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No kind rubbish wey man no go read for this nairaland sha.

Okay so he told you he doesn't have money means he can't afford tfare to attend a wedding he has planned and budgeted for long before your money proposal came? You're the self-centred, inconsiderate and uncaring one not him.

He has a wedding to attend and has budgeted for it so there's no way he'd give you the money he has sidelined for the wedding trip. I know you would have wanted he gives you the money than embark on the slated wedding trip just like you would have also not mind he provides your needs than look after his parents.

You're a rapacious and greedy tool and please go ahead and break up with him. He deserves someone better.

sexymoma:
Lol how many you wan carry go show mumsy

Hehe, only you o.

sexymoma:
Dear men we wanna inform you that we don't want any val gift this year...
All we just want!!
We want to know our mother in law!! enough of this hide and seek
Take us home oo
Take us home

Lol. When do you want me to take you to momma?

The guy wasn't snatched. He found someone better and moved on. The ex is just bitter that the person he moved on with its her friend. Even if he didn't move on with the friend he may have still move on with someone else. Let the ex bitter friend suck it up.

3times a week isn't too much and no known side effects has been recorded from any one who engages thrice a week. But I think there should be side effect if it was a daily basis occurrence.

correctyourself:
Please forge it, you may not know where she can as well help you tomorrow, as far you were able to subscribe to internet be rest assured you would survive.

Why should he forget it? The money wasn't given for free but a loan and like every loan must be paid back even if it's 1naira. It doesn't matter if he can subscribe to Internet or whatever that means.

Here's what I think. She's with you coz things change for the better and puts you in a positioning to finance her needs.

Had things remain stagnant and your life not improved babe would have never looked your way twice.

At first she though she could keep sustaining the relationship by compensating you with sex but after a while she becomes fed up as she has no feelings for you, thus conjure up lies that her sister found out you both are having sex. How did the sister find out? All lies.

Detach yourself from her and quit the relationship. No good can come out from her type.

RadicallyBlunt:
Care here and there. That's why they resucitate earlier than men after a heartbreak. Parents care 4 dem and give them compliments, toasters do, when they marry..their husbands do, even after d husband dies, she won't die till she gets very old so that d children can take care of her. Every chlid say they love their mum, none say so abt their dad. So much dat some women at marriageable age don't even know that men aren't rocks..they need care and compliment too. The only thing a man can ever get as compensation in all his lifetime of caring for women..which is submission, the wife won't give it to him all in the name of civilization. He suffers the consequencies of divorce in d western world even if he's not d cause of the divorce. All this pile up in his mind and eventually, he dies early. That's the pschy reason behind why men don't live as long as women.

Dude, you nailed it. The embolden was classic and nothing can be truer. Respect!

Choi. But that house look old and unhabitable from the outside. With all the money he makes from his gambling biz he should have renovated the property. Some landlords na just to collect rent them sabi, they careless about the livable condition of their property.

Adasun:
ronald4 lif and dolly joy na una sweet argument i cum read o no be dat antiquated post op write their oo.so make una fire on oo






Abeg make no body put mouth especially the busy bodies

Busy bodies stay clear o. Today na today.

Amebo, what's her business? Is she angry that he dumped her after lashing her before or what. Face your front.

LaurelP:
Bro, I get what youre saying. What am saying tho is that every guy cannot be an expert at chatting. There are very sweet, caring, romantic guys who know nothing about chatting. Infact, those guys who have to study how to chat a lady are usually players.

But there is something called courtesy. Its important for ALL humans to have it, not only men. Don't expect a guy to be courteous to you when ur rude.

And about the pretty girls stuff, I ve noticed that very pretty girls dont even do those silly things. Its low self esteem that causes such.

While I agree that some ladies lacks courtesy and are boring blabbers I don't think she was rude to him. She just may have felt exhaustive and hackneyed by the ever recycled questions.

And while it is true that not everyone is a good chatter, it's also true that answering same or similar questions from different new admirers everyday is boring.

There are likely many guys there trying to know her and get her attention so it's a competitive exercise and like every competition there's a need to stand out from the crowd and prove oneselves.

I'm inclined to also agree, though not absolute, that smooth-talkers and smarmiers are usually players and deceptive but do women really care? We all know the answer to that. They are swayed and easily influenced by words so one has got to tell what they want to hear.

