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^^^^ OP, let me give you my picture to use to open the FB account.

That will dry up his liver and give him complex kia kia.

Cutejay: I am in a confused state right now infact am tired of getting my heart bashed this is the 2nd worst hit.
I need your advice please friends! In one of my post i talked about a guy i was dating who has a kid,after everything i agreed to stay not minding if he has a child or not cuz he pleaded with me not to leave cuz he loves me and wouldnt marry his baby mama cuz he doesnt love her and i truely love him so i agreed.
It started in december last year after the child ish,i checked his facebook account and there was a lady he used in his profile picture,i asked him he said she was just a friend i said ok. Then on the 12th of december he opened a new facebook account without informing me which i later found out, i asked him why he did that and he didnt respond,i let it go. On the 1st of jan this year i logged on to facebook and decided to go through his new account though i am not his friend there i went to his wall,only for me to see the same lady in his profile pic. I got upset and asked him who she was and he said why am i disturbing myself over nothing,untill now he has'nt told me who she is to him. I sent him a text today only for him to call and say i shouldnt worry that nothing is happening but its obvious they have something together and he doesnt want to say i suspect something. My annoyance now is that when we started dating 6months ago i asked him if he had someone and he said no, i asked that cuz i wanted 2 clear my concience and i was single at that time i met him and i just graduated from the uni when i met him he is 34 and i am in my early 20's,i didnt mind the age difference cuz i loved him. I have never cheated on this guy,i trusted him,i was everything but content with him,i never asked him for anything he does it at his will,i was ok with that. Now this is all i get BETRAYAL. Why are men like this? I have decided to let him go though it hurts i will try. I am a good girl but right now i want to be bad cuz my goodness hasn't paid off i dont need anyman around me anymore. Please advice me before i take my final decision.

How is it in his best interest to tell you if he is seeing someone else?

What good does that do for him?

Don't you act in your self-interest?

My advice, be a bad girl, let everyone act in their best interest and negotiate through barter to get a relationship.

Don't hold on to your self-interest and then be looking for manginas to support you in castigating him doing the same.

It seems the fucktardism is prevalent in governance in a few northern states:

https://www.nairaland.com/1151979/zamfara-arranges-husbands-2000-widows

Coolboi05: D govt need 2 do dat 2 prtct d women...doz criticizn d idea,its nt lyk yr region wia hvn illegal sex s just a big deal..

person, what is illegal sex?

Maple: I am entitled to my opinion as much as you are entitled to yours. As a civilized and educated person, I would not come down to your level and resort to verbal abuses simply because I disagree with you.

Because you are entitled to an opinion is not an entitlement to disengage and shut down your brain.

Use it when formulating opinions otherwise you are abusing the freedom of opinion we gave you as a fundamental human right.

Roseart: +1 I have no idea how you rain abuses from the jump and expect someone to listen to you

His power of persuasion he claims

I don't attempt to persuade fucktards like you. I just let them know they are fucktards.

If they are sensible enough to realise and accept they are fucktards, then I start having hope they are actually above the threshold level of being persuaded.

nagoma: One man's meat is another man's poison. The Calabar Carnival to show unclothedness and make merriment consumed 1.5 billion Naira from the State Purse but is hailed as development. No body claims that kano or the north is free of vises and we all recognize that the unit of society is the family bonded by marriage. If I was a reformer ( remember Jonas speech, " the attitude is the problem not corruption" I would find a way of strengthening the family. Having less number of unmarried persons is just one positive step, I hope more will follow.the governor openly encourages othe organizations to help.

And strengthening the family is done by putting together people that have no affection towards each other?

Worse still, these same people are dearth poor ones that cannot afford a wedding? So you strengthen marriage by putting them together to create more kids they cannot take care of?

What do you get? ..................More Almajiris?

That is your idea of strengthening marriage?

Roseart: You are supposed to be educating me so I'm asking for you to show me quantifiable proof that "Sagamite is working"

So instead of boring me with one long useless rant tell me what she did, I want to hear your approved version of events so I can go ask my teacher at my school



If you were being honest you would know I never said anything of the sort, but asking for basic decency from you is like meeting a stri.pper that is not named Candy. Its impossible.

But go ahead.

Matter of fact can you tell me the name of the prestigious institution you attended. I'm sure they would love to hear the "fine" work one of their dropouts alumni has been doing since he left their campus.

And now the person is claiming he did not say you don't teach people by showing them how to do something.

Cretin!

person, it is good you realise your education is poor and I should help your cretinous arsse out.

