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What's there that's too much to loose, is it freedom to date other women, or the fear of being committed? i just dont get it

I'm still wondering why women love the bad boys

Hmmmm,

Its so 'unafrican' not to

Sincerely, i dont think all men are unfaithful but the majority of them really are, and worst of all, brag about it. Its publicized in media, made to look as if its the in-thing, So this makes it difficult for some ladies to believe in their man.

But U WILL get married in the end, u'll see, at least for the sake of it

Blood_Shed:
Men can't get in unless a woman allows them. If different keys open the same door then that's a useless lock. Either that or the gatekeeper is giving everyone a free pass .

Yes, sure, but that still does'nt justify it, can u say your girlfriend or wife is a slut then, cos im sure u're not the first one she mite have given a ''free pass''   

Inked_Nerd:
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I can't really say I know the exact feeling since I don't live in Naija but I do have an idea what you mean. There's a former teacher of mine that I visit every once in a while so when people see me with him they usually state to make assumptions about the nature of m relationship to him. Little do they know, the man is like a father to me.

Yeah, dat's exactly what im saying, its not like when u see a guy and a girl of similar background and u  just conclude that, oh they must be a couple. Think some of us need to grow up.

Inked_Nerd:
@OP: Why would you assume that she is a proṡtitute? When you see a black man with a white woman do you automatically think that he is a gigolo?

Lol, that he is a desperado looking to get a green card,  (just joking)

Blood_Shed:
Most, if not all women are sluts anyway , color is irrelevant.

For pete's sake its 2011.

And what makes every woman a slut

I live in Nigeria, and a Nigerian, and there are usually mixed reactions when people at first sight a girl with a white man, like they cant be dating

I have been wondering and still wondering, why is it that when a black/Nigerian girl is seen with a white man, ''some'' people seem to draw conclusions that she is a call girl or a slut

 

Temi 23:
I THOUGHT THIS SITE IS FOR MATURE MIND NOT PIKIN LIKE YOU.WHAT DID I SAY WRONG NOW THAT BRING THIS.PLEASE RESPECT YOURSELF OH. And am not like you that have remove 10 babies from yah womb. better go and confess to God

And this is matured    

Temi 23:
TO ALL THAT HAS BEEN SAYING RUBBISH TO MY POST GO AND GIVE GENNY TO YOUR BROTHER AND BY THE WAY SOMEONE WAS SAYING REMOVE A VIRGINITY OR NOT[b] I AM STILL A VIRGIN @ 24YRS [/b]SO I KNOW WHAT AM SAYING ABOUT GENNY BEEN ROTTEN. SO IF YOU DONT LIKE THIS POST OYO

Dont have to blow your trumpet so hard, not like anybody cares, but bin a virgin at 24 doesn't make u a better person than Genny!! 

Its not that really, i think we sometimes put emphasis on that cos a lot of us wants a secured future. so when there is a potential partner that has coma, it makes it more difficult. But if it were me, i will rather leave if i know i cant cope with it, rather than decieive myself or anyone for that matter.

Just read this now, its really really cruel, if i were you i'll do something to hurt him bad.

190:
You mean a woman could be helpiletic and wen she gives BJ and the thing struck rite in the act
what happens to the man 

IMAO hahahaha

190:
what is the meaning of Helpilectic 

Epilepsy is an abnormal activity that occurs in the brain(usually born with, but dont know if its hereditary) it causes uncontrollable seizures that usually comes with convulsion and something like that.

The sad part of it is that, it comes without warning. U could be at a party with your man and all of a sudden he is convulsing and falling to the ground, worse is the case if he happens to be around a danger area with no one around. So its really complicated.

BABE!:
Of course I know things happen!

At the "Its a true story" part. 

Lol

BABE!:
hmmmm---Any Chef for NL. They don cook up story again!

I think you added too much Maggi though. It just doesn't sit well with me.

Really its not a cooked up story, funny u dont believe that ''things happen'' but things happen!!

