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This applies especially when the relationship was a very serious one and lasted a really long time.

I know some people who end up going back to their Ex cos they couldn't let go completely, and sometimes end up having affairs (after a new relationship has begun), while some prefer total cut off cos they cant bear to see or stand each other.

Is it better to maintain a cordial relationship with your Ex, or a total cut off??

[quote author=city-page link=topic=665641.msg8305149#msg8305149 date=1305200252]Why didn't you come with one to be kissing you when you want?[/quote]Abi?

Duh, U should go back to the USA (that is if u were not deported) to get all the kisses u want WTH, what do u think we are here, a bunch of ''cave people'' mschewwww

I dont blame u, i blame the girls poking their mouths out to u to ''test kiss'' (If only they know)
   

M M M:
op
re u still in secondary school

I was wondering too 

vivaladiva:
trust me---them white guys know wats up----shiiiit na where dem wan see those kind gals for england----n u fink say them no sabi the eco situation for naija----ok not alll but i willl confidently say at least 70% of them gals u see running around wiv white men  in naija some old enof to be their ancestors---na because of money or paper


for england here na naija gals dulll pass, them go go marry one pennyless paperless guy-----come dey panic for immigration and olopa----but trust your sharppppppp naija niggers----them no fit shout oooo----many of them na pali for hand----pri---ck for sale

e no matter if the oyibo and hippopotamus dey compete for worlds most fatest-----them go swallow their pride and ego sharply---infat faster than they swallow fufu----lick her yansh---i mean literally and figuratively and any other way way them dey lick yansh---just to get that pali-----but u know the cool thing and this is y i love men---u willl never hear anybody giving the guy unecessary grieve, shouting asewo alll over town---they know he is hussling---e go be

i cant stand naija guys calling naija girls gold diggers---if i come naija n i venture hear where them dey put naija gal down i will surely cut off their balls cos na both of them bad equally and every body dey try to survive

   

@Vivaladiva, I do not entirely agree wit u, tho partly true, not all girls go hovering around white men, some of these white men actually chase the girls, but what the heck, even Naija/Black guys are hovered around for their money too are'nt they *rolling eyes*

[quote author=Blood_Shed link=topic=663078.msg8300212#msg8300212 date=1305131736]I'm so sorry about that, my condolences. Keep your head up .

How old are you?[/quote]Condolence    whatever for  LOL!

What has my age got to do wif anything  Im young enuff to grab all dat life has to offer, and old enuff to know exactly what i want 

" I Love U", I think that's the hardest word for me to say, even when I really do

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=663078.msg8298905#msg8298905 date=1305119122]Oh lawd! 

LMAO@sounds Nigerian.  SMH.[/quote]    now what Mrs Chima

[quote author=Blood_Shed link=topic=663078.msg8298873#msg8298873 date=1305118817]So what does a Nigerian sound like? Just cos I don't speak broken (well, Naija broken) English or much of my language, doesn't mean anything.

Where are YOU from then?[/quote]Nope, not that.! ''some'' Nigerians have really twisted mentality that's all, not like there are any clear cut rules as to how a Nigerian should sound.

And I am Nigerian, residing among the Nigerian people, a true South-South  

Wow, i'm dazed, and after reading from 1 thru 99, i can say for sure that the 99th point is absolutely true!

Well said NEGOZI, well said!!


[quote author=Blood_Shed link=topic=663078.msg8293564#msg8293564 date=1305045421]London (originally Delta Ibo though).

Why are you so baffled?[/quote]I am baffled cos at a point, u did not sound Nigerian, but now i know 

hehehehe, this is so funny

M M M:
both of u re fooling your self

I stand by this!!

Tosinville:
In nigeria ppl will think that way that there's this one thing you want from that white dude.

Hardly in nigeria to see a black girl chasing white/indian/lebanese guys for real love/marriage if not for his stash or those luxuries things that they have that she also wants to obtain her own from the goodies.

A white guy could genuinely love a black girl and really chase her, it mus'nt be for the money, and a black (Nigerian) girl could genuinely want to be with a white guy for the sake of love.

I agree we have a lot of expatriates in the country, its really shameful to see the way our girls try all possible desperate means to eat into their pockets. But their are life experiences where there is actually a genuine love story

Sure I am!!!!

I dont see anything wrong in that , if u truly love her, u should go for her, u do not need to hide it from your friend, if possible let him know how u feel, but does the girl in question know that u have feelings for her and is the feeling mutual??

If you feel the reaction from your friends would really affect your relationship,(depending on whether u value your relationship wit your friend more) then maybe you should have second thots.

Like a Fairytale     

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=663078.msg8285488#msg8285488 date=1304946414]No, I do not see black women with white men as hoes.  Hoes come in all shapes, sizes, ethnicity religion, culture, region, and family structure. 

There are white men who are interested in black women MORE than just some punny and some of them treat the black women better than the brothers have treated them.  Interesting.

If a black woman wants to cross the color line just like black men do why is that an issue?[/quote]Thank u Mrs Chima

[quote author=Blood_Shed link=topic=663078.msg8285530#msg8285530 date=1304947139]How?

How about, um, MYSELF?! And I can still help others out, i.e. family and close friends. What kind of attitude does society have that if you're not married you're somehow totally isolated. YOU'LL STILL HAVE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE. But yeah I'm glad I don't have to spend half my hard-earned money on some ungrateful biatch who'll try and take me to the cleaners if she gets bored (the law allows that).[/quote]Emmm, Blood_Shed, where are u from  

M M M:
op
who said so?

I have heard and seen reactions from people

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=663078.msg8285070#msg8285070 date=1304942158]
It doesn't cross your mind that the white guy loves the black girl? One black men can be loved?[/quote]Same question i ask   

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=663078.msg8285139#msg8285139 date=1304942784]It rarely does. Funny huh?[/quote]Yes, funny!!, lol

Hardballer:
tonto dikeh 1st

ini edo 2nd

tiwa svage 7th

    U are Wikid!!

Tonto surely makes it look WOW

Rihanna dance ke Shakira of course, anyone can tell that

rokiatu:
Why is her face white

I think she was still using white powder then 

mayordy:
she looks gud but no hips at all evrytin just went down like a jelly fish, cute pix

Hmm i tot so too.
She still looks good nonetheless!

Odunnu:
You have a better memory than I.
But I wont forget the kiss that weakened you

   Cool!!

agabaI23:
O yes that kiss was awesome but I won't forget the touch the brought out the kiss.

No, personally i dont think it is, no matter how hot ur hormones are burning, except u are'nt looking beyond the first date.

Well, u will definitely get the nagging, cos most women do nag (truth), but abt the others u cant run away from marriage for those reasons, cos somehow, it will still come back to u, the society is always harsh, and if u choose not too spend ur time and finances on raising children or spending it on family, then what will u do with it,

Well i am not yet about to convince u into something u're totally not into