Now we are getting somewhere. Let me give your moronic arsse a brief and free education, the type you did not get in your failed schools, why your reasoning is that of a person.

Learn the complexity of life and how ideas work by the collision and cooperation of many variables, cretin!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xKv--YA8XJE

Say: Thank you, Sir!

In your life, you will never be able to attend the premier UK uni I attended. Take that as a God-written rule. They don't accept fucktards!

ogugua88: [size=13pt]But na question I ask. I didn't accuse you. Thanks for answering sha lol [/size]

https://www.nairaland.com/638748/why-youll-never-vote-goodluck/9#13692049

Especially the last video.

Sagamite: I was watching American news on Sky, and this New Jersey Governor was being interviewed by CBS. The interview is not yet on youtube, but here is him talking.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1ksLlAi3iIc[/flash]

I was just thinking about the way he speaks, the logic and gravitas is just way above the cretin we call President.

I have always told you people on NL that I am very good at judging people based on just a few utterances.

Just the way I am proficient at spotting fucktards after hearing them speak for a while is the way I spot smart people after hearing them Speak for a while.

The Chris Christie I told you guys about is the guy everyone is saying the Republicans might be putting forward in 2016. The guy is just in a class of his own.

He is way too smart and has gusto. A real leader, not the wussies we see in politics that want to swing wherever the public wind of opinion blows them. He knows what is right and what is wrong and he is willing to stand by right and tell whoever is not happy to go fck him/herself.

Here is this guy attacking his OWN PARTY in the middle of partisan bricksmanship. GUSTO! A MAN! A REAL LEADER! Not a person like the Retardeen Jonathan Nigerians voted for.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xSI7aZjqeHY




And one other thing I like about him is that he suffers no fooools, including moronic questions from journalists! He is not there to be diplomatic to fooools. He shuts them up! Just like me, he is irritated by idiocy and very focused on getting the job done.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mLaD8zMJGb4


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ih2wtUDDCoo


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-FvP6-_6pkU


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tx723c9uBr0


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OLdTwsZ5mPE


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fpGQZPW9KVU


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5hpxj6BD8So


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Os__jAwJ6Wg


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Ga3yT55-zY


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WApUHLjVMHk


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gx0YDFJuHq8


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xv4Etidb6f0


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YnKhG1z7J_A


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aw0aBkt8CPA


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AHS37QpmlyA




This one of his summarises how I would be as a politician. Pure class! Stands out and is himself. Not like the majority person politicians in the West.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iWxZolY4iLU

His strength is that he is very blunt, objective, thoughtful and logical, so he is blessed with immense clarity of thought that is almost impossible to fault and can shut people up.

Roseart: Can you please show proof that your words have worked. Anything a chart? Graph? You claim your words work so show me someone somewhere saying that because of you they did "x".

Tell me what Rosa Parks did?
Tell me what MLK Jr did?

I would like to know

And I never said you cannot be taught certain things in order to learn. But there are certain things in life you have to figure out on your own. I know you have to lie to make your point but keep it to a minimum baboon.

But I doubt you actually be reasonable to answer my questions so you have to twist what I say

You are a person!

Show me the charts that says it has not worked. Make sure your chart considers lagging factors.

Your moronic arsse is getting a bit more confused?

You are still struggling with your dumb assertions that people don't show people things when they teach? Foool!

So which school failed you to the point you claim to be educated in USA but don't know what Rosa Parks did?

I said it that fucktards could not have attended good schools.

Gabbysky: why are you talking like a child na?
do you know where in Abuja exactly the project would be situated?

Where?

Ddaji: Wonderful naija and hypocracy.some idiot think is ok for a state Govt to spendN1.5b for women to walk nicked and promote prostitution and homosexual in the name of cannibal but is wrong for another govt to spend N100m to reduce social problem in the society.
Though in some part of the country they hate anything that will assist and project women.Hmmm no inheritance for women,forcing women to sleep with a corpse of the dead husband,washing of corpse and force women to drink the water,relative forcing widow out of the house to take over the properties.nonsense

You are a person!

How do you compare carnival to some senseless affection-less marriage that would create more unloved kids roaming about the streets begging for meals and looking for kaffirs to kill in the name of religion?

Your dumb arsse does not know a carnival is a protential source of revenue for a state?

Maple: Its strange many people (bunch of educated illiterates)here are criticizing Kano govt initiative rather than commending it for obvious sentimental reasons. We all know the region of the country where widows are forced to sleep with their husbands corpse, drink the water used to washed the husband corpse, swear to oracles, forced to never remarry, shaved their hair, their properties and inheritance confiscated, etc. I am a southerner living in the north, and I have to say that despite the high rate of Illiteracy in the North, Widows and divorcees have more rights and are treated more humanely than in their counterparts in the south. Yet many are too blindfolded by sentiments to see that.

