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I dey vex for all of una! I have no reason to doubt d Op and her story. Why would i?

(1) She writes professionally
(2) She sounds bold
(3) She maintains a good suspense and cordinations in her lines
(4) She is not in african
(5) Her user name madu97. If u subtract 1997 from 2012, it gives 15 which she said she is!
(6) She is intelligent

I dnt want to doubt her because i come here wen am bored and needs to be entertain and so looks for stories that sounds interesting and captivating, this i hv found in madu97 story!

Madu, what is ur facebook username, i want to se.e ur pix so that we can interract more! Pls, for d interest of d ones that believe u and are bEen entertain by u. Pls come back and ignore d others who dnt blv u. Ofcourse, in everthing that u do in this world, some must like u and some others will not. Pls draw ur motivation from ur fans and lets move on!

Still waiting for latest update oh! My ears is seriously itching me now. Where are u smally? Am checking on you na!

madu97: my parents are really monitoring me so i cant even get on my laptop often, i have to sneak on now when they r not lookin. i feel like im trapped in prison. its so boring bein at home wit no friends and my family barely speaks to me. i followed my dad to the county jail where we got a case report on Quinton. I initially planned on lying to the police cus i didnt want him to go to jail but after seein my dad cry in the car on our way to the jail, i knew i had to tell the truth. i have never seen my dad cry before and this scared me. right now i dont care about Quinton, i hate Quinton, he hasnt called me back or even texted me since i told him i was pregnant. i never want to see him again, i cant believe he is letting me go thru this by myself. its not fair. i thought he loved me the way i loved him, right now i hope he stays in jail forever. the police questioned me and stuff about our relationship, where he lived, last time i spoke to him, if he has been accompanied by his friends, and if i had any other relationships with older men. well the police thinks that he is very dangerous and that Quinton isn't his real name. He says men like that usually go under a false identity so that they won't get caught. the police says that they will start to work on the case and call me back within this week for further questioning and stuff. n the police suggested some teen pregnancy and sexual abuse organizations for me attend because he thinks it will help me. my dad says i have to go to them but thats fine with me, i dont mind goin. right now i just want my parents to smile at me again, im tired of feeling like a disappointment, it broke my heart to see my dad in tears. i really hate this situation. i never thought that having an older boyfriend would cause this much trouble. i thought older guys were more mature than the 15 yr old boys that are in my class. well i hv to go b4 my dad wakes up from his nap, wish me luck. i just want this situation to be over.

I hope Wale Adenuga is reading... This is perfect script for Super story. Smally,try and sneak out as often as possible to keep us updated. 24hrs update is too much.We ar following you. Dnt forget to let d police involve Jack Bauer and d entire CTU to search for d true identity of Quinton and some of his other escapades!
Season 3 pls!

How i wish God will redesign d time of reproduction in human! Girls' features should be made to start developing @ 18yrs and guys should b @25yrs! Atleast, it will help us alot in curbing all these menances they are prone to and equally save d parents from too much stress and energy that would have bEen used for some other important thing.

Ever since Barth Nnaji resigned, it has been power rationing here and there.

What about prepaid meters, am yet to get one!

Next episode please madu(2012-1997). U must find a way of hidding nairaland from ur father so u will be keeping us updated atleast for d next 9months. Mayb then ur story will change from naivity to matured 15.

Next season pls!!!

This thread could go for a good script. Am loving dis kid's boldness, brilliacy, navity and understanding of womanology!

Her reasoning makes me have mixed feelings. Some times, i feel for her and at times, i can help but to keep laughing. Its not her fault, its all about d environment she found herself.

I am beginning to love dis girl! Baby ride on joor.

madu97: did u guys already address this issue to a girl yesterday?i didnt know that. well what was her decision mybe it cud help me out. okay so my bf has been callin n txtn me to come over but i havent replied bcus im scared i might tell him im pregnant on accident or something worse will happen. n now he sent a mean txt tellin me I AM GOOD FOR NOTHING and dat he knos im ignorin him on purpose because im cheatin on him. shud i reply back n tell him im not cheatin? wat if he asks y i have been ignorin him, wat excuse do i use? my younger brother noticed dat ive been depressed n cryin lately n he went n told my parents n now my parents keep questionin me askin wats wrong, i told dem noting but i kno they r still suspicious. does any1 have n excuse i can tell them also atleast till i figure out wat im gona do? n i think i need to reduce how i get on this forum becus i thnk my parents told my siblins 2 b watchin me n i dont want them 2 know abt this. omg, wat do i do?

I told u that u still come back crying foul against ur boyfriend. If he loves u that much, why would he call u good for nothing and not just trust u!

See what obodo oyibo has done to you! Soon, u will b standing alone and ur so called boyfriend will deny d pregnancy.

madu97: i think my bf can allow it bcus he says age is nothing but a number. i kno my bf loves me, he tells me everyday n he has been with me for more than a yr now. i dont kno what he will do if i tell him about the pregnancy, thats y im asking u all for advice. im sure he doesnt have anyone else bcus he tells me that i am the love of his life and that we belong together n that he has never met someone like me before. i have been to his apartment many times n i havnt seen any other woman. i trust my bf. i started havin sex this yr after i turned 15, most of the girls at my school have already been havin sex but its not fair that i waited to have sex n im already pregnant.

