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Christianity Etc › Re: Is Sin Innate In Us? by Roycemadeit(op): 8:37am On Mar 27
Mutant001:
what is existence without purpose?
Your create meaning to life to benefit from it and that alone can be justified.

A lion hunts for antelope to survive that alone is justified...in the animal kingdom there is circle of life and that circle of life is their system..one feeds on the other to exist and that alone is valid and has meaning...the same applies to human...patriarchy needs to dominate and control matriarchy to survive that's what creates distinction and differences..for patriarchy to have strived so long without objection, question, evaluation and changes then that means thats the guidlines nature mapped out for humans to follow...do you see a lion going to am..bush an antelope on a full stomach?..it only hunts when it's hungry...you see nature knows what it is doing...so any form of oppression has its validity if you do it for the right course

The antelope symbolises the weak effeminate nature of women...the antelope doesnt fight it only resist by escaping, enduring and adapting...the symbolism doesn't form a ruthless revolt...but a means of escaping or adapting to the harsh nature of patriarchy...it doesn't break anything cos even if the antelope resist by only escaping it will however be hunted down by a predator...its only means of survival is to come into the cognizance and awareness that it was created by nature to be feast upon by predators and by adaptability it should find awareness to escape whenever it sights a lion from afar...that alone doesn't stop the lion from being a predator or the antelope from being a prey...women are passive object in the food chain cos they don't create their own rules..they follow the rules mapped out by patriarchy...that alone is another form of control...they think organize and reshape structures only if the patriarchy approves of it..you have forgotten its a mans world...my analogy have never collapsed cos am presenting you reality the way it is..you on the otherhand have conflicting and unsettled analogy..you are just all over the place and unfixed ...biology have everything to do with social structures all thanks to nature for making the women weak and fragile undecided

Me and you are not on the same page on this..let's get it straight...so you are saying a lion continuously feasting on an antelope doesnt make it nature?
That a lion since time immemorial keeps the antelope on his food menu and acting upon it without any strong force stopping it...simply means is how nature wanted it to be...so therefore that patriarchy had rained since the dawn of time without any opposition or striking force stopping it..so therefore is how nature wanted it to be...you are not getting it...slave trade was passive at a point in time that was why it took place in the first place...we call it "nature's long lived permanent marks"..then again why it was abolished was because slavery has already served its purpose and therefore it was no longer needed cos its job is complete.so what are you insinuating?..by my logic anything that dominates long and is still in existence is the truth..slave trade is a truth even though it outlived its lifespan..it was allowed by nature for a significant course and will forever be a permanent mark both in nature and history...for every injustice, empire and outdated system to stay this long simply means nature wanted it to be like that..nature removes whatever it wants to remove and keep whatever it wants to keep

Infact there are two sides of the same coin..one needs the other to feel nature..it is the nature of a lion to hunt antelope for survival and that alone makes him to feel like a lion...what is a predator without a prey?...and in that route has the lion found its destiny..so therefore does the patriarchy has to lead matriarchy to feel empowered and in control to find fulfillment and meaning to its existence.
Frankly, I don't know why it's pretty difficult to comprehend my argument. I'll try to augment it for better clarity.


You all keep calling everything “nature” as if that automatically makes it right. It doesn’t.

A lion doesn’t justify its actions, it acts on instinct.

Humans do something different, we build systems, assign roles, and then try to defend them. That’s not nature, that’s choice layered over biology. The moment you start talking about “purpose” and “validation,” you’ve already left the animal kingdom.

The analogy fails because women are not antelopes.

Antelopes don’t organize, challenge systems, or rewrite structures. Humans do. Women have resisted, shaped societies, and changed laws repeatedly. Ignoring that doesn’t make your argument stronger, it just makes it selective.

And this idea that “whatever lasts long is natural and therefore justified” collapses under its own weight. As I wrote earlier, by that logic, every injustice becomes truth simply because it endured.

You may not be reasoning here but accepting power without questioning it.
Christianity Etc › Re: Is Sin Innate In Us? by Roycemadeit(op): 12:04am On Mar 26
Umbrateeth04:
existence and justification are two sides of the same coin...human life requires a purpose or rational validation to be valid whereas a lion has found its purpose for hunting and killing antelopes and creating bloodlines.to the lion life itself has found validity in that course.both have found a different purpose to validate their existence..so what are you insinuating?

You are misinterpreting the whole concept...how you neglect the antelope persona is a cause for concern...you and the sexist are one and the same with a different agenda...if you claim one hunts to survive without taking into account the feeling of the antelope(the oppressed) then It also depicts that a man controlls a woman to create a survival hierarchy...a subject needs an object to survive while the object is at the mercy of the subject

Funny how you think this way...power lasting a long time is the nature...when a power is held by patriarchy and their is no disputable challenger or strong governing force against it then it becomes the nature...where you expecting matriarchs to dethrone it?. Oh don't be delusional...the same way a lion has been hunting antelope for survival since the beginning of time without any resistance or any force pulling it down in its mission is the same way patriarchy will forever control matriarchy
Slavery was a rule set up by the higher patriarchs but was the same time abolished by the same patriarchs ...cos lower patriarchs(the black men) were at the receiving end of the harsh treatment..they didn't abolish it because of women they abolished it cos the black men were at the receiving end of it...
Existence and justification are not the same thing. They only look like it when you benefit from the system in question.

A lion doesn’t justify anything. It doesn’t sit and construct meaning. It acts. Humans are different precisely because we question, evaluate, and change what exists. If survival alone justified behavior, then every form of oppression in history would be valid by default.

