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FamilyRe: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Sagamite(m): 1:32pm On May 23, 2012
queensmith: ehya, do you go to sleep thinking of queensmiths posts? wink Think of me on those dates with mr right hand?
[Retches violently]

Vile woman!
FamilyRe: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Sagamite(m): 1:27pm On May 23, 2012
queensmith: o wow your obsessed with me saga, i bet you dream of me at night.
"Nightmare on obese street"?

Nah! grin
FamilyRe: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Sagamite(m):
michelin89: Wetin queensmith do you?

I'm really surprised though she is being neutral on this thread, because she's a hardcore feminist (if she'd allow me the term) and she's very strict towards women who try to enslave or debase other women (from what I've learnt from her posts).
Neutral? Are you having a laugh? grin grin grin grin grin

To be frank, in my life, I have never come across a more vile and repugnant female. She just reeks of awful attitude. She has a completely miasmatic personality and has already indirectly indicated she is ugly and obese.

If I was to create a spectrum of personalities for women, I would put Nayah at one end representative of wonderful personality and queensmith at the other end for absolutely stinking personality.

With her being obese and having a stinking ghetto attitude, she will probably only be able to pull skanky scrubs from projects/council estates that will dip anything in a skirt because no decent man would ever approach her.

Single motherhood and eternal bitterness awaits her in the future.
FamilyRe: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Sagamite(m): 12:57pm On May 23, 2012
michelin89: @ Sagamite

I have had my friends beg me to free them from a guy who wouldn't let go. Some men can be really insisting and annoying sometimes at the club where they believe every girl is there to hook up! wink
They don't ask queensmith though. She just does it because she is "defeeeeeeeeensive" wink of her friends when they are smiling and holding hands with a guy that is ribbing them with sarcasm and repartees. grin
FamilyRe: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Sagamite(m): 12:24pm On May 23, 2012
queensmith: men bych as much as women. Everyone does their fare share of byching about people they don't like. Men do it, women do it too.
Your second statement contradicts what you said before about female bosses? Women do not tread carefully around other women. You are more likely to divulge intimate details to a woman than a man, the connection in female relationships cannot be compared to intersex ones. In the end they do share alot in common,.
one of my closest friends is a guy, there are many things I will never share with him. Thats not freedom at all, as a woman I can say you're chatting absolute nonsense. Women do not perceive other women as vulnerable or sensitive.

Well it's your inability to handle rejections that makes you invent non existent concepts. In a social situation where you are bothering a girl who is having a good time with her friends what kind of response do you expect? Rather than see the reality (the woman does not want you) you decide to believe there is some vendetta. That's the fact of it right there you can spin it any way you want. If you visit a decent night club (face it your scenarios only happen in razmataz ones) you will find blokes pulling females in groups left and right.
I've never understood why a nigerian man thinks it's appropriate to interrupt a conversation in a restaurant or bother a girl that's having fun with friends. It's rude and antisocial. Thatisall. It applies to any group really not just female ones. Less arrogance more manners wins the race.
Why don't you let the fine girl be the one to decide if she is being bothered or it is rude?

Why is it that it is obese friends like you who belligerently (with an annoyed face) disconnect the holding hands of the girl and guy when she is about to leave with the guy to dance or chat?
FamilyRe: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Sagamite(m): 11:56am On May 23, 2012
queensmith: Men? Loyal? Hmph. A woman is less likely to go for a friends ex boyfriend, men bitch to they are just a bit more subtle about it, as to keeping male friends, that is not for most women and it's part of the argument here; maybe these girls that claim to 'hate female drama' and prefer 'keeping male friends' are insecure and feel the need to put other women down to gain favor from the males around her?
Because a woman will work you hard and is less likely to tolerate nonsense, a man may tip toe around the fact you are a woman. Thats not a bad thing. I will employ a ruthless female to manage my company anyday.

Well it's not meant to be a battle of the sexes there are enough of those here, at the end of the day it's women that embrace religions and social trends that insult and belittle us. We can attribute a million and one factors to the way some women behave, but we are still recovering from hundreds (possible thousands) of years of being conditioned as the weaker sex.
Lets test males for a few hundred years and see how loyal you'll remain!