The way dis girl sounds reminds me of those days wen we used to do serious wash wash on girls! The fact is that d op has been brain washed very well by d boyfriend, ipso facto, all we say to her about d guy is not relevant to her!
What do u expect from a tender girl of 15? NAIVITY!
Am waiting to hear her running back here crying that d boyfriend has denied knowing her. Good luck to you...

Mrs..Chima:
Why are you engaging in war of words

If you are going to dip in something that [size=22pt]has nothing to do with you[/size] at least comprehend and quote CORRECTLY. I know we have some severe illiterate chatters on Naiarland but Seun has made it very easy for people to acquire hooked on phonics skills. Unless...you are Kobojunkie with a different screen name trying to throw cheap and weak shots. Hmm.

You will find NOTHING in any of my threads that state that married women SHOULD share everything....in fact if you could read correctly you will see that I said there are married couples who are ACTUALLY MARRIED stating that they do not share everything with their partners. Where did you see me typed this bullshit

[size=22pt] s[s]he stated that married women are not slaves and are matured adults that should exhibit their individual differences and not being caged up by d so called marriage[/s]. Here, she is saying again that married women are to share everything with their partners?[/size]

Are you confusing me with another chatter or your brain is in overdrive Only a dummy would say someone is contradicting themselves on things that they never stated.

"Yawns, goes to d bar and collect a bottle of moet,sips one cup of it, sits back on ma desk and swings around as i relaxe and cool ma anger"

Woman, go and vent ur frustration elsewhere and not on me! Ma remark was not directed to u in anywhere at all. Was English not among ur subjects in WAEC?

free2ryhme: I think you are in the best position to do that cos i am less concerned about her village

Am perceiving sth here! Its possibly that jennykadry knows more than we know! Check out these:

jennykadry: @ topic
Are you sure? Because we have Abia, ebonyi, anambra and delta Igbo, please choose one

jennykadry: Tell the op to confirm the girl's village again, cos there are lots of villages in igboland

jennykadry: ^^which village in anambra? Anambra is quite a big state you have to be more specific

What you guys to say about all those her remarks? Pls tell us what you know about ma cousin!

jennykadry: ^^which village in anambra? Anambra is quite a big state you have to be more specific

Is that neccessary? Of what difference would that make? Soon, u will still ask for kindred and possibly d family! Stick to d main issue pls!

jennykadry: Tell the op to confirm the girl's village again, cos there are lots of villages in igboland

Pls lets concentrate on d main issue and forget about which states d girl is from or where ma cousin is from. I seriously need to harmonise ur inputs as it will help us alot. In any case, ma cousin is from Anambra and d girl in question, the intruder is from Imo state.

Thanks anyway for ur wonderful contributions so far!

So that our yet born children will turn to wolves against us at a slightest provocation. It is our culture to discipline them in a hard way! Even Jonathan understand that using subsidy as a case study!

stillwater: Just yesterday, I was discussing with someone why Nigerian men who are obviously married send you friend requests on facebook. Freaking irritating!

I equally wonder why married and unmarried women equally accepts their friendship requests! When a man and a woman are chatting,there MUST always be some form of praises from either party and mayb u have not given ur partner for a long time.wheather you like it or not, for d chat to go on or b interesting, emotions must be employed and that is sucidal to ur marriage!

Mrs..Chima:
If you are not going to take my word...then take the words of other married couples who are ACTUALLY married on Nairaland that have stated that they do not share everything with their partners and respect some form of privacy for each other. I don't expect unmarried people to understand what I am saying anyways..so you are excused.

You are drowning boo boo.

Why do people always engage in war of word kobojungle?
Though me think she mayb right here but i think she always have a contrary opinion on any thread. If i can rem where she stated that married women are not slaves and are matured adults that should exhibit their individual differences and not being caged up by d so called marriage. Here, she is saying again that married women are to share everything with their partners? I think that u ar always contradicting ursf!

Sisi_Kill: Why the emphasis on Imo?

No emphasis on that dear but just trying to narrate to you how it all happened. Sorry about that.

2mch: Is this a real story. Am getting bored of the family section and the sensational stories. How will any girl just move into a guys house and fight to stay there, even chasing wifey put. Even if she get bele? Anyway, e get
the people wey dey take person laugh

Am telling you what is happening and you are here saying another thing. Na waoh 4u!

A cousin of mine just came back with her 3months old baby that she is still nursing.

It happened that after she put to bed to a baby girl, d mum came and did d normal mother's stuff for about 3months and went back. Days later, a girl from Imo state from no where moved into their house claiming that she is pregnant for d husband too. The husband tried to drive d girl away but she refused to go and insists on staying in d same house or else something deadly will happen!

