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If the man is unconscious how will his phenese be erekt

Omotayor123:
The woman needs an helping hand

gbam

Look at the bile and evil seed he's planting into those little boys minds

tomorrow if they become she-m@les and start disgracing him up and down he'll cry foul. Kontinu

Ahannn madammmm itan yi ti poju.this story is too much


you are part of the people giving him attention and petting him


if he comes back here to quote me or anybody that means he's not serious about the swecide


bet if he doesn't come back it means he has done the needful



next

tearoses:
So becasue you have a 2:2 the next thing is to commit suicide?
Are your parents still alive?
If they are, is this is how you pay them backi?
All their investment, love and time . . now worthless?
Before you kill yourself, be brave like a man and go and tell them your intentions

Tell them that all the money spent on you is about to be wasted. From the time your mother was pregant with you and buying & taking folic acid so that you will be born hale and hearty to the uni that they have paid for you in Ghana.
If they had known that this is how you will repay them, they should have put all the money spent on you from pregnancvy till now on owambes, posh cars and foreign holidays.
Your parents went without so that you will have a good life, is this their reward?
isnt that very selfish

If you commot suicide, What about your loved ones that do care?
What about The poor mama that put you on her back, was soothing you and singing to you at 2am in the morning when you were teething
Is this her reward?

What is so bad that you want to commit suicide
Look around you and tell me, what is so bad in your life that you want to end it at noon?
All problesm have solutions, the solution may not be instant, but there is always a way out.
I pray that the Holy Spirit ministers to you.

Racism is Americas only cancer. As corruption =Nigeria and Nigeria has been unable to get rid of it so Is racism and unreasonable violence in America

as per those leasbian couples let's say they are finally compensated what they want shey they won't turn to Oliver twist and want more millions on another allegations

MRBrownJ:
yet they should not be compensated for wanting the best for their child, while instead being wronged by a negligent clinic?!



there is nothing wrong with having this story in the media in order to let the world know what they are going through and warn others about these shaddy and negligent clinics.



they are concerned about making something (which is obviously wrong) Right!



ahahahahahahha you must be joking right?! the USA is one of the most racist countries on earth, you best believe that .... but if in doubt, check the police killings of innocent coloured people OR BETTER YET, check what Donald Trump (the possible next US president) is saying about the mexicans. land of the free and brave my foot!

When will you people stop all this nonsense called tribalism

the posters above me.smh

Buy jik , acid and harpic. mix every thing together and then drink.


Say hi to angel Michael and angel for me.

when you get there tell them shewa will join them in the next 80 years. I'm still having a great time here

bye dear

Mindfulness:
This is a great example of acceptance and welcoming diversity that the lesbian / gay movement demands of others.

America accommodates all categories of people gay straight bisexual etc. That's why they're referred to as the land of the free and brave. Nigeria on the other hand doesn't tolerate let alone accept gay marriages

Mindfulness:
If this mother was concerned with her child's well-being in the first place and if she valued her child's well-being above anyone else's, she would not allow for the story to be all over the media.

The story is a comedy, except for the child, for the baby girl it is a tragedy.

This mother does not deserve this child.

gbam.exactly my point. The history of the child's conception will be all over the Internet. Them no even care about the psyche and well being of the child. All they are concerned with is money

Pishore of the phenese na

Ok you win

let me be packing my bags and be rounding up to close from work

it is already 3.53pm on a Friday. Time for weekend shopping


I saw one better yam on my way to work but I was so much in a hurry to be haggling price with the seller. I have to go there now and re check for it. The thing go make sense for yam porridge make i con buy roasted fish and raw red meat wey I go quickly season and boil con dice join every thing for inside the yam porridge


ok palm oil still dey kishin.

Alright byeee.

till I reach house.

