Politics › Re: The Challenges Of Being Trans In Nigeria - Al Jazeera by Rotji(m): 9:09pm On Nov 05, 2021 |
Rydermaverick: You must not make surgical changes till you become a trans...man you keep making the same mistakes on your write-up then I would kindly help you out by cutting you off.. Did you make a proper research on it ?no lower your pride make a research on it and learn something new today.. At least you can go to bed with pride that you learnt a new word and it's proper definition... I see what you are trying to do here, you like twisting my words just to make yourself feel better. And I still maintain irrespective of how I put my words that you can't tell me anything new about this subject. And I refused to be manipulated by your condescending references on me which is still the same tool used by LGBTQ activists to coerce critics to silence. |
Politics › Re: The Challenges Of Being Trans In Nigeria - Al Jazeera by Rotji(m): 8:42pm On Nov 05, 2021 |
Rydermaverick: See what I am talking about..how is being transgender makes you an homosexual..pls do yourself some favor by Makin a research on transgender ..then come back here to speak in a more polite manner...don't you know you sound unwise when you speak on a matter you know nothing of.. I can school you on the subject of trans oga, i used the word gayness because at the end of the day they are all in the same group abi trans no follow for LGBTQ?! It's still a matter of accepting or not accepting and i refused to see a man surgically changed to a woman as a woman cos last last na man he or "she" go still want lash. And you keep insulting people and turning around to claim victim of insult, I assure you i know what a trans is, I know what a cross dresser is, I know what a homosexual is and I also know what an Intersex is. You can't tell me anything new that I don't know on this subject, and I still don't subscribe to it and that makes me ignorant abi?! Very manipulative you |
Politics › Re: The Challenges Of Being Trans In Nigeria - Al Jazeera by Rotji(m): 8:16pm On Nov 05, 2021 |
Rydermaverick: Look man you don't understand..I am really tired swears and you know what speaking to people who don't wish to learn is like a complete waste of time.. seriously I've had enough insult trying to prove my point to ignorant people on here and it's getting too much..so the best is I rather ignore them than start an argument that's gonna result in insults.. Thanks and enjoy.. What makes you think that of all knowledge in the world it's only non acceptance of homosexuality that qualifies one to be ignorant?! See the way you are shouting upandan "ignorant!" "ignorant!!" to people that can sit you down and school you on several subjects of knowledge and just because they don't agree with you on the subject of gayness you immediately term them ignorant. Isn't this manipulation just to shut them up?! |
Politics › Re: The Challenges Of Being Trans In Nigeria - Al Jazeera by Rotji(m): 5:50pm On Nov 05, 2021 |
I'm surprised Aljazeera dey carry dis kind nonsense for their program |
Romance › Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by Rotji(m): 12:56am On Nov 05, 2021 |
Eyinju112: This happens in Zimbabwe I’ve got this neighbor in turkey then They both hustle..The woman cooks, wash, sweep for one week without the man’s assistance and the following week the man cooks, clean, wash even toilet without the woman’s assistance, the woman would sit down watching tv while the man does everything for that whole week It’s a 50/50 thing They both hustle, the girl doesn’t have the right to demand, they pay every damn bills 50/50 even split foodstuffs money into two hahahaha  I was forced to ask her what kind of life is that, she said that’s their culture in Zimbabwe, and to be honest she loves it ...
They believe in equality Nobody is superior.... Ehn very nice o  So then when the man give the woman belle, she'll carry it for 9 months and deliver the baby after which she will now give the man belle and he will carry the pregnancy and deliver the baby too abi  When they face aggression they should be running shifts on whose duty it is to protect them abi. Very nice culture  |
Politics › Re: Plateau Assembly: Jang To Lead Protest Against “illegality” by Rotji(m): 8:03pm On Nov 04, 2021 |
System202: Foolish jona Jang. Those of u from North Central (middle belt) claiming that it's the turn of south to produce president or whatever, those of u from Plateau should firstly allow Hausa/Fulani to rule and Jos for fireness if not keep quiet The South can produce the next President because they are Nigerians, who are Hausa/Fulani in Plateau to Produce a Governor in Plateau  Yes it can happen, but only when an Angas man becomes Governor of Kano state |
Family › Re: My mother and her plenty pastors. by Rotji(m): 11:11pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
ahnie: Before that visitation,I visited last two years when I needed mothers comfort,just little headache,my mother said it was the enemies trying to harm me.