You keep bringing in the antelope, but the antelope resists. It runs, it fights, it adapts. That alone breaks your idea that the “object” exists to be controlled. In human society, women are not passive objects in a food chain. They think, resist, organize, and reshape systems. That’s why your analogy keeps collapsing. You’re forcing biology onto social structures.



And power lasting long doesn’t make it nature, it just means it faced limited resistance or had the tools to suppress it. P.S. Slave resistance wasn’t passive, it actively pushed the abolition of the slave trade. By your logic, anything that dominates long enough becomes truth. That would make every empire, every injustice, every outdated system permanently correct.

Are you describing nature or are you describing dominance and calling it destiny?
Christianity Etc › Re: JW Adjustment On Blood Transfusion: Doctrinal Changes & Effects by Roycemadeit(m):
MaxInDHouse:
Atheists just love deceiving themselves walahi talahi.

You openly confessed i silenced you only to come back now claiming it's not what you mean.

Oya prove it you said you don't have the time but you have all the time to continue arguing aimlessly with people who don't know how to silence you!🙂
Very funny fellow, you just did like y'all do with your bible, cut one part out then try to tell paint a picture that might make some sense... Why didn't you post the whole thing I wrote? Up until now you haven't responded...

Yes, you have silenced me, with facts, of course. You can define knowingness; now try defining belief and faith, and show me how they connect to reality... Try show the full response when you quote me and it's disheartening that you don't see sarcasm.
Christianity Etc › Re: Is Sin Innate In Us? by Roycemadeit(op): 8:02am On Mar 25
Umbrateeth04:
its quite funny how you tossed the antelope aside as if it was an inconsequential fraction and centered more on the lion persona that's the same way sexism has closed their minds to the voice of women on prejudice and centered more on exalting themselves in the bandwagon of patriarchy..you said is in the nature of a lion to hunt for antelope...your points solidifies and strengthen the patriarchal system but you didn't notice that you inadvertently shot yourself in the leg. A sexist man can also say it is in his nature to dominate and rule over a woman... so therefore that makes him a man...after all his religious indoctrination permits that grin

The men didn't tell the lies..what their senses can see, observe and perceive became their reality

It was wisdom for them to decipher the contrast...they found weakness in the feminine figure..and were so smart enough to sabotage and exploit it...its another kind of wisdom that stood the test of time...and that was enough reason for it to be their truth

I disagree,,, you control what you have power over...and the controlled cannot rebel cos they lack the strength, willpower, fortitude and defence to resist oppression...chaos can never be in the picture cause the controlled was compelled by their controller to endure in silence...

Guy don't compare immortality with mortals...spirits are equal but when it takes on a human form then equality seizes to exist

Patriarchy is the nature.. for it to have stayed so long without confrontation or dethronement..then that's the model nature will follow till the end of time.

I object..men will keep on controlling like you previously typed in quote "that lion feeds on antelope it is a natural instinct"...so therefore it is the natural instinct of a man to assert his hunger for control on a woman..after all women will always resist but will eventually end up being controlled..just like the antelope will resist but later ends up being devored by the lion..it is the sad reality of life...both sides can never mirror the same struggle for dominance...it is not a conflict of two rivals of equal strength..this is a conflict of the powered and the powerless..one mirrors being dominated and the other mirrors being the dominator..this is progress to exalt patriarchy and belittle matriarchy..there was never a symmetry in the first place life itself is not balance the male figure is not identically proportional to the feminine figure so equality will never exist..so your point on this symmetry is null and void..there was never a contest in the first place majority are drooling over men for poverty alleviation scheme, to avoid loneliness and societial stigmatisation...the only contest is in the minority where we have Pack load of feminist and radical misandrist...their numbers are insignificant to start a revolt...yes respect has always been conditional...everybody wants what they want for their own personal gain..and lastly a beggar has no choice...if you can't beat them you join them to exalt patriarchy to high heavens..that's another form of weakness undecided
You’re confusing what exists with what is justified.

A lion hunts out of natural instinct. A man dominating a woman is not instinct, it’s conditioning reinforced by culture, religion, and history. One is survival. The other is a system.

Power lasting a long time doesn’t make it natural, it just means it wasn’t challenged effectively. Slavery lasted too. That didn’t make it truth.
Christianity Etc › Re: JW Adjustment On Blood Transfusion: Doctrinal Changes & Effects by Roycemadeit(m): 8:37pm On Mar 24
MaxInDHouse:
Wisdom is defined as an element of personal character that enables one to distinguish the wise from the unwise.

So leave what i hold onto and present the benefits of your faithlessness and i will present the benefits of my faithfulness!🙂
grin grin Who get that time?
Don’t come and act like you “convinced” someone who deals in facts. Some of us actually know the history behind these holy books, including the borrowings and edits that built them.
You didn’t proof nothing but psychosis and brainwashing.
Christianity Etc › Re: JW Adjustment On Blood Transfusion: Doctrinal Changes & Effects by Roycemadeit(m): 8:22pm On Mar 24
MaxInDHouse:
I don't beg you to believe rather i want you to prove that you are wiser than a person having faith in God.
So leave whatever we have read in the books and let's use logic to prove who is wiser!🙂
Faith fills the gaps where facts don’t exist.

You’re asking that I prove to be wiser, but wisdom doesn’t rely on belief. It relies on what can be proven. A wise person doesn’t need faith, they prefer evidence.

Reality doesn’t care what you believe. It just is.
Christianity Etc › Re: Is Sin Innate In Us? by Roycemadeit(op): 8:17pm On Mar 24
Umbrateeth04:
sexist men don't share the same world view as yours...to sexist men penetration means dominance and power while reception means submissiveness and weakness..they don't uphold contrast as complimenting one another..they view it as a perfect definition of a master and slave.

how many matriarch do you know as opposed to patriarch?
How many Goddesses do you know as opposed to Gods?