Come to think of it, women are incredibly defensive of their friends. Thats even why people often make the joke 'not all your friends are attractive'. In most of sagamite's night club scenarios the girls are defending their friends from ugly arrogant men. Instead of you to take rejection like a man you comfort yourselves by inventing the word cockblock. You think if she wanted to dance with you she won't? It's people like you that aim to pit women against each other for your egos sake.
YES! I KNEW IT!

I am too fcking intelligent not to know one when I see them.

This is one of the typical morbidly obese cockblockers. grin

Is that what you tell your friends when you jealously block their chance of meeting guys when you know you will be the only one left out of men's attraction? "I was doing it all for you, Missy. The guy was an arsehole for just coming to you and saying you look nice. That was just perverted!" grin grin grin grin grin grin

You are defending her? You are doing it in her self interest? That is what you tell her? LWKMD! grin grin grin grin grin

So it is not because you are jealous of her gettting all the attraction while you get none?

It is not because she is stunningly beautiful and you feel like a Hippo and you secretly resent her for it?

Tell me, she can't defend herself and judge for herself what kind of man she wants? grin

Jealous obese cockblocker! grin grin grin grin grin grin

Girls like Missy B should be warned to keep your type (in-circle secret haters) at an arms length.
FamilyRe: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Sagamite(m): 10:23am On May 23, 2012
coogar: look up the word "cockblocking" on google!
ROFLMAO!!! grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

So homeboys have created a word for this?

A cockblock or moment ruiner is an intentional, or sometimes unintentional action that serves to prevent someone from having sexual intercourse with a partner. Such behavior is often motivated by jealousy, or competitiveness, although it is sometimes accidental, or inadvertent. A cockblock, or cockblocker is a person who engages in such obstruction or intervention. According to an article by a freelance writer, Joshua Bernstein, in the New York Press, cockblocking is a "foul act in which someone interferes with another's attempt at finding happiness inside someone's pants." An author for the UWO Gazette believes that individuals frequenting bars in university towns are likely to be familiar with "this classic maneuver."

Damn! I never knew. grin

queensmith: all the childish speculation from a gay mans woes at the night club, i've told you too many times you need to stop deceiving yourself. You play for the other team :p
Will you cockblock Missy B or not? Would you be happy she is off to get all the attention in the world from a guy while you are left on your own?

Are you not a cockblocker by default due to the unfortunately wrong cards biological fate has dealt you?
FamilyRe: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Sagamite(m):
queensmith: You need to embrace your sexuality and come out of the closet now.

Now why will a woman block guys from approaching her friend? If anything i enjoy watching men make a fool of themselves, thats even besides the point. If a man is goodlooking, charming and hit all the girls the right way they won't turn him away. In that case men are actually the problem.

and all this, women keep ugly friends to make themselves look good is b*ls**t! If a woman only kept beautiful friends she'll be shallow, theres no pleasing some people!
It is not about girls turning guys away. It is about girls liking a guy and wanting to chat/dance with him but their obese friend aggressively separating them saying "We are dancing together", and the fine girl like Missy B not wanting to upset her already jealous friend, plus anticipating the enjoyment in seeing how the guy would presevere for her, will acquiesce. Hence a win-win for her. Unfortunately guys like me would leave her alone and you will succeed in spoiling her chance. It happens alot. A lot of guys will back me up.

Would you let Missy B go and dance with a guy?
FamilyRe: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Sagamite(m):
michelin89: I'm sure Missy B as confident as she is will be busy hooking her ladies up with guys. She'll point out an interested guy and later excuse herself to the toilet or to the bar just to give chance to her girl to enjoy the admirer's company.

I'd do the same! cool
What about if the guys see Missy B, contrast her with queensmith, and are inevitably fixated on Missy B instead? They will be casually hanging around by the toilet to make a move on Missy once she comes out.

When the contrast gap is too high, altruism can not save the day.
FamilyRe: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Sagamite(m): 9:42am On May 23, 2012
queensmith: I can imagine things are different for you gays. But straight men do.
I think this is what you wanted to say:

I can imagine things are different for you straight men. But gays do.

That would have made you right because I can only imagine you move with male bit[i]c[/i]hes for you to say men hate on each other.

