pocohantas: But he impregnated two women na before they got legally married.
Yes, he cheated but she choose to stay with him.
Remember the "old fire no dey quench " cliche.
she's been with Tuface since Plantashun days so she have seen it all.
Love forgives multitude of sins.
pocohantas: Annie picked her cross too na. Remember her kids are not the first. Tuface already had a babymama before she put head. While she was his gf, he impregnated two women. There is really no difference o. Annie was an E-list actress and she left it to cuddle with Tuface.
See ehn, I wish her strength. She loves Tuface a lot. He is a good guy with imperfections. He should at least be respectful about it.
Annie Met Tuface during her Teen years (she was 16 then) she dated Tuface before the other babymamas I. e Pero and Sumbo. Tuface is Annie 's first love, remember he was living in Festac area. So I'm not surprised that she stayed with him and married him.
Ronaldo723: My girlfriend of 8 months has broken up with me because she says I have no plans for her
I was surprised by the outburst cus she is still very young just 19 I don't know what she means by this statement because non of us are ready to marry now
I love this girl so much... I suspect that because her birthday is coming up next month and I haven't said anything about it so she feels I don't take her seriously
I have pleaded and talked to her but she is adamant about her decision that she is tired as I'm wasting her time
I haven't talked about her birthday yet cuz I'm having a hard time, things are pretty tight with me but she just can't understand
Please guys what should I do I'm truly in love with this girl that I'm having a hard time moving on
obailala: By popular opinion, it's like it exists mainly in Delta and Bayelsa...
Haaa! ... Wash plates?... The madiga in Akwa-Ibom must be different oo...
Madiga bread with butter is a regular meal in Riverine Communities in South south Geopolitical zone. It's soda that is used to wash plate and not madiga bread.
First, she started out with helping her mother (in their food business) in Abuja, then she moved to Lagos with her brother to start out her own. No sooner had she arrived in Lagos than she became successful.
Her first big break was when she represented Nigeria in a jollof cook-off contest in Ghana, and won (about $5k I think).
Hilda has always been intentional and consistent. Her success and fame did not just happen. Now, she has gotten the recognition she deserves for her hard work.
You are right, I remember that Jollof rice competition she won years ago. she's being consistent in this chef stuff, any other thing is an additional bonus for her.
jamesversion: Udom has hustled you guys. There was never anything on ground.
You are right But you will see some data boys like that Udom hypeman called Ilaumoh a.k.a Hunchogee here hyping these politicians that have failed his people/state.
MasterJayJay: OFFICIALLY A 7X Guinness World Records HOLDER
Am happy I made my mother and sibling proud with these achievements despite our daily challenges
Thanks to my coach Mr Chukwuebuka Freestyler and management Chukwuebuka Freestyle Entertainment for bringing out the best in me and thanks to Guinness World Records for recognizing me
ChizzyBuna: It shocks me how when a yoruba man hits big and get rich they dont marry their yoruba women. Why?? They always marry igbo women
If igbo man get rich he marries igbo woman But yoruba man will ignore his tribe women and go marry igbo women
Davido grandmother is igbo His uncle Gov Adeleke married igbo wife Davido then followed family tradition and married chioma Obasanjo wife that year stella is igbo
Governor Akeredolu marry igbo wife El rufai son marry igbo wife Tinubu son Seyi marry igbo wife Otedola go marry Wife Nana from Ghana
Notice how they all dogde their yoruba women once they taste big money..
The late stella Obasanjo is from Edo state, her tribe is Bini and not Igbo. correct your post
donleo92: Everybody is hung up on domestic abuse by men against women. Nobody spares a moment to find solutions to the equally devastating verbal abuse men suffer in the hands of their wives. It is worse because men can't discuss what their wives do to them for fear of scorn and derision. They suffer in silence. Timebomb.
Unfortunately, the Nigerian society has little or no support systems for this kind of situation. Little or no counselling services. It's been mostly left to the church to deal with. What happens when the man doesn't go to church? What happens when the woman doesn't believe in spiritual intervention? These women are raising daughters. Their daughters are hearing and seeing how they speak to and treat their husband. What kind of wives will they grow up to become? Those that treat their husbands as kings or those that believe husbands are nothing but verbal punching bags?
We've all agreed and rightfully so that a man has no business hitting his wife. So how then do you stop a wife raining verbal missiles at you? Leave the house? Okay. But you'll return and it will continue. What next? Leave again? For how long?
Recently, I visited a senior friend, an important man in the society and while we were downstairs gisting, the voice of his wife could be heard upstairs. She was spewing unimaginable bile against the man. She called him all sorts of unprintable names. Impotent, wretched fool, miserable man that was nothing when she married him, etc. This is a well respected man. A father of 4 children. She tore at his very core and mocked everything society respected him for. She said he'd soon crash and she'll be there to laugh at him.
