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Mehnnnn....this is d definition of a bad wife... D lord is ur strength bro

Johnbosco1:
Wonderful piece by OP, if I may...

One of the greatest reasons why we have broken homes I must say, is LACK OF TOLERANCE AND PASSION TO BECOME EVEN that is so prevalent amongst mothers. It has become a Pandora's box with cans of Worm inside that is so much eating up marriages and it seems everyone has failed to comprehend it.

Besides the terrible state of our country which I believe contributes to the rate of broken marriages, mothers on the other hand, seem to have forgotten how important they are to their Children. They have neglected the most important bond on earth, "mother-child-bond".

While I was growing up, I could point out so many irresponsible men that have had successful marriage because of the breed of awesome women(wives) they had. But today, the so called "responsible men" are having a hard time in making it to a successful five years in marriage, let alone the irresponsible ones. But why is that?

I spoke to a lady who the husband had accused of cheating and her response to me was in the light of this "yes he cheated on me with my best friend and I felt the need to become even, so I cheated on him with his best friend too". What the heck! What's even more annoying, was that she had with her, their four and six year old kids who were being cuddled by their father while she explained her part of the story to me. I was speechless. I felt ashamed, not to talk more, disturbed. This experience made me rethink in a heartbeat about those days as a child when I watched Mom and Dad argue(never about cheating) and I felt that Dad was always at fault, that there was no shred of guilt, whatsoever on mom. Was my discernment really fair on Dad at those moments? Or was I being sentimental because of this "mother-child-bond" that binds Mom and all of my Siblings together? Whether or not these were the right thoughts at that point in time was not my problem.

While the behaviors of the parents have an impact on their child(ren), mothers however, have been known to have the greatest impact. In fact, a family without a mother has had a hugh vacuum no one would ever fill for a very long time if not forever. Children tend to capitalize and act more on their mother's behavior so easily than they will with their father.

Irresponsibility among fathers have always been but what we see now is nothing close to being irresponsible. They are pure "proud fakeass efekefe ungrateful yawoyawo overstylish fathers" who find it so hard to say "thank you" to their wives after eating a meal prepared by them.

It pains me so much when I see many cute couples' pre-wedding and wedding photos on Nairaland/others just to realize that they may not live up to those "early love, trust, happiness and vow" in a few years to come. Weeping.... Someone please get me a hanky...hmmmm....wiping my nose, then eyes....

I am sad. I sometimes feel scared of what the future holds. Should I remain single? Should I join the click of men that are producing "babymamas upandown"? No way! I love kids and I can't stand the thought of them not enjoying both their parents simultaneously like I did. I still do. And if my Mum and Dad can do it, I sure as hail can, even better.

If you are reading this, this is challenge to you. Others have failed doesn't mean yours will. You can do better. You are far better than them. I wish us courage, real love, trust, "our significant rib". I wish us well.


PS. LETTER TO MY DEAR FUTURE WIFE!!!

Dear future wife,

If you are reading this, I promise to give you all the love and attention in the world that I can possibly give plus 100% of my vow.

Please kindly cross my path IF you are ready to give all to me.

Yours future Hubby,
Johnbosco

Nice

couragemurphy:
Because I can give you real-good R&B music, I can also keep your secret, and I respect/value true friendship.

lol

BanevsJoker:
They are reckless, always endangering lives on the roads. Serves them right.

are u on weed... BRT reckless ke?

couragemurphy:
You can trust me.....

why

Trust no man

Humility017:
exactly bro....
I have searched for love for the past few Years but to no avail..sometimes I wonder how some guys get hold on some of these kind of AY lady...I envy them.
it's painful even when your intentions are pure... one just turned me down this afternoon on the filmsy guise that she can't marry a man from my tribe....

lol...wat tribe are u

ednut1:
Is it biblical Prob no. After all said and done 95% of them go back to their evil nd scheming ways

crosss over of a thing is not by force... It's should be on ur own accord.... I just go majorly...just to say am grateful lord to see another year cus it ain't easy to be alive and healthy

NPComplete:
Modern Christianity is nothing but foolishness and fuckery. They have been crossing over every year in Nigeria yet Nigeria seems to keep getting worse. They will never use their heads but keep insanely repeating the same things over and over again and expecting different results.

