₦airaland Forum

Calypsol:
LOL, you seem really surprised, aren't you igbo? You look pretty and light skinned like them though

ofcus am IGBO... Am not surprised am just saying I have seen. More

femi4:
Her mates are grandmother already

its not a bad thing if she still finds love and remarry... We should stop taking things d hard Way in dis country... Dats y I like whites... Dey can find love at any age any time...

Blackfire:
Is even small ....



Why are u shouting

aswear...d one I saw... D item d lady's family got... Can be used to open a small shop... And stock it well

gloria34:
Not bad but i Dont like her choice of words

Exactly...even if d guy is responsible... With d way she said it he may just look at her for only sexual pleasure

femi4:
At your age

soo?

SantiRAMBO:
Evening newspapers will come and defend her statement now... Lol

so u mean she Is too old to remarry or Wat?

But she is not even looking fresh at all... Dirty and unkempt

Calypsol:
Rozaytee

Depression Don start

delugajackson:
Failed musical career, unproductive marriage. One can already forsee his bleak political future. I think by now Banky should know that the game of politics is not a studio session with D.J Neptune.

u are truly a frustrated fellow... I weep for u

Dandsome:
Meanwhile these people never stole pants o

or even cut human head...

Randy100:
I hardly see men that use such words anyway. Would a lady still claim that a guy has used and dumped her if the guy did not have sex with her? I may tolerate the word "dump" but "use and dump" is an emotional blackmail that ladies use and it unfair to guys.

there is nothing like emotional blackmail... Women are emotional Humans mind u... A woman can deeply fall for a guy wen she likes him and wants to be with him... It hurts her deeply wen d guy just finish having sex and walks away...

Isobug:
Good sense but not good skill

go do ur own

Alexaonfleek:
You all are bashing and insulting the lady. She probably did what she did because she was naive(at least she said she was in 100level). She felt cheated that was probably why she went out to social media to cry out.I'm not saying what she did was right(pls don't misquote me)but she did it because she was naive.the guy in question probably feels like a boss as he used and dumped the girl.at least he should have given her good reasons why they should end the relationship.Anyways,as for guys like him, there is a special hell on earth reserved for them.After all,karma's a bitch

dont mind d fools bashing d lady... I keeps saying it 70% of nairaland guys don't have sense the remaining 30% try... Na majority of dem dey bash d lady... Dats y wen some of dem send me pm... I dismiss it...dey don't have sense... Just like d guy in d story...

Dinho20:
PONDER ON THIS...
LADIES,
Don't think having sex with a guy will make him love you. You will only get confused with your feelings. Learn to draw the line between love and sex. A man's emotion is not connected with sex but yours is associated with your feelings. Men can have sex with many ladies without having any feelings for any of them. But a woman finds it difficult to let go of a man who disvirgined her or whom she enjoys sex with.
GENTLEMEN,
Don't pressure ladies for sex when you are not ready to take up its responsibility. Being a man is not about how many ladies you have slept with, it is more of how many ladies you've helped to become better. Not by making them a mother by circumstance, abort a pregnancy or delaying their progress in life. But by bringing out the best in their career, ambitions or virtues in life. I hope those who need to know these would learn.
Thank you.

u are sensible... Infact God bless u for this ur comment

PhenomenalMorgan:

Truly Nigerians ladies are fast losing their power and allure
So he gave u good sex, a phone and some money
He dumps u and u come to twitter to cry foul play
Oh u think he feels indetbed to u, what value did u add to his life
Pls dont expect any better treatment cos u sold ur self for a plate of porridge!!

oga shut ur dirty smelling mouth biko

Randy100:
"Use and dump". Why do women always use those words?

men use it too... But come to think of it na it's bad na... Some guys date girls have sex with them make d gals fall for dem and suddenly loose interest in her for no reason... Before u know it he ends it ..is it not use and dump?

dockokwus:
I don't understand.
Was she trying to struggle with them or was it an assassination plot?
Again this was posted just few days after the tragedy.
You lost your mum in the most gruesome of circumstances and just 3days later you have the heart and strength of mind to go to twitter and narrate the nightmare.Just 3 fu cking days!
Losing a loved one through natural causes or illness can take some days to recover from.But it took this lady just a few days to get over the murder of her mother and rush over to twitter!!Unbelievable!!!