Check every religion around you their God's always embody a male persona
The world ain't balanced..its All about the survival of the fittest...in which the strongest always triumph...while the weak will suffer shame, ridicule, Pains, anguish, agony and death...its a very sad reality

You see a strong successful independent financially stable woman who is blatantly shamed for not having a man tied to her...just one thing small minds falsely deems as flaws and error tragically undermines her success and achievement...we are in an era where a womans worth is tied to her husband while a spinster successful accomplished financially stable well to do woman is shamed...and the same is quite opposite of the male counterpart[/b]pathetic...the double standard is nauseating undecided

Don't get it twisted I am with you on this however we cannot overlook the very system which brought about this dysfunctions and Stereotypes.

I don't blame women who wants to stay single and child free all the days of their lives as they have experienced patriarchy and have had an ugly bitter taste of it..[b]they are of the notion that if they are to create a world they are not safe in..then they better not create it at all...[b]do you think those women will be happy birthing their oppressors?


Come to think of it do you think animals don't have feelings?
We have encountered animals that display emotional pains and grief in the slaughter house...take for instance i have witnessed a horse shedding tears about knowing its inevitable fate of being slaughtered...animals have feelings they can distinguish pain from comfort..you will know this when you are a conc animal lover

That's why in my previous quote I used the analogy of a lion and an antelope.
It is in the nature of a lion to devour an antelope while it is the nature of an antelope not to fight back but to endure and escape hence from this allegory prejudice, sexism and misogyny was born, fed; groomed, nurtured and raised to lay its ugly head and deadly claws to traumatise, maim and kill those it perceive as weak, defenseless and powerless...
Pv
i dont blame men but i blame their creators for making them more powerful and ruthless undecided
I get what you are saying. But, it's a little all over the place. We can't equate men to lions and women to antelopes, if we are gonna do that let's all be lions. That'l lions feed on antelope is a natural instinct.

Their creators didn't make anyone more special than the other. It is the men who told this lies that also told that their creator is male.

The world is held together by force, illusion, and inherited arrogance. The idea that men should rule because they are stronger is not wisdom, it is primitive thinking that survived long enough to disguise itself as truth.

Strength has never proven intelligence, only the ability to control, and control without restraint decays into chaos.

Before dominance hardened into systems, there were societies that understood balance. Not perfection, but cooperation. In places like Ancient Egypt, power was not imagined as a lone authority. Even in their divine order, figures like Isis stood alongside, not beneath.

Patriarchy is not nature, it is repetition turned into belief, a system that transformed difference into hierarchy.

Now the consequences unfold. Men cling to control, women resist subjugation, and both sides mirror the same struggle for dominance. This is not progress, it is conflict in symmetry. Relationships become contests, respect becomes conditional, and cooperation is mistaken for weakness.
Christianity Etc › Re: JW Adjustment On Blood Transfusion: Doctrinal Changes & Effects by Roycemadeit(m): 8:00pm On Mar 24
MaxInDHouse:
If you can't prove anything other than arguing on what is written in books i think you and i aren't on the same page.

As one of Jehovah's Witnesses i can sit an atheist who doesn't believe in any God or books and convince him or her why i believe in the Bible God so i won't start quoting the book but reason logically with him.

See examples of what i'm saying:






































These people are from different schools of thought ranging from atheists to agnostics, traditionalists and Churchians.

So if all you can do is rely solely on what is written in that book without being able to reason logically to convince others why they should believe the Bible it's clear you and i aren't on the same page!🙂
@MaxInDHouse grin



Sarcasm keeps escaping you. I presented logic and evidence; you replied with mythology. When I said you’d “silenced me with facts,” it was dismissal, not praise. You mistook mockery for validation and wore it as intellect.

You confuse belief with knowledge and confidence with proof. When evidence appears, you retreat into faith and call it depth.

I don’t operate in belief. Belief begins where evidence ends. Intelligence needs neither faith nor applause.



P.S: Claiming superior understanding of the Bible just because your sect appeared recently is absurd. People studied, debated, and lived the Scriptures long before you existed. Obviously, God loved the world so much that He waited over a thousand years to reveal the “truth,” leaving everyone else misled or deceived until you finally arrived.

Use the added file below, instead of that sarcastic quotes.. ehn?
Christianity Etc › Re: Is Sin Innate In Us? by Roycemadeit(op): 8:26am On Mar 21
Dtruthspeaker:
The 2 popular Natashas have already shown you that the muscles men carry isn't the only dominating power.

Strength is dominance and power is power that is the way God and Nature has set it to be.
Man created God. God didn't create nature

You don't know this one too!


If we keep explaining the present without interrogating its foundations, then we’re not thinking, we’re just maintaining. And a world that is constantly maintained without being reimagined will always reproduce the same problems.
Christianity Etc › Re: Is Sin Innate In Us? by Roycemadeit(op): 7:23am On Mar 20
We have been raised to believe that one gender is meant to dominate the other, but that idea was shaped by patriarchal culture, not nature.

Men and women are designed to complement each other, not compete for power. Even in our biology, there is a natural correspondence, the male as injector and the female as receiver, fitting together with purpose rather than conflict.

No human thrives in isolation, so the idea of superiority defeats the purpose of being human in the first place. Different cultures have shown that there is no single way to structure society. Some are matriarchal and emphasize balance, while others create systems where both masculine and feminine roles are valued equally.

