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pansophist:
I've been addicted to lots of things in the past and I broke off with them, and one evergreen advice I can give you is to start small, and progressively increase it as times goes by. Ok maybe it's not an addiction, but I used to have an unhealthy need to be right, to be seen, to correct someone, and such unacceptable behaviours.

But when I get the urge to do so, I'll just ask myself if this will matter in the next five weeks, five months or five years? Then I shut the fork up. So if you like, call me a terrorist, all kinds of names, I'll just ignore. And with time, I enjoy being invisible, operating on the background, being tick skinned, and not being in the spotlight.

It's same with learning a new skills. Last month, I ran a marathon, it was one of the hardest thing I've ever done, challenging and proving to myself that it's mind over body. But before I ran it, I've been training for months, and been running for years. I remember when I can't ran one km, but now? I can run non stop for hours. The point I'm trying to make it that time, and consistency rewards everything. To quit or start something, just start small, then grow, and let compound wealth do its magic.

Now I can run for hours without stopping unless I'm really thirsty or it's a bad weather. I've also developed a thick skin, as in eh, you see the way Buhari ignore all his haters and yabbers, that's me. Hate or curse me all you like, doesn't matter. But one thing is sure, I'll live a good life, and you'll know it. Success if the best revenge I guess? So yea. Maybe what I said is not a direct response of how to stop soda addiction, but can help you reach that goal. Graciaa.

SlawG:
with what's happening all over the world? You're just like your god. No atom of seriousness..

Bola146:
Sometimes I ask this question is there God at all? Does he read answers prayers because I wonder he would have prayed for his wife not to die or he wouldn't have prayed I don't understand. Maybe that is why He is call Unquestionable

Toks2008:
if I'm your husband, I will rather invest for you so that you can start making money and start making contributions towards the home-front.

It needs not be 50/50 but you must contribute.


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Toks2008:
Ofcourse your choice cos it's not you that do the providing. Let the man choose what he wants.

If he wants you to contribute he will tell you and assist you set up a business or give you the chance to go look for a job.

See times have changed, country is hard so if you are still having this leechy mindset I wish you luck.

What am I even saying... I dare you to travel out of naija and still have this mindset if you will not remain single for life.

It is in naija that this mindset stays.

Toks2008:
Yen yen yen yen. Nah person wey una go kill still enjoy his wealth with another man una dey find.

Even in great countries with good economy, there is a sharing formula between couples howbeit naija with crazy economy.

Toks2008:
Yen yen yen yen. Nah person wey una go kill still enjoy his wealth with another man una dey find.

Even in great countries with good economy, there is a sharing formula between couples howbeit naija with crazy economy.

BiafranBushBoy:
Lol

It is the same as saying "I want a bicycle that can fly like an airplane".

The first step to understanding life is knowing that there's something called gender roles.

Remember as kids when you played Papa and Mama, who was doing the cooking and all?

Were you taught who should be in the kitchen or who should be building houses?

In every environment, no matter what, as long as there's a man or woman, a woman would always look up to the man to pilot affairs of the home, while you will look up to your wife to take care of the home.

Yes, she might be a hustler and make money, but if you aren't doing it well, she will disregard you.

Yes, you might be cooking, but if your wife leaves you to handle the affairs of the kitchen, you will loathe her secretly.

In summary, there is a gender role in every family - no matter how Behind or how Americana you wanna sound.

Thanks!

Sadisbala:
mine is some hoe funny i met mr p of p squire at ikeja airport and we about to board a same planebut we are in the terminal first,some people were trying tosnap a picture withhim and he was coming toward my direction then iin like trid to introduce my self so that he will give me much attention,and as a hausa guy from jos he most understand that i knew him since they were performing at 011 night club and university of jos 20 years ago,and the good thing i like abt john michel that also a born and broght up in jos micheal never deny the fact that he speak hausa fluetly any were you met michel and call him chukube,michel will give you speacial attention expecially if you speak hausa,infact he will responds to you in hausa because he grew up with alot of hausa guys in jos before joining plateau unite, micheal respect his boss one babawo lecturer uptil date,so i tried to use desame method with mr p i said to to him in hausa mr p i'm from jos,and i knew you right from st morumba secondry schl that is where they attended and also stated thier carrer,so he was full of suprised he turn and look at me and he wanted to reply to me in hausa but looking at the crowd there i undestand he doent want people to understand that he speaks hausa so that they will not call him malo,which i knew he speak back then fluently,he said to me how are you bro,i said i'm fine i still reply to him in hausa that im from jos, let take a picture together,so he concentreted on me but my infinix note4 Bleep up,its hag that where he said bro i'm sorry ur phone is not working,i collected my phone from him with some little embarassment,and i left while other people that he doesnt give them attention were laughting at me.

Sanchez01:
Not sure you really understand God's standard and definition of marriage. There is no 'I' in God's standard for marriage. The man's property is for the two and the woman's property is for the two as well. Marriage isn't by standard, a partnership. A man is designed to be a provider while a woman is designed to be a nurturer. The ability to increase the resources in the home is not given to the man but the woman. Prov 14:1 confirms this.

The idea behind 'his own wealth' and 'her own wealth' falls short of the real scope of marriage and it somehow gives an idea into why most marriages flop. Everyone has their own standard today; all of which frustrates leaving and cleaving and two being a flesh.

CrownOfClay724:
17th?

Did they wed as teenagers?

They don't look that old to me.

Oizee:
If only I was closer, I would have come for the sewing machine straight.

ahnie:
Lolz thanks!

Ruby458:
Good morning, everyone.

I have a food, snacks, treats and drinks shop that I have to close down as I got something to do in another state, so I am selling off my equipments and some other things.

Location is Asaba, Okpanam precisely.

Of you live around and you need these items, please do not hesitate to buy them, as I am already running out of time to start on the new state.

All equipments are in good condition, and was neatly used. The plates and cups have been discounted to encourage you to buy.

Thank you.

Ruby458:
Good morning, everyone.

I have a food, snacks, treats and drinks shop that I have to close down as I got something to do in another state, so I am selling off my equipments and some other things.

Location is Asaba, Okpanam precisely.

Of you live around and you need these items, please do not hesitate to buy them, as I am already running out of time to start on the new state.

All equipments are in good condition, and was neatly used. The plates and cups have been discounted to encourage you to buy.

Thank you.

Ruby458:
Good morning, everyone.

I have a food, snacks, treats and drinks shop that I have to close down as I got something to do in another state, so I am selling off my equipments and some other things.

Location is Asaba, Okpanam precisely.

Of you live around and you need these items, please do not hesitate to buy them, as I am already running out of time to start on the new state.

All equipments are in good condition, and was neatly used. The plates and cups have been discounted to encourage you to buy.

Thank you.

Ruby458:
Good morning, everyone.

I have a food, snacks, treats and drinks shop that I have to close down as I got something to do in another state, so I am selling off my equipments and some other things.

Location is Asaba, Okpanam precisely.

Of you live around and you need these items, please do not hesitate to buy them, as I am already running out of time to start on the new state.

All equipments are in good condition, and was neatly used. The plates and cups have been discounted to encourage you to buy.

Thank you.