Oga shut up biko

Omoluabi16:
God why! Those armed robbers will not see 2020.

d life of an arm robber is a waste dey don't live long at all... Before a short while dey are dead

Ashley86400:
What is this?
You guys are just pushing hypocrisy too far.
Sex is part of humanity.
Have sex with whoever you feel like as long as it feels right with the person. . .just be smart and use protection to prevent diseases and burdens you're not ready for.
That's what you should say.
The person writing this is having sex. .the people reading this are having sex. .so who is deceiving who?
Africans and their stupid hypocrisy.
Africans like to Bleep like crazy and give birth to kids like crazy.
An average African man is not sleeping with one woman. Always has, always will be.
You're mentioning the words "sexual chastity". . .when we're facing overpopulation. . .
Bite your tongue. . .

no body is arguing on d fact that we don't have sex... Everyone has sex OK... It's just a reminder dat we have a creator who watches Wat we do... So we need to be careful and change our ways

She should better go and slim down accept kor accept ni... To avoid arthritis at old age...

Slimszy:
Greetings everyone, my name is Kalejaye O. Tosin, a Nigerian Photo-realistic artist.

Here is my drawing of Zlatan Ibrahimovic made with Graphite and Charcoal pencil on Paper.

What are your thoughts?

wow this is awesome... Good work u will go places

MONIKERREVEALER:
SHIIT!

I am sorry my dear. I know you are scarred yet you have to get yourself together, let go of the past and forge ahead to your bright future!

men these days can be very desperate and heartless.

as long as you have got your health, please focus on your talents and study hard to show yourself approved. no one would be able to shame your efforts.

you have a great future and thats what attracted those occultists to you.

NEVER be afraid because your gifts are irrevocable and can NEVER be stolen from you!

once again, sorry ezigbo nwa!

Thanks dear... I appreciate ur words

AngelicBeing:
How did you escape from him after he called the names of the guys sitting with him

unfortunately dear I didn't escape...

victorian:
Na WA o

My sister, thank your God o.

Can u imagine?

And do u know some come in that format of getting a job for the lady. She will think he's a life saver. All na scripts!

Really thank God for your life!

Such evil men will never cross your path again in Jesus name, amen.

I'm extremely careful about men too.. In fact this year ehn? I don lock up! Church and work finish.

Men don't excite me anymore. All I see and say to myself when any guy walks up to me is: I hope he's not a ritualist! I hope hes not yahoo. In my mind I will be like babe, be careful o. Don't allow him touch u o.

It's that bad

Smhhhhh

my dear through out that period... My mum... Cried and cried I was in d hospital doing test upandan... It was crazy... We ladies need to be very careful and prayerful too...God will see us through... Amen

victorian:
Some guys will. Not say they are yahoo.
Especially the ones wey wan start to make money afresh. He will. Look like a normal hustling and struggling guy. She will believe his story that he's either looking for a job or he's an apprentice somewhere.
Not all tell the girl, they are yahoo.

I love you killed her

Love these days is a death trap. I will Marry you is also a death trap. Ladies hold onto God. The evil amongst men is terrible. Don't be devoured just like that.


Ladies beware! Not all innocent looking guys u see coming your way is indeed innocent. Give your life and shun all these wolves and vampires in human skin. They will just end up running all your lives. Be dedicated in church and u will see a brother in church who's dedicated as well to marry.

I don talk my own o!

