₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: Register • Login • With Google • Trending • Recent • New

Stats: 3,344,451 members, 8,511,967 topics. Date: Monday, 02 November 2026 at 03:09 PM

Toggle theme

Ronald4lif's Posts

Nairaland Forum › Ronald4lif's Profile › Ronald4lif's Posts

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 42 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 (of 400 pages)

Romance › Re: Any Guy That Loves His Girlfriend Should Be Paying Her Salary Every Month by ronald4lif(m): 3:50pm On Mar 19, 2016
dollyjoy:
and what is the difference between a lady who trade love for monetary gratification and the one that doesnt yet end up dating different guys when one relationship fails?i mean from one relationship to anotherhuh
Don't quite get it. Are you insinuating that once money isn't involve the relationship is bound to fail?
Romance › Re: Any Guy That Loves His Girlfriend Should Be Paying Her Salary Every Month by ronald4lif(m): 3:23pm On Mar 19, 2016
Arrant nonsense. About time women (those with such mindset) comes out clean that they're veiled prostitutes. Only prostitutes trade love and relationship for monetary gratification. undecided
Romance › Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by ronald4lif(m): 3:18pm On Mar 19, 2016
firstking01:
But this my post is clear now, i dnt just understand, giving your girlfriend financial assistance is a thing of choice hence the money is there, in my post i said, unless except you are broke or you do not love the girl...so, it's an open phrase baba, i didn't say it's mandatory.
What you're saying now isn't in consonance with your initial post. In your original post you stated that any guy who doesn't give his woman money is stingy or broke or doesn't love her. This isn't true but I'm not here to argue for or against that except if necessary.

While I'm not totally against giving a woman money I don't agree that anyone who doesn't is broke, stingy or doesn't love their woman. For what this means is that it's a man's duty to see to his woman's needs and which I find preposterous and untrue.

Love and relationship isn't a shelter nor an opportunity for a woman to leech off a man and abdicate her responsibility to fulfilling her welfare. If she want anything she should work for it, just like the boyfriend toiled for his.
Romance › Re: The Wooing Challenge 2016 Selection Thread [male Edition] by ronald4lif(m): 2:50pm On Mar 19, 2016
TheSonOfMark:
[color=royalblue]
...Or maybe the guys aren't certain the female monikers they'd have loved to woo are actually being used by females. Just maybe.
[/color]
Hehe. That's right.
Romance › Re: The Wooing Challenge 2016 Selection Thread [male Edition] by ronald4lif(m): 2:34pm On Mar 19, 2016
Takes seat on the back row. This is going to be interesting.

Oya all ye boyfriendless ladies identify yourselves before person go woo attached/married women o lol. grin
Romance › Re: How To Spot A Womanizer In A Banking Hall by ronald4lif(m): 2:29pm On Mar 19, 2016
Lol. Oga Tosyne wata guan. grin

You want me to expose myself that 1k is my last card ni? G gotta package himself na and form big boi. grin
Romance › Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by ronald4lif(m): 4:29am On Mar 19, 2016
firstking01:
Oga ronald, there was nowhere in my post i said it was mandatory, i remembered i used the world " lil assistance"
Little or big assistance is a choice not a requirement. And even as a choice giving mustn't be lopsided and must involve all parties. So, if it should be required that a man should assist his woman financially then it should also be same too for women. Or is it only men who earn money?
Romance › Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by ronald4lif(m):
The comments on this thread from females is axiomatic and an indubitable evidence to the cadging and unblushing parasitic attitude of a lot of our women.

The manner in which these girls flaunt their sponging and sense of entitlement on a man's finances is sickening. While it is true that lots of you are a burden to a man in a relationship, it shouldn't be brandished about with such gusto.

Please, I implore you lots to channel your energy and time to becoming self-reliant and independent than relying on a boyfriend for financial assistance. There's pride in taking care of all your needs and without having any course to beg.
Romance › Re: Guys Let's Be Sincere For Once by ronald4lif(m): 3:10am On Mar 19, 2016
firstking01:
Mr man, i seriously do not know where you are smuggling to, this is one of my threads i know i 've poured out my heart with all sincerity, and i think the whole write up is self explanatory...maybe you need a recapitulation of the whole scenarios...those who have understanding have read through the thread, pick one or two things and left...if you cant assist your girlfriend when she's in dire need i wonder what you are keeping her for, maybe your sex tool or something, and i knw you wnt advice your sister to date somebody like youundecided
Bruv, you didn't address any of his points but just beating around the bush here. I expected you to come up with a robust antithesis argument to dismiss Mr. Brown irreproachable points. But I can guarantee you that you've got none.