Our problem is that we have stopped questioning systems and started treating them as absolute truth, and that has led us down a path of dysfunction.
Christianity Etc › Re: Is Sin Innate In Us? by Roycemadeit(op): 1:36pm On Mar 19
Umbrateeth04:
mehn the world is not balanced..patriarchy has ruined everything

The notion of patriarchy is that the whole world, system,science,technology ,art, education cultures,and laws were built, created and invented by men and so therefore women should be at the receiving end of prejudice.

But one could deduce that nature was infact precise and straightforward on the creation story to the point I was left speechless to always follow the stereotypical bandwagon of men being the superior beings as they were created far more sophisticated and stronger than women due to their bone mass, body structures and strength..and here comes the woman weak, feeble, soft and fragile..one was created to look like gods while the other was created for just the mere pleasure and satisfaction of the other...pitiable sod undecided

I have always had your kind of eccentric view on life to the extent I began to question life, nature and its existence...we will rub heads together to unravel what lies within nature...as I don't really conform to the conventional established norms laid down by patriarchy and their prejudice against women...follow me as we delve into this haunting journey of unravelling mysteries

I have had some sexist men ask me this question that left me in suspense for quite a while now..It would sound so hilarious and demeaning at the same time...but I would be hoping you find an answer to this question

1a.if equality really exist and everything happens to exist in a delicate balance why are men created more stronger than females?
1b.why are women created with holes in between their legs and men created with poles in between their legs?


2a if nature wanted equaity dont you think nature in its essence would have created women the same strength as men?
2b.why should there be penetration during copulation?..is their no other way for reproduction that doesn't require sex?...as this act of top and bottom signifier will always ridicule the existence of women...as women are the bottom..and men the top...the receiver of dick is the bottom and while the tops are the penetrators..Sexist men have always used sex to dehumanise women..making them being an object of sexualization and caricature...we are in an era were superiority is determined by what sits in between your legs...sighs

One will even question God...I feel like humanity can't come out of this prejudice...it will take a new world order for everything to fall into the right proportion and balance..it sealed and unfathomable.... at some point I am beginning to think that the devil(the imperfect god) created humanity for his own entertainment with the devil having his favourites..the gnostic view is quite glaring...imperfect creation...which will definitely come to an apocalypse..its inevitable..the suffering...cruelty of animals,,, superiority will always exist in an imperfect world..even in the animal kingdom some animals are more stronger and exert dominance than the other the lion was created by the devil to devour the antelope..can you see the favouritism and prejudice in the lion and antelope analogy?..one is created to devour the other ...while the other is created to endure and escape with less strength.. with this analogy one can deduce that life itself is unfair both to women and the antelope...
i am forced to believe in the ideology of those who seek for anti-natalism and a total human extinction

So what's your thoughts on my own perspectives?... and secondly i would love you do justice to the questions above...I am looking forward to your feedback
I find myself unsettled by the way difference is turned into hierarchy by society, that the structure of the body should determine worth, as though biology were a verdict rather than a condition. And then we go on to compare humans to the an in the bush, that only hunts to survive.

When I observe the contrast between man and woman, I do not see a ladder of superiority, but a tension of forms, each carrying its own burden, its own capacity. To say one is stronger and therefore greater feels like a refusal to look deeper, a preference for what is visible over what is endured, no thanks to patriarchal belief systems that enthrone males and has no account for the feminine.

What we often call “natural” is already an interpretation. We look at function and impose meaning on it. Strength becomes dominance, penetration becomes power, reception becomes submission. Yet these are not truths given by nature; they are conclusions drawn by us. Nature presents differences, but it does not explain them. It is we who construct the story, and in doing so, we often reveal more of our fears and desires than any universal order, as we see cultures that have Goddesses.

The interpretations, we learned has built systems that bind us. We rank one another based on what none of us chose; our bodies, our form, our place at birth. In doing so, we quietly abandon the responsibility of seeing each other as fully human. A logical person, who seeks for better should question this indoctrination, If there is anything worth holding onto, it is the idea that difference does not diminish, and that no structure built on it should decide the value of a life.
Christianity Etc › Re: Is Sin Innate In Us? by Roycemadeit(op): 5:34pm On Mar 18
Dtruthspeaker:
You are the one making me repeat all i have said since you keep veering off point running and raising more off points.

Definitely, if you say "natural dropped from the sky" then you are right for that is the idiomatic expression that Natural is like rain and that Natural came to meet us or we came to meet it

And you have proven it that even today you have still refused to go and to give your dignity to an olosho or rapist or thief just like the rest of the world despite all you propose.

And on boxes, it is clear that everything is in a box. You are in the box of man, which is why we will find you in the boxes talking about getting a job and acquiring a house, erectile function and prostrate are things. No one will see you in cervical cancer and menstruation and womanstop (menopause) boxes. So you are decivjng yorsef when you think you are not in a box.

And on submission, authority and worth, it is you who does not appreciate that authority and worth go together. And that doing what everyone cannot do increases your worth and makes you superior to others. That is why a pilot is paid more than the driver of ABC transport, even when both of them are technically drivers moving goods and passengers with vehicles. Technically, every human can drive a car but not every human can drive a plane. So the difference is clear.

And that is why a pilot is more respected than and more dignified than the ordinary fisherman in his canoe in river state and even you, would readily and happily welcome with open arms the pilot to marry your daughter over the canoeing fisherman.

So, you are still wrong and making an unreasonable proposition
My Right!

We do not share the same worldview. Mine is reasoned and deliberate.

Man is not defined solely by profession, wealth, or social ranking. A fisherman is no less worthy of respect, of marriage, or of dignity than a pilot or CEO. Reducing human worth to material or functional achievement reflects not reality but the corrosive influence of poverty, fear, and social boxes. Love, humanity, and dignity cannot thrive in such a framework, no matter how many comparisons or examples you raise.