You still have not answered my question on Missy B. Would you allow her to take all the attention and be chatted up?
FamilyRe: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Sagamite(m): 9:34am On May 23, 2012
queensmith: Try to be objective here- you are making a post about women being katty, but you are also being katty in the process. and behaving in the exact same way we are calling women out for.

In the process a discussion which should actually bring women together turns into a platform where we bring arms out. I'm beginning to believe it's inevitable.

Anyways C.fours has a point, women are more loyal to one another than men. They form more intimate bonds with one another, I believe friendships between females are more meaningful chicks ride or die together.

You also have a point, but you have to understand it makes you seem as if you're sitting on a high horse. What kind of women only observes the bad attitudes of other women?
Whatever you are smoking should not be categorised Class C, it should be Class A.

I am yet to see any man that says he prefers female friends because they are less trouble, but I know tens of woman that would say the reverse.

Stop giving deluded comments.

Using this example I gave earlier:

Sagamite: If she is in the gutters or butters (I hope you like my rhymes grin), they are good at having empathy for her, as they are more comfortable with her. No wonder everytime you go to a club, you see a fine girl with a horrible looking/obese friend. This happens alot in teen and early 20s girlfriendships. The fine girl is happy to use the friend to be used as a contrast against her to emphasis her own good features. The friend on the other hand would do anything possible to block any good guy approaching her. Awon weere meji (two mad people). grin
If you are the one that is close friends with a girl like Missy B and you go clubbing with her, are you telling me you will not do you best to block all guys approaching her?

Would you be comfortable she is getting all the attraction from guys? Would you allow her to be taken away by a guy and you are left standing/dancing on your own?
FamilyRe: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Sagamite(m): 8:29am On May 23, 2012
jennykadry: Joking ko, if that cousin came to you now with those Cotonou water melon, tell me you won't feast on it with ya eyes and mouth angry
[Gulps saliva]

Er...... Well....... You know....... Jesus is my lord and saviour.
FamilyRe: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Sagamite(m): 8:24am On May 23, 2012
jennykadry: Saga amu, mo ri'e . Ori e ko kpe angry


Michelin wan fight? I love cat fights. Come on peeps,get it started grin
I was joking na.

How her chest wan even compete with your gigantic chest that is a major production facility for Peak Milk Ltd.
FamilyRe: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Sagamite(m): 8:10am On May 23, 2012
queensmith: Can't actually argue with the logic behind this because it's actually true. Bit of a conundrum really, but I think it's down to women being more loyal and compassionate.

The purpose of the thread may be for discussion but the op has inadvertently contributed to the behavior she claims to hate. making her exactly like she's described, a woman's worst enemy.
You are smoking weed!

Women are more loyal and compassionate? grin

That is why women generally always are fighting one friend or the other?
RomanceRe: Why by Sagamite(m): 8:05am On May 23, 2012
pro01: This is almost a mathematical certainty. No doubt about that. Even where it doesn't happen under such ideal conditions, it is ALWAYS more a function of the man's lack of will, than of the woman's strong will. True story. That's why I would always prefer a girl (for long term purposes, if ever) that admits her human frailty, rather than one that denies it - based on so-called morality and will-power. The ones that most vehemently insist that they can never cheat are often the ones that end up cheating in the most despicable manner.
When a woman denies it, it is like if she is calling me a fooooool. And I hate being called a foooool.

But women have trained some "Real Men" to believe only men are capable of cheating.

As I always say: Men need a place to cheat, Women need a reason. And she would gaddamn find the reason when she is tempted to.

And they have done well to make it a "civilised" society when a man is blamed for a woman cheating. E.g. "He was not treating her right", "He was not paying her attention", "He needs to spend enough time with her" etc.

For most women that have been in a long term relationship, be decent looking, barrage her with the lovely compliments, put pressure on her and she is almost certainly going to do it if a safe environment is created. Then she would say it is her man's fault because he does not compliment her anymore/enough. cheesy
FamilyRe: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Sagamite(m): 7:45am On May 23, 2012
[quote author=c.fours]speak for yourself!

the women I know stand up for each other and do not use those nasty words you put up there towards one another. so speak for yourself and the kind of "women" you move with.

and yes men do talk ill of each other more than women do! In fact, that's their definition of being a "man" If you have brothers or male friends like I do, you will know that 80% of their time is spent calling each other the most deplorable names in the dictionary and instigating fights like no man's business. that's what they call "manly" in their own opinion.

it is an accepted fact that women are the more sociable gender. maybe you and your female friends are exception to the rule. but don't categorize all women as being antisocial.[/quote]You are a deluded mooron!
FamilyRe: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Sagamite(m):
Freesia: I know right... CRM all the way.It's time to put that into practice

Maybe I'm weird but I have forged a few good friendships with other women by striking a convo about how flawless her skin looks or how fab her shoes were and depending on the type of gathering just talked about different stuff.