Pal, let's even agree that not all guys are good chatters, whose problem should that be, the lady or the guy who can't be creative and initiate interesting chat lines? The sweeter and interesting a guy is the more a lady becomes glued and attached to him.

LaurelP:
I disagree with you.
Not every guy must be an expert at chatting a lady, it doesn't mean that she cannot contribute or at least respond well. It is just the mentality of our ladies.

I have happened to chat with girls from outside the shores of Naija and I must say there's a huge difference. Before u even say anything, they are ready to respond and even be the one asking questions and telling u abt themselves. Our ladies have a very warped mentality, its not the guys fault.

The guy asked to know about the lady. A sensible person will either oblige him or ask him to introduce himself first.
As simple as that, both of them will enjoy the conversation and be happy.

You dont have to rack your brain to get a lady to respond to you, there are just too many things a man have to think about already.

Fair retort. But then most ladies, depending on how attractive they are, exchange correspondence with new guys daily. So for you to keep her glued to you and swiftly respond to your messages your first lines shouldn't be cliched.

Chances are if she meets 10guys at least 8 out of them will employ cliche lines like tell me about yourself, what did you had for lunch etc. Those are boring lines and even if one must ask someone tell me about yourself you have to define what exactly it is you want to know. And first tell his.

tolaxin:
Was that why she replied with 'for what'?

Yes she's right to ask for what? What kinda of camaraderie and chumminess exist between you two before wanting to know "more about herself" or whatever that means. And what exactly do you want to know more "about herself" like how many guys she has dated or the colour of her panties or her bra size? And why can't you be specific about what you want to know about her?

Your question is undefined, vague and cliched and you deserve the response you got. Take responsibility for your ineffective chatting skills.

The problem is with the guy not the girl. What kind of redundant question is tell me about yourself? You ask her what exactly you want to know about her not a nebulous question like tell me about yourself.

And even if you're to ask such question, you can first tell your name, educational background, age or whatever before chipping in can I know yours. Very boring chatter trying to pass blame to a soft target.

dollyjoy:
and what gives you the impression that op knows about the existence of this kinda thread before creating hers?

It's no one's headache if she or anyone didn't know it has been repeatedly created before.

We can only protest the continuance of repeating threads so others may take out time to flip through the forum and do a little research to see if their intending topic have been produced before recycling threads.

Anything less can become an inefficacious terra firma where anyone can just create a thread from any material they come across, even when it makes no sense like this one.

dollyjoy:
there is actually someone out there,who is seeing it for the first time!

Do we have to recycle threads coz someone might be seeing it for the first time?

somcherry:
Interesting

Nne, Kedu? Ote gwa o.

I've seen this more than 100times in less than 24hours. You people should give it a rest already. Don't even know what's interesting about it.

LORDSAMURAI:
hmmm ok game.

Deal.

LORDSAMURAI:
and what if it gets to front page?

It would never hit FP and if it does I owe you 10K.

Synzu:
Cos of his 60k/month mod job or what?

This is the second time I'm hearing he earns 60k and if true I think it's peanuts compared to the hardwork and efforts dude puts into the daily running of this forum. Hope the wage isn't true sha.

LORDSAMURAI:
YES ANY PROBLEM

Well, FP isn't for trashy and puerile materials.

Campaign for India presidency first, mate. Your country need those reforms more than Nigeria.

LORDSAMURAI:
CC LALASTICLALA, MYND44, DOMINIQUE FRONT PAGE

You want this trashy piece of sh1t to grace FP?

Zehner:
Abeg no vex...no club u dey work?

No.

K

mployer:
You don't need to tell us You have done it.

A zillion likes. The only intent of this thread is to tell us he just had sex. What a petit thing to do. Grow up, mate.

Annybens1993:
58F0445C

Lol. The job hunting is getting real. Hope it doesn't port from job hunting to love hunting sha.

Omo, from the post to all the comments na back to back novels. Who wan read all these epistles ehh.

I don't know if it's just me but I don't like and allow anyone do my chores, whether girlfriend or any person. I feel uncomfortable when someone perform a personal chore I should do myself. Imagine cooking or after eating someone washes my plates, or clothes? Like how does it work. How can I allow someone tide up my own mess?