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Liliantalks:
lol be like u never hear say man money Dey sweet !!

R u a student ? I don’t understand the school environment issue

Lolz. But seriously, change this your mentality of man must spend lavishly on you. When you marry (if you haven't), your hubby will spend on you for sure. But don't enter a relationship hoping to have the guy as your meal ticket. Guys have families too. They have goals to achieve. I told my girl this point blank. Of course, she sees the way I take care of my family and can see that I am a responsible person who will take care of her and my kids.

For the bolded, No I'm not. I work there

Liliantalks:
just hope she doesn’t meet a better guy who would swept her off her feet . And spend on her

She has her money! When you have money to take care of your bills, dude will concentrate on giving you treats. That's what I do.

And she loves me like kilode. Everyday, she's afraid of losing me. Probably because we're both in a campus environment and she sees the quality of ladies flocking around. When you work in a student environment, you will understand that girls are cheap to get. No offense meant

If a woman loves you more than you love her, it reduces the chances of her misbehaving

Now, I really have to go

Liliantalks:
r u stingy ? If yes , u lack them . U just get free Pusey from girls with boyfriends

Yes dear. I'm stingy!! I have my family to care for materially. Babe gets things occasionally and she sends me things occasionally too. It's a mutually beneficial relationship.

There's no parasite in it whatsoever!

She gives me pussy too and I give her dick. And if she misbehaves which she hasn't yet, I draw another closer as I don't fail to have one around even though nothing is going on between us.

CsRockefeller:
Some of u will just open ur big mouths like a whale and talk on issues you have no knowledge or understanding on at all.

Just look at you. You aint bright at all.

Nah bro. Attack the message but not the messenger!!

You can do better. We're just cross fertilizing opinions

Liliantalks:
lol like u can love every woman u meet ! Single men r still out there, because of this expectation.

Let it not seem like I brag but babe, we don't lack 'em. Trust me

NockMedia:
LOL there is enough to go round

Maybe, this op isn't in Nigeria!

There are a lot of ladies to go round. A lot

cooooooks:
I don't believe your brags.

Furthermore, runs is still a major thing in our country.

She's very right.

Well, I have nothing to proof. Believe what you want!

I spend on my family and occasionally send my woman something because she doesn't depend on me for her sustenance. She works and makes her own money, which actually makes me respect her the more

From experience, most girls that think of having a man as their meal ticket are unemployed and have nothing to offer. Sex is the cheapest thing to get these days. Maybe because I'm in a student environment anyways

Liliantalks:
because men r too lazy to work ,, women rather become side chicks to married men which is very sad !! There r still men out there spending hell for their ladies .

Stop looking for women to feed you n expect submission

Keep talking! . Relationships are not poverty alleviation programme my dear! As a girl, you will do yourself a world of good getting something doing and having money to pay your bills at least until you marry. A single girl, depending on men for her sustenance is not fashionable anymore. It doesn't pay them anymore sef. Go to RantHQ and other online platforms and see how ladies are complaining of stingy single guys. NNE, Boys don dey wise up

I will only have my wife and family to fend and provide for. Until you become one, don't expect much from me.

Newsflash! Even without 'spending hell' for them, they still flock around me. . We now know the secret

OK bye

Liliantalks:
So there was a thread yesterday night n the OP was complaining about women demanding for men , he said prostitution is okay n porn stars is okay , but women who demand from their boyfriends r the immortal people ( makes no sense ofcourse) a lady made some valid agrument against it , n emphasis on men doing the needful for their wives and girlfriend , and women also being summissive to them , which to me is absolutely correct, well men attacked her for simple agreeing that ofcourse women deserve to be treated as queens. Which is normal in this platform

My point : Men just showed me that they r very confused with what they went , you want a woman to share bills with you n expect her to be submissive at the same time ? That’s impossible and that’s the reason a lot of marriages are not working . If u want submissiveness be a MAN , the way God Sa’id it n till the soil. Don’t look for a woman to share bills with u n think u can tell her what to do , it will never work .

And trust me no woman wants a man feeling entitled to her money, in other to make ur home function , cause it’s ur home , they r all answering ur surname ,

if u feel sharing bills or hving a woman who can take care of herself with out ur input is what u want , don’t complain when she feels she’s can make decisions in the home without ur input . No matter how much ur woman make , she is ur responsibility, she’s only there to help when things r tough .

Ps : date ur kind of woman , if a woman is demanding leave her alone n stop complaining to us , if u don’t spend , another man will spend.

The bolded is part of the reason we're having more entrants into Shiloh yearly

BTW, men are becoming wise. Single men I mean. That's why married men are the new sexy for leeches

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BrilliantGigolo:
Thanks for unquoting. Tell Lalasticlala this one big pass anaconda.

His love for anaconda won't allow him see engaging topics

cerpvad:
Bruh it depends. If I take her out today and tomorrow she buzz me for let's say recharge card or cooking gas filling, I will oblige her and afterwards study her to see if that's her habitual attitude before concluding she is a leech or not..

The reason for my position is that Some ladies will like to test if you are stingy or not. So if she asks you something and you know you can afford it, give her. But if you cannot afford it, be open to her and make her understand

What stupid test? A girl that has started begging you for this or that a day after your date is a leech! Ordinarily, begging should be shameful. I feel ashamed begging my guys for something, let alone an opposite sex. There should be an element of self worth for any human. Begging takes away your prestige

Goodnigga:
O boyte author=Samakus post=88587497]If there's one thing I regret in life so far, it's missing out on Cynthia due to my complex issues then! Babe was a damsel from a stinkingly rich Anambra family and I, new employee in a federal school, was fidgeting about taking her on even when it was so clear that she was practically 'wetting for me'!