You treat people as lesser because of what they do or how society labels them, but that perspective makes the world more toxic.

Refusing to recognize the humanity in an Olosho, a thief, or anyone deemed dishonorable creates cycles of dehumanization. People denied respect and recognition will inevitably find ways to reclaim what was taken from them, often at the expense of the society that constrained them. Ignoring this reality demonstrates your fundamental misunderstanding of better human systems and the consequences of inherited prejudice.

Don't put me in the same box as yourself. I can marry an Olosho and my daughter could marry a fisherman.
Christianity Etc › Re: Is Sin Innate In Us? by Roycemadeit(op): 9:46pm On Mar 17
Dtruthspeaker:
You are still talking off point in trying to find where you suppose my view comes from as if your own view is not coming from somewhere also thereby missing the issue of the discussion not being about where our views come from but about the Truth that is seen naturally. which you yourself have seen and are partaking in.

And the fact is that we come in boxes: a man must think like a man and a woman must think like a woman. Do you not see all the the threads here are boxes? Car section box, politics section box, Romance section box etc.

So, like it or not this life is in boxes and things are fixed exactly how there is no way an olosho will be respected. Even you with all your claim for equality has not gone to give dignity to an olosho or rapist or a thief. And it is not man who set morality: no human went about telling people not to respect the olosho or the rapist or the thief,

And on the pilot superiority, the bottomline is that you see that your "antisubmission" statement was not correct as there is something called "authority" and that makes a person superior to his fellow man. And as companies and airlines have shown there is harmony and stability.

So, you are just trying to raise a tsunami in a plate.
Always talking about “natural truth” like it dropped from the sky and everyone just knows it grin. All you’ve done is repeat what you’ve been led to believe and call it nature.

The fact that you put things inside boxes does not make those boxes fixed or meaningful in any absolute sense. Reality is more complex than painting everything white and black.

Then you jump from categories to conclusions, saying some people cannot be respected because of what they are or have done... Accountability is not the same as stripping someone of their humanity. The moment you decide who deserves dignity and who does not, you are no longer talking about justice, you are just defending a hierarchy that makes you comfortable. grin

And on authority, you’re still confusing role with worth.

Let me spell it out, not for you, since you seem more interested in reacting than understanding, but for anyone actually paying attention. Authority exists for function, not because one person is a superior human being. It is tied to responsibility and competence, not inherent value.
A pilot leads a flight because of skill and responsibility, not because he is more human than the passengers. That distinction is simple, yet you keep missing it. Authority organizes action; it does not elevate one person above another in dignity.
Christianity Etc › Re: Is Sin Innate In Us? by Roycemadeit(op): 4:41pm On Mar 16
Dtruthspeaker:
I got the point.

Your dodging and refusal to even be seen associated with an olosho already proves that even you know that it is nature that has set it that they do not deserve to be treated like human beings.
Your view comes from long-held rules and dogma, based on the idea that certain teachings decide human worth and behavior. This way of thinking turns complex human life into simple boxes and ignores choice, context, and responsibility. By assuming authority, morality, or value comes from fixed standards, you mix up social roles with real human dignity.

First, your argument confuses social function with human worth. A pilot may command a crew during a flight, just as a manager directs employees in a company. That authority exists because of responsibility and expertise, not because the pilot or manager is a superior human being.

Second, the claim that certain people should not be treated like human beings simply because they engage in activities you consider dishonorable collapses under scrutiny. If dishonor strips someone of their humanity, then the same judgment must be applied consistently. Yet, we have society that condemns the woman who sells intimacy while tolerating the men who buys it.

Third, reducing a person entirely to one label ignores the complexity of human life. No individual can be defined solely by a single action or profession.

Fourth, using “nature” to justify social exclusion misunderstands what nature actually is. Nature does not assign moral rankings to human beings. Those rankings are cultural inventions, shaped by power, fear, and tradition, it has nothing to do with natural.

Fifth, the idea that balance comes from domination misunderstands how stable societies actually function Domination produces obedience, but never harmony. Stability emerges when authority is tied to responsibility and when humanism remains universal rather than conditional.
Christianity Etc › Re: Is Sin Innate In Us? by Roycemadeit(op): 7:12am On Mar 16
Dtruthspeaker:
So, are you saying that you would marry an olosho and treat her equally like a decent girl? Romance and family section has already answered you, so no need to lie.

And the bottomline is that as long as there is sin and dishonour there would always be a need to separate oneself from dishonourable people.

And if an employee does not submit to his master can there be balance?
As usual, you are missing the point again grin. The question is not whether I would marry an olosho. The question is whether an olosho deserves to be treated as less of a human being. Those are two very different matters. A person’s circumstance does not erase their humanity. If you were the one in that position, would you enjoy being treated as something beneath dignity?

People are quick to condemn the fruit while refusing to examine the roots. Nobody wakes up one morning and simply decides to become an olosho without a chain of circumstances leading there. Poverty, coercion, desperation, and lack of opportunity all play their roles. Yet society prefers the easier task of pointing fingers at the individual rather than confronting the conditions that produced the outcome.

As for your argument about separation from “dishonourable people,” that reasoning is convenient but shallow. History shows that the same society that condemns the olosho is often the same society that creates the conditions that produce her. If we truly cared about honour, we would examine the system before condemning the individual.

And regarding your question about submission, balance does not come from blind submission to a master. Balance comes from understanding roles, responsibilities, and mutual dignity.

