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Romance / Re: What Are Ur Views About These Guys. by SAFO(m): 12:41pm On Jan 28, 2013
binger: Imagine! OP,so u're 'running temperatures' becos people shower praises on a girl u find fugly? Haven't u heard that ''beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder''? #smh


Binger did you even read the original post? grin
Romance / Re: Am I Over Reacting? by SAFO(m): 12:18pm On Jan 28, 2013
Princess I fully understand what you're dealing with. On this occasion though it might be in your best interest to at least come to some sort of middle ground with your fiancé. When you marry a Nigerian man you're also marrying his extended family as well. I'm not saying you should front the whole 2 weeks but at least make a candid effort to ease yourself into his family/culture.

If it's any motivation, do it for the ring. $17 thousand trillion cut does not come along that often. wink

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Romance / Re: Urgent Advise Needed (in A Love Triangle) by SAFO(m): 11:55am On Jan 28, 2013
Well, in conclusion it's only fair that she comes clean to guy #1 about what she's been doing.

It's easy for some of you to say, choose guy #1 but honestly it should be his choice whether he wants to stay with her. Let him have all the information about her exploits and then if he decides to stay with her, nah his own wahala.

The only way she can redeem herself is by coming clean.
Romance / Re: I'm On The Fence by SAFO(m): 5:34pm On Jan 27, 2013
OP's mind:


Romance / Re: Do Ladies Appreciate This In Men? by SAFO(m): 5:32pm On Jan 27, 2013
mondi_cheeks: 97.2% of the ones u have met alone

you know i was being facetious right? ..... but money does help
Romance / Re: Urgent Advise Needed (in A Love Triangle) by SAFO(m): 5:28pm On Jan 27, 2013
jessybarbie:
Don't really know for her but don't you think the question is irrelevant? This issue isn't a joke

I think it's a viable question, that way we can judge what type of character she has.
Romance / Re: Do Ladies Appreciate This In Men? by SAFO(m): 5:24pm On Jan 27, 2013
mondi_cheeks: of course they do

grin grin grin

OP on serious note,not all women are after your money.

Although 97.2% probably are
Romance / Re: Urgent Advise Needed (in A Love Triangle) by SAFO(m): 5:07pm On Jan 27, 2013
jessybarbie:
Am still very much around

u didn't answer the question. Is it abortion?
Romance / Re: Am I Right To Be Jealous Because Of This? by SAFO(m): 5:00pm On Jan 27, 2013
Could be worse, she's only half gay undecided
Romance / Re: Urgent Advise Needed (in A Love Triangle) by SAFO(m): 4:52pm On Jan 27, 2013
Mynd_44:
Huh?

I was referring to your no comment, but you already spoke your own so nevamind.
Romance / Re: Urgent Advise Needed (in A Love Triangle) by SAFO(m): 4:51pm On Jan 27, 2013
Idowuogbo:
expert! safo safo! grin grin

nah the 1st thing came to mind grin

if it's true (which i believe) this girl is wicked o
Romance / Re: Urgent Advise Needed (in A Love Triangle) by SAFO(m): 4:48pm On Jan 27, 2013
Mynd always the diplomat angry
Romance / Re: Urgent Advise Needed (in A Love Triangle) by SAFO(m): 4:41pm On Jan 27, 2013
jessybarbie: Hello Nairalanders, a friend came to me with this issue so I decided to share it with you guys so as to get more candid advise.

I have two men in my life, I started dating one who has been a friend for a long time, he has been so great even before we started dating, I said yes to dating him cos I was so lonely and like him a lot therefore I thought everything would be alright.

Two months into the relationship, a guy I know who actually lives close to my house started paying mﻉ compliments and saying he liked me, it all started like a joke and I didn't take him serious as I thought it all a thing of play, as time went by I noticed he was serious and before I knew it I fell in love with him.

Its been eight months since I started dating the 2nd guy without ending it with the 1st guy who has also been great, though I don't see him(first guy) often and have tried breaking up with him 3 times, he just wouldn't let go, the 2nd guy knows about the 1st guy but he said at first that he doesn't mind but now he's so jealous and wants me to choose, he says its okay if I decide to be with the 1st guy but that he loves me still (which is obvious), though it would hurt him but he'll survive.