I was so uncomfortable as I beheld the man. He was shrunken before me. He was deflated. He tried to gamefully continue the gist to distract me but it was not working. The woman's vitriol was a ceaseless torrent. Uncomfortable silence ensued. I excused myself and left his house.
I was really sad.
You want to know the truth? This is what most men go through in their houses. They labour and toil and build respect but when they return home, the one who ought to speak to the king in them tears them to shreds and tries to deflate their self-esteem. When they are outside, they try to act cheerful and happy but back home, they are shrivelled because the person they live with makes it a point of duty to verbally assault them.
A sad story comes to mind. There was recently a Nigerian Ambassador who was recalled because his wife released a story to the press that he beat her. She also released pictures showing fresh injuries on her body ostensibly inflicted by the man.
In a dramatic twist, their children came out to debunk the stories and said their mother faked the injuries to embarrass their dad. Grown up children.
A particular sentence by the 1st son saddened me. He said it was as if their mum woke up every morning with one mission in life: how to make their dad miserable. They said they were witnesses to how their mum constantly harassed and abused their dad and wanted the whole world to know that their dad was not who their mum was painting him to be.
Yes, opinion shifted on the scandal but the damage had been done. The Ambassador was recalled and nobody heard from him again.
A family is currently at odds with the widow of their son and brother. The wife was constantly verbally assaulting him. Nobody wanted to visit them because each time they were around, it was always quarrel and the wife would call him unprintable names. Even in their presence. When they try to interfere, she will give them their own. The man died recently of heart-attack caused by high blood pressure. He was in his late 40s. The family insists his wife sent him to his early grave with her verbal torments.
Our bars are filled with men who are afraid to go home to their wives for fear of what verbal torment they will go through. Men are finding every excuse to travel because they'll rather be anywhere than in their own homes.
Everybody is focusing on men as culprits in domestic abuse. Who is talking to the women?
Your wife is not under a spell, and you did NOTHING wrong.
what is happening is called LIFE. People's mind change when they see a better life or better people.... what is popularly known as THE GRASS IS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE effect.
sadly they do not know that THE GRASS IS ONLY ACTUALLY GREENER WHERE IT IS WATERED. Your wife doesn't want to SUFFER with you anymore, she is wishing she was always in lagos so that she could have married someone better.... This is common when people migrate from sub-urban areas to metropolitan cities like lagos. kindly understand that its NORMAL... it is HUMAN NATURE.
I know it hurts and its not easy BUT you need to handle this matter with wisdom. Can you send someone to check on your wife's activities to be sure she is not cheating or over religious and some randy prophet is not confusing her?
Now once you have established that NO MAN is entertaining your wife... then you need to find areas in lagos according to your budget. There are places in lagos where you can pay monthly rent of between 7-11k . And there are places in lagos as high as 230k monthly... so you need not worry yourself... you can relocate to lagos based on your budget... also you need to check yourself spiritually, what could be the cause of your downward turn in business... check and solve it.
NEXT, you need to skill up sir, your current business may tie you down in the east if you do not expand your abilities mentally. THERE IS A MAJOR OPPORTUNITY SIR IN THIS ISSUE, the good news about it is that, it gives you room to reinvent yourself and grow. So don't let your wife and her mother mess up your mind sir, detach and work on yourself.... if you can learn soft skills using a laptop, it will help. If you can change your appearance and style physically, it can also help, YOU NEED TO PACKAGE YOURSELF PROGRESSIVELY.
YOU WILL COME OUT OF THIS SITUATIONS FAR BETTER SIR, but for now, for the sake of the children, this is the little wisdom you need sir to save your home. PLS VISIT LAGOS OFTEN... it is a sacrifice you will have to pay.... TRY TO MONITOR YOUR WIFE.... you can do this by cloning her whatsapp and reading all her chats or spying on her phone, so that from the east you can read all her messages, chats, get voice record of her phone calls....IT IS NECESSARY... these days, you can not just let your spouse go without some form of tracking or remote accountability .... else they will lie to your face and hurt you, then you will feel bad. So I hope these few points will help you know where to start from and what to do
festacman: Saint Obi was having a flourishing acting career until his desire to marry a financially strong woman led him to marry one stone-hearted woman who was senior executive in telecom industry and who happens to come from a wealthy family. At the end of the day, money Saint Obi no see. Rather, having fathered some children, Saint Obi was thrown out of his home and his children taken far away from him. Consequently, Saint Obi's fight against this woman and her strong family took a toll on him and the rest is history.
I don't know why his friends are speaking in parables instead of saying things as they are to honour his memory.