That let's go to church so her pastor could pray for me.i reluctantly followed her to church and due to the pastors flows and yarnings,we spent like 6 hours at that particular church.
In all fairness,the pastor get flows...he ended up dashing me one bottle of holy Communion,but let's not kid ourselves,I know say na zobo he dash me.
Time for praises came,we danced,time for deliverance came,those that were swirling were swirling in the spirit that was controlling them.
Mother just cudnt let me be...instead of her to concentrate on her own deliverance,let me concentrate on mine.
I cud hear my mum breaking inside the circle, whispering in my ear....Ejiro fall nau,you nor wan fall? Haba Ejiro you for just fall na make Ma'le for get small joy say the anointing dey work...  Your mum sha is a piece of work  thank God say no be Igbe she dey carry you go dance lol. You are funny though, and this Ma'le waka so fit happen for Ozoro or Oleh I believe  |
Politics › Re: Femi Adesina: There Would’ve Been No Nigeria Again If Buhari Didn’t Win In 2015 by Rotji(m): 1:18pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
This is a very big indictment on the character of Buhari and his followers, that Nigeria would have broken if he didn't win the last elections shows how desperate he and his supporters were that they would prefer the country to boil than accept defeat and wish the nation the best.
Anyone that ventures into a do or die affair normally doesn't have anything good to offer than self agrandisement.
As you can see he would rather the country shatters to pieces than the fulani herdsmen to do the right thing for the peace and progress of the nation |
Education › Re: Transgender: Students At Leeds University Demand staff include Gender Pronoun by Rotji(m): 4:54pm On Oct 30, 2021 |
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Politics › Re: Buhari: 12 Million Children Afraid Of Attending School by Rotji(m): 7:55am On Oct 27, 2021 |
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Politics › Re: Police Recover Remains Of Robert Namene Loolo Kidnapped Two 2 Years Ago by Rotji(m): 7:35am On Oct 27, 2021 |
DuBLINGreenb: This Country is not safe at all, all man for himself.
Meanwhile the family was IS not serious except they are not telling us the WHOLE truth,
for example that so called "youth group" is it actually a "youth group" or a Cult group?
Consider the following: How many ordinary average youths, will have mind to 1. abduct the elder/chief in the open 2. Tie him to a tree in the open indefinitely 3. Torture him 4. Collect ransom from his family twice 5. Kill him
Now how many average Nigerian youths will be bold enough to do not 1 or 2 of these but all 5 of these?
Now also consider we are Nigerians we no get secret. Even our supposedly "secret cults" are not secret. Our secret service is not secret, we know all their officers and when they do recruitment and what they wear and where their offices are and even the guns they carry.
Anything several eyes have seen is public. So in Nigeria NO WAY an entire Youth group will carry a full grown man in the open from his house and keep him somewhere in that same community for 2 full years you couldn't find him or his body. Neither could you identify any member of that youth group for arrest or questioning, if it's truly a "Youth group" they have a leader and a secretary and probably an office so the police or even members of the family could have gone there and asked the leader to provide a list of all his members and identify the perpetrators from amongst them and take that youth group to court if they refuse to comply.
This story has HOOGE relevent facts missing or distorted
For only urgent 2k the Nigerian youths I know will tell you everything, with a bottle of beer their fathers will tell you everything, with a rubber of garri, a piece of wrapper or a few tubers of yam their mothers will also divulge information. No need to pay Ransome twice. Feed the community with gala and pure water they'll not only talk, the entire community will help you search.