P.S. A system built entirely on domination will always produce resentment and imbalance.
Romance › Re: She Leaves, I Drink Hypo by Roycemadeit(op): 11:15pm On Mar 15
Talkisneeded:
I miss your writings bro
I would try to keep up with my third love, give her some more attention...
grin
Christianity Etc › Re: Is Sin Innate In Us? by Roycemadeit(op): 10:56pm On Mar 15
Umbrateeth04:
It has been a long time, but I am back now smiley

Your perspective on this issue is quite interesting but yet again not above criticism
Having reviewed your questions, I will give a brief rundown of my perspective, though it revisits points from earlier discussions..

We are given many ideas before we ever question them. Strength, belief, authority, and even the tales of our beginnings are often presented as undeniable truths. Yet when examined rationally, many of these are not truths at all, but beliefs. The notion that strength alone determines superiority is not original; it is learned from environment and influence. But reverse the argument: if someone who values strength were born without it, or as a woman in a society that subjugates the feminine, would they accept being treated as inferior? Reality proves they would not.

The imbalance is most evident in how societies have treated women. For centuries, men have been placed on pedestals while women were expected to remain beneath them. If God is a Father, then the absence of a Mother represents a philosophical imbalance. A society that refuses to honor the feminine builds itself on only half its foundation. But voices long silenced will eventually speak. No human being can remain tied down forever. The old system cracks when people awaken. Today, women are discovering their strength, and societies are being forced to correct their own imbalance, most likely the old system would give way to a dysfunctionally aligned system. The thumb cannot exist without the forefinger. Our existence is a team effort.

The same principle applies to a deity considered the creator of all humanity, yet who sides with one tribe against another. One might never have been part of the chosen tribe if born elsewhere, in cities defeated in biblical tales. History adds another layer: the God ferried across oceans by conquistadors, subjugating peoples first and demanding belief afterward. Even creation myths invite scrutiny when examined alongside archaeological, genetic, and historical records of older cultures with similar narratives. And yet belief persists, not necessarily from understanding, but because it has been preserved from analysis.

Strength alone does not sustain civilization. Domination has never worked. What sustains the world is balance, understanding, and the humility to recognize that no single group, gender, or belief holds all the answers. A healthy order comes not from lifting one and crushing another, but from recognizing every part of humanity in its proper place.

If anything is worth defending, it is that no human being should kneel to ideas demanding division, ignorance, or submission. Healthy order is achieved through the discipline of balance. When we find balance, we move forward. When we deny it, we are doomed to have conflicts, most likely it would be sponsored by the God who wants disunity, Tower of Babel grin.

In conclusion, I would appreciate hearing your thoughts on the questions you raised. How do you interpret them, and what is your perspective?
Romance › Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by Roycemadeit(m): 9:58pm On Feb 27
Expecting marriage in a serious relationship is not unreasonable. For many people, that is the point of dating. A relationship is often a space where two people observe each other’s character, values, and consistency over time. It may not reveal everything about a person, but it does reveal patterns. Wanting that process to lead somewhere stable and defined is intention.

At the same time, you can know your own heart and still not be fully sure of the other person’s. Someone may appear committed while quietly hesitating or keeping their options open.

It is important to understand what both of you are building, rather than assuming you share the same long term vision.

Life may not be about sampling endless varieties. Perhaps, it is about understanding, appreciating, and nurturing what you have but unfortunately they say having only one type of soup can cause intolerance.
Romance › She Leaves, I Drink Hypo by Roycemadeit(op): 4:32pm On Feb 26
The idea that “I cannot live without you” sounds romantic, but if you pause and think about it, it makes no sense. You were alive before that person entered your life. You had years of experiences, struggles, achievements, routines. So what exactly did they give you that erased all of that the moment they walked away?

Loving someone deeply is not foolish. Sacrificing for someone you care about is not foolish. Going beyond your comfort to see someone you love thrive can be noble. But collapsing your entire identity into another person is not love. It is dependency disguised as devotion.
Somewhere along the line, people learned that intensity equals love. Maybe from religion, where surrender is glorified. Maybe from music and movies that celebrate lines like “I’m nothing without you.” It sounds passionate. It feels dramatic. But it is unstable.

When someone says their life means nothing without a partner, what they are really saying is that they built their sense of self around that relationship. That is not romance. That is emotional outsourcing. And when the relationship ends, everything crashes because there was nothing standing independently.

Love should be mutual agreement, shared vision, shared direction. Two people choosing each other while still remaining themselves. If one person changes their mind or breaks the agreement, it hurts. It can hurt deeply. But it does not cancel your existence. It does not erase your history. It does not delete your worth.

The belief that you cannot live without someone ignores a simple fact: you already did.
Nobody was born attached to a partner. People grow. People change. Plans shift. If someone walks away, you adjust. You build again. That is life.

To end your life because someone left is not proof of love. It is proof that you tied your entire identity to something that was never meant to carry that weight.

Love should expand you, not replace you. If it replaces you, then what you were calling love was something else entirely.
Crime › Re: 281 Arrested As Lagos Govt Raids Roads Over Omotaku Activities by Roycemadeit(m): 9:37pm On Jan 18
Historically, Italy offers a useful yardstick for understanding what happens when the state weakens. For decades, parts of Italy were controlled by mafia dons who operated as parallel governments. They imposed levies, enforced loyalty through violence, and decided who could trade, move, or survive within their territory. This system thrived where the state failed to provide justice, security, or economic fairness. Power was not earned through law, but seized through fear, normalizing criminal authority over civic responsibility.