When I eventually mustered the courage to ask for a date. She smiled and said, ' I thought you're never gonna ask again! And on a date we went!

On that fateful day for our first date, she called me around 3pm and told me that she was at Chitis restaurant, that I should meet her up when I'm ready. Imagine your date choosing a venue for you (because you didn't tell her anyone you had in mind) and being there on time before you?

To cut it short, I wore my nice cloth, and went to Chitis. Babe was already giving herself a nice treat. Fried rice and salad with a big Chicken, plenty fried plantains and of course, a nice wine to complement! I had 2k in my pocket, and hell yes, my mind skipped when I saw what was on the table . I stepped in and she offered me a seat! I smiled sheepishly, but deep down, I was wondering where I will get extra money to complete the payment for what she ordered which obviously was more than 2k already. Need I remind that she got a big EVA bottle water too

Looking at her was difficult as this girl was a mermaid in human form! She has this cuteness about her and will make any man's heart skip a bit. Next thing I heard was, WHAT DO I GET FOR YOU? I knew that the question was for me but feigned deafness . She asked again with a smile, Hey Handsome, WHAT'S YOUR ORDER?

I looked at her in bewilderment but summoned courage to mutter, "Just rice and chicken! She asked me again: 'won't you like a drink or should I get you a wine? . I just said, no thanks, water will be good. Besides, she had a wine on the table already and i didn't see the need for another wine. She steeped to the counter, paid for my order and brought it to me.

We talked about so many things. But most of our discussions centered on our visions and plans for growth. Babe was giving me tips on businesses I can open within the campus when I get settled. For her, once she's done with school ( she's already in her finals), she will fly out to Canada for her Masters and then come back when she's done to head HR in her dad's company. I suggested to her to get her CIPM certification before doing her Masters since she had passion for Human Resources. Not ever hearing of CIPM, her likeness for me doubled.

We had a nice time and we left. She called her taxi guy to come drop her while I left for the shuttle park . She continued calling me after that and continued talking but I have already harboured the fear that her class was too high for me. Poor, naive me!! . I never took the next step with her. And she left after her graduation and became incommunicado as I never called her after our date

Looking back now, I feel like beating myself. She had everything I wanted in a woman physically. And had the right goals and penchant for success like I now do! I have seen a lot of ladies and can now appreciate what a gift, a lady with visions, plans and the right frame of mind, is for young man hustling to reach his dreams. Which girl will start discussing your visions and plans for a better life on your first date these days?

I missed Cynthia due to inferiority complex and naivity! I was young and stupid! I was 25 and just got a job in the school after finishing NYSC, when i met her. I pray I find a goal oriented Lady like Cynthia again! Because, they're very hard to come by these days!





O boy if you like your destiny, go and find your Cynthia. Find through Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, friends, if you truly want Cynthia, you can get her back. This jet age, you can find anyone.That girl is so sweet to have man.

I have tried! Don't know her surname or other names. Just Cynthia

I'm interested. My WhatsApp number is on my signature


Anyway to make money online now, I'm interested

cerpvad:
Hmmm, you see bruh, men are created to provide for their women's needs. Not every lady that demands or buzz you for things is a leech. Some can be demanding and yet have deserving characters and good attitudes.

I only consider you to be a leech when you receive everything you want from me and you don't show gratitude or appreciation

A woman that you take out and tomorrow she's already buzzing you for things is a leech. Don't sugarcoat it

Sometimes I wonder what's inside an average girl's head. Big bag of crayfish?

How can someone come online, in a faceless platform, with a lot of people, to spew trash about HER MOM. HER MOM!

She's even calling her a Wicked mum, just because the said woman didn't call her. Something as common and inconsequential as a call? The OP's entitlement mentality is a perfect example of the type of ladies we're having today.

For crying out loud madam, She's your mum! Put some ***king respect! If anyone deserves and is entitled to be called, it's HER!

Stop running to social media at the start of anything, it's a big big minus! Grow up, you finish brain, will ya?

Glistinin:
UNN?

Monitoring spirit

SweetCunt97:
Beg for?

For dick of course

IAMBlesssed:
Lol..
What do you guys think that marriage is? In as much as women wants marriage but most responsible ladies are not desperate for marriage especially with a 'stranger'.If u don't want to commit to her, another guy will see her worth and do the needful. She will be happy and appreciated.
The leeches are the ones that re actually desperate ones because u re their meal ticket..Their life goals and plans starts and ends in ur pocket..

I couldn't agree less

NYCnextStop:
Awka, Nigeria to be precise

You wish

cerpvad:
OK cool. But don't get it twisted. Some ladies like Cynthia would bait you with every nice thing for you to marry them but na after marriage your eyes go open when dem show their true character

My brother, what I have learnt so far since that episode is that leeches don't waste time to display their true colour. Leeches don't know how to hide their leechy behavior for long.

More reason why you will meet a leech today, take her out and tomorrow, she's already buzzing for something as small as airtime! Leeching is like a virus. It manifests faster than you think

SweetCunt97:
I was once in this boat once upon a time, I chose to dive into the sea abandon ship... I hate stress in my life abeg. This one siblings reach 9 sef but he had a good job as a banker then sha... Salary no dey reach half of month e don finish.

Abeg parents should stop popping out many kids and stressing firstborns o.

You? You used to beg online. Wow, storylines truly change

Aboki na aboki I swear!