Marriage regardless of what we think, make people to be more responsible. A society with more married people is a more responsible and moral society than that which their are more unmarried people. The number of people in our country who have turned into "public property" and public nuisance because they remained unmarried mostly, because they cant afford the cost of getting married cannot be over-emphasized.

Hence,I refused be blindfolded by sentiments and commend Kano state govt initiative to combat the menace of "public property".

You are a person!

People talk and pull opinions from their arsse.

How has marriage made people in the North more responsible? They work harder? They take better care of their kids? They are more industrious? They do better at safeguarding the future of their next generation? They tolerate other people better? They refrain from producing kids they cannot take care of? Tell me, how is the North more responsible?

Foool, their women have more rights? HOW? You see them in public life? You see them being educated? You see them being executives in jobs? Destitution is a right and humane treatment in your world?

And your moronic arsse is talking about educated illiterates? Pull another opinion from your arsse and let me shove it right back up it!

ogugua88: Sagamite, can you ever comment without abusing someone?

You lie!

https://www.nairaland.com/1097605/beauty-thick-chicks-world-wide/27

2Legit2Qui: So private people like Churchgate shouldnt build, abi dem tell u say na government dey build am?

Beside, a seat of government should not have office complexes?

Oh, it is being built by the private sector? ...................More bearable.

That said, the city master-plan should not be accommodating such extensively. If you want to build landmark commercial complexes to attract businesses, go to other cities.

Abuja is a designated seat of government and the best should be done to keep it strictly that way, not turn it to another Lagos.

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A gleaming 23-story AAA corporate office tower with three levels of underground parking will anchor phase one. The tower will include a prestigious list of prominent tenants in Nigeria as well regional headquarters for leading international corporations.

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Fucktards running the country!

I thought Abuja was created to merely be seat of government? So why are they building top office complexes there? So they can turn it into another Lagos?

Incompetent cretins without vision, remaking the error they claim to be correcting.

olahyra: Let me introduce u to pat sparrow, pirates of Bayelsa

2Legit2Qui: Lets see you na, or your mother.

She and her mother are 15 billion times better looking than the umbrerra you are ogling.

FOOOL!

And these are the healthcare and education system Naija stylee, while the leaders fucktards pray for are buying private jets, choice properties, flying to sane countries for healthcare system and shaggin their daughters and sisters as choice Aristos.

https://www.nairaland.com/1151119/kano-earmarks-n100m-mass-wedding/2#13684654

Fucktards, continue praying for your leaders!

PRRROGRESS!

AH! Kano is progressing o!

Fucktards!

So these moronic arsewipes running the state want to create more of 2 things:

1) Domestic violence.
2) Almajiris.

Cretins are marrying people that have no affection for each other so they produce more kids they cannot and will not be willing to take care of.

FOOOOOLS!

They are better off using that money to pay monthly allowance to the women so they take care of the kids they currently are not capable of taking care of.

Claus: My guy Saga, don't be fooled by what you see under tight dresses. Most big girls that don't have big bellies put a lot of work into it and you can normally tell because their arms and thighs are usually toned. If you see fat arms and fat thighs and a flat belly, rest assured there's some underwear magic going on up in there

I do agree.

That is why I am a strong advocate of sex before marriage.

No one will con me.

If this guy had had a car accident, you will see our prayer warriors climbing over each other to pray for him.

http://www.thisdaylive.com/articles/efcc-confiscates-sylva-s-48-houses/135334/

These are the people they are praying for because they want to show us they have a heart of gold made by their religion.

One oil spill in the Gulf of Mexico and the US government made sure the oil firms paid $20bn immediately to protect the income of people affected and start immediate cleanup. After that payment is secured, months later, those responsible have now paid over $5bn in fines.

The leaders our fucktards pray for, watch repeatedly as people in the Niger Delta's means of livelihood are destroyed. They do not punish the perpetrators or demand clean up, instead they mingle with them. Till today, large parts of the Oil Delta are completely poluted. They are busy sharing oil blocs between themselves so they can live ostentatious lives to oppress the fucktards praying for them. The people of the SS who had their livelihoods destroyed resort to kidnapping, which has now metamorphose into generally kidnapping where it is the fucktards that are being kidnapped. But the fucktards will pray for their leaders.

Our stewpid black baboons!