MRBrownJ:
whatever the amount they desire, it will be down to a judge to decide how much compensation they should get.



of course they should....and the hospital compensation will help towards that.



buying in schools all over the word is real, and a problem NOBODY has been able to fix. saying that tit is easy to avoid is another joke of yours.



will that fix the trauma/burden/stress related to having a mixed race kid?! NOPE!



just because Nigeria is failing in that department, does NOT mean we all must accept poor standards and negligent clinics.

damiso:
your Ijebu pass my own o

But that's why I am buying the own brand one naa? Is that not prudent enough ni?

Brides I use kitchen towels for a few other things ,I use to line plates when making things like pancakes etc it's also handy for some lain spills.

ehen can't tissue paper too clean the plates and even gan if you have to use that you nor get clothes wey you no dey wear again, use scissors and cut out a part that you can be using instead of buy buy

napkin is 200naira.that 200 naira is enough for me to do pedicure or buy this ten ten naira stick sweet in one pack that will keep wuras mouth busy and silence her for the next 1hr

MRBrownJ:
sista Sambarry, you are not serious, lol.
how much the hospital makes a year is irrelevant to the important point here: they made a mistake and need to compensate their victims. let a judge decide how much the clinic should pay, and if they havent got the money they can get a loan, sell the hospital etc

you are still saying the same thing. Will the 3 million redo the mistake that has already been made. No matter what 3milla cannot do anything. The truth is that those couples are opportunists


they too want to drive lambogini

Then they should take them to good schools where their esteem and dignity as human beings will surely be protected. The point is if parents do a good job and the school also tries to protect the children from bullying each other then trust me you have nothing to be bothered about.

Instead of having misplaced priorities e.g paying attention to what is not important as in trying to sue the hospital why don't the couple channel that energy on having another white kid that will match up to their taste and standard in another hospital then focus on how they will bring the siblings up together and learn how to love each other

they are even lucky they're not in Nigeria. Haven't you heard of cases where they mistakenly diagnosed someone for hiv meanwhile he never had hiv or prescribing wrong drugs for wrong ailments and after the damage is done the only thing they can get is sorry. No refunds even ministry of health go dey sidon look. They won't do anything other than sorry

MRBrownJ:
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH you had me there!
it is the hospital duty to have qualified and competent doctors to deliver a PERFECT service. yes there could be human error anywhere but then THEY (the person and employer) must take FULL responsibility for it, and compensate the people affected by that error.



you are looking at the world with wishful thinking, while i am giving you the raw undiluted version. kids get bullied when different, discriminated upon because of their race/religion/tribe/sex/sexual orientation etc etc etc... also are you trying to say that children with low self esteem (or identity crisis) automatically means the parents didnt do a good job raising them!?!?!?!?!? if you think that you can build ALL kids self esteem as easy as you are making breakfast, then you have a lot to learn.



again, the compensation is not there to CHANGE in any way the race of the kid nor hurt knowingly the clinic... it is to provide necessary funds for the possible emotional/psychological and financial burden that this family will go through, due to the mixed race of the child (burden that they would probably not have gotten if the kid was white)



- not focussing on the present is mistake #1 because we all live in the present, and therefre shouldnt bury our heads in the sand pretending that something is NOT there, when it is right in front of your face.
- thinking that the issue is resolved simply because the hospital paid them back, and/or thinking that these women are "sleeping peacefully" is your mistake #2

Madam damiso you see you like serenren.cant you tear a page of an old news paper in ya house and if you don't have come and take in my house instead of buying kitchen towel abi na napkin una dey call am.tear the page of news paper sheet into two then use it to remove hot pot of food from the drawer in the kitchen instead of wasting money buying kitchen towel

then again with 25naira you buy tissue paper to use and clean where you keep your pots. At least that money can be diverted into something useful. Of which the tissue can last up to 3weeks if you are a careful user

that is what they call prudent woman

Can you imagine Mr Brown jay a whooping 3million dollars loun loun like kilode


longer throat dey worry them o.ahann

how much is the hospital making annually for them to gather 3million dollars.


oya let me bring out my calculator. Here is it.ahen good

Be looking o.