Your suggestion of spending on girlfriends as a requirement is preposterous and frivolous to say the least. Spending is a choice not mandatory. And choice is voluntary not through coercion like your post is implicitly suggesting.

And what did you mean by if she's a sex tool? I find that laughable, really. For the likes of you, sex is a compensation to your monetary assistance towards women. But that is not to be so, as sex shouldn't come with any clause or proviso.

Like I have habitually stated, I have no problem assisting my woman, financially and I think MrBrownJ doesn't have a problem with that either. However, what I detest and won't accept is the enactment and doctrinism of spending as a requirement or requisite of conserving a relationship. Makes no sense
Romance › Re: When She Says "Its Over" by ronald4lif(m): 12:15am On Mar 18, 2016
Oliviaarims:
Lol...I refuse to acknowledge that. Nobody should go about playing "away match" for whatsoever reason.

And yea,I'm done with exams o...that's why I'm here jumping from thread to thread...enjoying the break from school bookscheesy
So, no away matches you say. I'd try and work on that lol.

Enjoy your hols. I'm partially enjoying mine too albeit it's very short.
Romance › Re: When She Says "Its Over" by ronald4lif(m): 12:10am On Mar 18, 2016
Cutehector:
just negodu... asslickn..
Hapum aka nwoke. I love women and wheedle them through compliments. It's never a problem to 'asslick' when it's one off, only its if it becomes habitual. sad
Romance › Re: When She Says "Its Over" by ronald4lif(m): 11:11pm On Mar 17, 2016
Oliviaarims:
Lol...troway u? Can I afford to?grin
I've been good. How've u been?
Have been good, thanks.

You know looking at you and thinking about when people condemns cheating then I ask myself how's that practical. It marvels me that anyone will think one shouldn't play away match when Olivia is there lol. grin

How's school, through with exams?
Romance › Re: When She Says "Its Over" by ronald4lif(m): 9:23pm On Mar 17, 2016
Oliviaarims:
Maybe this was how I chose to intepret it.
Abeg make we forget Toks matter, make man flirt small. It's not everyday that I have the luxury to dally with damsels lol. How you dey jare? See as you just troway me since. embarassed
Romance › Re: When She Says "Its Over" by ronald4lif(m): 8:52pm On Mar 17, 2016
Oliviaarims:
Right...

But still,the post makes a lot of sense...in that ladies should be really careful and slow to dating. For most ladies,once they get out of one relationship, they are already looking at starting a new one, consciously or unconsciously. And most times,too... they don't realize they are on the rebound until it's too late.


In summary...always do ur best to make ur relationship work, but if doesnt, take a good time to cool off and reflect on what u really want. U can socialize quite alright,but don't sleep around.
I'm not sure you got what he's really saying. He never advised women not to rush into dating after their relationship packs up but rather telling them not to leave an (unhappy) relationship just so they don't keep having numerous exes or body counts as the case may be. The both aren't same. To Mr. Toks a woman shouldn't quit a relationship or worse marriage under any circumstance.

Surprisingly, all his articles are solemnising women to work out a relationship/marriage, regardless of how sour it is, and he has never considered advising guys too.

Did you read the last line of his post about a woman should never divorce or stay single forever if they must. What do you make of that?
Romance › Re: When She Says "Its Over" by ronald4lif(m): 8:42pm On Mar 17, 2016
kinglekan:

Oga Toks ordinary intellectual argument your bp don dey rise above sea level? Oga gidi gan ooo grin.

Why on God's green earth would ronald 4lif want to impress you? Are you Obama? Or Cameron? cheesy cheesy.

