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Agboconsult1:
Am new here in PH...Relocated all the way from Jos. Hope i get to meet new friends here. Ladies must especially. Thank you

lebete3000:
Can you send me your number?

Pinklygul:
Itohan is in top 12 na

Pinklygul:
Is itoro 17?
Wow, she's good
Thought itohan was the youngest

preshman22:
What will the winner be going home with?

Pinklygul:
How can these judges say no to
Ochiora
David
Isioma
Itoro

While yes to
Debby
Precious

Na wa for this ojoro

lebete3000:
You're quite attractive you know?

Zonefree:
You don't have to say too much. Just say congratulations, touch the baby and drop some money and bounce.

Anonymous2022:
It's an addition, just like masturbation, smoking, drinking, womanizing, prostitution etc. Once it gets to your brain. It takes God's grace and a lot of dedication to stop.

lebete3000:
Okay. Thanks

leody:
a friend has run that Franca girl before he even posted her number here on NL check romance section. Wura gold leaves in my area so I know better.

toujurs:
heart broken introvert go and get a job, ashawo no be work, how you girls feel exonerated from being called broke ehn. Its not actually you guys fault its those mumu boys that waste their money trying to impress u guys i blame. Unfortunately things are hard. Same guys are using you girls for ritual. So unfortunate

lebete3000:
Kindly send me their website and what to know about them...

luminouz:
You keep seeking attention everywhere with your fakeass account and it's kinda sad

Heloct:
This is going to be fun.

My points are basic so you might know them already.

Relationships are wonderful when we choose right.

When people are like 'he isn't my type, I just don't think she's right for me.' You are always quick to talk them down and categorize them into being picky.

I will advise you to be picky. It is the best chance you have in getting it right.

Come on, I can pick what to eat, pick what to wear, reject some things others enjoy but I can't do the same with a partner?

A life partner?!

When a guy comes, friends might advise you to just take him. He's doing well for himself, he has a nice life, he's a cool guy. What more are you looking for?

Lol. For real? What more are you looking for?

Are those enough really? If you choose someone because they are nice, I don't know what to say to you.

...Or if you choose a guy because he is funny. Haha.

A funny guy might make you cry. Your home might be boring. Maybe he's just funny to the world and that was how you met him.

But a guy that brings laughter to the home, who makes everyday count, who is a friend. No one else has to know. He doesn't have to be a comedian before he makes you laugh.

I can't tell you how to choose. But I can tell you some of your choosing points have expiration dates.. I mean the slim frame, the flat tummy, the arse, the vacations and the treats.

It will not always be there. So, you might choose for a bigger picture. A bigger frame.

You could still be so choosy and end up with the wrong person. These things don't come with manuals.

Food comparison keeps getting in my head so forgive me.

Let's say you don't like Dodo. Many people would be amazed. They would be surprised.. It's only a few of us who don't.

If you try it out and keep forcing it in, you might end up wanting more. We all had meals we rejected in the past but can't do without now.

But let's say you kept rejecting it, you kept reaffirming it, you bring everyone up to date. 'I DON'T LIKE DODO!'

Then, you won't get served with DODO!

You've filtered out the negatives.

So, being choosy has more to do with you than who you are choosing. You raise yourself, you nurture your mind, you grow, you read, you are up to date.

You reject what you don't like. It's easy.

You let the world know what you are like, then you get to see the mirror.

You don't sit down so lazily everyday and expect to be chosen by a career-minded person. No one sticks around with a loser. The job, however, doesn't end when you meet your chosen choice.

And to be choosy, you have to be a price yourself.

PS: There are many factors that help us to choose right. God, love and comfort. It depends on how you are wired although you need them. It isn't just a game of instincts or luck. Good luck figuring it out.

https://helenaheloct..com/2022/01/why-you-should-be-choosy-about-who-to.html

Cc.. Lalasticlala

Lizzydonnah:
I swear, he is just pained he was dumped

athaboi:
who's this one

sgtponzihater1:
Tramadol delays ejaculation, and ladies enjoy the thrill of being sexed for hours with no end. Could this be the reason he is taking it? And could this be the reason you don't want to leave him? Think again

lebete3000:
Nice apartment, who decored your interior?