So it's either the family didn't do enough to get him Or the "youth group" is a criminal organisation Or the entire community was in on the plan including close members of the man's family and people powerful enough to silence the police or atleast shift there eyes away for 2 years Also the police didn't do their jobs at all one small drone, a few patrol vans and one canine unit would have found the man much quicker. Even proper questioning alone would have done the trick. The questions are just numerous that are begging for answers, something is definitely wrong somewhere, if the claim that it's a youth group from the community that abducted the late Monarch then haba, they actually didn't have to pay any ransom cos the perpetrators shouldn't be unknown. You only pay ransom to unknown criminals and kidnappers, you don't pay ransom to a youth group. If they mentioned that it was a cult group that did it, I would understand. This is very unfortunate, traditional rulership losing its significance in this Nigeria �� twuee!!! |
Nairaland General › Re: Have You Ever Walked With Someone That Greets The Whole Community? by Rotji(m): 1:21pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by Rotji(m): 4:13pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
heendrix: Judging with the fact that I knew her first bfr my sis ever dreamt of meeting him. I even regret helping him to talk to my sister then when he used to beg n bribe me So op you are the one that even connected them in the first place, now you are crying foul ehn  But don't worry, there's no where it's written or enforced as a law or taboo that siblings cannot Marry from the same family. Unless your love for each other is not strong enough, going by your history with your babe it shows there's something there for you two. Do not fear, resolve to weather any storm to ensure you reach your final destination (that is if the destination na marriage be dat). So congratulations in advance, do not forget to come back and tell us how it went o  |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Tokyo Rocked By 6.1-magnitude Earthquake As Tremors Cause Buildings To Sway(Pix) by Rotji(m): 9:30pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
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Politics › Re: Gumi: You Will Be Safe With Bandits If You Develop Relationship With Them by Rotji(m): 9:04pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
He should be careful walahi because these same bandits he's romancing will still turn out to be his undoing, his Waterloo.
You can't keep a viper as a pet and expect the romance to last long.
When they'll show him pepper � ehn he'll not believe his eyes, whether he goes in through the roof or door or window, a snake will always be snake. |
Politics › Re: Sheikh Zakzaky: Majority Of Nigerians In Favour Of Islamic System Of Government by Rotji(m): 12:14pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
BigBashiru: I actually prefer the Islamic system of government... Attention: Another Mutallab waiting to unleash |
Politics › Re: Sheikh Zakzaky: Majority Of Nigerians In Favour Of Islamic System Of Government by Rotji(m): 12:10pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
HonNL: [url=https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/09/majority-of-nigerians-in-favour-of-islamic-system-of-government-%E2%80%95-sheikh-zakzaky/amp/?utm_source=&utm_medium=twitter&__twitter_impression=true]SOURCE [/url]
SOURCE The man is beginning to exhibit the very reasons the FG incarcerated him in the first place. How can he be talking as if it's only Muslims that are the citizens of Nigeria ��?!  How can he be comparing Nigeria with Iran?! That is exactly the terrorists mindset. Many from the South have been advocating for his release only for him to start spewing these?! |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: My Experience With The Wife Of A Major In The Nigerian Army by Rotji(m): 4:12pm On Sep 26, 2021 |
Lindner: Long story!!
In an interview, I was asked to narrate a really tensed sitiation and how I navigated it.
I remembered my NYSC days, I lived inside Letmauck Cantonement, Mokola Barracks, Ibadan. Year was 2008.
The wife of an Army Officer( a Major) hired me to tutor their three young kids after school. Unknown to me, it was the woman that needed tutoring on how to read English(she couldn't read nor write). She spoke only pidgin.
We agreed the fees (weekly), and I started. She would later open up to me that she needed tutoring as well. For a relatively long time, I didnt meet the Major himself. I would have left before he returned from work. I was a teacher at St Luis Grammar school just behind the barracks.