He dropped his opinion like every rational person would on a thread created on a public forum and you decided to be insulting. Now the heat is up and you are now a cry baby? grin grin

Then you finally had to end your tittle-tattle above with pure conjecture asking to be quoted in heaven....Oga Toks you better start cracking jokes.. grin

No offienseeee. grin

Lol. No be say hin get kitty-cat o wey person go wan run things. Chai! grin
Romance › Re: When She Says "Its Over" by ronald4lif(m): 5:39pm On Mar 17, 2016
Toks2008:
Guy or lady please cut the chase.Im not down with your historical,rethorical and ecclesiastical mambo jumbo.

To start with please tell me exactly what is your issue with this write up?

But for the fact that you just want to practise your collections of grammertical terms which ofcourse does not impress me,i see no reason why you should be making a fuss about this.

I dont care what you believe or whether you are from earth or mars..my candid advice to you..stop reasoning like a jerk..YES its your opinion but where men talk,boys like you should learn.

Men and women can never ever be on the same level as far as sexuali chastity is concerned...Quote me in heaven.
You're not making sense bruv, no need to get emotional when faced with an antithesis opinion. Please quote me when you're ready to be receptive for intellectual jostling. For now, it's bye from me. Cheers.
Romance › Re: When She Says "Its Over" by ronald4lif(m): 5:00pm On Mar 17, 2016
Toks2008:
You are probably a female posing as a male and that is the only logic for your comments else i guess you need a thourough reset of your grey matter.
Lame retort. Feeling gelded that a male can address issues rationally and without sounding condescending to the female gender?

Pal, platoons like yourself are the reason why Nigeria may never make headway in it clamour for a better and progressive society. It is said that any people or society that thinks less of women, that feels a man is superior and sidelined women in the grand scheme of things, will remain stagnant and progress will elude them. You should be used as a case study in teaching youngsters on machismo and it dangers to the world.

You feel so much important of yourself and your male ego is frightening. It has bludgeoned your psyche into a torpid state that you now falsely assume that by having a rod tangling in-between your legs gives you the edge and imperium to dictate over others and their way of life.

I don't know your domicile but I think you need to travel some more for a bid exposure and a total synchronising of your celebrum towards women. You need a brain overhauling to discard your misogynistic leanings. Geez!
Romance › Re: When She Says "Its Over" by ronald4lif(m): 3:35pm On Mar 17, 2016
emperorchedda:
You will be taken seriously when you admit the sexual organ of male is different from female.

Why do women seek for vagina tightener after they have been fvcked blue black?? Why do women feel ashamed when they come into a gathering and come across many guys who have fvcked them?? Why do male sexual organ not have any side effect after they have fvckked 100 girls?? And don't tell me that shiit of pvssy being elastic because we honestly know it wears out after too many use

These are just few points to let you know male are more advantaged when it comes to having different partners
Not all women feel ashamed coming across guys who have fvcked them, liberal free-minded women won't give a hoot. What's there to be ashamed of coming across guys she has fvcked? If he isn't embarrassed why should she?

For the purpose of argument, there's no scientific study that proves frequent sexual activity affects or 'loosen' the vagina. It has been proven to be a myth and misconception so if you have any please free to share and discuss them.

Let's even assume that constant sex makes the vagina loose, of which it hasn't been established, what's your business about it? For how long are you going to hide under the umbrella of oblation in what shouldn't ordinarily be your concern? Whatever a woman does with her life and vagina is no concern of any man.

Ironically, sexual and moral 'counsellors' like yourself finds it okay to engage in sexual encounters with different ladies but becomes aggravated when a lady does same. These women don't screw themselves, do they?
Romance › Re: When She Says "Its Over" by ronald4lif(m): 12:18am On Mar 17, 2016
Toks2008:
Awon puma ti de.

In your myopic world, you keep juxtaposing men and women together in terms of sexual decency and that is why people like you will forever be jerks for women.

Of what use is it when a lady keeps jumping from one man to another and after been laid by these men she now realizes they are not good for her? Dude think with your brain.
Pal, you don't have to employ sexual decency as an artifice to justify your misogynous deportment. Sexual morality is subjective and the moral compass in which you view yours isn't same for others. And even so, indecency to sexualism isn't balked to just one gender. If a lady who fvcks about can be seen as a libertine so does a guy.

I'm inclined to throw your asinine question back to you - of what use is it if a guy keeps jumping from one woman to another only to realize they aren't his type? Oh wait, we can philander but a woman shouldn't? Forgot.