I was a victim... Not a boyfriend tho... We met on facebook... Chatted for a while he looked like a nice looking young man... Later found out we attended my home church..and he was one of our youth leaders then in church.. . We got talking a long while.. I was down den looking for a job so I told him.. He said he would help... Omo if dey say an angel can turn to a devil I will say it's a lie... This guy was d most gentle man ever...and he acted like an angel...a dove... We decided to meet for d first time after chatting and getting to know each other.. and talk about d job... We met at a restaurant which had a bar/lounge... I honestly dunno... How he did it or he planned it with d owner of d place... Wen I stepped foot into...after eating and talking... And he said he will give me some links to d job... I was glad... I had found a new friend and helper..i fell for him deeply cus ..i saw him as a nice person.. Cus while we chat he doesn't go a day with out knowing my well being.. Always calling me.. Wanting to help me all he can.. . All of a sudden I saw an evil stare in his eyes oo... I was wondering Wat was wrong... He den ordered me to follow him to a room in d compound...i was shocked... It was then I got aware of my environment... Cus I was too busy listening to him while I was eating..and wat he was saying about d job cus d salary sound enticing... I looked round I saw some mean looking guys sitting around not much people there and d compound was fenced... Lol... Omo... I lost it....i told him I won't follow him anywere...he said if I don't... I should expect d worst.dat something terrible will happen to me.. He called some names amongst d guys sitting around..fear gripped me. And I knew I was gonna be killed today....thank God am fine.now.. I reported him to d police tho and an NGO... He is still on d run tho...later found out he was married ...he never posted about his wife not until... After d incident I started asking some of his FB friends uptil today dat incident still shocked me ....i dunno I got scared of men easily...at dat point... I suffered depression... For a long time after that... But am fine now and more careful

tamethem:
Saw a girl on Insta. Some hours back called Simply_tacha saying " if you can't spend 300k plus on me , don't come to bother me. I am not your level, we are IPhone girls, there are Chinko gals , you deserve Chinko gals not us IPhone gals"

I just wonder if parents these days train their kids at all. When these gals are used , you start to pity them.

sad truth is these days ladies are d highest ritual victims...

Driggs:
I am not ready for commitments and I told my girl to chill for some more time.. I am an ambitious young man and I must own the world before I decide to marry.. My kids must chop life pass DJ Khalid pikin..

She agreed and everything is fine.. She's not a beggy beggy slayqueen.. She works with Oando. Lately, I was robbed and my belongings was carted away.. So, I had to use her phone to contact my parents so they can know I am fine until I retrieve my SIM.

Fast forward to yesterday, my mom called and asked me about the "nice girl who has been calling her and sending her massive airtime". I was dumbfounded and just hung up.. I called Lillian and she was all teary on the phone when I confronted her saying "she just wanted to be friendly with her "mother-in-law" blah blah..

That was when I flared up. It was like rubbing salt on an Okada accident wound..

She's been calling and I am not picking.. My mom's been calling too, I guess she's explained the situation to her..

A lady that is so desperate to tie me down with marriage by doing stuffs I didn't bargain for can go ahead and tie my destiny later..

Should I flee? Should I give her another chance?

u dont have sense

ajayiopy:
CAN YOU BE BOLD TO TELL US WHAT WAS RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR HUSBAND HAVING SIDE CHIC.MOST OF THE MEN DECIDES TO HAVE SIDE CHICK because UNBEARABLE ATTITUDE OF WOMEN. IF YOU ARE THE OBEDIENT TYPE AND LISTEN TO YOUR HUSBAND,SUPPORT HIS VISION,SHARE GOOD DREAMS WITH HIM AND ALWAYS PRAY FOR HIM FOR GOD PROVISION.ABOVE ALL IF YOU ARE HARDWORKING,I BET YOU ,YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE YOUR HUSBAND ATTENTION

lies all lies... Some men have good women and still cheat... Some see it as just for fun

Sirheny007:
Clearly, the side chick is more beautiful.


The wife is a fool for coming out to social media to rant about her marriage.
If you treated your husband well, he'd never have had a side chick.

ode buruku..oloshi

Nowenuse:
She looks masculine and not so pretty. She is aging.

wat is wrong with aging in this country person. No fit age in peace in Nigeria... Na wa oo

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