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Godmystrength: the only part with question mark is the question i asked you.
The other parts are my opinion and that was why i separated them from the question i directed to you. What else do you want? Please leave me alone.

Now we can conclude they are not doing you that badly in your village. So your "opinion" was to strawman me?

BananaBender: Dickturd, what rules??

Boo hoo, l will still get another

person, you arsse will be left.

If not voluntarily, it would be involuntary as Fisk University girls only date jail-bound guys.

*Sings like Akon*

He got locked up. They wouldn't let him out.

BananaBender: And the above is coming from a poverty-stricken-hood-roach who can't get a chick because he is fugly.

This is coming from a person that used to put another girl's pix up as hers only for someone to out her on NL and we can see from her real pix how ugly she is?

BananaBender: Still doesn't change the fact that you're an ugly baboon

This is coming from a hoodrat who' boyfriends are ebonics-speakers with tattoos all over their face?

BananaBender: Actually the way you reason is your problem!

I care how they add weight because it matters. Women in general are obsessed about their looks. I guess I'm surrounded by so many healthy eating, calories counting freaks. I don't understand the concept of just "letting yourself go".

@highlighted: Nigga, what?? You're saying the same fvcking thing. I guess that is why you have numerous baby mamas (they couldn't lose the baby weight)

If a woman "opens her eyes" and gets with a man that shares the same opinion as you, then I guess your ultimatum wouldn't come as a shock.

Btw, do not get it twisted. I will never lay with a man with a pot belly because I find them repulsive but if my husband grows one overnight, I won't tell him to lose it or leave. I'll simply do whatever I can to encourage losing weight even if it involves me doing the cooking for him so I can monitor what goes into his mouth.

Losing baby weight takes time for some women and they already struggle with it, so just running around the house like a gorilla on heat demanding she loses the weight or leave just makes you appear extremely shallow to me. How do you expect to encourage someone to lose weight when all you do is make them feel even more insecure about their looks.

You better not reply me with, "I am taking about a woman that doesn't want to lose weight" because that only reflects badly on you. It shows you make poor decisions by choosing to marry someone that doesn't share the same values as you (especially something you consider so critical and could end your marriage)

After all this moronic whine about rules, he would still leave you.

BananaBender: BWahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

Look @ this bald-headed-pot-bellied man talking. Stop pls!

You??!!! hahahahahahahahaha

MRbrownJAY can talk because he clearly works on his body. You should just shut your mouth pls.

Fisk, you know men of your hoodrat and university calibre are the worst?

Na single motherhood be that for you when they cannot rob a liquor store to take care of baby.

Godmystrength: I only asked you one question which iswetin concern me with all the rest of your stories? Abi you didn't see the spaces (paragraphs) between

Iwo lo ma strawman Saga Saga? (Na you go strawman Saga Saga?) whatever that means... Please keep your shyt to yourself. Thank you.

So na ghost type the rest of your post?

MRbrownJAY: who cares how what why the weight is added? the way you reason is the root of the problem. these women shouldnt lose weight to keep their man, they should lose weight to stay attractive to the person they married, to still be DESIRABLE to the man they married so that they can continue having a fulfilling union. this union was started on that physical attraction, why would you think that suddenly it shouldnt matter?! the fact that you would believe that a man would love you, regardless of how you end up looking, is your 1st fail on this issue.

everything you do in a union will dictate how your partner would feel about you.... thinking that you can LOOK/ACT/REASON any damn way you please, and that your spouse would love you regardless is foolishness. there are criteria that you MUST respect, if you want to stay happily married. physical/emotional ATTRACTION are some of these criteria.

Don't mind her.

Let her continue living in her delusion that it is her birthright for any man to fancy her or stay with her irrespective of whatever she is or does.

She will face a dumping galore in her lifetime except she ends up with and selects weak men or religious men who think they have some duty to some yeye God.

Godmystrength: Are you now saying that since a man has the right to complain or even leave his wife that is adding weight because she no longer looks like the woman he married even if the weight adding is not her fault/doing, then a woman is also justified to abandon her husband when he becomes broke since he is no longer the rich/wealthy guy he married?

A man wants a pretty/beautiful/dashing wife after all like my boss will say ''they won't reduce money from the bride price if she is not good looking enough''. He sees ugly girls but refuse to marry them. He finds his dream woman and clings to her. No problem with that. Everything is on track.