This pattern repeats in societies when institutions abandon the people and instead protect elites. Security shifts from public service to private enforcement for those who can pay. The rest are left exposed. In such conditions, authority becomes a contest of dominance rather than legitimacy. Nigeria’s current trajectory shows worrying similarities, with groups like Omotaku demanding levies and asserting control.

When unofficial powers replace the state, culture is corrupted, ethics collapse, and crime becomes governance.

A nation survives not by force, but by justice that reaches everyone.
Christianity Etc › Re: Is Sin Innate In Us? by Roycemadeit(op): 4:44pm On Jan 10
Umbrateeth04:
am back smiley
What is your take on men being the superior being and women being the inferior weaker vessels?

Do you belief in this analogy if yes explain?

Do you disagree with this analogy if yes elaborate why you don't agree with the assumption?

Am anxiously waiting for your reply
I suspect you know my stance on this idea.

But, here goes nothing.

1. What is my take on men being the superior being and women being inferior, weaker vessels?

That idea is a social myth dressed up as nature or divine order. It’s not neither proven by biology, nor sustained by history unless force is involved. What it really describes is who held the penis, not who held the power of life. Superiority here is defined as authority and physical dominance, while everything that sustains existence is classified as secondary.


2. Do I believe in this analogy? If yes, explain.

No. The analogy collapses the moment you apply it consistently. If women were truly weaker vessels, they would not be the primary carriers of life, lineage, culture, and continuity. Women endure emotional, and social pressures that would break most systems designed only for dominance. Calling one vessel “weaker” because it does not resemble the other is like calling the womb inferior to the seed. One initiates, the other completes. Without completion, initiation is meaningless.

3. Do I disagree with this analogy? If yes, elaborate why you don’t agree with the assumption.

I disagree because the assumption is inverted. The belief originates from Abrahamic theology that needed hierarchy to function, so it encoded hierarchy into cosmology. God becomes male, authority becomes masculine, creation becomes command, and difference becomes defect. The woman is labeled weaker. Generative power has always frightened systems built on rule. So it was renamed weakness, moralized as submission, and preserved as doctrine.

P.S:
Men and women are not arranged on a hierarchy but exist as complementary forces, two points that only achieve meaning and wholeness when they meet. The moment one is placed above the other, relationship collapses into domination, and domination inevitably produces resistance, which is why prolonged subjugation gives rise to counter-movements like feminism. This struggle is not a failure of cooperation but the consequence of denying it. Wisdom lies in understanding that difference is not competition for control but an invitation to completion. Had divinity been imagined as feminine, the hierarchy would simply have flipped, with men labeled the weaker vessels, proving that these ideas were never about truth or nature, but about power deciding who speaks for God.
Christianity Etc › Re: Justin Of Deconstruction Zone Says Jesus DID NOT Fulfil Any Messianic Prophecies by Roycemadeit(m): 7:16am On Dec 19, 2025
MaxInDHouse:
See a comment from another atheist:



It's OK jàre na SARCASM too!🤣
What he said doesn’t mean I’ll repeat it, we understand differently. You claim to know more than ordinary Christians too. Religion is conditioning: God never appeared to tell you how to reach Him. If you were born elsewhere, you likely wouldn’t know this God at all, you might fight or condemn those who believe in him.
Christianity Etc › Re: Justin Of Deconstruction Zone Says Jesus DID NOT Fulfil Any Messianic Prophecies by Roycemadeit(m): 7:06am On Dec 19, 2025
MaxInDHouse:
Whatever! wink
Read to understand, not to wear a cape and never fly
Christianity Etc › Re: Justin Of Deconstruction Zone Says Jesus DID NOT Fulfil Any Messianic Prophecies by Roycemadeit(m): 7:04am On Dec 19, 2025
MaxInDHouse:
Here is your comment:



S h a m e l e s s n e s s really eludes most people walahi talahi.

When you people don't know what else to do you turn to hinding behind a finger.

If truthfully you weren't silenced what is the essence of asking me to connect faith with reality?

You ran away from that thread after i did exactly what you asked and never replied the comment only for you now to claim it was sarcasm.

Ọmọ nobody will flog you for choosing atheism it's your choice but don't think you know better than true believers we are using the Bible to help millions across the globe to solve problems both in their homes and neighborhood.

So you are free to exempt yourself!🙂
grin grin grin Funny Fellow.
Christianity Etc › Re: Justin Of Deconstruction Zone Says Jesus DID NOT Fulfil Any Messianic Prophecies by Roycemadeit(m): 6:52am On Dec 19, 2025
@MaxInDHouse grin

Roycemadeit:
Yes, you have silenced me, with facts, of course. You can define knowingness; now try defining belief and faith, and show me how they connect to reality...
Sarcasm keeps escaping you. I presented logic and evidence; you replied with mythology. When I said you’d “silenced me with facts,” it was dismissal, not praise. You mistook mockery for validation and wore it as intellect.

You confuse belief with knowledge and confidence with proof. When evidence appears, you retreat into faith and call it depth.

I don’t operate in belief. Belief begins where evidence ends. Intelligence needs neither faith nor applause.



P.S: Claiming superior understanding of the Bible just because your sect appeared recently is absurd. People studied, debated, and lived the Scriptures long before you existed. Obviously, God loved the world so much that He waited over a thousand years to reveal the “truth,” leaving everyone else misled or deceived until you finally arrived.

Use the added file below, instead of that sarcastic quotes.. ehn?

Christianity Etc › Re: Is Sin Innate In Us? by Roycemadeit(op): 9:50pm On Dec 18, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
That is not what we are talking about. You and I know that there is no people or place or culture where they do not know that there is a very evil being in existence
You don't know what you are talking about. There cultures that don't believe in evil existence.


