Miss_Ife:

maybe you do. I'd rather miss all the 300 million dollar deals in the world and marry my husband over and over again. I know where my priorities are. If the deal can't wait til after the wedding, better forget it. There will be other ones. But there will never be another husband like mine.

Your husband is a very lucky man.

OP how many times must she reject you before you can see clear.?

Maybe you think you will wear her down overtime? Na lie

You are obsessing over this girl and even proposed at age 19. That should be a red flag that all this is getting in the way of your studies. I promise you, when you get older you will look back at this and laugh. Your life is just beginning, there will be plenty of time down the road to chase after women. Once again I reiterate what other posters have already said, focus on your studies, that is your first and foremost priority.

Billyonaire: If my spouse cheats, I reward her with a brand new house. I have already had that in mind. New House and some millions to live good and away from me. So i can enjoy myself and once in a while come and tab away match. Truth is, marriage is overated. I dont think I can risk my kids future of togetherness cos a woman cheated. I will keep her for the sake of my kids but she will be just another woman.

This is exactly the feeling I have and what prompted me to create this thread. Except minus the overrated part. Thing is i love my wife dearly but if she cheats, she's just another woman to me. At that point she might as well sleep with the entire male population because I could care less.


My kids on the other hand, that one na anotha story. My father was there for me my entire life up until he passed away a couple of years ago. (R.I.P. I love you pops.) so how can I look myself in the mirror and abandon my kids? Na lie, that would never happen. Even at the cost of me being miserable, I would never contemplate leaving them to be reared in a single parent household, or even god forbid another man. Everything my father taught me would have been for naught.

@ somebody, can you please let me know when everything has been sorted out so I can send off my own. I would like to go off your cue since you're more familiar with the system.

Right now I'm just puzzled as to why there's so much of a hassle

Why do I feel like the op left out the part about a do or die million dollar contract

Serendipity: First off, I must remind you that you are not alone. There are other people having similar problem. There is more to life than sex.
Stopping this will be sisyphean and onerous but it will pay off ultimately.

One thing about sex is that it doesn't subject itself to the law of diminishing marginal utility. Thus, having sex regularly seldom diminishes the desire for it; rather reverse appears to be the case.
In fact the more you indulge in it, the higher the tendency of experimenting with women of different sizes and shapes.
In most cases you gain only fleeting, ephemeral and some minutes pleasure from it, after which you will be left empty, unsatisfied, conscience stricken and depressed.
It is bodacious and cracking good that you have been able to identify this as something which has no bearing on your future. Because at this age your life's work is and should be your education having been enrolled in a varsity.
It is expedient to note that there is time for everything and that time itself flies.
That you want to stop this doesn't and shouldn't preclude you from having platonic relationship with women. But these women must not include these girls whom you have flings with; because the possibility of falling into the same temptation is ginormous.

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LewsTherin:

I want to know how Logain will get his foreseen glory. Mat would have been my guy if only he could learn to tell himself the truth! Perin's my closest. Pity his got one of the most annoying female characters as his wife. In fact, the only female I can stand is Min.
Do you have a theory as to where Demandred is hiding out? Or you've never considered that?

Never did consider that. I know he wants a shot at Rand but I think he's focusing on taking out Moridin first, who wouldn't want a shot at nae'blis. If he's hiding anywhere, it's probably in the Borderlands or manipulating Taim in the black tower. The decension in the ranks of the chosen is definitely intriguing.

As much as I detest Zarine. Nynaeve has to be one of the most obnoxious. Min is a favorite as well as Aviendha.

OCTAVO: What‘s wrong with these derailers?

Auntie sorry oo.

Just trying to drum up some interesting convo.

See thread scatter as u dey challenge Nigerians beliefs

sexkillz: Wth is he saying?

Something about bleeping, believes and virgine boy.

Maybe after I run it through auto correct, I might be able to decipher it.

Princess1982: I don't blame you because, if somebody spit on me I would of had the same reaction.

Thanks, and i'm definitely the type of person that doesn't condone hitting a female. For me to do that I had really reached my limit.

slimchi2k2:

can ur wife beat u if u are the one spit on her face

I would never spit on another person..... Period.

To me that's even worse than hitting.

somebody:

Hi SAFO, Nigerian banks have recently implemented a new bank account format so I think his is still the old format which would make sense if the account is old as he has indicated.