170 naira x30,000,000=

As per your last paragraph that is the work or responsibility of a parent in the first place

if you are a mother you have to be a teacher,
psychologist ,emotional healer, cook cleaner,prayer intercessor, counsellor and friend to your children
so as a mother whether your child is mixed race or not whether they bullied your child from school or not you have to be all of this and morr

MRBrownJ:
as i said from my 1st post, it is NOT unreasonable nor greedy to demand compensation... you ladies are the one coming with flimsy excuses as to why they are unreasonable/greedy and i gave my views as to why these ladies deserve any penny they can get from this negligent clinic



if their child decides to sue then that will be HER decision... but you certainly cant sit here and expect these women NOT to do what THEY believe is right, simply because some kids down the line may not have the same view. we parents must sometimes take decisions that may not be what others will view as righteous but nevertheless thats what is best for the family that counts. these women are doing what they believe is RIGHT by having fertility treatment/insemination, and therefore let them live with the consequences of their act.



- who will settle the psychologist bills when that child is possibly coming home crying because he/she cant fit in?!
- who will settle the therapy sessions when mama has possibly lost all her friend due to having a mixed race child?
- who will pay for relocation because the town they live in possibly look down on coloured/mixed people?!
- who will foot the bill when having to buy items specifically for mixed race hair/skin care?! (a white child could have used his/her mother's comb etc)

Mister brown that is not professional negligence it is called HUMAN ERROR which anybody is prone to once in a while.

If the parents build up their children's self esteem and make them realise that they are beautiful intelligent and great nobody can make them feel inadequate because of their race. It has happened it has happened naniyen.if the parents do a good job in raising the kid trust me he or she will be able to face the world without having a feeling of inferiority complex because of his race.

Meanwhile no amount of compensation can change his mixed blood to white. Ok let's assume they win the case and maybe the government seizes the licence of the hospital to operate will it change the havoc that has already been committed?

Look at the future stop dwelling on the present. Let by gone be by gone. I don't know why a lion will be sleeping peacefully and yoy will go and pull the tail of a lion . when the thing attacks you una go dey cry foul.

Let sleeping dogs lie.nawa o

MRBrownJ:
are you now insinuating that i dont like my kids simply because i understand why/how 2 white parents may have difficulties raising a mixed race child in today's society (difficulties that they may not have if that child was white)?!
remember, i have 3 mixed race children



and thats exactly what they are doing.... demanding compensation for the emotional/psychological/financial stress that they may encounter while raising that mixed race child (stress that they would NOT have encounter if the clinic had done their job properly). if you call that "crying over spilled milk" then fair enough, thats your opinion.



YES they have made a mistake, NO they havent solved the issue of "who is going to compensate them for all the emotional/psychological/financial stress that they may endure in the future, thanks to the negligence of this clinic... stress that would be absent if the child was white, as planned."



they will indeed but that doesnt rectify the negligent act by that clinic. if you think that the only duty from a negligent clinic is to pay back the money, and all is clear, then you have a lot to learn. why should these women suffer? why should they have sleepless night? why should they have to pay for psychologists and more, if the error was not theirs?



A) MJ's kids are white (dont get it twisted) B) if his kids were mixed race then this would have been a CONSCIOUS decision taken by both parents to have a mixed race kid in this world, and therefore they would have only themselves to blame as this would be the consequences of their actions, and C) if one of the parent is black then they have the proper background to instill the needed cultural/ethnical values that any afro mixed kids needs.



yes the mothers might be able to do that but are you sure that the whole world will follow suit?! these kids will have to face the world someday and sadly, only the strongest make it.



i doubt these ladies EVER for once second said that the kid was NOT theirs, they just said that as 2 white women raising a mixed race child, it may be harder (and that extra hardship, that they would not have had if the child was white, is the direct consequence of the negligence)



Obama was raised by a single mother who KNOWINGLY decided to have a mixed race child, completely different from a woman who wants a white child and end up with a mixed race one because of a negligent clinic. stop being emotional and stick to the issue at hand sista.