Errrr, at what part of it does the maggi seem too much

U 're dating a guy who happens to be in yankee (got connected by a friend) well boxed up with a very good job, everything's going all well and fine, he's even making arrangement to come see your people in Naija for introduction and all that, then all of a sudden he tells u he has a very dreaded ailment (Epilepsy).

What would u do??, go ahead and decide to help him manage his ailment or just call it quits??

Its a True story, some good advice will help.

D'banj should be 31 by now

D'Banj should be 31 by now

If i have to choose one out of the two, It will be Munachi, i prefer her kind of beauty, not like they have a wow beauty tho!

Temi 23:
As for ma personally i don't think the marriage can last because Genny is a rotten gal that atiku sef don chop out of d banana. . D-banj should look for better house wife material not genny.

And who is a better husband, D Banj??  This must be a very big Joke!!

shadrach77:
i feel sorry for d'banj for marrying this gold-digger!  

Wow!!, I cant believe im reading this??, Genny?? gold digger??,On the contrary Genny is farrrrrrrrrrrrrr to classy for this guy! please get your statistics right!!

ethereal:
OP,i think you need to work on your insecurities ,u seem threathened & a litte shaken of the other guy's status(no offence).However you also need tact & wisdom in handling dis matter.I'v read some useful advice 4rm several posters dat would benefit you .You  shouldnt be thinking of moving on & starting a new relationshp @ dis juncture.work & salvage wat u have,fight if u have to (if u tink wat u both share is worth it) cos often times walking out & starting a new relationship aint the antidote to lasting happiness cos your new partner is far from perfect.

This has nothing to do with insecurity, anyone who is in a committed relationship would be genuinely worried. Its a sensitive situation.

Jaychand:
Yeah, i'm making up my mind buh she ddnt spend the night there, she went to the guy's house in the morning only for her phone to be available when she got back home in the night,
She spent the whole day there , but that doesnt change anyfin sef. what can happen in the night is bound to happen during the day too. The painful thing is that she made a joke someday that if she hasn't been in any relationship she wudda accepted the guy and all that.

She said that  then i think u should be really worried, a girl says a thing like that, she's already developing feelings for him, and from what u've said, the feeling is surely mutual. I hope u dont just get a call from her one day telling u 'honey i've decided to spend the rest of my life with his guy now'.

If u have to track her movement n all that, u have to be really smart and careful so that it does'nt backfire in the end giving her a valid reason to leave u. Its more difficult cos u're far apart. If u have a sister or cousin she's close to, why not advise her to go along with ur girl on visits to this guy's house. This guy in question has made his intentions known to ur girl rite, so yes u have every right to be worried! He's a guy and she's a girl!

If like i suggested, she declines hanging out with this guy or spending time with him with a third party, then know that u have cause to be worried. Cos if she's attracted to him, she'll definitely want to spend time with him alone.

Even if she gives u details of her every move with this guy, somehow i think she knows what she is doing!

Alrite, Mr Nice Guy! I get your point, but please let's also help our Men to try to curb their appetite for extra marital affairs too, and not encourage it!

IZUKWU:
bela, you de foil my hand seriously,you know say na jet age we dey. We are talking of sleeping with on first date and you are here asking if you can kiss him on first date.Smh

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Poster, so in conclusion what are u saying, giving a guarantee for men to just carry on with affairs while their wives should not stick a finger out trying to make her marriage stay sane cos ''that's how its suppose to be'', I SERIOUSLY disagree with u. It shouldn't be a way of life.

Its SO annoying how u make it look approved in the Bible when u say even the Bible say 'no one is perfect' .
Sadly its men like u that encourages cheating in marriage, i think all ladies should be weary of u!!

M M M:
i heard some men now use ladies pant as,

As what   

Its quite embarrassing, did'nt she have a fitting before now, really embarrassing!

ugly Betty:
@poster, don't mind them, no be them go use their mouth and teeth remove the pants from their girlfriends body when they are Hot .

    Abi??

Once a guy strays, its most likely he'll keep doing it, what happens when work takes him away again?

why would girls be spreading their pants outside on the line for everyone to see , I hate it!!