These same people will still spend their tithes, offerings and seeds all year to still fight a devourer or another. It seems the Nigerian Christian is condemned to an endless Sisyphean task of battle against invincible enemies. Yet at the slightest opportunity, they will run to Dubai, China and other godless countries that seem to spend their new years eve partying or doing nothing. If u want to know the definition of foolishness just look for the average Nigerian Christian. Devout, religious, superstitious and senseless.

Christianity, especially the pentecostal kind, is foolishness and fuckery. Foolishness and fuckery, I tell ya.


Foolishness.





And fuckery.

ode d major reason for crossover...i all about being grateful and alive to see another year.... Mumu okponu

boss1310:
we are not talking about deadbeats nor are we talking about the moms who abandoned their kids too.as for your old man thats his loss

moms deserve more love biko

boss1310:
I want to say something about the things most of us are guilty of.people tend to love their mother more than their father and why.there are people who you won't know their father is still alive cos they barely talk about them
imagine my kids as grown ups and treating me unfairly compared to their mother after how I ve dedicated and denied myself many things for the sake of their upkeep.
Fathers tend to be strict but they are only trying to show you there are two sides to life and when you deal with harsh realities of life it is that training from your father, but some people will grow up and see it as wickedness and forget about their father.you don't expect him to be too emotional just like your mother.your father have few clothings and whatever money he saved he used it to buy properties for the future it doesn't mean he is stingy.its just love but not the same physical appearance as the mother's
I love both of my parents but I love my father the more cos that man taught me almost all I know though he was very strict with me yet I treat them equally when showing them care.I wonder how fathers feel when you carry all the love to your mother and am not just speaking from this topic above

abeg some papa's no dey try jare... Mine literally abandoned me.... So I don't think.. I can give 2fvcks about him in dis life... I don't even care whether he is dead or alive

Na wa....and early dis year a rivers state guy wanted to marry me... But his family detest me cus am IGBO....bless d name of God cus he knows why it went dat way

onwuakpachris:
suicide's d best way to go...why stay on and suffer terribly.. only that...you should av js used two cards of tramadol..dat one js feels as good as falling asleep..so painless..unlike sniper dat eats u up pretty bad..anyways bravo girl

ode

Tonymegabush1:
If someone that has 12k in her akant can drink sniper I wonder about those that has barely 2k, well am not justifying her actions but to me the picture of this lady as I see seems promising

my dear all na packaging... U see some people looking lovely outwardly ...but dey are depressed inside

mungoparks:
so Op?why you come dey sensor were the babe write password? na your sister?then as for this babe she really wanna die,now who's gonna cry for her now? and what the fcvk is she writing the letters,who cares to read them.

oga shut d fvck up abeg.. Mumu

BigGuyMan:
Maybe the girl did something bad first.
Women always trying to play the victim card

u are a sick bastard infact a sick fool... Wat would a 3 year old do dat would warrant her death... Ode oshii oloriburuku

..so sad... Such pretty angel...

shugatee:
They freak me out,i don't like twin a bit

not everyone can handle twins it's not easy... I saw Wat my sis wen tru wen she had hers... It wasn't easy mehn

Yoruba women na their way na.... Jobless hoe

AdaAde:
Apart from breast and nyash, what else can you offer in your relationship?.

Relationship that both partners cannot plan together to achieve great things; is that one relationship?

Relationship that there's no hope of being together for life in the nearest future; is that one relationship?

Relationship that both partners cannot improve themselves spirituality, emotionally, and financially; is that one relationship?

Relationship that both partners cannot sit together and make reasonable, and intelligent conversation; is that one relationship?

When most people hear relationship nowadays, the first thing they think of is sex.