they are proud of his Kenyan heritage, nothing wrong with that.



again, it is all down to the choices EACH AND EVERYONE takes in life, knowing fully well the consequences of their actions. so if a lesbian couple decides to have a child together, knowing fully well that society may look down on such, then thats their issues and they have ALL THE RIGHTS TO DO THAT, because A) they are lesbians therefore UNDERSTAND FIRST HAND the issue/disapproval of society when it comes to homosexuality and B) it was NEVER forced upon them.
now compare that with having a mixed race child while 1) none of them is black, 2) they have no idea what type of racism blacks/mixed children may go through in their lives, but MOST IMPORTANTLY 3) they never took the decision to have a mixed race child, it was forced upon them thanks to the negligence of the clinic.



anyone has the right to demand whatever they desire, it will be down to the judge to decide HOW MUCH exactly they should get in compensation.



sue them for what exactly?!



although you are right about that it doesnt change the fact that due to the negligence of the clinic, the mothers may STILL suffer emotionally/psychologically and financially.

MadCow1:
www.nairaland.com/attachments/2842816_ka1_jpegfee686bb398da7518a908d632ee846bb



It was at this very moment Wasiu knew he was fhucked..

see his face

I'm surprised they didn't strip him naked sef and tear his uniform

I will have seen something today

ebamma:
KAI is the short form of kai kai



aka ogogoro

kai is an abbreviated word for

K-kick
A-against
I-indiscipline

ikorodureporta:
...Looking forward to when guyz wl start sharing pinshures of erect joystickz

they're already sharing

flavour nabaniya has shared half naked pictures of himself with erect dick
same with iyaya, jim iyke and so on

FhnvdzzSfgyuiopmnvcx

hahn:
You misunderstand me. I meant that since it's oyibo, it's not surprising. They capable of very weird things.

What still beats my imagination is that despite the fact that we claim to be "holier" and with "better morals" their country is still better developed than ours

of course it will be better than us. You know say na religion we dey use hide our inadequacies and corruption. E.g a governor using public funds to sponsor some people travelling to Mecca while he hasn't paid his staffs and civil servants their salary yet he thinks that is his priority

hahn:
This is totally opposite from what he meant though but this is indeed odd.

Since na oyibo do am, what can I say?

Op, mention me when you have a picture of Africans doing this

I taya for we nigerians.anytime oyinbo do something it is always good. Them kiss dog it is good. Them marry their grandma mate e good. Now this ones dey touch their mama brez you say nothing bad.if na naija pikin do am. Them for Don curse the pikin taya

johnydon22:
It's their mother for crying out loud, they suckled and fondled those breasts for months sometimes years.

It's y'alls perverted minds you should blame. . .

why don't you allow your adolescent daughters touch ya something and say it's out of your semen they came from. What is bad is bad. Which kain nonsense be that one

Mindfulness:
@bold

Wrong!

The lawyer will know if the case is time-barred or if it isn't. We don't know. Lawyers do.

I am always right Mister mind

lawyers are like pimps. They may not send you, they may know you're not fine.they may know you're ugly and fat but they'll tell you what you want to hear and push you just so they can make money out of you

lawyers only pretend they care. They actually don't. The more trouble people have the more their money that is why you see them elongating cases

no lawyer will ever admit that


lawyers in the house I dey open ya yansh bite me

Mister brown Mister brown

you're too funny

the only thing that you have been emphasizing on is emotional and psychological stress in raising the child and the way their counterparts will be looking at them
it is very obvious you don't like half caste bet that one is a story for another day now to the matter #clears throat#


They already have the child. The issue now should be HOW ARE WE GOING TO RAISE THIS CHILD instead of crying over spilled milk. Fine the hospital has made a mistake and they've owned up to their mistake. The point is that they should start learning how they will cope with aggressive eyes lurking around then when next they want to have another child they should go to another hospital. By the way shebi Michael Jackson is a black man (forget the bleaching, nose and hair. No amount of bleaching can change your dna to oyinbo If you are black you are black) and his wife is oyinbo. How come people are not looking at the children some how. This world is simple. It's we human beings that make it complicated. They should learn how they will love and accept the child. Look beyond his mixed race or whatever.