After some days with d strange girl, without any sign of d girl packing out, ma cousin decided to leave the house for them. She is back to his brother's house with d new born baby.

My question is if u were in d girl's position, what would u have done considering d fact the man has only done paying of bride price before d pregnacy became big. I just excused myself from d meeting on how to settle d case just get u guys matured advise!

Birds of feathers fly together... Show me ur friends and i will tell u who you are!

@OP,ur post confirmed that ur hubby is in a clique of humanizers/adulterers( married but singles).Even if he decides to stop it, his friends will always lure him into d act again as it seems that he surrounds himself with unfaithful and promiscous friends who will always discuss about a new catch either @ d office or elsewhere and how sweet they were on bed mayb, compared to their wives.

If ur husband really wants to quit d game, he should starts avoidin all d occasions that will bring about his unfaithfulness either tru his so called friends or even work place, else he should seek for transfer or resign and look elsewhere to keep his marriage.

Then, on ur part, u should work on urself. Be very observant and find out what ur hubby always complain of about u or ur attitudes. Get ur shape back and make ur house enticing to draw him home @ all times atleast he still feels for u!

Insist on condom wen making love to him until he truely show remorse!.

Theben: Why are Nigerians so lazy to read? I was enjoying the story that i never wanted it to finish while some lazy niggas are complaining about the length. Anyway, people are different
@topic, the lady should divorce her husband and marry Iyke period.

Tnx for ur observation,thats Why they keeping doing very bad in English and literature!

In dis kind of set up, i dnt think Iyk will even agree to marry her even if she divorces her hubby. He will prefer a fresh and new "container" that has not been cleared from walf\port!

The lady is a fool, ingrate, wicked, and unreasonable. Thats a lesson for other ladies. She is in a tight fist just because of one night stand with an ex! One day, ur a sinner will go to hell fire, she no go fit come back!

obowunmi: I no dey jealous person oo...but since our brother is taken, I don't mind you. Pls describe how you look. Hope sey you resemble coke bottle..

Pls obowunmi,take am easy na, i will not have u use harsh words on ma sis! If u want to knw her, apply tru me.

I just have a simple question which has been a cause for an argument with some friends. One of them wants to have his traditional rites done in d city, saying he will have to transport some men from his kindred to carry out d rites. Pls i want to know if its proper and posible to carry out traditional ceremony outside one's home town for any reason at all.

Kobojunkie: I thought the reason you decided to get my attention was so I could notice you and your issues . . . I did and explained there that I cannot help you there is all . . but yeah, I have noticed you as you needed me to.

U are making wrestling to b a fight just like coogar and Efemena are now doing. Lol. See how i will just exist to teach u maturity that u lack!


Good day kobojungle, lol

Kobojunkie: um . . . sorry, I can't help you at all. Great that you felt your bile against another human beings right to post his/her opinion on issue needed to be on the pages of nairaland . . **sss*** . . . . it just so happens that I am really not the your problem . . . so I can't help you there. Goodluck!!

Go help ursf and not me!

obowunmi: Ok my brother. ah ti gbo.

You are one of d persons that i hv come to lik as regard to ur constructive criticism. Weldone.

But at anytime u decide to allow ur emotions to rule ur judgement. Be lest assured that i hav a hammer right behind ur head! Lol just kidding.

Mrs.Chima:
From the look of her "story" the only people who had an issue was her parents. You are right she should win an award for standing up against her parents.

In that case...there are other people who should win awards for speaking up and stating their opinions but they don't get the recognition because they aren't mixing nor pale skinned.

There are many non-Blacks that have stood up against their parents as well. She isn't the only one.

You sound as if you have personal issues with her! Its all about fighting racism, nepotism etc, so if u hv anyone else that has stood his ground, pls do well to project it so others will learn.
Thanks.

She doesnt smile to show me her dimple at a slight provocation! I love her dimple alot esp when she smiles!

I have read d story and her pix on several blogs. Its all about racial abuse. Hope she gets d recognition that she needs when d book is out and possible wins an award for her. She needs to be commended for standing on her feet and saying No wen it is needed in a most difficult period.

Her case is a true test of love and understanding. Hope kobojukle can do that!

I think d man belongs to one of these occultic groups, he might not have done it just for pleasure. He should be made to confess to d crime and possible name his accomplices! He is not alone in d game! After all, he should b taken 4 psychological treatment.



Shits happen nowadays, parents and gurdians should always be safety conscious at all time!

I think it should b d girl that weds d man! To me shaa,as long as there is wedding, whoever that weds d other is not an issue!

obowunmi: Una wan dey toast each other abi?

Noooooooo, she is ma sister and besides am happily married. Pls thou shall not put me in trouble and ma wify is here watching!!!! Lol

eastman11: Am happy for you cos you are lucky to have a child in the first place, am still expecting one and i don't mind if he/she smashes my car my TV, am tired of having my house in order.

Did i hear u well? One man's food is another man's poison! Na waoh.