How will me walking around rolling my eyes or sneering each time I see other women who I don't even know at all but who look better than me or have it going on than I do be beneficial to me?

Extremely beautiful or even wealthy women are being born everyday the sooner other ladies realize this the better and healthier for them lol

Reminds me of a gathering I attended a few weeks ago...My cousin who is very well endowned in the chest department had a few ladies whispering they were fake lol.

Who knows maybe some of these women might even have had a bigger pair than my cousin ? but due to a wrong bra size or bad posture some of these ladies believed another lady was much better endowned than them hence "they're fake" comment

Some men who were just "innocently" stealing glances at my cousin just had to keep a straight face because... if you only saw the evil look their partners were giving them Ehn!!

Some of this women had a lot going on for them beauty and also Profession-wise but sadly the lack of self esteem will drive them to shift gears just because their man was eyeing another woman
Whagoan! Lets keep it real. I am salivating here. shocked

Abeg how I fit contact this your cousin? grin

Hook a brother up. cheesy

Note I asked before dayokanu o. cheesy

I want to meet your cousin. I want to be her friend. smiley


Joking. tongue jennykadry is the only woman for me for life. tongue
FamilyRe: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Sagamite(m): 12:01am On May 23, 2012
Freesia: Self- esteem still remains number one in my books.

I knew someone who worked in a very popular hotel in France that charges a few thousand Euros a night for a room.(Peak Season)
She said as a female staff( from management to cleaner) there was a policy in that hotel that if guests who were a couple approached you or you approached them You(female staff) must first address the female guest then speak to her husband or male companion.
Many female guests complained an awful lot about the female staff not acknowledging them enough but hardly uttered words of complains about the male staff!!
What does that tell you? Some of those Uber rich women had insecurity issues and because the Hotel has a reputation to keep things were changed in their favour
The things you do in business management. Geez! grin

I just learnt a lesson in customer relationship management tonight. Thanks. grin
SportsRe: Chelsea Thanksgiving In Nigerian Churches by Sagamite(m): 10:03pm On May 22, 2012
[quote author=De-Genius]It's worth celebrating because it's their first champions league title. considering the fact that they've been UNDERDOGS since the knock-out stage against Napoli, Quater-finals against Benfica, Semi-finals Against "Almighty" Barcelona And then Finally, a very dramatic, unbelievable triumph against Bayern Munich in Alianz Arena! In fact i would say 'the god of soccer was with Chelsea' so its worth giving thanks to God. after all, the bible says in everything we should give thanks. so it's worth it!

BIG UPS TO CHELSEA FC AND FANS.

even if I'm not a fan of Chelsea wink[/quote]What a person!
FamilyRe: When Is it Right For A Child To Own A Cell Phone. by Sagamite(m): 9:49pm On May 22, 2012
coogar: united kingdom
most primary schools.
the youtube video i posted up there is a school in
the uk.
Wow. That is not a development I support.

coogar: han han.
what's the biggie in that? he goes to history on
tools and he deletes his footprints in the last hour or
last 3 hours on google chrome! it takes 10 secs.
That is superficial. All those can be recovered from Windows registry or System restore.

No way that would become general knowledge amongst 10 year olds.


coogar: i would never know how many have aborted!
but you know it happens. you be bobo. how many
babes did you impregnate in naija that aborted. how
many people knew about it? these facts are not out
there if you're not in the circle.
None.

No 1, Naija teenage girls don't have sex as frequently as UK girls. Hence no way can they ever have the same pregnancy rates.

No 2, Naija teenage girls have less places to do it because we operate an extended family system. Which leads to less opportunities.

No 3, Naija teenage girls will be more shy going for an abortion as the doctors are not going to be politically correct like UK. So they will be more careful than a UK girl or simply refrain from it.