Okay that makes more sense. It did have a red flag but I don't see how he could have benefited if the account didn't exist at all.

It's good to see so many people are willing to help, this is what life is all about.

God bless you.

So the account number is not valid? I'm a little bit confused

LewsTherin: Truth be told, I don't care if it were written by an 8 legged raken! I enjoy every page. BS seems more.....fluid (should I say) than RJ, but I couldn't care less. Like they will always say, The wind was not
the beginning. There are neither
beginnings nor endings to the turning of
the Wheel of Time. But it was a
beginning.

Completely agree. BS seems to flesh out the characters a little bit more but I'm so vested in the storyline at this point that even if it was written by Padan Fain in the depths of shadar logoth, I would think it the best ever.

Of all the characters I definitely have a soft spot for Mat. Also can't wait to see how Mazrim Taim tries to upend Rand and how the seanchan will play a part in Tarmon Gai'don

Blue-eyed boi:
...u 4got 'fashion police', 'd soup', 'whose wedding is it anyway?' Chloe en lamar' en all those other boring reality shows she makes me watch wit her all in d name of being caring en romantic...

These are the worst kind of shows.

If I'm forced to watch Housewives of Atlanta or Basketball wives one more time I might just slit my wrist.

My wife tried that once and once only early on in our relationship during a heated argument. See me see stars, Kai. My mind went blank and I d@mn near hit her with a closed fist, although I did pepper her face with the hottest slap you can ever imagine.

Needless to say she never tried that shyte again. Matter of fact anytime we argue now, she knows not to really set my temper off.

Ikanium: for those who asked me to get an account of my own i have done that... Account name: Omaga Ikani Stephen, account number: 1780001026949 Eco bank... thank you all

This at least shows you're serious. Well done.

When I get off work I'll send it via Western Union.

huni_naija:

So that he can box me into fufu when he's angry abi? What is MMA?

Mixed martial arts

It's pretty big nowadays, even surpassed boxing in total revenue generated.

Lastpage y u had to go for the jugular lol.

Sup Chima, how now?

Don't get football (soccer or whatever it is) or wrestling neither. Haven't watched rasslin since I was a kid anyway. It's like a male soap opera, guys wearing nut hugging spandex grappling with each other is not my idea of fun.

Women wrestling, now maybe we may be on to something.

One thing I can say about Royal, his persistence and tenacity is second to none.

Like a fkkn pitbull with a death grip, my dude never gives up haha.

Funny thing is, the ignorance goes both ways. Some home based Nigerians buy into the ghetto, over privileged stereotypes while some black Americans think Africa as a whole is one country with monkeys and Lions roaming about while people still live in thatched roof huts.

slimyem: You don't need money to open a GTB account.
Find the nearest branch and do so asap!

Ikani if this is possible, you should have already been on top of this.

They say that when you hate your father, you hate yourself.

Could this be a case of self loathing?

ayosmiles: come back for where? now wey my eye don open, i no even get galfriend anymore except if u want 2 bless me with ur honeypot. wetin pain me pass be say i no bleep d gal. omo, if u c fine fine babes wey i just dey chop these days.

Haha you're too much of a puzzy to chop ne fine babes. Stop your lying boy.

You're also a disgrace to the name Ayo. SMDH.

FlowerPower: American sister, don't be a fool. Run like Hermes and don't look back. Most Nigerian men in the US have Nigerian wives somewhere in the world. Most Nigerian men WILL eventually go back to Nigeria when they reach retirement age. Once we had a hypothetical "what if" session and I realized we would be better as friends. If we got married, there would be a time when he would want his children sent home to be raised in Nigeria. He would also want to build a house there and return after retirement.Regardless of what you say, there is no way you would spend the rest of your life in a 3rd world country and deprive your children of the luxuries (constant electricity) provided in the US. Your friend knows this as well and had the good sense to marry a Nigerian woman who understands how he thinks. However no man is going to live the life of a monk in another land away from his family. It's best to realize that 31 years old is not an old maid in the US and find an African American man quick, fast and in a hurry. Don't waste any more time on this man!

What you call deprived luxuries, I call it building character, fortitude and a sense of belonging. Unless you go live in Nigeria and have a chance to experience it yourself, you're just regurgitating the same rhetoric that has been spewed before. If you can survive in Nigeria, you can flourish anywhere else in the world.

Besides, the US has plenty of its own problems (even greater in some cases) to deal with.