On May 13, 2023, the news of the death of veteran actor, Saint Obi, whose real name is Obinna Nwafor, swept across the entertainment landscape.
Since his demise, many have taken to social media to express their condolences to the family and share their feelings of grief. Despite the loss, Obi's legacy lives on in his art, where he poured his heart and soul into his creations.
The actor, who was a successful on-screen legend, made childhood for many of us notable by presenting eccentric performances whenever he had the chance.
Known as the action movie star of his era, he was born on November 16, 1965, in Port Harcourt, Rivers State.
Obi began his acting career in the late 1990s and quickly became a household name due to his exceptional talent and good looks.
Before his demise, he appeared in numerous Nollywood films, but here are five of the most notable films that made him a force to be remembered forever.
1. Candle Light (1998) Saint Obi's breakthrough role came in the film Candle Light, directed by Chico Ejiro. The film featured the actor star as one of the male leads alongside other talents but he shines through, earning him a spot in other movies. The film was a massive success and is still considered a classic in Nollywood.
2. State of Emergency (2000) Saint Obi appeared in the film State of Emergency, which Teco Benson directed. It is a Nigerian action movie about vengeful former soldiers who hold government ministers hostage for a set of demands. Obi's performance in the film earned him more acclaim and helped solidify his status as a leading actor in Nollywood.
3. Sakobi, the Serpent Girl (2001) The movie stars Obi and Susan Patrick, with direction by Zeb Ejiro. The plot revolves around a man named Francis, who is punished with a short lifespan of wealth after a plot to use his daughter as a ritual sacrifice fails. He also falls in love with a snake girl named Sakobi who turns his life upside down.
4. Wanted Alive (2001) In the 2001 movie directed by Chico Ejiro, Obi plays the leader of a criminal gang who's trying to get out of a life of crime. The film stars other action stars like Hanks Anuku, Jerry Amilo, Paul Obazele, Emeka Enyiocha, and Tuvi James. It is also one of the many films that made the audience fall in love with the Nigerian James Bond, Saint Obi.
5.Festival of Fire (2002) The on-screen legend also showcased his talent in this all-time classic directed by Chico Ejiro. The movie tells the story of a village that sacrificed human beings until the involvement of the church and Christianity.
captainking: The past years have been really challenging. I almost gave up a lot of times. I have cried and prayed silently and God has continually kept me strong with a never give up spirit and a strong belief that breakthrough is just a moment or call away. On this beautiful day he created me in his striking image. I did not choose this day.. this day choose me.. Despite the challenges that sometimes looks insurmountable, I choose to count my blessings one by one.. When I did.. I realized God has been blessing me numerously times without number. Happy birthday to me... BIG 35 looks good on me.. ☺
Port Harcourt people... Please recommend a good relaxing spot.
T for tenks
Happy Birthday to you Lesukaa bar is okay Casablanca lounge and bar is another option
tomitrace: War destroys cities: Every Nigeria City or aspiring city should learn something from the Collapse of Warri as Oil City
Warri was a big industrial hub in the 70's - 90's.
Warri Refinery, NNPC, DSC, Delta Glass, Shell, Chevron, Schlumberger, Dunlop, Agip, Saipem, Halliburton were in full operation back then. Escravos & Forcados were at their peak.
The city thrived. The city was full of zeal and zestful activities. People living outside hardcore Warri called themselves Wafarians because of propinquity to Warri even though they were not Wafarians. To be a Wafarian was to belong to supposedly a unique lifestyle.
Multinational/Local Banks were present Citibank, FBN, ACB, Savannah Bank.
Business activities thrived. Warri port was a beehive of economic activities
Entertainment/Night life was at its peak, Musicians, Live bands at Palmgroove Hotel, Comedians held their sway: Fela, legendary Don Baker, Majek Fashek, Emma Grey, Oritz Wiliki, Rex Lawson were a few of many of the entertainers that made Warri ebullient. Lido, Zina, etc were comparable to their ilks anywhere.
The town was full of life and it thrived.
McDermot road was busy with Maritime activities and contractors. Kingsway Mall offered anything sold in Lagos at that time.
Joma & Mosheshe were big fish distributors across the Niger Delta.
Rubber produced locally, was used to produce plastics and tyres.
The town grew in size and became a conurbation with people coming from all over the country to settle down in Warri for economic activities.
The Airports were super busy, Escravos, Forcados & Warri Airport. The Warri Airport was even relocated to Osubi for expansion.
Warri was revelling in its glory. Warri Port was fully operational and served as an economic booster for the city. It served businesses in Warri, Benin, Asaba & Onitsha. The Port created huge employment opportunities for locals and the state.