Roseart: Struggling over what

Well I guess you must be the only one who learns that way then
In most cases you have to be taught something and then figure out how to apply that concept on your own
But I'm sure when you learned math you just looked at it and understood it instantly because you are an alleged genius.


You said you are making change aren't you supposed to be proofing The burden of proof is on you not me because I've seen no real noticeable change that is positive in Nigeria, but you claim that you have been the catalyst for change can you show that?

My proof is only a google search away your own? From your a.s.s most likely

By the way I asked you a question about the gun issue in the UK and the US why did you just gloss over that? No answer?

You are a person!

So now your daft arsse says you have to be taught something?

So, cretin, you can't prove that my attempt has not worked?

When you show me proof, then your moronic arsse can ask a question.

Product of a failed education system whee teaching does not involve showing.

Roseart: That's my point, that was what I was asking. I'm not saying everyone should go into politics but change can happen in various ways.

Maybe he thinks India got their independence by being outraged. No, they got off their behind and demanded better.
Blacks in America were angry at their treatment for a long time, did Whites give a crap about them being mad. Hell, no but when Black people protested, marched, went through the courts, and did whatever else they could to change the law things did change.

If your only portion is to remain angry on the internet you are no better than the people you criticize.

Did GEJ back down from the subsidy removal because of angry facebook posts or the fact that people were in the damn streets raising hell?

I tire for some of the people on this site. You are well in your right to criticize things in Nigeria but at some point words need to be backed with action.

If your proof that you are changing this is "how do you know I'm not" then its clear you are a joke.

Tell me how Nigeria which was not considered a failed state before in 2005 is now among the top 20 in 2011, is showing signs of progress in the right direction. Unless GDP is now the only thing worth considering

It was a simple question that had no malice behind it and now I'm hearing all kind of BS other than the topic at hand, guilty conscious must be speaking.

Even if he said well I'm not doing "x" at the moment but I hope one day to do this, that would have been better than his useless "I think I'm smarter than you rant"

You are a person!

What our moronic arsse claimed was reaction cannot spur change?

person, so what did Rosa Park do? They did not teach you AA history in your failed school?

person, what about stonewall riots?

person, how did the black marches begin? It was not through some people's words?

person, how did the Arab spring start?

You are a person! You are a daft product of a failed education system where past data is used to assess future lagging effects.

OlowoTee: ...So easy to shout from the 'mountain top' and where was sagamite during the fuel subsidy rally? *smiles.

You are taking pride from feul subsidy rally?

I should come and protest for you?

Sit down, wait for Sagamite to come and protest for you to have light and healthcare system.

I can buy you a chair to sit on, wait and pray if you want.

Why didn't you go to your pastor to pray for your leaders to not change subsidy? Or your prayers were hopeless then?

Honestly, try and make me understand, why do you pray for your leaders. Why do you pray for a heartless person that only cares for himself while you probably slept in the dark most times this week in the 21st century? If you have cancer now, you think it would be picked up and you will survive or you doctors will give you pain killers till you die? Why do you pray for people who consistently destroy your lives? What do you hope to gain with such mentality?

I can slightly understand such behaviour by someone in North Korea, but I don't get yours at all.

Please explain and help me understand.

Roseart: You can show me a lot of things and not be teaching me. If you watch a pilot fly is that teaching you all the necessary skills to fly or don't you actually have to learn on your own at some point?

I've given you two cases dear

Answer the question then. Why has nothing changed regarding gun laws in the US while it did in the UK? If reaction is all it takes. But you wont answer that because that would take actual effort.

So its just evolving now? Not after the other two major shootings in the US in the same year, what an excuse So the situation is evolving in Nigeria too. Is that your excuse as well

What am I struggling about, you haven't said anything thought provoking unless repeating the same thing over and over again counts.

You are a person!

Still struggling?

No if I want to fly, I will learn like a product of a failed education system like you and meditate till I learn it. I will not let anyone show me because to a product of a failed education, showing is not teaching.

Cretin is still struggling with lagging factors. Blame it on the education.

person what you need to be doing is proving that I have not made any change. I have been waiting a while for your proof. I know proofing is too hard for a poor product.

Oya, resume and prove that to me, cretin!

Roseart: Which logic did you provide other than saying person

You are not understanding my point, you can prove that 2+2=4 (unless there is new math I'm not aware of) but you cannot prove that smoking causes cancer. Which is why scientist will never say that smoking causes cancer, the data supports that smoking may contribute to becoming ill with cancer. That's why I said you can't teach someone to prove something, only you can show how to support an opinion.