Tomorrow now if the child is successful they will say that's my son. Oya tell me who remembers obamas skin colour

every body from Kenya dey claim he's my brother he's from my town we went to the same secondary school we did this together we did that together

MRBrownJ:
you must stop being a "woman" for a minute (aka stop being too emotional) about this case, and instead focus on the facts at hand.
so, regardless of whether YOU believe that mixed race people are beautiful or not (which is not the case here), instead understand that it would be emotionally/psychologically and financially "easier" for two white women to raise a white child than it would be to raise a mixed race child.



you are not focussing on what is IMPORTANT here:
if we lived in a world free of racism, where everyone was equal, then i would have agreed with you but sadly it aint so... and therefore it may be emotionally/psychologically harder for these 2 women to raise a mixed race child than it would if that child was white.
btw out of my 6 kids, 3 are mixed race, and i fully understand the struggle for mixed race children to fit in or identify, in a particular society. i am not even gonna dwell on that same said society that has the definition of beauty being white with blonde hair and blue eyes.



true... but you dont focus on the main issue here:
- does society look down on white women having a mixed race child? YES, some people in society do!
- is it harder for a mixed race child to fit in with a particular race in that same society?! YES, sometimes it is!
therefore emotionally/psychologically, it may be MORE difficult for these women to raise a mixed race child than it would have been if it was a white child.



as you have written it, the world we live in is neither fair for all nor easy, so it may be easier for 2 women to raise a white child than it would be for them to raise a mixed race child, just like it may be emotionally easier for 2 black women to raise a black child than it would be for them to raise a mixed race child ... i am not being a racist, i am being REAL about life.



they may have foolishly believe that raising a mixed race child was the same as raising a white child... and only realise now after 2 yrs that it aint so.



if you agree that the clinic was negligent then AGAIN, stop focussing on the small picture, and instead focus on the emotional/psychological and possibly financial stress that having a mixed race child may bring to these women's live (stress that would have been absent if the child was white)



here is what these women may endure with a mixed race child that they would NOT if the child was white (which the refunded money does NOT cover):
[b]- having to deal emotionally/psychologically with the stare of people, the possible loss of friends, the possible verbal/emotional/physical abuse due to the mixed race of the child
- having to deal emotionally/psychologically with a child not being able to fit with a particular race in due to their mixed race status
- having to deal emotionally/psychologically with explaining their mixed race status to that child OR their origin
- emotionally/psychologically having to explain the verbal/physical/emotional discrimination that this child may face
- having to deal emotionally/psychologically with the fact that they have no afro origin/background in order to instill in that child the proper tool for him/her to be prepared for the society we live in
- having to deal emotionally/psychologically with the fact that they have no afro origin/background in order to instill in that child the proper identity/culture/ethnic background for that child to have sound sense of self (and strong foundations)
- having to deal physically AND financially with nappy hair and skin care issues (they certainly wont use the same comb/shampoo/cream etc that they are using) while being clueless about it all
[/b]


all what i have mentioned above are things that would NOT have been an issue if the child was white... so, REFUNDING THE MONEY THEY'VE PAID WILL NOT COVER THE ABOVE, THEREFORE SUING FOR COMPENSATION IS UNDERSTANDABLE



the compensation will help the mother deal adequately with the possible added emotional/psychological/physical stress... stress that would have been inexistent if the clinic had done their job PROPERLY!

powerfulsettingz:
All I saw was an illetrate lady drawing rubbish on her arm

That woman's tattoo is funny.na dollar be that one?

Awon broda ati anti ara orun unveiled

oreos:


I will find out one day

be my guest