₦airaland Forum

Ayatullah:
I doff my hat for your wife. Kudos to your daughter too for helping out at that early age. A potential future Minister for Agriculture she looks.

Please advise your wife to consider discarding the use of 'artificial hair attachment' for your daughter, it veils her natural God given hair and takes away the natural beauty God has given her.

Same advise for all women on Nairaland please, let the natural beauty of your female children radiates. Make them radiant naturally.

Thanks so much for your generous comments and on future Minister of Agriculture I pray so

And also thanks for your advise on the hair extension, it was actually wool (ulu) if you understand and was done for an event. Normally she doesn't do attachment as in attachment except on special events like school presentations etc. I appreciate bro

Mofun:
Hello! You can save some of the cost incurred in buying some farm produce just by gardening. And, yes, you can embark on gardening without limits even if there appears to be limitations.

There are various gardening methods/approaches especially when there is no direct soil (that is bare, natural) ground available. So, we employed a few of them in our paved compound.

Manure source: organic matter (natural items that can decompose) such as left-over food, fruit and tuber peels, animal dung, extracts (waste) from fish/meat being prepared for cooking, etc. Nothing is actually allowed to waste. This way, we don't necessarily have to buy vegetables, okro, ewedu (the leaf used to prepare the Yoruba signature soup) all the time. Also, for some fast stew of little proportion or just something to quickly spice up some food we can simply dash into the garden to harvest pepper.

PS. Our landlord recently visited from the UK and he was so thrilled that he decided to go and do something similar upon his return there.

My wife is actually passionate about this kinds of gardening, I wish I have more pictures.

Meanwhile here is my 1 year 10 months old daughter helping out with watering the garden

Wifey grows different assorted vegetables like Okra, spinach, owedu/karkashi(in hausa), Sorrel Leaves (Yakuwa in hausa), sometimes yam and others. she does this in Delta

ThankGodkel3:
https://www.premiumtimesng.com/entertainment/naija-fashion/522487-nigeria-is-country-with-third-highest-dog-consumption-rate-in-the-world-report.html

Actually the Angas (Ngas) people who are the number 1 dog enters in the North of Naija are also the number 1 suppliers of the Calabar and Akwa Ibom people

This picture is Dawaki Market
Dawaki market in Plateau State is the biggest dog � market in Africa

Golden111:
U are neither feeling dirty nor remorseful, u simply lost interest in the man because he perform way below your expectations. he couldn't eat/screw you as you have anticipated for long.

You gerrit

She said they did it for just a short time laying credence to your postulation

seyz91:
I've always said it

Wetin you no won chop no close am to nose to smell

Which kind play dog dey play with lion, no such thing as male bestie, i only see a shoulder to lie on is a dick to ride on eventually

Chai see parable

Ishilove:
You were accused of having an affair with him. Now you have proven the accusation right.

As in ehn, they were just a ticking bomb......


Talk about playing with fire

Iyaebe:
Its only ladies that knack head for ground that sleeps around anyhow, imagine sleeping with someone and calling it bestie or whatever, if this is what they call woke then I refused to woke

Such ladies will come across as cheap na, why give something so sacred cheaply to a man just like that in the name of bestie or friend with benefit. Some level of celibacy will help a lot of women o

yuping:
you see goat and yam ehnnn, Na eventual something goat most feed on yam. If you are married try and respect your spouse stay away from bestir, whatever relationship you want start it with your partner force it, since you are married you have life time to build it.

Hmmmm, years ago when I newly got married and my wife was far away a married colleague and friend of mine suddenly said she developed feelings for me, and we weren't besties o to make matters worse her husband also worked in the same organisation. Na grace help man pikin last last

babajero:
Na Wetin dey her mind since she do, Na so women dey do after dem use a man satisfy their sexual urge, them go come dey act like they force her do am, some go even hold you join body for bed still dey tell you stop I don't want to do it, Oya Na leave me na make I get up na, lai lai. She go don use that same strategy take sleep with more than ten men, still dey form I didn't want it.

@ some go even hold you join body for bed and still dey tell you to stop......
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immortalmortal:
You obiously have feelings for him. You even talked about it before doing it, so it was premeditated. Its what you wanted, and the opportunity presented itself so you took it. Next time you guys meet you'll do it again.

You are very correct

Iyaebe:
I hate all this bestie stories ehn mtchewww

Seriously e no dey make sense, cos a lot of times they compromise.

A Nairalander here said she's falling in love with her beastie, and I was horrified to hear that they do what couples do but are not dating. I feel ladies should dignify themselves by not sleeping with anyone they're not in a relationship with. This Nairalander said her bestie has other female friends, Imagine if the guy is getting it from all or most of his female friends he would find it difficult respecting woman o. Just my thoughts though

Why is Arewa so ao afraid of Osibanjo

Woman who slept with male best friend following quarrel with husband, seeks help on how to clear her conscience

by April 3, 2022, 6:42

A lady went online to seek advice after she had an affair with her longtime male best friend following a quarrel with husband.

