₦airaland Forum

binger: Imagine! OP,so u're 'running temperatures' becos people shower praises on a girl u find fugly? Haven't u heard that ''beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder''? #smh

jessybarbie: Don't really know for her but don't you think the question is irrelevant? This issue isn't a joke

jessybarbie: Am still very much around

Idowuogbo: expert! safo safo!

jessybarbie: Hello Nairalanders, a friend came to me with this issue so I decided to share it with you guys so as to get more candid advise.

I have two men in my life, I started dating one who has been a friend for a long time, he has been so great even before we started dating, I said yes to dating him cos I was so lonely and like him a lot therefore I thought everything would be alright.

Two months into the relationship, a guy I know who actually lives close to my house started paying mﻉ compliments and saying he liked me, it all started like a joke and I didn't take him serious as I thought it all a thing of play, as time went by I noticed he was serious and before I knew it I fell in love with him.

Its been eight months since I started dating the 2nd guy without ending it with the 1st guy who has also been great, though I don't see him(first guy) often and have tried breaking up with him 3 times, he just wouldn't let go, the 2nd guy knows about the 1st guy but he said at first that he doesn't mind but now he's so jealous and wants me to choose, he says its okay if I decide to be with the 1st guy but that he loves me still (which is obvious), though it would hurt him but he'll survive.

Now I'm having a difficult time choosing especially since the first guy did nothing wrong instead he is even loving me more, though he doesn't know there's a 2nd guy. I haven't slept with the 1st guy but have with the 2nd , I'm sure I Lo√e the 2nd guy more but I also like the 1st, I just don't know how ‎​ to break up with the 1st one without hurting him and sometimes I get so confused cos the 1st one is more caring,handsome, soft hearted and more financially buoyant than the 2nd one, the 2nd has anger issues and it seems like the world will end when he gets angry plus he likes to revenge yet he is still loving. I have a problem that requires money, I and the 2nd guy can't shoulder it alone, I want to ask the 1st guy to help and its making it harder to break up with him coupled with the truth that I don't wanna hurt him but I really need the money .

The 1st guy is always talking about the future and marriage, initially the 2nd one made it clear that he just wanted to date me cos he likes me ‎ now he sounds a lot like the 1st guy as regards the future and marriage, he says with the way he feels now about ‎​​me, he'd marry me ‎right away if everything was in place.

P.S I know I shouldn't be double dating but I just can't explain how ‎​it got this far, I thought I'd end it with one before it gets complicated now I don't know what to do as both men are really crazy about me.

ifyalways: When the people are hungry who cares about a zoo?
How many Nigerians would pay to visit a zoo?

The only problem is the govt. Wasting. Funds on projects they can't maintain.

Blyss: Aaaaaand... another one.

Am just me: Can you be friends with your spouse's ex?

Osareime: What if Jakata lied to Tony about his relationship with Chioma? It's possible he was trying to get Chioma and she didn't agree. Then he lied to Tony about getting it.

Except Tony saw it happen with his own eyes. Jakata may have lied to Tony and sometimes girls lie to their boyfriends about admirers.

This has happened to someone I know. A boy was asking her out and she visited him once. This guy went ahead to tell his friends he did her when that did not happen.

Then someone he told said it to her boyfriend. It caused a big fight oh.

Some men can be useless especially when they chase a girl and get nothing.

He should ask Chioma.
On the other hand she mite be guilty as hell.

Idowuogbo: [/b]

awwww...... na igbo gal u marry? hahahahhahahahahha! i likey ur style sir! cute!