungry and greedy poor girl who has nothing but kitty-cat to offer


Where's Ronald4 lif?

Right here bruv. Don't mind the silly girl. She doesn't miss him, she just misses his money and the material things he provides. Let that dude go broke today and see if this her "I love him so much" will still exist the next minute.

Servers her type right, they think they can mess up with a man's feelings and still call the shots.

icedbeatz:
you're missing his money and the luxury which a part of you got accustomed to.
*Went to spend his money- never cared about his money.
*I'm not a bad girl ( a junky will always say he's or she's not a junky) but your mission was-is to squander his money.
*I hate losing SOMETHING precious - by something you mean all the comforts he provides?
b**** please. He deserves better. If i may ask what are the negative things you said about him from there i can tell you what might help.
But you were really a damned bit**.

Just couldn't help at her saying she's not the type who's swayed by material things and love someone coz of their money when the foundation and what got her attracted to him was his money. Never seen any thing as contradicting as that bro.

Mindfulness:
Why?

I think it's impractical for humans to love unconditionally. Unconditional is anything without limitations and I think for whatever love and affectionate we have for anyone does depends on the way we're treated and loved in return by this person.

And should this person, whoever they are, treat us unfairly then that love dies off with time. Now can such love qualify as unconditional? When there was a proviso attached to it? Human's I don't think have the capacity to love absolutely and without limitation.

paranoiapill:
[s]What IK is saying is that if you cannot pay your childrens school fees it means you were not ready for such responsibility or simply married over your head. Really women were over exposed to hustling because men slacked. So as far I'm concerned for men to turn around and demand 'hustle contribution' from women just somehow further demeans manhood. Agreed in some cases it can be due to unforseen issues, but even at that the woman should not be compelled to carry the burden, her contribution should be a voluntary choice not a duty.[/s]

This is the most silly thing I have read in a long while I must confess. Marriage is not a refuge for laziness neither is it a shelter to abdicating individual's responsibility.

If you want a slave for a hubby go mould one, if you want a companion then you must be able to contribute significantly and financially I must add.

You want a man to finance every thing in the home including your pads then you must be silly.

I only love anyone I share same bloodline with unconditionally, nucleus family relations to be definite. Withal, such love still have clauses and when they are severed then it becomes conditionable.

Any other love is conditional.

falconey:
Prof ronald4 lif come and read and summarize this epistle in not less than 30 words.

By the time i finish reading this............ dollar is 450

Eyan Mayweather, this one is strong o. Dollar will even hit a thousand naira before one conclude reading this epistle. I have to take a day off from all my schedule to enable me read this walahi.

skywalker240:
I agree the men (made) use of money as a means, but i ts not naturally d man's fault,

The ladies are just so greedy.

lets assume women in ur region that turns a made man that approach them down just to stick with their avarage or struggling partner are 3/7 then the ones in naija are 9/1

And its a result of so much greed.

U need to come and see them killing to have that 67 yrs old well made alhaji.

Haha. The Dabota Lawson and Caroline Danjumas.

I get your point wella. The orientation is really poor and worrisome. The are many parents in Naija who even prays for their daughters to marry wealthy men so he can uplift the family from their suffering. They tell these girls not to settle for a broke guy as their family is broke and they need a man to 'wipe' away their 'tears'.

The male siblings who are frustrated with life are even hoping a rich dude come marry their sisters so he can also set them up. It's really crazy how anyone would ginger their wards on how to become a pest and liability to a man rather than moralize them on self-development. Funny.

distributeinc:
Am speaking about honest hard working guys,a guy with a one room apartment,that can afford rent and pay bills. In Nigeria,we don't even expect our ladies to split bills with us when we go out. They are just misled and confused,most are just under peer influence.

I get the point really. This is where the disparity lies. A hardworking and independent fella shouldn't have a problem dating. A lot of our women depends on men too much and it's really annoying. Wonder why they would rather depend on a guy for their needs when they can be self reliant themselves.

Women should have some regard for themselves, it's shameful to shift individual responsibility to someone else. Really shameful.

skywalker240:
To much extent you are right, with the lazy dudes and the economy that isn't bouyant at the momment,

But then u should know the ladies are also at fault here, unlike the ladies in your country, majority of them are lazy and aint even planning of being independent (if ever that thought pops up) they just want it all rosy they are never ready to face the reality side and that is the harsh economy.

over here, the ladies always go for the highest bidder which we know are the made men, and then ignore the average and struggling ones.
So u see they aint helping matters and then they end up the victim.

If i may ask what country are you from?.

I agree to the bold but I also think Nigerian men played significant role in the behaviour of our women towards dating and scouting for made men.

An average Nigerian rich fella believes he can get any woman to himself provided he's got the resources to splash on them. They meet a lady who confesses she's in a committed relationship but still insist they must date her and she must succumb.

To the wealthy Nigerian man money and materialism is all he needs to attract her choice woman so these despicable culture of using money to ensnare women has sunk deep into the conciousness and become an intrinsic element in women when making choices on who to date.

The Nigerian wealthy class ruined relationship conventional codes and not the women. Though the women also contributed but the root of the problem is the men.

I'm Nigerian but resident in Europe.

I was choked when reading through the beginning until I got to the part where you also admonished women on how to treat men. That made the piece balanced and proportionate.

It was a refreshing read but also unrealistic and impractical. If a woman pack her belongings from my house, for unjustifiable and no reason, just so I come pleading she returned then she's in for a surprise coz I ain't no milquetoast who can be manipulated through petit mind games.

