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Williamso: @kennygee, If only all my ex's were like you..................................................

[quote author=2s£xy]In order words, her boyfriend should dump her sharply [/quote]I wouldn't even think about it twice.

"Never believe what a woman says, believe what they do".

Cumreal: Okay so this girl invited me over to come and visit her for the day and sleepover at her place. We have been chatting for a few months before then and she has been sending me signals like she likes me, flirting etc also told me that she had broken up with her boyfriend (maybe that's why she was chatting to me). So when i go and visit her the flirting increased and we are on her bed together chilling then i make a move and try to kiss her, and then she begins drama and she tells me she cant do it because she has a boyfriend bla bla and that she is not that type of girl. WTF? My question is why the heck would she invite me over when she knows she has a boyfriend? Also why would she not tell me beforehand that she has a boyfriend. I had the impression she was single based on what she told me. After i left her place back to my place she starts texting me that she misses me!. Is she daft.


I haven't even replied her messages since then.

Yep! Congrats! You just met a typical Nigerian girl.

That is some of them's perception of "wooing" and they would say they want a "romantic guy".

I had this EXACT discussion with El Razur some few weeks ago. It is really part of the "courtship lifecycle with Naija girls" that I have been procrastinating to open a thread on.

She probably expected you to start struggling with her before she finally gives in, so she can claim she was chaste and also use it as emotional weapon later in the relationship (that "I really did not want to do, but you pressured me. Why do you want to leave me?".

I have even joked about it before:

https://www.nairaland.com/316937/what-nairaland-female-members-pictures/93#5323856

I don't engage in such, that is why I find Naija girls a bore and unromantic. They will follow you and play along, coming to you house and with you to bed alone and then when it comes to taking it all off, na WWF Royal Rumble.

I have told several before "Look, I am not a rapist and I am not a wrestler. All these your struggle I am not interested in and is killing my interest" and then I just sleep off. No be by force!

[quote author=ozo_emeka]5. You learn quickly that America is NOT the land of the free and get crammed up with "the rest" so 5 years in you start to fight hard to PROVE you are not like "THEM". You get mad when people say you are "black"

[img]http://static.fjcdn.com/pictures/Black+People+Problems.+This+is+a+repost+but+of+my_906b64_3952559.jpg[/img] [img]http://static4.fjcdn.com/comments/Or+belts+_82040ac9119c9baf304ec6a77f453fec.jpg[/img] https://static.fjcdn.com/pictures/Scumbag_fcacf8_2107372.jpg[/quote]SMH!

I can't stand most of these dumbfuck black Americans that never use their brain but blame their whole live failures on racism.

Ema prince: I taught so too


na wao!
the guy is even showing how less of a man he is.

I can't stand guys like that.

It is not every woman in the world that would want you or like you. If you find one misbehaving, waka pass, change lane. Instead of dragging yourself on the floor.

I am a professional waka-passer and lane-changer.

Chidonsky: really read again

Not a chance in hell will I read it once.

[quote author=2s£xy]A typical bad boy will lay her. Period.


No need for story. Haven't you seen or heard of girls who open up just to make it seem like they have nothing to hide but are truly fvcking whoever they told their current boyfriend?

Was it not here a girl claimed to have 'told' her boyfriend about a guy but she left out the Kisses she had with him? The same person went about to sought the help of you and Ogugua in order to delete the thread after I dealt with her in that thread.

Bro, naija girls are not to be completely trusted and I am sure the OP's boyfriend is aware of that. Many of them still have goose bumps when the meet the 'ex'.

Let me just stop here.[/quote]I have said it several times:

"When a woman stops loving you, you are worse than her shyt!"

https://www.nairaland.com/1436171/black-berry-wahala-wit-girlfriend/9#18135449

Most likely only a girl still madly in love with you would come running to your rescue when you fall ill, after she has broken up with you for cheating on her. If she did not love you, she would probably, at best, wish you well over the phone and give you a layman's advice on what medication to take.