Long story short, I started teaching the woman too after she increased my weekly fee. But I noticed the woman would rather gist with me than learn. Being a student of emotional intelligence myself, I reckoned she needed someone to gist with in that ghostly environment like the Officer's Quaters. A full time house wife and in that environment. The other end of the barrack where soldiers ans corpers live was more fun and populated . As long as I was paid, we would gist all afternoon. We soon became friends. I even stopped teaching the kids. They were super sharp, intelligent, restless and troublesome. But every Friday, she never missed my payment.
One faithful Friday afternoon, the Major came home early, that was the first time I ever saw his face. I rightly assumed all the money I was being handsomely paid came from him since the wife was a full house wife.
I stood up to greet him but I couldn't tell if he was angry, sad or just being his military self. He didn't bother to respond, he just went upstairs. His wife followed him immediately.
After about 15 minutes, he came back to join me. He asked how much I was being paid, I told him. He asked if his wife mentioned why she needed to learn how to read, I told him I assumed it was for self improvement. Meanwhile, I had been collecting money weekly for several weeks and this woman could not read jack. We would rather chat, gist and laugh.
The Major went to the TV area and gave me a card, it was their wedding invitation card in 2 weeks time. He mentioned that they never got married before the kids. In short, at the wedding, the woman would be required to read a long vow or something like that. It was a Methodist or Anglican church along Bodija.
He said, given his status both in the church and in the army, he must not be embarrassed by his wife's inability to read. That was the whole reason for the lesson that we turned into chatting sessions. He said it was mandatory that I attended to witness the result of my tutoring. The whole conversion lasted for about 10 minutes and it sounded more like subtle threats and one man trying to dominate another man.
How did the woman not mention her wedding and the real reason she was learning how to read? How could I make her read in two weeks? Should we just memorize the whole text of the program? My mind started racing. I lived at the other end of the barracks, the Major knows where I worked as well. No way I could escape. I had collected a lot of money already and I was 100% certain he would be embarrassed on that day.
I did what I could in two weeks. Attending the wedding for me was like a cow going to the slaughter. My heart was pounding and was literally in my mouth. I knew the woman could not still read even after practicing the texts many times.
It was a beautiful military wedding. I sat at the back, then two guys came and said something like "O boy, oga say make we sit beside you". Which oga? They said "Major". I knew I was in deep shit. Prior to that time, a corper colleague had to be locked up in the guard room for dating a soldier's sister. Ordinary soldier. This was a Major about to be embarrassed in front of his friends, colleagues, juniors and church members. Of course, he wouldn't beat his wife, I figured I would carry all the blame and possibly return every penny I collected.
Sitting through the wedding was the most tensed period of my entire adult life. Gruelling 3 hours!. Second was waiting for my HIV test result. Of course, she fumbled, woefully at that. It was a disaster. That moment you want to hide under the seat. The officiating minster had to take charge of the situation to save face. I'm sure he wasn't aware.
As they where matching out of the church through the guards or what do they call them. Those guys that carry sticks and couples pass under them. I was seriously looking at the Major's face. His facial expression would inform me of my likely fate. His face was always expressionless but today, it was important to read those expressions so as to know my next line of action. Either to pick the next available bus back to my state and never return or something like that. But again, there's the problem of the soldiers beside me.
Conclusion.
The Major didn't have my time on that day, I guess he was occupied with the guests and all. I got lost in the crowd but never returned home directly. I slept at a colleagues room like 10 blocks away from ours. I could remember, ours was block 36 Engineering block. The soldiers sent to sit next to me also probably didn't know the reason and we all dispersed. My room mate and other corper colleagues that knew the background were waiting for the full gist of what happened. That night, I was waiting for that "gulf 3" visit. Gulf car was reigning at the time. They used gulf to pick you up to treat unofficial f**k ups.