According to the lady, she had been friends with the said friend for a long time and people even felt they were dating but nothing could be further from the truth.

The lady and the male best friend usually attend a training in the UK and following a quarrel with her husband, she slept with her male friend and now she can’t seem to forgive herself and get the image out of her head.

Read her post,

“Hello. Kindly post as anonymous.

This guy has been my only best friend for over 10years. We were accused of having a relationship but nope there was nothing like that between us. We were real friends.

Last year we met in Uk for a training as we always do, since we are in the same field.

Before the trip, I had issues with my husband that made us cold towards each other.

This time around my best friend and I were extremely close that we started talking about sxx and all that. Like joke we slept together! (A very short time)

Since then I have never been myself. The guy has feelings for me but I always took him as a brother. I feel so dirty, and I regretted sleeping with him.

I have decided to stop the friendship. I cut him off completely. The problem now is my conscience. I want to erase this part from my head. I get mad at myself anytime my mind goes on it. And it’s killing me

Please advise! Thank you”

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Congratulations to the new baby coming to the world, to the mother, father and the elder sister

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The true picture is that the average Nigerian wants both gender. It is not all about looking for male.

We are 5 boys and 2 girls(twins).
My parents kept looking for a female child till the twins came.


[quote author=Mofun post=111438258]Wow! Looking for girls? Maybe it was your Mum.

Yes I have seen and known a former neighbour who gave birth to six(6) boys but continued until she got the girls, at number 7 and 8

Jeromejnr:
Very transparent people. Not all these "100 thousand Russian soldiers killed" propaganda by the West.

You are very shameless and proves you are very dishonest and unreliable with this your support of Liar Russia, even Liar Mohammed dey learn where Russia dey. Russian propaganda is second to none, Russia that lies through their nose. Una continuous support of Russia is very very irresponsible.

These guys are the most hypocritical human beings I have ever seen, shuoo no be una again people that carry out virtually all their political calculations and strategies in the mosques are now turning to accuse people that are trying to create political awareness in their members

I was even thinking it was Prof Ishaq Akintola that was making his usual aimless rants only to see someone from Bauchi of all places

Common they should channel their energies to something productive and stop heating up the polity as has become their trademark

Optimistic4life:
Okay I get you. So if I long for sex with my ex husband, that shouldn't be a sin then.

So let me ask you. Is selfplay/selflove/masturbation a sin?

The body desiring what it needs naturally just like we eat.

Not fantasies towards anyone in particular.

Please do not let anyone confuse you, God created all the desires we have. But the desires are meant to be fulfilled the right way, Jesus was discouraging us not to be into lust that is why He gave that admonition because when you get addicted to something it becomes bad even if ti was meant to be good before.

How can someone say that physically committing fornication is not a sin but lusting in ones heart is sin what kind of twisted gospel is that huh

It's natural to have feelings, but when not married the Holy Spirit is there to convict and guide you when you are getting out of hand. When you begin to fester too much on your affections, it will lead you to commit what you are not supposed to.

You are crying out because it's beginning to disturb you which is born out the Holy Spirit reminding you to re-channel your energy to other profitable ventures.

SATANICALLY666:
https://nypost.com/2022/03/24/zelensky-urged-biden-not-to-sanction-oligarch-abramovich-report/

All these ManU and Arsenal fans be proving aluta because of this

oshozondii:
https://www.thecable.ng/breaking-multichoice-increases-prices-of-gotv-dstv-packages/amp

It's like increasing prices of packages is in the constitution of Multichoice/DSTV. They are always increasing prices, DSTV and Petroleum prices in Nigeria I don't know who dey do pass.

This is what you get for consistently voting in non performing governments. No one looking out for the people.

A missile fired by Russia hit the wash-hand basin in the kitchen of a civilian residential home.

A post on twitter mocked the Russian aggression which saw a war head lodged in the kitchen but didn't explode.

See pictures below

Odewaleadesoye:
Source: Aljazeera News

Where are the Putinists, make una come o food don done. Food wey bitter wey una no go like swallow

Now about these brave media activists in Russia - These are people living inside Russia, These are journalists that know the truth that is being twisted so the Russian people will believe Putin's lies. They are braving it to disclaim all the misinformation that our dear Putinist on Nairaland are helping Putin to propagate

[quote author=lalasticlala post=111149531][/quote]One thing I have noticed on Nairaland is that most Putinist - I mean supporters of Putin are jihadist and Al'queda apologist who detest America like their doomsday. I'm not saying all o, because of the other misguided so-called Pro Russia/China warriors on Nairaland. But it's easy to spot them with their queer monikers which always gives them away.

