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Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by andyanders: 10:13pm On Dec 24, 2012 |
Princess1982: I have never been vain about my looks but come on now you called me ugly. please you don't even believe that. In all my 30 years your the first man who has ever called me ugly. Don't mind him -ik121,you are cute and good looking. Maybe we need to give him glasses to see in-between. From his write ups, you will agree with me that he is from a violent home where he learnt his attitude from. His father must have been a violent person to his mum hence he never see anything wrong in spitting on a human being-wife for that matter. Princess, if I were you, the best answer to a complete compound fool, is to ignore him. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by dayokanu(m): 10:52pm On Dec 24, 2012 |
Na wa oo He is possesed by snake spirit. Dont be surprised if he starts biting you 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 11:05pm On Dec 24, 2012 |
dayokanu: Na wa oo LMAO. You and coogar no well at all |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by superior1: 12:30am On Dec 25, 2012 |
Not only those running naked on the street have mental problems,there are were alaso, your husband really needs to get help from mental health specialist, jokes apart. |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by SisiKill1: 1:01am On Dec 25, 2012 |
dayokanu: Na wa oo Lmao at this and King Cobra My bad! I know I shouldn't laugh but it's hella funny!! |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by ik121: 1:06am On Dec 25, 2012 |
Princess1982: Sure women should respect their husband but nobody should have to walk on egg shells in a marriage out of fear of being abused.even tho we'v nva agreed i tink i agree on u on ds 1 princess. I know many nairaland olofofos wer busy enjoyin d tantrums we wer throwing at each oda tho u wer d 1 who started it initially. Nobdy dzavs 2 be spat on. Incase u misconstrued my position, My point exactly was dat d 'Spitting Habit' of d husband doesn't call 4 a divorce atall cos dats wat d Op was xpectin 2 hear nd many wer teln her exactly dat, ignoring d wonderful attributes of d husband. Couples hv a way of setlin dia issues. The husband ain't no monster. This is christmas, away wit d hate. Show sum luv sister. #Big hug. 1 Luv. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by baby124: 1:08am On Dec 25, 2012 |
Speechless... |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Princess1982(f): 2:40am On Dec 25, 2012 |
No it doesn't cause for a divorce but they need some serious counseling. Ik121 I agree. |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Kobojunkie: 4:33am On Dec 25, 2012 |
Princess1982: No it doesn't cause for a divorce but they need some serious counseling. Ik121 I agree. Who is to decide if it is cause for divorce or not? Isn't that all up to the woman who is the one suffering this? If she decides to divorce the man as a result, who here or anywhere can decide her wrong for taking such a step? Abeg !! People should focus on arguing issue not deciding whether or not a person can or cannot exercise their right to get a divorce or not. We all have different tolerance levels for different things. Some of us can tolerate somethings to an extent while others have absolutely no tolerance for this kind of stupidity at all. If I had a spouse who dared to spit on me once, I would walk out that door and never near that house ever again. There are somethings I can bear in my life but this level of disrespect from one who proclaims to love me is not one of those things I can bear. Again, we all have different tolerance levels and no one can decide for the other when to get a divorce and when not to. All we can do is state how we would each react, and that is why I sure hope those of you commenting would at least be honest enough to try to put yourselves in the @Posters shoes so you can better give an opinion that might help at the end of the day. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by minute(f): 6:46am On Dec 25, 2012 |
Leave him. What a dirtbag. |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 7:24am On Dec 25, 2012 |
ik121: even tho we'v nva agreed i tink i agree on u on ds 1 princess.merry xmas o my broda,u want her to still put up with that dirty habit because of xmas sentiments,issokay. 8-) |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Winneygirl(f): 11:47am On Dec 25, 2012 |
@Op, wat Ur husband needs is a woman who can hold her ground!!Submissiveness and indecision ar boring somtyms. Frm 2day, hold Ur head up high!!Set Ur own rules! Do all chores,serve his meals & maintain a clean, spacious, welcoming house. If there's somthn he does which U dnt lik, just tel him once, in one sentence and close d chapter. Do not attempt 2make him undrstand. E.g. "I noticed dat U leave d door open anytime U walk thru. I think its best if WE always close d door behind us everytime so we can be conscious of who walks into d house" it starts wt littl thngs like dat. Whn U disagree, no need 2 argue. Just tell him in a cool calm voice, "I undrstand wat U ar talking abt. I will put it into consideration". Whether U act on it now is up 2 U. If he throws a tantrum, say nothing. Do nothing. Whn U can chip in a word, say "I hav heard U and will try 2work on it". Remember, d magic that 1 sentence wud do, a thousand sentences wud neva achieve. U dnt hav 2 do all he says, but U cn avoid d arguements and still have Ur way. 2defeat d strong-hearted,U need a diff. kind of strong-heartedness. 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Gertynk: 1:45pm On Dec 25, 2012 |
ik121: Mama k'uku dat was lyk 3months ago bt it seems 2 me lyk 3years cos e don tay 2 me. She's ystdyz news so irrelevant.you are a big fool, Iti akwu |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by vanitty: 4:07pm On Dec 25, 2012 |
dayokanu: Na wa oo LMAO @ poster This is another form of abuse. Think! |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Ezeego1(m): 5:32pm On Dec 25, 2012 |