When kasala burst now (metaphorically and intramurally o), she would start claiming she was only "naive" and he seduced her. I have said it before:

"The most frequent defence by women is to transfer blame to the man by claiming to be "naive" and "vulnerable"."

https://www.nairaland.com/1436171/black-berry-wahala-wit-girlfriend/9

Bobo na ma ko fokasibe! (The guy go just fokasibe)

kennygee: Y'all are being mean. I went to see a sick person, i didn't cheat, i didn't lie and i didn't hide it. I am nt getting back with my ex and i don't intend to.

Why do you have to be the one to go and meet him when he is sick?

Abi you omit something wey you suppose tell us ni?

You be Dockita?

Abi you be babalawo?

Chidonsky: @all.Lol..what a great debate about beauty and beign choosy....My pain is we have failed 2 give a proper definition of beauty...LADIES if u think most men who adore ur beauty are alwaz genuine men who will settle down with u hmm i doubt...this is the reason why most guys who are players settle with those unbeautiful ladies as wife,because it's a fact that guys we go 4 a woman with admirable virtues like,hardworking,humble,respectful that posess all it takes 2 keep home and make marriage work...To be choosy is never bad because preferences differs in human resulting 4rm their strive 2 get a better life,a better woman,a better compliment to live their life 2 the fulliest..BEAUTY come in different way,it come in form of neatness,structure,buildup,packaging that appeal 2 d beholder or people involved..Any man that rate beauty as an antidote 4 having a beautiful home,he he he u are on longthing oh...averagely looking our society is a norm 4rm ages 4 ladies 2 spend more time policing their beauty with utmost consciousness...beauty is 1 of a woman selling point is inborn looking at how habitual the practice of beauty has rocked the society...If i may ask hw many ladies do you see talking much on doin something extra ordinary 2 liberate the society?rather you see them in mass piloting d passive trend that don't enhance life general...So called fashion which is now a bait 4 indecency and immorality..Make up beauty that fade in a twinkle of an eye,which also depict fakeness...@op Guys are handsome but what you should have said is that guys are careless about going the extra mile like ladies,though am an advocate of good looking both in neatness and lifestyle....Some girls say they don't worship money but i hope what u say here is exact who you are in real life because u can never outsmart life in contrary...Women try to be real it pays 2 be real..

^^^^ Textspeak plus writing volumes without paragraphs and spacing?

Not a fcking chance in hell I would read it.

kennygee: I know it's wrong to have gone to see my ex and even cook for him bt i was just trying to be nice. I forgot my sun glasses there and i intend to go and get it this evening. When i told my bf about the sun glasses, he said he would drive me to my ex's house to get the glasses. I am jst worried he would make a scene, he isn't replying my texts or dms and he isn't talking to me.

I was going to blame only you before until I saw this.

Are you the only person on Earth your Ex knows? Why do you have to be the one to go and see him when he is sick? Why did you not tell him to call someone else? Stop playing that naivete shyt, girl. You like your Ex and you are keeping in touch JIC.

Now, what kind of insecure guy is this? He is driving a girl somewhere because he is scared of a rival snatching her? Let this guy grow some balls. If he had any sense, he would close lane. Move to the next!

BizBooks: In the government' defense, Aganga said arrangements were being made to manufacture
new cars that would be sold for between N1.2M and N1.5M. The question is: what kind of
brand new car will sell for 1.2M? You can't even get a brand new VW Golf for that price.

Apart from that, how many Nigerians can afford N1.2m?

Why do people have to drive brand new cars? It is not their right to chose used cars?

gazilion: Fools who don't appreciate good things. When it was bad, you never knew about it, now it's been renovated you still cannot thank God for it.

You are a person!

If you don't have standards and high expectations never in your life insult those that have.

Random samples of Naija guys and gals.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4dn_lPs_rzY


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lw3uAqT2iQE

No competition!

Nduwin: she just told u the fact,when we refuse to say our mind now u guys will say we are not being open mindded.

And when we are open-minded, please don't whine.

gboss4sure: Was GEJ living in Lagos or inside the Police College to know the state? The Media has got JOB to do which is to report and expose the rot in the country and it will get fixed. The president can't be everywhere in Nigeria

And when they report why can't the person make sure he ensures it never happens again so that they can report more or don't even have anything to report?

Katsumoto: ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

If all things were equal, you can make that argument. But they aren't.

Its like saying that a big mac should be the same price in all countries but it isn't for a number of reasons - inflation, currency valuation, ease of doing business, etc.