You can't compare Naija to a country where parents let teenage kids bring their boy/girlfriends home and even let them have sex at home because as they will say "they will do it anyway, you can't stop them so why don't you let them do it within a controlled environment".

Basically, they throw their hands in the air and say there is no point doing anything about it.
FamilyRe: When Is it Right For A Child To Own A Cell Phone. by Sagamite(m): 8:30pm On May 22, 2012
coogar: it's a laptop!
http://www.newsandstar.co.uk/carlisle-primary-school-pupils-get-netbooks-to-make-them-all-grown-up-1.808219?referrerPath=2.3540
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=HV2krygDZsU

everything has changed since the government introduce nappy curriculum!
a kid of 2 is now expected to surf the web using a laptop "catch them young"
Which country, which region and which shcool do they give kids laptops? Please educate me.

coogar: his son is quite computer/mobile phone savvy. i have seen him
take my iphone apart several times looking for games to download on
apps store....taking pics n editing it using the red eye effect.....
He is a liar!

No six year old would know the way a computer system is set up. Knowing Learning how to use application is diffrent from knowing how computer systems store data.

He is a pure liar!

coogar: i have excluded those. i am talking about girls who got themselves pregnant by their teenage
boyfriends or a "bros" in the neighbourhood. if i include the villages where kids just born
like it's going out of fashion then the statistics become laughable.

plenty of them. majority of the those small time clinics are run efficiently
by the money girls pay to remove pregnancies. those funds form a large
percentage of their income. abortion is a process here in the uk and it's
discouraging. in naija, a babe can wake up, decide to walk into a clinic and do the
deed and get it done in a matter of minutes.
So how many contemporary girls (family friends, class mates) did you know that was pregnant. Don't give me conjectures!

How did you arrive that it is worse in Nigeria than in the UK?
RomanceRe: I LOVE YOU! When Is It Right To Say These Words! by Sagamite(m): 8:18pm On May 22, 2012
slimyem: na 'I love you' go come open the legs abi? huh
FYI...doesnt work for alll!cheesy
Then for girls like you, niggas have to switch to "See the Thunder". He should unveil the morrofcker (if it is the right type) and see how quickly you would be the one begging. grin cool
RomanceRe: I LOVE YOU! When Is It Right To Say These Words! by Sagamite(m): 7:47pm On May 22, 2012
[quote author=*Ileke-IdI]Why would she close her legs? I mean, what's leg got to do with kissing (third base)?[/quote]Is third base not *Coughs*? grin

Well what I mean is that the guy should say it when she lets him do everything and take almost everything off until the point of *Coughs*, where she starts tightening leg and doing shakara. grin

You know how you Naija girls are like na. grin
RomanceRe: I LOVE YOU! When Is It Right To Say These Words! by Sagamite(m): 7:21pm On May 22, 2012
When it might untighten the leg muscles preventing you from reaching third base. grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
FamilyRe: When Is it Right For A Child To Own A Cell Phone. by Sagamite(m): 7:01pm On May 22, 2012
coogar: common sense should have prevailed - i don't support what the girl's mum did
but the guy was asking for trouble putting a topless image of her daughter on his phone.
he knew he was visiting them. he could have deleted the picture or put a password on his phone
to prevent an unauthorised access.
Neither am I supporting the mother. I am just highlighting the risk of kids having mobiles.

coogar: netbooks for normal children. tablets for
the ones who are autistic. sagamite, you
need to start a family soon and be conversant
with what's happening in today's primary schools.
Honestly, I am not getting this. Maybe their is no alignment in our slangs.

Is netbook a laptop or a desktop?

coogar: 10 random kids? i dunno about random kids but i have heard a friend
of mine complain to me about his 6 yr old son cleaning up his footprints.
Your friend is a bloody liar!

Just like the guy that came here to say his 2 year old has a personal ipad that he uses.

coogar: and crime rate is on the rise....day after day.
what have the smart and dedicated owners done to curb the crime rate?
Huh? What kind of question is this?


coogar: this is because asia/africa don't really have a credible statistics to work with.
i am quite sure the teenage pregnancy in nigeria is worse than that of britain. i don't
need to be a rocket scientist to work that out - but it's nigeria, no news media would
talk about it....
Hell No! I doubt it.

