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Righteousness89:
This is why the Churches should be open...

There is Little or Nothing the Government can do now...

Nigeria has had Ebola, Cholera, Lassa fever, HIV aids, Tuberculosis,etc we didn't lock down...

No African Nation is supposed to be on Lock down.. Our Leaders just copied what the Americans and Europeans were doing..

Africa is different Continent ! We have always had a way of Sorting out these things..

The Church has been a Major Help in things like this in Nigeria..

Let's stop Decieving ourselves.... We are not Americans, Americans are not us..

Please Google and read more on "Patient 31"
I won't say more than that

Took my kindness for weakness...always told her with or without her I will always be fine and happy, guess she thought I was joking till she misbehaved..

NockMedia:
Common sense is you focusing on your life and leaving these ladies alone. Your unsolicited words are not necessary, fam.
Why don't you try to come up with ideas that can help startups or something, mate?

Bros,na romance section be this carry ur seriousness or business mind go the appropriate section

Bro, just ignore her.. Give her enough distance and space... During this lockdown switch up download more movies if u are a movie/series lover.. Do more workout..Enjoy your own company.. Trust me you will be fine...Was in something related to this, now she text almost every two weeks but I purposely make the text boring with one word replies and ignore at times... Bro just survive this year and enjoy your youth to the fullest

DanseMacabre:
My friend show me any state in Nigeria that has done up to this. No be so so eba and egusi we dey see upandan
Or else agege bread


Compared to developed countries this is laughable, but going by our mediocre standards this is laudable.

EkitiState

izzyboi:
Where's the rejection

She said NO because of the outlined reason...

It was during my service year, I guess the villagers have had a fair share of corpers escapades with their daughters so making it so hard for the gals to even come around the corpers lodge..So from the start it was so hard.... After and before that I find it hard to ask any babe out, we just vibe and they tell me the "l love you " first then the "let us date" ish... And after it fades

Funny thing is majority still take this virus a joke..Just pray for mercy... This is just the beginning.

IceColdVeins:
Never tried hard to get noticed....I am the type that hates to like you, I either frown or keep a straight face whenever I run into someone I admire(I have my reasons )
Girls show the greenlight instead......with their ever fixating stares and sporadic unneccessary questions. They can try forcing a greeting on you just to get noticed(I'm the dracula of all snubs), sometimes they play 'the princess in distress'.

Bro no be only you.. If you like faint I won't even help you up

Bros you can't change anybody, unless its her choice.. She is an addict to nicotine, weed and all already... Once an addict always an addict....S he can put a stop to it only when she wants to(Her Choice not yours)

Amarabae:
Nobody is evening newspaper.
Point of correction

let me just keep quiet

Once you start thinking that there is more to life than just 15mimutes enjoyment then your perspective to life will be deeper than..Your perspective anyway(if money gives you better chick Good for you) I will rather tell you to explore more before your conclusions... Travel more and meet different tribes and race with your money...

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yankison:
The point is no one cares .. The family is too lousy

To each his/her own.. Everybody can't be THE SAME... We are all built in different ways

Both 62m and 12m, tokunbo or new wish them well and be happy for them.. No go dy carry calculator calculate another person's wealth... Pray and work for yours

bigt2:
This is a frivolous matter. Give her another chance, that is an order. Do you know why?
The reason is not far fetched - you were able to break through her resistance, she borrowed you out of her savings out of trust - even after lying.
2. She can help build your future. Just save with her.
This is because you didn't mention her to be a lavish spender o. Take note!

I have spoken.

Very apt... Since she is not a lavish spender.. Not telling you is wrong but bro point me one person who is perfect on earth.... Hold on to her and hope for the best.. To each his own anyway....Decide what's best for you

bigt2:
This is a frivolous matter. Give her another chance, that is an order. Do you know why?
The reason is not far fetched - you were able to break through her resistance, she borrowed you out of her savings out of trust - even after lying.
2. She can help build your future. Just save with her.
This is because you didn't mention her to be a lavish spender o. Take note!