And you forget it is Nigeria - the more expensive it is, the more exclusive it becomes which in an ironic way, increases demand. Some foreigners may struggle to pay that rate but their will be plenty of takers who are Nigerian.

naptu2: Electricity, water, etc. Lack of infrastructure, cost of doing business, etc.

I agree with you guys.

But this hospitality rate is not the only thing that is like that. It is virtually everything in Nigeria.

Just look at the property market. Inferior goods being over-priced.

I know power and other public amenities are expensive in Nigeria but at the same time, labour is far cheaper.

I think it really should depend on the type of industry one operates in. Where are the major cost centers? If major cost centers for the business are in areas where it is very expensive in Nigeria (e.g. electricity, business development) then it would be justified to be more expensive.

That said, in Nigeria, I don't think cost centers/factors are the major determinants of these high cost. It is usually down to 2 things:

1) Low supply vs high demand. Demand that has not previously been met and the market development meeting it is not freely competitive.

2) Creating a perception of "superior goods" in an environment where majority of the rich are not one because of merit or entrepreneurial hard work (hence spend money easily) and an environment which is highly prone to showing off and oppression as a demonstration of self-value. Just as Katsumoto alluded to.

Horus:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oWzGnL0J_fA

[size=15pt]Intercontinental Hotel Lagos[/size]

This is obviously a world class hotel.

Very much like many of the top hotels in the West, some of which I have stayed at mainly due to professional work.

My company used to pay for the accommodation and when I have been out on holidays with my friends, we have booked in places like this before on weekends (hence cheaper).

Normally, the rates when my ex companies used to pay was around the $200 mark, which my firm would still get a discount on because their staff can book it for like 2 months, so the hotels don't want you going anywhere else (i.e. their rivals) as that is steady and guaranteed stream of money at high volume Monday to Friday, so they would even reduce it drastically.

When we book such on weekends, we could easily get prices in the range of $120-$150.

Now, when I saw this, I knew this is Nigeria, it would be impossible for it to make sense. So I checked.

On "special offer", these rooms are of the $360 range.

http://www.ihg.com/intercontinental/hotels/gb/en/lagos/losha/hoteldetail/hotel-packages

I compared with Intercontinental in a Western country, on special offer, and those are of the $260 range.

http://www.ihg.com/intercontinental/hotels/gb/en/kansas-city/mkcha/hoteldetail/hotel-packages

A whole $100 less per night!!!

So what if the Nigerian ones are not on "special offer" nko? Na $500 persin go dey pay every night?

Every time you find something that meets the right standards in Nigeria, they want to charge an arm and a leg for it. It is only for looters, not for many people that work for their money.

https://www.nairaland.com/1424380/what-happened-tinapa/4#17885799

https://www.nairaland.com/1020767/picture-mercy-johnson-red-hair#11846285

How will I carry my head to Nigeria and be paying $360 a night for a room, when I am paying $150 a night for the same quality in the UK?

Lunatic country!

ketoprofen: so, it was GEJ dat kept those univ that way?
U are the f.uckta.rd

You are a person!

Cretinous product of a failed education system.

If GEJ was not busy helping convicted felon loot the country of $1bn and instead pumping that $1bn to the education system would those universities look like this, person?

Nigeria's annual budget for Education (person, that is from primary to university) is less than $2.5bn. $1bn that Etete stole for $20m sale price, with the help of Jonathan and Adoke, would have a significant impact on the system. ASUU would not even be on strike. Your moronic arsse has a cretinous president (a product of a failed education system like you) busy looting and helping others loot your future away and you are daftly defending him.

Cretin! No wonder you will call yourself a "graduate" and you post in textspeak and do not realise you start sentences with capital letters.

texazzpete: Na only God go punish the people praising GEJ here without giving Channels TV the props for making this happen. The policemen would still be living in squalor if not for the Channels TV expose.

So the FG had to be SHAMED into doing something...and that work under duress should now be praised to high heavens?

Don't mind the fucktards!

They are praising a cretinous President that knows nothing.

Not only does the FG have to be shamed, are we saying money was not included in the annual budget of the police college for many years for the maintenance of this place? What happened to those monies? GEJ has no sense to probe, sack and send some people to jail for the looting?