Cute albino you are, just like me...

24SEVEN:
Use samsung or Apple smartphones and they cant hack it.

also use sim lock.

i have good millions in my accounts. imagine losing my phone.

Conner44:
Tell her to use her money to first pay for her bride price and wedding expenses then you will agree with her opinion

advanceDNA:
That’s what I used to say about people living in banana island.... nigga u just dropped a broke man’s quote..

Kaymicheal852:
Basically, anybody using more than iphone x or 11 series is just showing off IMO

There are profitable things you can buy with your money

Eyekayj:
This is bad...


I need a job..
0.9.0 5*6*9.0.7.4*3.4
Industrial Chemistry.

Mranonymous50:
I've been a nairalander for many years, this predicament prompted this new account. I just like my private life to be private.
I'll be 38 this May. I have a good source of income and live very very comfortably. I used to think getting a wife was gonna be easy when the money comes, but now i realize truly that men that have found good wives don't fully realize how lucky and blessed they are.

I seriously started searching at 33 reason it took me so long was because i wanted to be financially capable before starting a family especially since i belong to the group of men that finds it shameful to ask a woman to contribute talkless of providing, not saying its bad, i just wasn’t raised that way.
I had a serious girlfriend but i was not ready then and no need to bring her into my life to start suffering or delay her so i had to let her go. She isn’t happy today thou, but that's story for another day.

Issue now is i hardly meet decent women, perhaps because of my lifestyle(introvert) or maybe its because i am not interested in marrying from outside of my region(southeast), i will just lose interest and won't like to waste anyone’s time. Trust me when i say I am far far far from being tribalistic but i know what i want and i have my reasons.

i'm super-duper introvert, hardly relate with family talkless of making friends, it takes effort on my part to attend family events talkless of social gatherings. I just enjoy being on my own, i mostly like hanging out at bars which is where i've met most of the women that i've happened to interact with. Trust me when i say i'm not picky but there is no way i can co-exist peacefully with the women i've met there so far. Dating apps are disastrous if you are looking for something serious, the prostitutes have taken over and won't allow serious people find good women. I can't ask family for help because there’s no one to ask. Church? I don't belong to any religion because God does not belong to any religion, i am no atheist, i believe in GOD and GOD has been and will always be wonderful!

The irony is that i am a great personality and anyone i have had close interaction with wants to be my friend but for some reason i just don't keep in touch and it fizzles away.

So there it is good people. Any advice for this senior bachelor? Anyone found themselves in a similar situation in the past and overcame it? Anyone currently experiencing my current situation?

PS: Can the kids please try and keep the noise to a minimum and learn one or two things from mature adults that will have something reasonable to say.

leody:
marry them how. i don't womanize, I don't visit brothels so how are we going to meet.if I see one I know them. Girls like that will marry their type yahoo boys,politicians and so on not me ma.

advanceDNA:
Hey, I have not eaten since morning
My phone fell in water, I need to change it..
My hair is itching me...
I don’t have active data sub
My Brother was hospitalized yesterday, we don’t have cash at home
You just met her on Wednesday: “ Friday is my birthday”
And the most common: please send me urgent 2k..

zainabicy:
Na oversabi be bottle water, pure water don do

arthurwillia:
Haha
My brother
I wasn’t explicit
What I meant was he should find a surrogate
and give her belle.. pay her and then give his mother the pikin since she’s so desperate for grandchild

Elmagnifico3000:
Please house I need your honest advise

So my issue is this for about 6years plus been single due to lots of heartbreaks.
I dated a girl for 3 years, gave her my everything, was ready to take everything to next level that was when I realized I have been played all this while, for 3 goods years.
I got depressed almost committed suicide, but mom love and friends didn't let me at same time I vow never to date nor trust any lady again till I ex this life.

Now the issue is last year my mom has been on my Case about grandchild since am second born only Son got an elder sis and a nephew from her.
Please good people how do I change my present predicament, how do I start all over again after 6years. Have lost all my cool � manly skill as refered to womanizing as this case may portray.

I really need your scrutiny and Insults at this time in my life, good advise will go a long way.