My dear 21st century relationship tire me

CocoaOla:
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If this kind of parents become our leaders Nigeria is gone finished Nigerian need this small heart of kindness at every level of there lifes, we need to love ourselves First that when the country will move forward..

u are right... Exactly

Raiders:
we are too quick to judge in this video without getting the facts. we dont know the whole story here. she could be their daughter and they might be punishing her for being stubborn at home.

oga shut up...

firstolalekan:
Gnld


USELESS PEOPLE with fake and addictive drugs

BEWARE!

i wonder why the MD of GNLD and his workers are not under arrest

Every single human being working for GNLD... Is a scammer...from the MD down to d so-called workers.... Even u op... U Don turn scammer for recruiting people sef...

ColdIce:
they are always forming posh
but dull in reality
it baffles me how u will cross road and put ear piece on.
def listening to a demonic song and got knocked off.
hahahahaha

abeg shut ur dirty gutter mouth.. Mumu

Isobug:
47 and you're still doing slay slay

no oo she should not slay at 47... She should go and die... Cus of d opinion of one frustrated Nigerian....ode mind ur business no be ur slaying

NLModsAreStupud:
When I say the female folks are useless, some of you won't agree with me. What else is there to prove their usefulness if not some shit-load of ass and artificially inflated boobs, especially Nigerian ladies, they are all USELESS. They are nothing but sex objects.

DISCLAIMER : my mom is a woman, not a NIGERIAN LADY.

ur mom is equally useless no need to argue...for her to have given birth to a dullard like u... Mumu ode

Luciferjesus:
I wouldn't mind disflowering this girl.

dirty stinky perv

@ op u don't have sense

mogbojaiye:
Abeg don't mind my English and grammar o, ,,,just trying to share my experience and also make some sense

They sent me a message that I had an interview with them day just use one lie take cover am,i got there d next day and every where was heavily crowded, and I just quietly got a sit waiting for d interview to take place only for one small boy to ask me if am New here I said YES and he said wat can I do, dat he has made millions and his relation even think he did blood money, as he day talk I first look e shoe,e hair looks so unkept, e tie b like cutlass ,,,bla bla bla bla long story

Like play like play they don set chairs with microphone say make all of us gather o,
One fine babe with better yash just day rap with d Mike say this program is good bla bla bla she don use am take buy land, ,,na so she day lie lie way big pass her future, ,,,,i went there 8am by 11am they still day advice / persuade us make we register, ,,,,this one way I day talk so, some people don sign and seal their mind say day must join, ,,,it was there I knew dat to play on human intelligence is the most easy, ,,convince them to make them see u like a savior and day will follow your voice .dats y pastor way sabi e onions e go must get members, ,,mostly if u get talent for healing or motivational talk.

12pm this GNLD people still day convince people oo,,,hunger don day Maya me, ,,,even d guy way sit down near me way I day use style whisper for e ear say make he day careful this guy's are after your money, ,,,,i con b like devil for where the guy day, ,,if u see the kin eye way d guy take look me,I just knew this one too don mumu follow their talk ,,,na so I get up becus their jazz kw go walk on me ,,,,if u see as the usher day escort me, ,,,na so they block door, ,,,,,,,,see me see wahala, ,,na by force? I wan go hux, ,,,day say Nooo say, ,,,do I want to b poor for ever, ,,,,,so I ask them, ,,i tell u say I poor? They say make I check dis ladder if I register this is what I will benefit, ,,,,na em I ask one guy way day force me ;u do MMM before he say no, ,,,,wat of golden cycler ,he say no, ,,,,i tell am say this una GNLD na both MMM and GOLDEN CYCLER, ,,oya comot from my road b4 I break your head, ,,,,




When I reach hux, ,,,,i first go fin watin I go eat, ,,,if u see d way I day eat like bush man, ,,,my Bros was force to ask me "who day chase u "na em I tell am watin I experience, ,,he just laugh, ,,he say welcome to the job world in nigeria, ,,,,,u even get luck say na your state u take attend self, ,,,,since then I hardly attend interview expect by referral or by connection

. Pele

dehi:
Well all I can say it's just God.
On my part am tired of sending applications. It's just like I wasted my time going to the university. Five years after graduation no job. It's heartbreaking
Na so I #dull
No money to set up a business
Nothing nothing

it is well start a side hustle or something

Jonathan:
I’m not an atheist. But this comment is stupid

as u are