Now no one is saying America is a Saint, of course they have their way of annoying those who don't consider themselves allies, but the bigger picture is trying to curtail rascals who can not manage absolute power like you are seeing unfold here.

before Putin's Ukrainian invasion I used to regard him in high esteem but this plummeted to nothing recently with the way he talks from the two sides of his mouth. Killing innocent civilians, aged, little kids, pregnant women and all sorts of vulnerable people. Who in his right mind carry out missile attacks on hospitals (Maternity for that matter), schools and churches all in the guise of some phantom denazificatoon of Ukraine.

Putin has become predictable recently with everything the US warned Putin will do he end up doing them despite denying initially.

And before the Putinist start jumping up and down, the crowd you are seeing is this arena are his few crazy supporters. The majority of Russians have already expressed their minds and rejection of the invasion from the beginning inspite of the massive clamp down on them.

devonmax:
He should have fled to any neighbouring country and announce his resignation there..



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Candidlady:
Eventually the guy will still make the move.. So why waste time with him... Sandra didn't lie in her book that all men want sex while women want love!!!

OP all they want is FORK like someone who bout to eat spaghetti !!


RUN SISTER

I don't agree with that book at all, not all men want only sex and not all women want love jare.

While it's true that everybody will want sex at one point or the other, people's scale of preferences on what attracts them to someone differ.

A guy will see you and love your personality, your carriage and will want to have you for keeps with or without sex. A good guy that truly loves you will want to wait for you to be ready to get down and will patiently wait without pressuring you even if you want it to be after marriage.

Yes we have guys like that.

Infact these days self na the girls dey pressure guys to Bleep them jare.

This OP's problem is that she thinks sex is all that is in a relationship, can't she be in a relationship without sex

Bring something good to the table other than sex and you will have the power to determine whether there should be sex and when or not.

A very good way of determining men's intentions is drawing boundaries especially about sex in a relationship. If you can stay upto 7 years without a relationship I believe you can start one without it until you have established that the intentions of your man is genuine and is leading somewhere desirable.

Give guys the chance dear, but always draw your lines at the beginning. This way your thing will not be smashed on the go as you are fearing, abi no be when you give before they collect

bepositive11:
Since you hate Western education so much, stop speaking in English. Throw away all your tech gadgets. Don't go to any university. Don't use anything associated with Western education, whether it's your house, car, clothes, electronics medicines. Throw everything away and live your life without the influence of Western education. Nonsense

Western education is powerful. The problem is the people who misuse it not the education itself

Don't mind the Boko Haram jihadist , he might just be posting from Sambisa forest with his dane gun hung on his shoulder [sub][/sub]

useni1:
Honestly you guys are complete morons. Keep recycling rubbish you see on garbage western media. Ukraine is under occupation as we speak and if Russia want they will occupy the whole europe in less than 72hrs. And nothing paper tiger America can do about it

Putinist keep deceiving yourself that Russia is not failing in Ukraine.

I know most of you, and why you are so desperately supporting Putin. But last last na shame una go shame

tens4real:
We are naturally ahead (ABUSITES)

We MOVEEE

Creditalerts:
Abu

Abusite where una dey

"Naturally ahead"

You know na

FLYFIRE:
God bless your wife, your home & everyone that stayed chaste through your most difficult time of development. My wife did, served & I married her a virgin. Put together we courted for seven years because we started before she entered uni. Keep your virginity, it will speak for you someday. You will NEVER know the BLISS of courtship until it is in PASSION AND PURITY.

Check my comment above too, we still have people like that despite the society making it look impossible. I am an example

Hisbah21:
here I am..and still a virgin

Okay, I know a lot of people here are catching Cruise and making jokes out of this post and the question asked.

I am going to be very truthful and God is my witness, this might motivate someone though.

So here is my story.

I was supposed to go to the University of Maiduguri in 1997 via Direct Entry (IJMB) but somehow (maybe fate) I didn't. So I ended up going to ABU Zaria in the year 2000 via the same IJMB results, that is 200 Level. That year 2000 happened to be the year my IJMB mates graduated from the University.

So I went to the University A VIRGIN, I'm a guy and somehow I feel it's easier for guys to be virgins than girls - that is my opinion though.

So I went to the University a virgin and by 2002 which is the year I was to graduate for some reason (which isn't carry over , maybe fate again ) I didn't and was still a virgin

I finally left Uni in 2004 ( unfortunately the first ASUU strike I experienced happened after my class mates left University and because of just one Semester I had to be tied down for two good years.

Guys, I finally graduated from the University a virgin.

But before I went for my NYSC a few months after, story change o I met a damsel who graduated from Unimaid and was waiting for NYSC like me and before you Jack my Virginity grace has expired

I did mingled with a lot of girls in school,class and Fellowship( yes, I was a church boy in school and was faithful abourit ) and was also being chased by a few girls both home and school but like I said grace kept me.

To cut the long story short, I ended up marrying a virgin lawyer as my wife and today I can only say Oluwa is involved