Listen mate, if you must engage me you must be ready to be balance and unbiased to any gender. For as long as you place any gender on a pedestal above the other I won't hesitate in exposing your folly and alpha male postulations.

Talking about jerks, I think you must be mistaken me for the reflection in your mirror. Look punctiliously and cogitate introspectively and you'd see the jerk right there with you.
Romance › Re: Common Misconceptions Most Guys Have About Dating by ronald4lif(m): 11:03pm On Mar 16, 2016
olac21:
She writes out of sense all times!you are not alone in comprehending her in this bro.
Btw,its been a long time here,anything?
Ahh thought I was the only one who have noticed it. Fair enough there are others like me.

Nothing really bruv, just been occupied lately
Romance › Re: When She Says "Its Over" by ronald4lif(m):
Mr. Toks never disappoints in brandishing his misogynistic views. Dude, a woman doesn't have to stay in a relationship that's not working just so she doesn't appear to have many exes. If it's not working, she move on. Likewise the guys.

You talked about women being 'ransacked' but never spare a thought for men who are also being ransacked. Why must your opinion be laced with male chauvinism, female belittling and condescending to the women folk. You can do better mate. We already know you're a chauvinist but easy with flaunting it on our faces.
Family › Re: Is It Right For Spouse To Check His/her Partner's Phone? by ronald4lif(m): 10:49pm On Mar 16, 2016
Checking his/her phone for what? Is it your phone? undecided
Career › Re: Kenechukwu Ezeh: Female Barber In Enugu(photos) by ronald4lif(m): 10:11pm On Mar 16, 2016
JOOHEL:
ive barbed my hair there before. along uchechukwu road in Enugu state she's good and pretty.
Please where exactly is Uchechukwu road again? Would love to patronise her soon.
Romance › Re: Common Misconceptions Most Guys Have About Dating by ronald4lif(m): 9:47pm On Mar 16, 2016
Rapmoney:
...still pondering! grin
Don't waste your time bruv, you'll never understand her. grin
Romance › Re: Common Misconceptions Most Guys Have About Dating by ronald4lif(m): 9:45pm On Mar 16, 2016
BumBae:
Trying to crack the code grin
E no make sense at all .. Lol
Lol. The character hardly makes sense. Always struggle to grasp her comments and assemble whatever jigsaw she churns out but keeps failing repeatedly. I've given up working my brains out already. grin
Romance › Re: Common Misconceptions Most Guys Have About Dating by ronald4lif(m): 9:31pm On Mar 16, 2016
Please can anyone explain what the poster above the one above me is saying or am I the only one who always finds her incomprehensible and inscrutable huh
Food › Re: Where To Buy Choco Milo Cubes In The UK by ronald4lif(m): 9:24pm On Mar 16, 2016
keepingmum:
Hi Ronald4 lif, Easter break is almost here. Are you still going to 9ja? because dealing with withdrawal symptoms from Choco milo is hard embarassed cry Please let me know so i can contact you on your earlier offer. Many thanks
Lol @ withdrawal choco milo symptoms. Please o let the symptoms free you o. grin

I remember and have even set a reminder for it, will certainly get it but not yet travelled. Will be gone in a few days till mid April. Hope the withdrawal symptoms won't aggravate to more serious health complications by the time lol. Cheers.
Romance › Re: Opinion: Who Is The Worst "Woman-wrapper" On Nairaland? by ronald4lif(m): 9:19pm On Mar 16, 2016
MrsChima:
Ronald4lif
undecided
Family › Re: Please Save A Sister's Life.... Story Verified by ronald4lif(m): 10:48pm On Feb 24, 2016
Hmmm, touching. Details noted and will try and drop my widow's mite. embarassed
Romance › Re: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by ronald4lif(m): 9:30pm On Feb 24, 2016
wristbangle:
I no pray make dem use kitty cat carry u go one day gringrin

Baba, kilode. U too like am cheesy
Haha, if them use am carry me will mean I went through same route I came from. My brother what's bad in that?

He that was born will die someday thus dying in the middle of ecstasy isn't a bad one if you ask me. grin

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 42 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 (of 400 pages)