A woman wants a rich/wealthy guy after all nobody came to this world to suffer. Poor guys come to marry her but she refuses. She sees her dream man and clings to him then the name calling will start.

No 1, there is weight adding that is not someone's fault. And there is weight adding that is someone's fault. Don't try that shyt with Sagamu.

No 2, I am sure I don't need to give justification to most women to dump men they are not interested in anymore. They are experts in doing so if they can move to better and safer things. They would just come up with some flimsy excuse like "He is not paying me enough attention" "We are always fighting [true, but this is due to her tactical moves to start fights every time shortly before the break-up]" and then you see the real men (in their pretentious "wisdom" ) start supporting her and blaming him for not paying her attention or not being "mature enough" to handle a woman.

Godmystrength: Men(even the ugly ones) want to marry beautiful girls, women want to marry rich men so why is it that when you hear a woman desires a rich man, BP will rise and will start asking if the girl herself is rich bla bla bla......

No 3, now please show me where I complained a woman desires a rich man.

O fe strawman Saga Saga? (You want to strawman Saga Saga?)

JEITO: I clap for you chairman. But marriage is a different type of school and you've not shown this same brilliance in it I must say..

Yeah, marriage is a type of institution you graduate into after people like andromida have schooled you to think women have no responsibility and all faults should be blamed on the man; which is best done by challenging his masculinity?

I see.

Thank God, I no go such school to then show the "brilliance" of such pedagogy.

alaladakosta: Better things need to be done back home first.let them build their country themself

Illiterate!

maynation: Yoruba is Taking over

Moronic person!

JEITO: Moral lesson for all of you that want to marry because of those things that meet the eye; you may end becoming like this man.

Moral lesson for all those that are not yet mentally and psychologically matured, yet want to enter into marriage; you might end up like this man

Moral lesson for all of you that are driven by passion(what we can call initial gra gra in marriage) and forget that slowly the drive fades away, you might become like this man

Moral lesson for all those that won't take my counsel serious; you might end up starting a similar thread

Real Man!

Andromida's student.

Top of that class of graduating set of year 2009.

215keji: eshe gan lol ill rmember to bother you in case its not here by then hope u dont mind lol

Oya, go reply my email make I send am.

MRbrownJAY: dem force the men to stay with these baby whales?

bro, men or women, anyone who put on 30kg in the wrong places should be given a stern warning (in order to get their act together): LOSE IT OR GET LOST!!

Unfortunately, women are not primarily after looks.

When a man gets a warning is when the money he spends on her or gives her falls by 30% and she still has options of decent-looking toasters with deeper pockets, who are ready to commit, care about her, respect her, is tall enough, finished university, has a good job, loves his mother, his mother is not a witch, has no babymama or at least the babymama is out of the picture or remarried, has not more than 2 kids but preferably none, can dress nicely, smells nice, can take her worst BS and still smile at her, says 'I love you' everyday or at least 3 times a week, can cook and is willing to share domestics blah blah blah blah blah.

My point is, women's attraction to men is more complex and not the same.

We want them to look good, have a decent personality, take care of domestics and know when to shut the fck up.

Ours is simple A B C D when seeking a partner. Everything else is secondary.

We have simple needs, they have complex needs.

So, really, she needs to stay in decent shape or put the junk in good trunks to satisfy the 'good looks' requirement.

The looks is a symbol of his hard work.

Why will I work hard to be a millionaire and then drive a danfo bus, when my millions can get me a good Ferrari (Lepa) or Bentley (Orobo)?

OmoEziokwu: Lol! One important bit to take away is the attention seeking instinct of women.

You know how it is when you're getting bombarded by obnoxious, terrible advertisements all over the place, and all you can think is "ugh, who thought it would be a good idea to market their product this way? No one's going to buy that if they use that irritating sale technique."

The point isn't to make you like it. The point is to get your attention, get the product's name in your brain, make sure you know it exists, etc.

That's exactly how women are. When you see women being dramatic sluts saying and doing all the insane and irrational things they do, all they're doing is saying "LOOK AT ME! LOOK AT ME!", hoping that a f-u-c-k---hungry alpha will see something he likes.

As they say in the marketing world, there's no such thing as bad publicity.

It's difficult for me to quote first before typing when I'm doing so on a mobile phone just like now. Just thought I should point that out.

The equivalent of men's desperation and high desire for sex in women is their desire to be adored and noticed.