I have spoken.

Very apt... Since she is not a lavish spender.. Not telling is wrong but bro point me one person who is perfect on earth.... Hold on to her and hope for the best..

Maybe one day......

Bro.. There are two options either she is still keeping her options open(waiting for that rich perfect gentleman) while passing time with you

Secondly, She is scared of commitment and afraid she might hurt you at the end of the day.

Just keep your trousers zip.. Desist from talking for long on phone with her and observe.. Let her feel your absence maybe she will consider you serious..

Humans are built in a different way, what you can take and endure some can't tolerate half of it same way we live our lives.. We all live in our own different world..Depends on the relationship you have with the person, Once you've got love for the said person the two of you should figure things out and move ON with life... My opinion though...

lefulefu:
u have said it all.money does not get u a faithful partner.u can only buy sex with it.

Bros at times I wonder, Low self esteem is a major issue.. Most times, The best time a man can get a lady close to standards is when you are at the worst stages of your life, Not when u acquire the whole "earth"..

Benprass:
myself throughout university I did not make females friends, just surrounded myself with 1 or two good friends, my nysc the same thing iam just on my own just focus on becoming a well achieved young man, Athough I round my education on time I am 23 now, going for master I dot know if I am messing out, I have never have sex before, most time I focus more on updating and grading myself I am introvat dot mind any wrong spelling

You need to explore bro.. I am not criticizing your way of life but for you to avoid what's called "mid life crisis" you need to experience some certain things.. Thank God you still have time on your side(God willing)..Explore the wild, bad and the good side.. Travel more.... See things from different perspective..

Lastly, Be open minded and Approachable

You said u live with your parents(that's a plus financially), Work on a bugdet it won't hurt to hangout twice a month(weekends)..Look fresh and approachable..Don't stay glue to your phone the whole time, observe and strike, don't be scared of the NO you might get at first,with time it will get better

Funny enough even if you make the billions that one don't guarantee you will see a stable babe, All you will be able to buy is sex with high class prostitutes and escorts(But still make the money). Just work on yourself, Go out often, meet new people.. Be the realest you can be when meeting people most especially the opposite sex.. Then u gon be fine lad...

Bros... You are dating a community waste bin..
Even if you will claim you love her just think about STDs you might get
You are just the marriage option(Retirement plan).. Don't even think you will keep her for bleeping(that's waste of resources).. Move on and never look back..

First and foremost you are not responsible for any girl's financial issues..
Never ever think money can buy loyalty
Lastly, Never settle for less...... Peace

[quote author=ubunja post=86781577]no one is born with internal wisdom on how to navigate life. At one point we all have to learn. Either by advice verbally given or written; or learn by experience. Writeups are a good avenue of wisdom. Even the Bible itself is a collection of writeups.


You are equally correct... But at some point you should know your right from your left... U have to sieve and verify all what you read, Take what's important(Don't just eat up the whole thing)..That's how people get misled by the media these days(Use your common sense.. Learn from your own mistakes)


I read your write ups too and I tend to see from your own point of view.. I see it as a norms and a character all man should possess when dealing with our modern day "Ladies"..."As a man you should NEVER settle for less" And You should know Your right from Your Left...

Just have your own personal "standards"before you commit to anything relationship...Don't let social media or write ups dictate for you... You should be your "wall" that you can lean ON

Any History applicant here?
If there is any, any news on recommendation?

Results of valentine tripping in

At the end of the day all he will get is a hug or a peck... Some men won't still learn
You don't get the gal by slpurging...Anyway he got the attention(The only thing he will ever get after this unnecessary show of stupidity)

One is lust.. The other is love..

There are always two sides to every story/write ups..Nonetheless, with what have read so far, You need to take care of that kid since you are ready to take up the responsibilities, But don't ever think someone with anger issues will change they just learn how manage it when they need something. Just work on giving your kid the best.. Switch to someone better... Don't make that mistake that she will change after marriage... As we don't really change we just become the better version of what we use to be...Peace