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I will build a massive prison in the south,arrest and jail all politicians from Local Government Council to the President,increase the presidential  tenure to 45yrs to ensure i take care of all the arrested politicians very well.

@poster you are right in most points you made,when you begin to impress this things on them they tell you that you are not a caring man and bla bla bla,it is bad but i have learnt not to worry about them anymore otherwise you wont get married and then you may start having kids from different women.

No comment until i know what went wrong,

otokx:
glo does not pay its customer care staff 200k per month. Tel your govt to provide nepa.

It is disheartening reading your post. I know you are a Nigerian but with inferior brain, while i do not support the idea of misinforming the public to achieve a targeted goal (the payment of 200k by Glo to it`s Customer care) the step been initiated is a course that every sound mind and well meaning Nigerian should support. If the Nigerian Youths should follow this step to bring the airtel services down on the 9th of October 2011 then they will be forced to go back to the negotiation table, if the environment is not conducive for their operation then they should negotiate with the Government and where it is not working  they should shut their doors and move out, must the citizens of this country suffer for it,when they are raking in millions of profits At this point, the Government does not want to loose it`s foreign investors and so they may also give a listening ear if electricity is the issue  and i believe the Government is doing everything possible in the Power sector as their is considerable improvement in power supply lately.
But i bet you this Asians are die hard capitalists who do not care about the welfare of it`s workers.

In my opinion i dont think it is right for the young boy to be denied admission on religious ground, If the school knows that they cannot cope with Muslim students then they should state it clearly on their website so that Students from other religions will not waste their time applying, only to be denied admission at the end. But if they can prove beyond reasonable doubt that he lied while filling his form then he has erred in that regards and can be denied admission on that ground (Moral ground). Young ones should be morally upright no matter the situation they find themselves and his Father knows the (moral values )standard of this school which made him to choose it for his son as his first choice.

@Poster you sound very weak and i have always told people that decision making becomes a problem when you don`t have a sound value system. I will advice to sit down and weigh the consequences of "If i do this what will happen?" and why do i have to do it? If i don`t this what will happen"? And why should i not do it? Then decide the choice is yours.

[/quote][quote author=2mch link=topic=770148.msg9237557#msg9237557 date=1317220259]You will be surprised that this two cannot do without each other. The arguments and fights have now become part of their daily life. They give everybody around them high blood pressure but they remain healthy because this keeps them going. They also know that no one except the both of them will be able to put up with their characters. If you have a brother, tell him to invite dad over for a month or two, and mom should go for a month or two to another siblings house. You will see they will start stalking each other, because the excitement they get is no longer there. Some people have very strange marriages. . If they didnt kill each other 20years ago, trust me they feed off of each others wahala. Both of them are the same. If one dies, the other will follow or start talking about dying.lol.

U just wan kill me with laugh but u spoke my mind, lol

Get a lawyer and take the matter to court because the moment he is on bail you will never get your money back, the police will connive with him to frustrate you in recovering your money and i know such a man will be very very fetish and so he may start going to herbalists to help him hypnotize you to forget your money. Did he tell you the kind of investment he made with the money Did the police carry out investigation on the supposed investment?? If i am in your position i will not believe whatever comes out of his mouth considering his low moral values.

Grew up in the same hood with Chidi, i know he is a quite guy who doesn't talk much, it is really unfortunate to hear his family is going through this right now, what i really don`t like in marital issues is when families begin to speak for the people involve, i think parents,sisters and Brothers should learn how not to interfere in the marital issues of their daughters,sons or siblings. If at all there should be some intervention i think all parties should come in with an open mind without sentiment or emotion,look at the issues involve objectively and critically and speak the truth no matter how close the erring party is to you. Chidi,i know it really hurts being insulted by your sister-in-law who should be in position to advice her sister to remain calm and handle the matter with maturity no matter her grievance . So many marriages are breaking up today because so many parents,sisters,brothers and friends who ought to tell their sons,daughters,siblings or friends the truth have refused to do so for various reasons. Both of you have to drop your ego,look at your son,is this how you both want to bring him up?

Just a thought,i dont think the last guy that made his confession would have seen anything wrong in TB if he had allowed him to marry Nana, I dont like people talking bla bla bla after they failed to achieve their ambition, They supported him for how many years?? They should tell us what part of their ambition they failed to achieve while with him that caused them to fall apart with him, I dont believe in the efficacy of all that rubbish that TB is doing in the name of healing as i am neither a Christian or Muslim but i like to think outside the box.

Quite unfortunate story but the fact is He is gone and i will never come back to experience this life, Senseless idea of staying in a marriage when all indices points to the fact that it is heading towards a disastrous end.

@Poster your decision to marry a jobless man is so senseless who is hoping to live on the proceed of other hardworking people,i guess you`re one of those religious bigots, i will advice you to face your marriage,sit with your husband and talk it over with him with due respect. If he does not see anything bad about it like he is doing right now then continue to feed him,it`s the challenge you will face in your marriage,every marriage has it`s challenges. Are you losing faith in your GOD?? Has he become the God that does not hear when he is called to act by his worshiper?? This is what happens when people fails to live up to reality but are hypnotized to believe in an all seeing and Miracle God.