If you are going to compare Nigeria with UK you have to exclude the dearth poor who marrying at 15 is not a big deal to. You need to compare the enlightened class with the UK.

Tell me how many of your contemporaries you knew that were teenage baby mamas or got pregnant.

coogar: you either prove this or i brand you a sophomaniac! grin
You really don't understand. Here is just a snippet of how it goes with my intellect:

https://www.nairaland.com/742962/love-sagamite-lol/3#9021560

grin
RomanceRe: Why by Sagamite(m): 6:50pm On May 22, 2012
tgirl1986: Speak for yourself bro..i have been living my life that way, and aint no fictional character...what is wrong with this world?
Given specific conditions and the right occasion you would cheat. undecided
RomanceRe: Why by Sagamite(m): 6:12pm On May 22, 2012
tgirl1986: If men and women say NO to fornication and adultery, this thread will not exist..just saying.
And we will stop being human beings, instead we would be fictional characters in tales like Lord of the Rings or Snow White and the 7 Dwarfs. grin
FamilyRe: When Is it Right For A Child To Own A Cell Phone. by Sagamite(m): 5:54pm On May 22, 2012
coogar: maybe, maybe not.
the adult in this case should have been wiser to delete the images
on his phone too especially when he could have been pulled by cops
at anytime to explain why a topless child was on his phone.
Obviously, you can't be. So I wonder how you arrived at your "i am 100% sure the guy took the pics of the babe when she's topless"?

Now think about it and think of the more realistic possibilities:

- Why would he be bothering to delete it when he is an adult (hence not subject to parental monitorship) and he does not live with her parent?

- Why would he bother deleting it when it is not his own [i]n[/i]udism and he enjoys looking at it?

- Men tend to keep more incriminating evidence sent to them by women, that is why they are often caught cheating.

- Do you think a guy that would put her pix online is likely to be bothered deleting it on his phone to save her?

- You really think a 21 year old guy would be thinking of cops stopping him because of the pix on his phone? Just like the way he was thinking of the cops tracing him for putting her pix online?


coogar: they use netbooks. the autistic ones amongst them use iPads.
i saw that with my very own eyes the last time i went to an
event in a school.
You mean the school provides pupils with netbooks?

Really? In which country and which region of it?

coogar: yes - they get the ideas from their other friends in school on how to get away with
their footprints.
Really?

They get the idea of how to delete their history on a computer perfectly at 10 from school?

So if 100 random kids are picked and asked how to clear their history on a computer, how many do you roughly think would know how to do it?

coogar: they might not get away with it every time but they would get away with most of it.
parents can't be everywhere. if you have a child that obeys all your commandments, it's
a joint effort. the credits shouldn't go to you alone cos a child would be what he wants
to be regardless of you idiabgbon policy.
Thank you! In life all it takes is everyday for the thief, one day for the owner. If the owner now happens to be smart and dedicated, there would be very, very few days for the thief.

coogar: yes you do.....and the ones who have unruly kids attempted too but it was futile in the end.
i know a kid who got banned from attending any school in the whole of great britain. he was sent
to naija in the end. if you see this kid, he's the most composed kid you can see @ 7. yet, when he's
at school, he's a terror. he couldn't stop beating his classmates and the moment he gets home, he's
a saint. he fears only his parents, he does not fear school authorities so idiagbon policy has it's
limitations.
Futile in the end?

That is why Asians and Africans frequently have kids witht their heads screwed on?

You feel free to put your hands in the air and say you don't need to do anything because it would be futile. I would do what I have to do.

coogar: so tell me, how many women have you caught with your super-intelligence?
Come on, men. That would be plainly showing-off!

They call me the Icon for a reason.
FamilyRe: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Sagamite(m): 5:01pm On May 22, 2012
Any of you people should just go and read the reports on Daily Mail on www.dailymail.co.uk, which is a women's newspaper.

Go and read the horrible things reporters (that are virtually all women) say about other woman and how they love to victimise them. If the reporters don't get out the knives, then read how the women that comment on the stories are usually brutal and then you would know how woman hate on each other.