Now I'm having a difficult time choosing especially since the first guy did nothing wrong instead he is even loving me more, though he doesn't know there's a 2nd guy. I haven't slept with the 1st guy but have with the 2nd , I'm sure I Lo√e the 2nd guy more but I also like the 1st, I just don't know how ‎​ to break up with the 1st one without hurting him and sometimes I get so confused cos the 1st one is more caring,handsome, soft hearted and more financially buoyant than the 2nd one, the 2nd has anger issues and it seems like the world will end when he gets angry plus he likes to revenge yet he is still loving. I have a problem that requires money, I and the 2nd guy can't shoulder it alone, I want to ask the 1st guy to help and its making it harder to break up with him coupled with the truth that I don't wanna hurt him but I really need the money .

The 1st guy is always talking about the future and marriage, initially the 2nd one made it clear that he just wanted to date me cos he likes me ‎ now he sounds a lot like the 1st guy as regards the future and marriage, he says with the way he feels now about ‎​​me, he'd marry me ‎right away if everything was in place.

P.S I know I shouldn't be double dating but I just can't explain how ‎​it got this far, I thought I'd end it with one before it gets complicated now I don't know what to do as both men are really crazy about me.

The bolded made me laugh so hard.

Is it abortion? grin
Gaming / Re: What Game Are You Currently Playing? by SAFO(m): 3:44pm On Jan 25, 2013
Just a heads up for those playing Black Ops 2 online.

This weekend is double XP weekend, so you know what that means.
Romance / Re: What He Said To Make Her Agree To Be His Girlfriend! by SAFO(m): 2:31pm On Jan 25, 2013
Sounds contrived and way too old fashioned. Do ladies still like this movie style type approach?

Just be yourself I say
Culture / Re: Animal Cruelty by SAFO(m): 1:58pm On Jan 25, 2013
ifyalways: When the people are hungry who cares about a zoo?
How many Nigerians would pay to visit a zoo?

The only problem is the govt. Wasting. Funds on projects they can't maintain.

QFT

Although I believe the appropriated funds were there, they were just chopped by crooked individuals.
Romance / Re: Nigerian Men by SAFO(m): 7:43pm On Jan 24, 2013
tpia@:
If he has no papers then get him the papers, or dont you love him?

Is it papers that will separate you?

Cosigned........ Papers FTW.
Gaming / Re: Online Gaming Might Finally Be Viable In Nigeria by SAFO(m): 4:08pm On Jan 24, 2013
This is good news. I'm planning a trip to Nja this summer and it'll be great to get some online gaming in while I'm there.

Although I assumed Lagos already had good pings and download speeds.
Gaming / Re: What Is Your Top 3 All Time Favorite Video Game by SAFO(m): 3:40pm On Jan 24, 2013
1. Legend of Zelda Ocarina of time (Nintendo 64)
2. GTA San Andreas (ps2)
3. Contra III (snes) (Left, right, left, right, up, down, up down, A, B, A, B, start grin)
Few others

Shadowrun (snes) - the story of Jake Armitage in a cyber futuristic vampire slaying world. Been a while since I played it but this is definitely a classic.

MVP 05 (ps2) - arguably the best baseball game ever made. You can play and develop prospects from minor league affiliates and the franchise mode is ridiculously in depth. You can even set prices for concessions like hot dogs and beers

Midnight Club 3 Dub edition (ps2)- one of the best arcade racers ever with insane car customizations.
Culture / Re: American Women That Marry Nigerian Men by SAFO(m): 1:08pm On Jan 24, 2013
Blyss:

Aaaaaand... another one.


grin grin grin

They seem to pop up at 6 mth intervals.
Romance / Re: Please Help I'm In Trouble by SAFO(m): 2:42pm On Jan 23, 2013
Which kind yeye thread be dis?

Is random fling more Important than your livelihood, mscheww angry
Culture / Re: Studies Show That Black People Are Genetically Programmed To Be Slaves! by SAFO(m): 10:47am On Jan 23, 2013
I'm still waiting on your "studies"

..... and no, quoting an excerpt from a movie does not count lol

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Romance / Re: Guyz : D First Time A Lady Toast U, How Do U Feel? by SAFO(m): 3:10am On Jan 23, 2013

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Culture / Re: American(black And White) Different Accent. by SAFO(m): 1:32pm On Jan 22, 2013
I consider myself Nigerian regardless that my mom is AA but I fully understand where you're coming from.