The cretin has probably discarded that wasted money as "normal" and poured new money for a temporary gloss. Come back 10 years from now and you will see the same decay creeping in, and then when we have animals shooting civilians on the streets for not giving them bribe, these same fucktards that are praising GEJ would not know this plays a part in the production system of such animals that we call Nigerian Police.

Wetin be even update, OP?

Andyforte: There was a particular country, am not sure which again. They pulled out of a major soccer event citing problems at home including education and amenities.

I think that is thoughtfulness and responsibility. We can't be having fun when we are not having fun.

Our fucktards would even bid for World Cup, rather than focus on amenities.

That is the reason I still hate Segun Odegbami till today. He is a pure person!

bluuu: its a free world and you can do wat you can choose who or wat you like either gal or guy. afterall its his/her life.


jez my opinion

Well said!

igbo2011: Can you guys blame goodluck johnathon? If he doesn't obey America then Nigeria would get the Libya/Syria treatment.

What treatment did Syria get?

And what does Nigeria need to obey?

^^^^^^^^^^



I don't even drink.

speedyboi: Okay...just because they used me as tool for the ruining, I wanna get it back on track!

Oya all of una wey contributed to the ruining theben, scun, afam4Eva, HBG....Come and make things right!


I pray Sagamite and Nadia won't instigate trouble again .




Let's talk important things. There's one thing Nigerians nd South Africans have in common.

BlackBerry Smartphone Craze

Now I will shut up just for the sake of the thread.

They are easy meat. I will always catch them on another thread since they "has" headaches.

Scun: You are a cretin.
I wasn't expecting you to admit you goofed in public, that will be too much for your ego. Just take note of the correction and move on, I am here to educate(or education) you. Product of a failed education system.

Scun: PMSL! He is a Product of a failed education system afterall.
We are here to ''education'' him. Lmao

I can't believe products of Nigerian education system can have the audacity to call some other students "product of a failed education system".

Fucktards, you do not even have grounds to say such to someone who studied in Ghana.

Worse still, as moronic as you both are.

Fucktards:

Can you Excel it?

Courrier it for me.

Scun: You asked speedyboi to ''disproof it'', now
disproof (noun) = refutal (noun)
disprove (verb) = refute(verb)
In other words, you asked speedyboi to ''refutal it''. You are a product of a failed education system.

You are a person.

He came to criticise something, and all he did was he gave a non-directional snide comment. And I told him to engage in the "act of disproving" because snide comments do not represent that act.

Scun: Which makes it a noun and doesn't fit into your sentence.
According to Sagamites Law of Disproof:
He refused to help me = wrong
He refusal to help me = right
Product of a failed education system.

Scun: Please don't, Sagamite needs some schooling.
Imagine him telling someone to
''refutal it'' in public instead of ''refute it''. Hahaha pure comedy.

person, was that what your teacher said?

Or was it Theben? Because you obviously did not get that from me.

speedyboi: That's my boy! Now you are learning! Keep it up. And remember to tell your mummy about those quack Lesotho 'Uk' teachers. I'm sure she will change your school!

Lemme break your sentence down for you Cos I see your dumb brain couldn't decipher the reason why it is correct:
=> None (Not one /No one) of my people has any car.
Ooo...according to Mr sagamite's dictionary, it should be 'Not one/No one of my people have any car'

Super person

Mr He have she have ...

You are a person!

If you were not a product of a failed education system, you would know it is: None of my people have any car.

"Any" is a representation of both singular and plural. If he wanted to apply singularity, he would have used "a".

speedyboi: You mean reverend father? .

I/diot of a person!

You are a person!

Check your dictionary for the meaning of reverence.

rien05: My school cannot be here. It is the biggest university in Subsaharan Africa and d second biggest in Africa and where beauty is at its peak. Ahmadu Bello University. Just ask around and people will surely ascertain.

The OP showed your schools Architecture department drawing room, what do you have to say about that?

Are you saying it is not ABU?

Scun: It's ''disprove'' you prat! Hehehe I am enjoying this.

You are a person! Get your dictionary.

Disproof is the "act of disproving".

Cretinous representation of fucktardism at its purest form.

Theben: I'll deal with both of you

You will run, person.