Go there and read the first 6 news reports that you see focused on beautiful/celebrity women. It is normally a bloodbath.
FamilyRe: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Sagamite(m): 4:23pm On May 22, 2012
[quote author=*Ileke-IdI]@sagamite

Hate is a petty strong world.
This is why I suggest men stop trying to come up with a theory for female behaviors. Atleast if they do, it should remain ONLY an assumption.
I disagree with the word "hate".[/quote]Hate is a ghetto slang for beefing, which itself is a ghetto slang for antagonism, which itself is big grammar for animosity, which itself is big grammar for unfriendliness. cool

Chillax, woman! tongue
FamilyRe: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Sagamite(m): 4:16pm On May 22, 2012
armyofone: oh goodness!! how can i read those long epistle according to Saga? just to cast ojuju on ladies you wrote that undecided
oh well undecided
Ronkelus, how now, Sanu da zuwa. Yaya mijin da yara?
Wetin be ojuju?

ronkebp: Nope, not in all cases, i still stand on my point that it is an evil-minded lady, who will hate on another sister. You are right that majority of the men might congratulate you on your "ferari" but trust me, another might be devising a means to steal that ferari from you, especially if he is evil minded, or he might be thinking of something evil should happen to the ferari, a negative person will always be negative, irrespective of gender. As a human being it is natural not to like the whole world, just because some people say they don't like this person or that person is not enough to conclude that women hate themselves.
You are right and wrong.

You are right, there might be some men that would be thinking something bad, but definately the exception, not the norm if he is not using it to belittle them. Overwhelming majority would go away thinking "what can I do to get where he is".

You are wrong that it is only an evil-minded lady, who will hate on another sister. Probably 90% of women I have met in my life (and I have met alot cheesy) casually hate on other women and I don't think they are evil-minded people. I just think they are women. It is a natural state, they always see other women as competition especially if they feel she has a lot going for her.

If she is in the gutters or butters (I hope you like my rhymes grin), they are good at having empathy for her, as they are more comfortable with her. No wonder everytime you go to a club, you see a fine girl with a horrible looking/obese friend. This happens alot in teen and early 20s girlfriendships. The fine girl is happy to use the friend to be used as a contrast against her to emphasis her own good features. The friend on the other hand would do anything possible to block any good guy approaching her. Awon weere meji (two mad people). grin
FamilyRe: When Is it Right For A Child To Own A Cell Phone. by Sagamite(m): 4:04pm On May 22, 2012
coogar: i am 100% sure the guy took the pics of the babe when she's topless.
what other explanation can you give? if she sent it to him with her mobile,
they should have found the pics on the daughter's mobile phone. it was the adult
that was culpable here, not the child.
What makes you 100% sure she did not delete it from her phone as precaution because she lives with her parents?

coogar: he's 20/21 for feck's sake. you are going to say a 21 yr old
is not responsible for his own actions too?
Where did you see me say or how did you deduce I said he is not responsible for his actions?

coogar: they let them use netbooks in school even though they claim their internet usage is monitored.
I thought schools had desktops, not netbooks? Where is the child going to get the netbook from?

coogar: on your laptop, they can pretty much do anything, delete their footprints and you would
not know ish. kids of nowadays are super-smart. they tell you they are playing online games
on cbbc or disney but they are doing other things. how would you control such whilst you
are busy listening to larry king's rants on cnn. you can't be in 5 places at a time. this
is why the watchdogs are clamouring for online protection for these kids......
Really?

A 10 year old child would know how to completely delete their history on a desktop?

And the desktop would be in the sitting room and they would get away with it everytime?

Stop sillily exaggerating. Kids of nowadays are not all Einsteins.

coogar: thank God you know that sometimes what they do at home is different from what they do outside.
it even becomes more difficult if their best buddies in school are given the access you restrict them from having.
grooming a child is a career. it's very very difficult to keep today's kids on a leash.
I would rather attempt to than throw my hands in the air like an ediot and give up. I have a responsibility as a parent.

coogar: i wish you all the luck you would need in your attempt but i am sure
after a while, you would be mentally exhausted. modern technology has
come to stay. there's nothing we can do about it until there's an airtight
web watchdog protecting the kids.
Don't ever under-estimate my resilience and intellect. I can achieve more than the average man with far less effort because I think differently. Those are some of the attributes that makes me a catch to women.

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