BENJ |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by slimchi2k2(m): 6:22pm On Dec 25, 2012 |
Kobojunkie:i do agree with u,but did u think that divorce is the solution,seperating the kids,i think in issue like this our focus first should be how the family we move on in peace,i ask u tips how such a person can change,u keep insultin me,if the wife in question is ur sister u just tell her to divorce, if there's peace in that family did u think the man we spit on her,he abuse the woman yes everybody is against it,but can it change the man,no before i will advise person in this kind of issue to sake for divorce, i will try to know cause of the problem,there most be big problem in that family disagreement,hatred,meybe cheatin, am against spit on who ever,but this's husband and wife if i tell her to divorce am i goin to marry her,she tell us her husband use to spit on her yes we all against that,i think next should be the tips how to change the man in question to make the family move on,or woman why ur husband use to spit on u,maybe the man have Psychological problem |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by slimchi2k2(m): 6:35pm On Dec 25, 2012 |
Kobojunkie:@Kobojunkie bro\sis i will love to see ur post in polite way,we are here to share ideas ok seriously if there's tips i can use to change an adult pls i'm interest to know waitin to hear from u about the tips tanx merry xmas |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by breathless(m): 4:54pm On Dec 27, 2012 |
@ OP. Uve got a real BAD situation @ hand. Na play, na play LABA-LABA take dey enter bush o. I pray God 2 give u wisdom and understanding 2 handle dis well. 4 now, simply avoid confrontations, arguements, quarrels etc wt him. Answer him sir wenever he calls u, even wen he provokes u, take 3 long breathe, smile and simply tell him "u`re a fine man wt a good heart" (whether na true or not). He`ll one day realize he`s so immature and childish and probably apologise. U`ll succeed. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by SAFO(m): 5:11pm On Dec 27, 2012 |
My wife tried that once and once only early on in our relationship during a heated argument. See me see stars, Kai. My mind went blank and I d@mn near hit her with a closed fist, although I did pepper her face with the hottest slap you can ever imagine. Needless to say she never tried that shyte again. Matter of fact anytime we argue now, she knows not to really set my temper off. |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Princess1982(f): 5:23pm On Dec 27, 2012 |
SAFO: My wife tried that once and once only early on in our relationship during a heated argument. See me see stars, Kai. My mind went blank and I d@mn near hit her with a closed fist, although I did pepper her face with the hottest slap you can ever imagine.I don't blame you because, if somebody spit on me I would of had the same reaction. |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by slimchi2k2(m): 5:34pm On Dec 27, 2012 |
breathless: @ OP. Uve got a real BAD situation @ hand. Na play, na play LABA-LABA take dey enter bush o. I pray God 2 give u wisdom and understanding 2 handle dis well. 4 now, simply avoid confrontations, arguements, quarrels etc wt him. Answer him sir wenever he calls u, even wen he provokes u, take 3 long breathe, smile and simply tell him "u`re a fine man wt a good heart" (whether na true or not).WELL SAID, |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by slimchi2k2(m): 5:47pm On Dec 27, 2012 |
SAFO: My wife tried that once and once only early on in our relationship during a heated argument. See me see stars, Kai. My mind went blank and I d@mn near hit her with a closed fist, although I did pepper her face with the hottest slap you can ever imagine. can ur wife beat u if u are the one spit on her face |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 6:54pm On Dec 27, 2012 |
dayokanu: Na wa oo My elder brother use to bite his wife when they start their wahala! The kids are no different cos they bite themselves when the war starts. The wife does nothing, me I don tire to talk, once the fight starts, I watch from angle. See biting galore! I guess we have judas in my family. Biting judas. At post, am sure your kids have taken over ( if you have any). You alone have to stop the abuse. |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by SAFO(m): 6:59pm On Dec 27, 2012 |
Princess1982: I don't blame you because, if somebody spit on me I would of had the same reaction. Thanks, and i'm definitely the type of person that doesn't condone hitting a female. For me to do that I had really reached my limit. slimchi2k2: I would never spit on another person..... Period. To me that's even worse than hitting. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by Nobody: 8:44pm On Dec 27, 2012 |
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Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by babymama3: 2:28am On Dec 28, 2012 |
tarababy: I have been married to my hubby for 5 years now.For the past two years anytime we have disagreement or quarrel,he would spit on my face.I have had a heart to heart discussion with him to stop this disgraceful habit and he promised to stop but still did it four days ago. After the above I was waiting to hear more then you told us tarababy: I am still waiting to hear more Tell us how many times he has slapped ,pushed and beaten you up How many lies you have told to cover up the bruises,you fell down the stairs or hit a door etc Girlfriend stop being economical with the truth The signs are all over It could be your funeral one day Get out and get out fast A word is enough for the wise A man with wicked killer instincts who would not attend anger management classes or counseling and would not listen to the advise of anyone including your own mother in her pain of seeing her child abused. You are losing yourself esteem daily by accepting to live this way.it is up to you to put an end to it since he can't. Get out fast! Marriage is not a do or die 5 Likes |
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