Which brain have you stretched Not mine.

Once again,I know you are slow but reactions are emotions unless you act on an emotion nothing happens. After the big hoopla over the Kony2012 video, after everyone finished sending the videos to their friends, after all the FB likes. Are we any closer to finding Kony in the Congo? Did anything change for the children kidnapped by the LRA? Not a damn thing happened so how can a reaction create change alone. Really, right not people are outraged about the school shooting that just happened, will anything change? I don't know, but if history is anything to go by it will be the same old same old.

Americans were outraged after Columbine. VA Tech. Aurora. Have gun laws changed in the US?

When a school shooting happened in the UK. People were outraged, but guess what they used that anger to change the laws so that gun access is limited in the UK. Thanks to them, you have one less instrument to do self harm. You should thank your lucky stars

Same reaction. Different response (key word).

What have your lagging outcomes predicted so far.

The rest, I have no idea what you are trying to say
For someone who claims to be smart you sure fail to make that impression of your vast amount of inteligence.

You are a person!

It seems you are daft cretin that has a leaking brain.

I asked you a simple question: if you show someone how to do something, that is not teaching, cretin?

That stretched your peanut brain?

A moronic person brings ONE case, not only is it one case, it is a case still evolving and that is proof that reaction does not lead to change (a point the cretin already conceded earlier)?

Product of a failed education system!

person, can you see you are struggling?

Roseart: Lol well you can't teach someone to prove something you can only show them how to support their idea.

The UK system can't be better if you graduated from it

You keep asking me to prove it and I've given you all the evidence you need.

Corruption in Nigeria is worse now than it was in the military era which you can find all kinds of graphs and figures on this data.
Nigerian politicians are the highest paid in the world. This Governor probably makes more in one year than Obama makes in three.

Now I really know you are a real person. Using past data to predict future outcomes is a common thing. The reason there we know the climate of Nigeria is based on past weather data. We can accurately say that Nigeria will never see heavy snowfall unless some extreme weather event occurs. The 160+ population that Nigeria has on record is based on past data.

The fact that you will not be the first person nor the last to scream until they are blue behind a computer screen with no real return for your efforts is proof that its not working.

Instead of screaming show us that your efforts have yield and dividens.

Like I said it costs nothing to be angry, so no reactions cannot cause change.

You are a person!

Can you see how you are struggling with logic now?

I know how to stretch the brains of products of a failed education system?

So if you show someone how to do something, that is not teaching, cretin?

Your moronic arsse realised that a reaction can bring about change despite your dumb arsse saying it couldn't before?

Using past data to prove lagging outcomes can only be from your failed education. You need to get a real education where showing something is regarded as teaching.

But your cretinous shows how dumb you are to let your learning disappear within minutes with your last sentence.

You are proving me right that you are a product of a failed education who is also a person.

I love this cretinous meats. So easy!

Roseart: You can't be taught to prove You can learn how to support you thesis or hypothesis

My point is supported by the fact that Nigeria has largely gotten worse and not better on corruption, crime, and anything else you can name. Nigeria is number 13 or so on the list of failed states. Surely if Saamite's words matter that would not be the case

I'm guessing you haven't attended the top schools in the UK yourself

You are a person!

So teaching does not lead to learning?

So, person, your failed school taught you to use past metrics to measure a potentially lagging factor?

You are a product of a failed education system.

Try again to prove to us how you know it has not changed matters. Foool!

Roseart: If that was the case then why with all the complaints and outrage by Nigerians has corruption gotten worse and not better? You yourself even admitted to that fact that its the same old with Nigerians. If anything you idiocy supports my point that having a reaction does nothing to change circumstances. In my own example, change only happened when people actually did something about drinking. Being angry in your pj's in the comfort of your home does nothing.

person, what I asked your dumb arsse was: So your dumb arsse realises reaction can bring about change?

Roseart: Exhibit A: Nigeria My proof. Now your turn.

No. A reaction cannot initiate it can be a catalyst for change but at the end of the day you actually have to do something. For example: A high amount of deaths of young people due underage drinking in the 80's. The reaction, parents in the US were outraged by what was going on. But here is the important part, some of those parents formed groups to petition Congress to do something to rectify the problem (raising the drinking age). The drinking age is now 21 all over the US.

You are still stuck on part two and think part 3 and 4 will just magically happen.

I'm in the US, the same place home to the top institutions in the world. Failed indeed

You are a person!

Is that how you were taught how to prove in your failed schools? The US has top institutions does not mean fucktards attend top institutions.

So your dumb arsse realises reaction can bring about change?