I'll give you some examples for your inability to know but to only believe.


1. Buddhism
2. Taoism
3. Confucianism
4. African philosophy and spirituality like Ubuntu, Igbo and Yoruba.
5. Shinto
Christianity Etc › Re: Is Sin Innate In Us? by Roycemadeit(op): 8:22am On Dec 18, 2025
@MaxInDHouse

I am sure that you won't understand this either 😭

Don’t confuse applause from believers with knowledge. You don’t know better - you only believe harder.

I didn’t start this discussion with you. When you joined, I took no offence. Yet you misquoted and misunderstood posts, maligned fellow Christians, dismissed evidence, and crowned yourself enlightened - all while offering imagination and an unquestioned book in place of logic or history.

You don’t belong in conversations that demand evidence, history, and logic if all you offer is imagination propped up by a book you refuse to question. Humanity progressed by interrogating beliefs, not by freezing them in reverence while silencing conscience and reason. The corruption and historical baggage of your faith are invisible to you only because you’ve never examined them honestly.


And stop projecting your framework onto me. I don’t operate on belief or faith.

Christianity Etc › Re: Is Sin Innate In Us? by Roycemadeit(op): 5:54pm On Dec 17, 2025
MaxInDHouse:
Oh at last you've served your ban for using abusive speeches.

I've forgotten that AI is your god but that is your own personal problem.

Trust means believing in someone or something when you wake up in the morning, pick up your tooth brush and tooth paste it indicates that you BELIEVE (TRUST) that after use you'll get a fresh breath otherwise you won't confidently use it.

So believe means you trust in something or someone.
Believing and knowing aren't the same. And I should not trust a person who says, "God says, " especially when I didn't observe God saying anything to him... If God wanted me to know something he would tell me, not gossip about me with you.

Christianity Etc › Re: Is Sin Innate In Us? by Roycemadeit(op): 5:46pm On Dec 17, 2025
MaxInDHouse:
The book that said the earth is spherical and that there is a magnetic force gluing the inhabitants to it's surface thousands of years before your people later discovered it's correct? Isaiah 40:22

Or that explained water circle thousands of years before your people began doing gragra as if they discovered something new? Job 36:27-28

Or that explained how God suspended the earth upon nothing in space thousands of years before your people knew it? Job 26:7

Ọmọ that book has a lot that you and all your teachers can't discover in the next thousand years to come!🙂
The idea that scientific awareness began with the Bible is historically false; it is a later theological framing imposed on much older human knowledge.

Beyond astronomy, empirical evidence destroys the 6,000-year biblical timeline. Radiometric dating, archaeology, and paleoanthropology show the Earth is about 4.5 billion years old, with human ancestors stretching back hundreds of thousands to millions of years, long before any biblical Adam.

These are not Western opinions; they are globally corroborated findings. Christianity did not introduce knowledge of the world; it arrived late, plagiarizing and reinterpreting earlier cosmologies.

Treating ancient history as if it must pass through a Christian lens is not scholarship, it is revisionism. World history does not begin in Genesis, and human understanding did not wait for the Bible to exist.

Even Jesus, is the sun up there in the sky not some mythical man...
Christianity Etc › Re: Is Sin Innate In Us? by Roycemadeit(op): 5:33pm On Dec 17, 2025
MaxInDHouse:
Your wish! wink

See your brother in Atheism has agreed that Jesus is a historical figure o! cheesy
First of, I ain't an atheist and second, I didn't claim that jesus ever existed, apparently you read and pick what you believe not that you comprehend.

Christianity Etc › Re: Is Sin Innate In Us? by Roycemadeit(op): 9:52am On Dec 17, 2025
The figure of Jesus Christ and the Bible itself, when examined, reveal a constructed, human-made system rather than a unique divine revelation.

Jesus, if he existed historically, was retrofitted with mythic attributes drawn from pre-existing saviour archetypes {miraculous birth, sacrificial death, resurrection, and cosmic significance} while his theological portrayal borrows heavily from Greco-Roman and earlier Jewish symbolism; the Bible, written over centuries by multiple authors in diverse cultural contexts, integrates Canaanite, Mesopotamian, Egyptian, and Persian religious motifs, from divine councils (Psalm 82:1) to the plural Elohim in Genesis 1:1, reflecting a syncretism of Gods and myths rather than a single infallible voice.

Moral dualism, the devil, and the cosmic battle between good and evil emerge late, influenced by Zoroastrian and Hellenistic thought, not as universal ethical principles.

Other cultures, from Confucian China to Buddhist India and Indigenous societies, developed coherent moral frameworks without any reference to the Bible, relying instead on human reason, social discipline, and observed consequences; to claim that all other cultures contain only fragments of biblical truth while the Bible alone provides clarity ignores the historical record, the evidence of independent moral systems, and the composite, evolving nature of the text itself, demonstrating that neither Jesus as a perfect, original figure nor the Bible as a singular, universal source of truth withstands critical scrutiny.


Even the Egyptians, according to the Bible, acted against Moses long before the Ten Commandments or Christianity existed, proving that moral action, or wrongdoing, was handled by human judgment, not because of a devil or supernatural tempter.


Belief has no place with facts or knowledge... To know, you will have to research, learn origins and use your brains otherwise you are a believer.


THIS CONVERSATIONS ARE BEYOND BELIEVERS FOR THEY ARE BASED ON LOGIC, HUMANISM AND CRITICAL ANALYSIS...
Christianity Etc › Re: Is Sin Innate In Us? by Roycemadeit(op): 7:18pm On Dec 16, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Show me the culture
Fine, All the culture in the world believes in Christianity, and blames the devil...

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