Things started to go downhill from the late 90's. The community leaders and youth chairmen began to fight themselves over control/sharing formula for royalties that came from oil & businesses from settlers.
Itsekiri, Urhobo & Ijaw leaders & youths started fighting each other. The bloody fight started around 1999 and lasted for years till 2003/2004.
The community leaders started imposing local taxes called "Deve" on all companies, industries and local businesses, buildings & projects.
Little by little, the companies frustrated, started leaving.
This continued throughout the early 2000's till 2010. The companies kept on leaving, one after the other. The companies layed off their employees. Unemployment rose.
More companies left for PH, Lagos, Akwa Ibom. They layed off more staff. Unemployment increased still.
Today all that is left in Warri, is a shadow of its glorious past.
95% of all the big companies in Warri had either left or closed down.
Most of the young people have left Warri.
The ones left are driving Keke, doing P.O.S, Spa or Boutique, Beer parlour or doing hookup.
There's peace now, but the damage the greedy community leaders did to Warri, still lingers on and is almost irredeemable at this point.
Do not assume that your city can not be destroyed if it toes the same route Warri followed. Warri leaders did not ever believe that Warri will be this economically empty today while they were fighting then. Learn from Warri and protect our economies
Have you asked why big eeconomies like US, China,etc will never allow war in their countries?
We must learn and avoid things that will trigger war in our country no matter how strong we believe we are. Businesses and investors go where there is peace than where there is war.
Follow us on This Is Nigeria
The sad reality Delta steel company is now moribund
Group Of Divorced Nigerian Women Celebrate Initiation Of New Members (Photos)
An group of divorced women has welcomed new members into their group in Port Harcourt, Rivers State, IGBERETV reports.
A Twitter user, Abdullah Ayofele shared a video of the women celebrating the initiation of the new members.
Wahala Wahala Wahala
Group of Divorced Women celebrating initiation of New members in what they called.. "End Of An Error" and live a free life in Port Harcourt.. Slogan of the Association .. "I do, I did, and I'm done"...... lolz 😆 pic.twitter.com/KHbK6VZ7yU
Husbandmany: Is marrying a second wife advisable because you want to have more children, as age is not on the first wife side anymore, thinking menopause. Matured minds please!!!!
Remember Yul Edochie and the Two wives - May and Judy. Your life, your choice.
jesusjnr2020: Worldly Targets Set By Churches: How My Friend Began Preaching Rubbish
Ever since I became born-again and began to walk closely with God, I have always thought the practice of setting attendance or financial targets by churches and their leaders for those under their leadership was erroneous.
I believed it was a worldly practice that had nothing to do with God, hence if the church embraced such it would only end up derailing the church from its original values and standard.
I once had a friend who was a dedicated member of Christ Embassy, one of the denominations guilty of this practice, so when this topic came up during our conversations, I expressed my disapproval of such a policy in the church. But despite being a very devoted and committed member of the Church, he honestly admitted that such targets made him to start preaching what he ought not when he held a leadership position under the church.
He bowed to the pressure of meeting such targets set for him by his leaders and began preaching something else which he thought would enable him meet those targets when preaching the right thing couldn't.
I wasn't much surprised though about that because I knew very well that such was inevitable, considering that such targets were worldly and not of God, so it was only going to lead to compromising and going contrary to the things of God, since the things of this world were opposed to the things of God.
This is the same kind of targets set by some financial institutions to their employees that would make them to start going to ridiculous lengths, including sleeping with some of their clients, to meet them.
This is what has being embraced by a significant part of the church which ought to be in this world but not to the world.
That's why I don't get impressed with the mammoth crowds attending some churches and the amount of money they generate as a result.
It's much easier to achieve similar results by preaching the nonsense people want to hear rather than the Truth and Words of the Spirit.
If it were by preaching rubbish as it is the case in most of such churches, many of the disciples who left Jesus because of the Words of the Spirit He preached, would have never left Him.
They would have remained in the church at the expense of spiritual quality, which is more or less the result of the church we have today.
That's why I don't judge a church by the amount of members or riches they have, but how much they follow the example and teachings of Christ, because that's the only true standard that determines how successful a church is in the sight of God.
lozanni: Honestly, the vast spaces of arable forests and grasslands in that area, makes it a very conducive location for kidnappers and other evil elements to operate from. Igbo Etche, with the active participation of the indigenes, should be converted into large scale farmlands and ranches in order to make it the food basket of the state and also earn foreign exchange through export of highly desirable cash crops.
You are right, Rivers State Government should build another Songhai farm in Igbo Etche.
Career › Re: Dentistry Or Pharmacy. Which Is More Lucrative And Who Earns More? by sageb: 10:32am On May 20, 2023