The next day, I received a call from the Major's wife to come down to the Officer's Quarters. She didn't thank me for attending the wedding or for my tutoring or say anything that I could draw conclusions on about the mood of the situation. I was too paralysed to even congratulate her. Why would she be the one to call me given what happened at the wedding? I had heard all sorts of stories about what happens in the guard room, true or untrue, I never wanted to experience any of it. I put myself in the Major's shoes. No man should experience what he passed though in those few minutes at the altar. The Church became very quiet. Some people could not even look up.
Approaching the building, I saw the Major and one of the soldiers from yesterday and behold, the Gulf car!!.
I went straight down on my knees and then on my chest, flat on the floor in public view. My colleague had told me that was the only way I could lessen my punishment. But the Officer's Quaters was too quiet and lonely to gain any public pity and possibly help. The Major looked confused. I started apologizing and promised to even refund him. His kids (2 boys, 1 girl) started laughing.
The wife came out laughing as well, but in her hands was what I would later find out to be cake wrapped in those aluminium foils for me. The Major and the soldier just looked at me as if I was less of a man, rolling on the floor without even being accused of anything yet. Apparently, the Gulf car belonged to the soldier. The poor man was not even angry at me. I died multiple times throughout the night thinking about what evil was about to befall me. But all was just in my mind.
The wife would later tell me that she warned her husband before the Wedding not to waste his money on tutoring her. She felt she was hopeless at education.  I was almost believing this story until the part where 2 soldiers were sent to seat with you between them  |
Romance › Re: Proposing Through The Phone; Would You Accept? by Rotji(m): 2:11pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
pocohantas: She is lucky he proposed.
You two have been dating, knacking, wearing uniforms to weddings of his friends and yours.
Wetin remain?
Some guys just ask when they are coming to see your people.
Some proposals starts with “I missed my period”
The most important thing is he treats you right and you do the same. If he isn’t a man into fanfare, you shouldn’t overthink it because you need pictures and videos for the gram. LOL I still argue with my wife on if I actually proposed to her.  Some will just go straight to introduction without the proper ceremonial proposal ish. If you like go propose on top Liberty Statue � your marriage will still pack up if it's not meant to be. And a marriage can last forever without any proposal done. Last last all na wash, all na packaging and when the packaging is fully unveiled you might not like what is enclosed. So don't dwell too much on frivolities, seek your long term wellbeing, happiness and security rather than impressing your friends and competitors  |
Romance › Re: Have u Sleep With A Married Woman Before Share Your Experience by Rotji(m): 10:09pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Munirboss: The day em go catch one of una ontop pesin wife. Naso we go read for front page.   |
Politics › Re: IPOB Sit-at-home Continues: South-east Traders, Others Lament Huge Losses by Rotji(m): 11:19pm On Sep 04, 2021 |
Emperormartin: Nobody is forcing anybody to sit at home. People sitting at home are doing it willingly.
Know this and know peace. Biggest lie of the century, when ipob are hunting down people who don't comply with guns and shjamboks, even beheading them you are here telling us cook and bull stories |
Politics › Re: Garba Shehu Slams Governor Ortom: No Ex-president Can Take Your Insults by Rotji(m): 12:29pm On Aug 27, 2021 |
Rugaria: Why is the presidency determined to overlook the endless massacres and ethnic cleansing being perpetrated by the fulani herdsmen while desperately trying to shut up anyone speaking up against these? Why is it that the strange people at Aso Rock seldom make any noise when the fulanis embark on their killings but the president starts having sleepless nights once a fulani is killed in retaliation!? What specie of desert iguanas are occupying Aso Rock at the moment? GBAMMMMM YOU HAVE SPOKEN MY MIND VERBATIM  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Daddy Freeze: When Corruption Favours Christians They Call It Grace by Rotji(m): 11:34am On Aug 26, 2021 |
saphiere: Ifedayo Olarinde popularly known as Daddy Freeze has thrown a jab at Christians, WonderTV Media reports
The leader of the Free the Nation Online Church took to his Instagram page to made a post which claims that the Christians celebrate corruption when it favours them.