The way most guys would happily hit it and move on with no strings is the same way most girls will happily absorb attention and move on.

The minute young boys learn that and stop giving them too much attention without getting some honey in return, the better for the boys.

Blackteeth: You sound badly stung. Am sorry. I told you ain't ready for this now your arse is burnt.
Am done with dismantling you and your brother. MISSION ACCOMPLISHED.

person reptile, you got intellectually pummeled!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V7Brh9iWajc

MRbrownJAY: ^^^sadly the men are not better, just look at how many get "pregnant looking" pot bellies........ hideous!

Godmystrength: and bald head when they had thick and curly hair before marriage.

Dem force the women to stay with them?

Trust most women to:

a) Give rubbish selfish advice.

b) Blame the man for the wrong.



The original storyteller should know that the wife has failed in her responsibilities to him.

He has to decide whether he is happy to be in jail for the rest of his life and live the rest of his life well.

30kg in 12 years is like termination/nullification of contract if the 30kg is not stored in the right areas.

This is a better thread for the topic:

https://www.nairaland.com/387020/women-what-kind-man-go

Which one be the yeye cartoons.

SamSara01: Friday 5th of September will make it exactly 3 months I passed out of service. I'm a 1st class holder and the best graduating student of my department and faculty in a reputable public university in the south-west but I'm currently unemployed. Of course, my cause of worry does not major on being currently unemployed, but majors on how the hope of getting a job soon seems so deem. More worrying is how professionals, lecturers, friends, family and everyone else alike kept and keep singing to my hear how so easy it will be for people like me to secure not just a job but a very good job. As it is, I don't seem better off than someone who spent every single night at a night club while I was burying my head in books during my school days. How do I motivate an aspiring student who thinks what I'm carrying is the gateway to success? If this has been the tale of people like me, then 1st class honour has truly been over-hyped in Nigeria.

You need to review your application capabilities and interview skills.

If you have a first class degree from any of Nigeria's Top 10 or so universities and can't get a job, then majority of the blame lies with you.

Samueldo: MAIDUGURI – No fewer than 45 suspected members of Boko Haram sect have been killed in an encounter with military troops when the terrorists attempted to invade and take over Bama Local Government Area of Borno State.
Over 30 of the insurgents were also injured in the fierce battle with security operatives that lasted for over 5 hours.
The incident according to sources started in the early hours ofMondayat about5:30am.
This is even as an unconfirmed report revealed that another group of the insurgents were sightedon Mondayaround Mafa Local Government Area and Kayamula villages of Konduga Local Government Area near Maiduguri metropolis, but the ones sighted around Kayamula village were killed by military troops, while those around Mafa were suspected to be making frantic effort to enter the metropolis.
Bama is about 76 kilometres drive and south east of Maiduguri, the state capital which had witnessed series of deadly attacks by suspected terrorists.
A competent source said, “the insurgents stormed the town through Bama-Banki-Gwoza Road but were intercepted by gallant military troops near the Bama Mobile Police Unit located about 5 kilometers away from Bama town.
The Boko Haram insurgents were said to have tactically attempted to enter Bama town in convoy of military vehicles and motorcycles wearing military uniform armed with sophisticated weapons and local Improved Explosive Devices (IEDs).

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2014/09/45-boko-haram-members-killed-army-repel-attack-bama/

Nigerian Military Militants and Aso Rock have sent some brown envelopes to Vanguard Newspaper editors.

Kill Boko Haram ko, Terrified of Boko Haram ni.

Sixix:

You will meet your match someday

Not possible now.

As I get older, I have gone pass that point and keep on going further away wey some girl fit dey shakara me.

Na when I dey young wey all that fit happen.

My philosophy now is: If I am not in control, she can fck off.

I am not a real man and I look after No 1 very well. I am not on this Earth to live my life pleasing anyone like it is a duty.

If she is not making me happy, she gas to go!

Ksslib: It means--------- She already knows what you want to say to her, but she's irritated by how you're beating around the bush like she's dumb and doesnt know already..

This might be another possibility.

justyinka: Dear All,

please assist me to answer this question, what do i do when a lady tell me go straight to the point.

different opinion are welcome.

Then beat about the bush.








Yep! That is what you do.

Never take what girls say seriously. Most of the time, it is an indirect, sub-conscious test. They want to see if you are a lapdog and if you fail the test, you get sacked.

Do the opposite of what they are telling you, and you will have them hooked and intrigued.