If the reason for her leaving is well grounded I sure will plead and even kneel down while doing so. But I won't avail myself as willing tool to anyone. Sorry.

skywalker240:
We hear.

Doe's the ladies in your region keeps scouting 4 made men?

They mostly don't scout for made men but also won't settle for a skint dude. No woman want a lazy and potato couch fella who isn't resourceful, productive and independent.

They may not want your money but they want someone who is self-reliant and can pick or split up bills on a movie or dinner date.

This is because they earn their own money but what do you expect in Nigeria where the economy isn't buoyant and there are little or no jobs. Women just capitalised on men's lust for sex to make a living for themselves.

Lol @ this isn't Europe or America. Mate, the streets of Europe and the U.S isn't paved with gold and it's also tough here though not as bad as Naija.

There are broke and homeless people in this part of the world just like there are in Naija and other developing countries. Not everyone here is 'rich' or can afford decent 3square meal.

Yes, the pay is remunerative and rewarding but so is the stress exhaustive and debilitating. Anyway, your message is worthy and spot on.

Lol. This is serious o. Have you find out if they have it in Asian shops? Or you live in an area where there aren't many Asian/African shops.

And with the way you sound in dire need of it £9 is nothing really. The stress involve in bringing some from Naija and shipping them to you is way more than a meagre £9. Just saying.

Sveen:
Boss.

Wow. Look who we have here. Longest time bro, what's up with ya?

The problem is with some women have cultivated the habit of depending on men for their every needs and with some assuming a false sense of entitlement on a man's money.

There are some ladies who thinks it's their birth right to ask a guy for money and have no shame while doing so. And the funny thing is that they have no chumminess and rapport existing between them before begging for money from these 'Samaritan' men.

Based on your narrative, there was no friendship and goodwill between you and this man but you already besieged him with your problems. Why not relax until you've developed a strong friendship before besetting him with your personal issues?

The demand was too speedy and he may have thought you're also trying to take advantage of him. Thus wanted some quick hanky-panky to compensate for his kind gesture.

The growing false sense of entitlement of some women and unceasing dependence on men for their needs has even made it difficult to render any assistance to women lately. Especially the tone in which they use in making their request.

And I'm wondering why it's easier for women to beg a guy for money than their fellow women? It's not in men' habit to beg for money from women but from fellow guys so why should women be different?

Mcbussy:
Are u white?... Don't think so

He thinks he is. And even if he were being white doesn't makes him better than the blacks.

He may assume the white race complexion is better to his but I don't agree it's better to mine.

Greene66:
You are the one irritating yourself. I notice how people on this forum always find a fault in anything he says which is bad. Two of you who is racist? He only said what his father said in regard to the topic and he said it sarcastically he did not say he can never marry black woman or something. But because you are eager to pick a fault you did nt care to understand what he was saying. Besides he is white if you don't know. A true American or white man who is real racist would happily offer him a handshake than they will a black man. So let's stop comparing ourselves with his type though they may seem poor but in terms of color they are much preferred than blacks. I live in the u.s I see their students here getting favors than blacks because of the white skin and long hair.

So stop feeling inferior that you pick on a foreigner at every single thing he says. When I say team foreign girls no one bash me but when he says same thing they attack him. Who is the hypocritical racist here?

The bold invalidate whatever thing you said here as I'm not one of the people who don't dismiss your usual infantile gibberish of team foreign girls.

But for the purpose of clarification, he's the racist for inferring what his father told him when it was completely irrelevant in the topic in discuss. He felt the need to say that coz he falsely assume his race is better than the black and I'd not have that, not in a Nigerian forum. I don't believe the white race is better than mine needless to say caucasoid Indians.

I have come across more than one snide remarks he made about my race and Nigerian women and I won't have that. I may condone from a Nigerian brother but I won't allow a lowlife Indian deride anyone belonging to my race, and not in our forum so scratch that. Their women are no better.

Indians are no better than blacks and your 'personal' experience or narrative about white racist preferring them to blacks isn't in consonance with the observation in my locality. From my observation, there are more inter-racial relationships and mixed-raced offspring between white-blacks heritage than of Indians-whites. So fvck that.

ipledge10:
sorry are you doing one your dp or your maid?...I bet no black woman will marry an Indian unless a low life...

You read my mind with that comment boss. That dude is becoming an irritant that need to be detoxicated from this forum.

His unwarranted derision of Nigerians and the blacks is becoming annoying. What I find amusing the more is that he considers and rates himself as 'white'. Funny.

sonofthunder:
happy holidays wise one

Happy holidays, dullard.

YourMain:
I'm not a feminist. I'd love to be. But it's true. Men are generally more successful. If you're talking in wealth men are generally are richer. I agree that women are capable of doing all men can and that's great and all. But right now in the society we have all lived in women are inferior. It is what it is. You don't have to agree. Whatever you consider superiority maybe in class or wealth or power. Google it. Men are superior. Sorry.

Neither gender is superior or inferior, people should be evaluated as individuals. Success has nothing to do with one's sex.

And I find your submission contradicting, affirming women can do all men can do (equality) and in another breath saying men are superior.

I had written an elaborative rebuttal to your assertion but for fear of being called a hypocrite I had to modify it, so when next I engaged NL feminists I don't sound silly after sounding like I'm one.

To go about believing men are superior to women is servilism to one's potentials and a subtle admission to poor self esteem.