His post reads; "When corruption favours Christians they call it grace"
https://www.instagram.com/p/CS-Q-Y1i3fm/?utm_medium=copy_link It's very wrong of him to generalise his statement like that. He should have said "some Christians " Of course we know how the Scriptures is being bastardised and twisted by lots of Churches these days, and of course we know that there are a lot of Churches that still uphold the true unadulterated Word of God. So he shouldn't be careless with his statements, simply because Christianity is not a violent religion doesn't give him the right to take it for granted. |
Sports › Re: Samuel Okwaraji Died 32 Years Ago by Rotji(m): 10:05pm On Aug 12, 2021 |
BluntTheApostle: That is just a random image.
The Super Eagles (they were called the Green Eagles, then) never wore white jerseys with blue letterings. Yeah I still remember vividly the Jersey they wore that day, it was a green Jersey with white stripes on the chest on white shorts. They never ever wore that Jersey again. |
Sports › Re: Samuel Okwaraji Died 32 Years Ago by Rotji(m): 8:26pm On Aug 12, 2021*. Modified: 10:09pm On Aug 12, 2021 |
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Politics › Re: Plateau Massacre: Buhari Orders Military To Kill Illegal Weapon Holders by Rotji(m): 3:41pm On Aug 10, 2021 |
BKayy: In clearer terms "an order has been given to kill any armed native trying to put up a resistance against the Fulani" Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you very much!!!! You truly understand the instruction well. If Buhari is serious he should have been more specific, he know what he is doing. Just days ago, soldiers were looking in 5D while Herdsmen massacred people in Bassa Plateau and when confronted by the natives why they were not repelling the attacks the soldiers responded that they have not been given the instructions to do so. Can you imagine?! Why were they there in the first place if not to ensure the herdsmen are not resisted. Kangaroo nation kawai, banza wofi |
Christianity Etc › Re: Chris Okotie: The Truth About T.B Joshua. He Was A Magician & A Sorcerer (Video) by Rotji(m): 12:45pm On Aug 10, 2021 |
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Politics › Re: We Were Not Ordered To Stop Attacks - Soldiers Tell Plateau Monarch, Ronku Aka by Rotji(m): 9:52am On Aug 08, 2021 |
It's making me feel that the presence of soldiers in those communities is not to provide any form of protection to them but to ensure they don't have weapons to defend themselves against the herdsmen.
That's the only logical explanation for soldiers present but helplessly watching innocent, helpless and armless citizens being massacred by the FG protected murderous Fulani herdsmen.
Remember any time herdsmen attacked any community, Buhari’s response is to always warn against reprisal attacks.
All these nonsense will one day end and disappointedly for some people they will still fail to annex people's communities and lands they are so desperate to forcefully occupy. |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Lady Buys Hair With Money Given To Her By Boyfriend To Start A Business by Rotji(m): 8:04pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Rozcol: Some boyfriend sef,why still put eyes on what she does with the money you freely gave her,not a good thing I'm very sure na girl you be  |
Politics › Re: 6 Nigerian Governors Who Are Ph.d Holders by Rotji(m): 6:45pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Tajbol4splend: OP me nkor I'm agovernor in my family too You get Ph.d?! |
Politics › Re: Arewa Youths: BBNaija Promotes Immorality, Buhari Government Should Ban It by Rotji(m): 1:36pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
The stupid groups I know are in the North, always churning out one stupid claim, demand or the other.
I don't know why Nigerian media always give them relevance by publishing their nonsensical and ridiculous thoughts.
I know BBN have some rated contents but it still bows down to choice of viewing by the audience. You must not watch it if you are not comfortable with the contents.
And we all know what those making the most noise against such programmes have ridiculously worst Adult contents on their phones �and in their homes �.
Please stop reporting what MURIC and other Nonsensical Arewa groups are posting. Mbok.
For the records I'm from the North. |
Education › Re: King's College Students Beating Their Juniors (Video) by Rotji(m): 2:58pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
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