If she says "Go straight to the point", then jovially "Beat about the bush" teasing her for a while. Show her she does not dictate or tell you what you should do.

It might sound crazy and illogical, but it is the illogical that normally works with girls.

The younger the girl, the better the opposite reaction to her request works.

If you don't believe me, do a quick reminiscent analysis:

1) Look at your past and analyse the outcome of the times you have ever done what a girl wants you to do or you think she would want (that is, your typical logical approach to trying to woo or please a woman).

What was the outcome? Where you not sacked in the end? If you were not sacked, did you not work harder than you should?

2) Now look at the response of most guys on this thread.

Are they not taking the logical approach? Does that not give you a hint of why only a few select guys tend to pull all the women while most blokes are jonesers till the girls become pass their peak and then offer them the remnants to marry?

Some guys spend a major part of their lives chasing and working hard to get girls, while the same girls are working hard and chasing a guy.

Lesson: Do what majority of guys would not do and you will pull more.

McWhillion: Romantic guy, just like me.

Real Man!

Blackteeth: Since you ain't saying anything new that hasnt been addressed before and you are now resorting to LIES then MISSION ACCOMPLISHED.
I ain't your mate bro. Come to me let me spare you some superior brain cells for good reasoning.
Am done with you and don't expect any more replies cos I can't keep chatting with a dumbfucktard. Its just useless.

You are a cretinous person!

I am lying on you that you said Patience is intelligent?

I am lying on you that you claimed to know her motive without even knowing?

You got PUMMELED!

Blackteeth: I told you am now fully convinced that you are the real DUMBFUUCKTARD. Were you not there when carefreewannbe was asking me of PROOF to show that my opinion is right? And what was the answer I gave her? The earlier you quit replying SHIIT the better for your insanity. You are talking about "intellectual pummeling" when you keep replying retaard and I continuously keep dishing out killer punches


You are still repeating your old destroyed weapons eeh? You think you have actually said something new above? Your ship is sinking and I know you are just desperate to survive at every cost. Just ask for forgiveness and I will forgive you and rescue you into my ship of SUPERIOR REASONING 1 OF THE HIGH SEAS.

You are a cretinous person!

What killer punches?

That you think Patience is equally intelligent as Hilary Clinton?

Or the fact your pulled from your arsse her motive for he stupidity which was like a genius move to you?

Cretinous person!

You got pummeled!

TerryCarr: i produces facts nigga all you do is use insults

You are really a mentally deranged cretinous person.

TerryCarr: correction they left so the Arab nations can kill all the Jews but they failed and now they are stuck in Arab nations who don't give them basics rights

You are a mentally deranged cretinous person.

Hourglass4real: If that was the case,wht do u expect? Since he ws foolish enough to trust such friend,seeing how grievous his mistake was, he probably kept quiet out of shame. He must hav known also that his silly mistake might cost him his innocent wife and kid.

All I'm saying is that all this would hav been avoided if that man stayed in quarantine as directed by the govt.

For that, he should lose his ECOWAS job, but the doctor is a person!

That is the kind of person we allow to become a doctor in Nigeria.

215keji: uncle saga u have to send me thislink abeg help ur little unkown bro lol

Sorry o.

I just checked my email. Will send it soon. (within 3 days)

Blackteeth: I am not saying that my own opinion is right because like I told you earlier, I have not monitored Patience closely to get THE PROOF that can reveal whether Patience is dumb or not. And your opinion calling her a dumb woman is till NOT right considering the reasons I have given you that can give a false impression of dumbness. Its only when a carefully carried out research is conducted on her that we can draw a conclusion whether she is NATURALLY dumb or ARTIFICIALLY dumb caused by EXTERNAL INFLUENCES like lack of education and other reasons I laid out. You can say Patience is ARTIFICIALLY DUMB because she lacks the good upbringing that Hillary Clinton had BUT she is NOT PROVEN to be NATURALLY DUMB.

The Problem you guys have with Patience is just because she CANNOT SPEAK ENGLISH. Assuming Patience speaks excellent English in American accent I don't think you guys will be here saying this nonsense about being dumb. Just be sincere and search yourself. Your mind will definitely tell you MY PROBLEM WITH PATIENCE IS JUST HER ENGLISH.

person, so now you have downgraded to "I am not saying my opinion is right" after my intellectual pummeling?

De ja vu:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cH-K3MU7-fA