I bet in the closet most people who are talking here claiming to be good dudes do more horrible things than Tonto smoking habit and controversial life but she is brave to have come out real and that is what life is all about, Be yourself, Can`t we just respect other people`s right to how they want to live their life? And what is wrong if her father buries her Abeg if una no get talk make una go rest, pepper body.

walex2:
pls dont tell anybody not to smoke, let them smoke till they have hearth problem then, she would realise her mistake.

fame does't leads to stupidity if u can manage it well, we in nollywood are still praying for PA KASUMU  one of us whos is suffering fom chronic hearth problem, even yaradua  on the other planet is now regreting is earlier smoking habbit.

joy to the wise!

And who told you that it is only those who smokes that do have heart diseases? I know my Old Soldier who is 80 now and still puffs his Benson and Hedges. People die everyday for different reasons,even those who live the holier than-thou life.

Yes she is right, we pretend too much in this part of the world, everyone has the the fundamental right to live the way he or she deems fit in as much as you do not infringe on the right of other people or cause boldly harm. People to tend to criticize you the moment you dare to be different. Must we all live the boring life that others have choosing as normal, Please if you don`t agree with her life style then don`t watch her movies or read things about her just live your own life. Girl continue with your life, after all nobody will share the consequences that comes with smoking cigarette with you.

I am not surprised with the Commissioner statement, i know our politicians are rapists, rogues, assassins, area boys etc. I know that commissioner very well he was formerly the head of motor park boys in Abia State, so what do you expect from him Shhhmmmm

@Poster, there is nothing wrong in spending your hard earned $$$$$$ on a woman, What is wrong is why do we women feel that once they are in a relationship it is the prerogative of the man to spend on them? They make themselves look like weaker vessels a position they will later turn around to challenge, It should be vice versa, women should learn how to take care of themselves without relying on the man and shower the man with good gifts and watch the reciprocation. As for me the moment  you begin to make those demands i am off.

I am a passionate believer in NON-VIOLENT RESISTANCE TO EVIL, So my position on this is capital "NAY" to the EX-Militant Leader.

I am a passionate believer in NON-VIOLENT RESISTER TO EVIL, So my position on this is capital "NAY" to the EX-Militant Leader.

@Poster you just spoke my mind,this is one issue that puts me off in girls,i am not been selfish, i hope to meet that girl out there that will be with me for at least 3 months without making any demand and also not deprive me of her love because she is not making any demand from me. Just last weekend a girl came to my house to help me out with some household chores, when she was done i gave her N1500 for her transport fare and she was frowning her face,i immediately asked her what the problem is and she said she wants to make her hair and nails which will cost her N6000,i told her i can only afford N3000 which i gave her and she left but for sure that will be my last encounter with her. At the moment i have invited a girl from Abuja to see me this weekend and she told me i should keep enough money to take care of her and i asked her what she meant and she said i would have to buy her a designer shirt and a jean,i said good but believe me the appointment is canceled,i told her i can only afford her flight ticket,good food and may be go for outing but she was cold. Like i said i am not been selfish but i love women with self confidence,who carry themselves with dignity and virtues qualities of our mothers,funny enough this two girls have good jobs.

The reasons are too numerous to mention why one will remain in an unhappy relationship but first amongst this reasons is religious fundamentalism. Then insecurity,children etc, But it`s all b--shit,get out and get a life if it is not working period.

No matter the grievance on the part of the woman 15yrs is too much to stay away from her matrimonial home that has produced 4 children. The man should proceed to get married, I am just annoyed why the man brought God into this issue, may be just lack of self confidence to confront his fears.

"A stitch in time they say saves, I will leave u to conclude." I really think that if this couple had known what awaits their fighting and bickering at home they would have walked out of the relationship and move on, Until we begin to value our lives and understand the simple fact that we are responsible for our lives we will continue to experience many more unreasonable death, Akolade or what name did your father gave to you, i know you cannot read this post because u lost the privilege of using the internet after the death your wife but i keep wondering when you will become a man to face your fears/challenges. If the news is true please do not take your life, just do the time and who knows fate my smile on you which i doubt. I hope people will learn from your predicament.

A very tough one for the woman, let her hold her peace, remain the woman she is,untill the husband carries out his threat, for now it is a mere threat resulting from his frustration of not having a child after months of marriage. Of course if he carries out the threat then he has bridged the contract of the marriage, at that point she can decide on what to do either walk away or remain in misery,  Every body is responsible for his/her own life, don`t give anybody the right to mess it up. Well, if she believes in God then she shld pray to him and if not then hold on to the principles that guides her life.

While i am not in support of the Nigerian Government lackadaisical attitude towards it`s citizen, i don`t support the idea of pointing blaming the Government every now and then, people should learn that they are responsible for their own lives and while you can control your decision you cannot control the outcome or consequence of your decision and it will be good to know that where you are today is a result of your  the decision you made yesterday. I don`t see decision making as a problem unless you have a problem with your value system, The point i am making is why should they decide to remain in Libya uptill this time? I hope the Government will do something to bring them back home as soon as possible.