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Family / Re: Can You Be Friends With Your Spouse's Ex? by SAFO(m): 11:46am On Jan 20, 2013
Am just me: Can you be friends with your spouse's ex?

Romance / Re: Man Stays In Tree For 9-months After Wife Refuses To Apologize by SAFO(m): 3:32pm On Jan 17, 2013
This gives new meaning to "the height of stupidity"

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Romance / Re: The Unfortunate News Charles My Friend Heard This Night by SAFO(m): 3:20pm On Jan 17, 2013
Osareime: What if Jakata lied to Tony about his relationship with Chioma? It's possible he was trying to get Chioma and she didn't agree. Then he lied to Tony about getting it.

Except Tony saw it happen with his own eyes. Jakata may have lied to Tony and sometimes girls lie to their boyfriends about admirers.

This has happened to someone I know. A boy was asking her out and she visited him once. This guy went ahead to tell his friends he did her when that did not happen.

Then someone he told said it to her boyfriend. It caused a big fight oh.

Some men can be useless especially when they chase a girl and get nothing.

He should ask Chioma.
On the other hand she mite be guilty as hell.

Fake story but I agree with you. Some guys will be forming who they slept with......

But,. Then I thought if Jakata had been lying all along, why would Chioma say that he was her cousin. That would be kinda weird that he would brag about sleeping with his cousin.

So conclusively we can deduct that Chioma is guilty, even though it's a fake story.
Romance / Re: How Did You Propose To Her, Or, How Do You Want Him To Propose To You by SAFO(m): 1:22pm On Jan 17, 2013
Idowuogbo: [/b]

awwww...... na igbo gal u marry? hahahahhahahahahha! i likey ur style sir! cute!

Hehee, she's creole from Louisiana but maybe her ancestors are descendant igbo...... I kid I kid grin grin

Thanks sis, I try now.
Romance / Re: How Did You Propose To Her, Or, How Do You Want Him To Propose To You by SAFO(m): 1:06pm On Jan 17, 2013
I tried to be a little creative when I proposed. I sent my wife a text,saying that it was urgent she meet me at my house when she gets off work. Now mind you I'm a frugal person, I don't believe in spending unecessarily for what most would consider "wants". She would always joke around with me and say things like I'm so cheap or that I'll carry all my money with me to the grave.

So anyways, when she showed up I had everything set up in my apartment like it was meant to be a romantic nite but with sort of a twist. I had fast food setup on the table with paper napkins and plastic cups. Had those cheap candles you can get from the dollar store, soft music in the background. I threw bits of tissue paper on the floor to simulate roses. Basically it was like a real cheap date. grin Her first reaction was like wtf, I know you're not trying to romance me grin So while we're eating I get down on one knee and grabbed her hand. You shouldve seen how her eyes lighted up lol. She was smiling from ear to ear before I could even say anything.

I said; baby I don't have much but all that I have in this world is yours if you'll take me. I reached in my pocket and pulled out a bag, opened the bag and in it was one of those little candy rings you know the type you can suck on..... Chei, come see the look of utter disgust grin I put it on her finger and said, I know it's not much but baby will you marry me. All the while she was speechless but she was nodding her head. I then reached in the other pocket and pulled out a tiffany box with a platinum ring encrusted with diamonds (my people this one no cheap ooo, I had been saving for at least a year).

When she finally noticed the real ring, o boy talk about somersaults and cartwheels around the house like she was qualifying for the Olympics gymnastics team .grin grin grin

Funny thing though, years after we were married, she said that the very next day she went straight to the jewelry store to have it tested and appraised. Not that she didn't believe it, but that she knows me grin grin we still have a good laugh about It till this day.

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Romance / Re: Blend Of Yoruba Culture And Westernization (picture) by SAFO(m): 11:17am On Jan 17, 2013
Dude in the blue shirt: "wtf..... dis nigga got a drum"
Romance / Re: Read Me ! Read Me !! Read Me !!! by SAFO(m): 11:11am On Jan 17, 2013
OP, on sum real ish though that's a lotta hate for one person.

Hopefully you can find that one person that makes u happy. Best of luck hun.

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