₦airaland Forum

edwife:
This must be my facebook wife,starring ini and jim ...

no it is omoge Facebook starring jide kosoko (grooms father), femi afebayo (groom)
Mercy aigbe (bride)
Shola shobowale (grooms mom)
Akin Lewis (father of the bride)
Remi surutu (mother of the bride)
Fathia balogun sister of the bride
foluke daramola sister of the groom

EfemenaXY:
My sister, the thing reach to ask.

There are some nutters who don't even put curtains in their houses / front rooms. Makes you wonder if they're asking for "it". i.e night visitors.

they're doing free show

it is allowed

Idowuogbo:
That bosom babe is bad azz mehn....love her diary. No nonsense babe. She's sooooo naughty

EfemenaXY:
Lol!

I can't even begin to explain what you're missing babe.

Give me a shout when you change your mind sha.

you can shek back in 2098

EfemenaXY:
I don't get it.

Where were they making out from across the bar on the street? In an open space? Or they just forgot to draw the curtains in their room?

Silly couple.

EfemenaXY:
We've been married for tey-tey. Didn't you know Jennykadry was his first wife and me the 3rd out of his 5 legal wives? Every yam festival, we visit his shrine at Shagamu for blessings.

He does have plenty-plenty girlfriends but if you ask me nicely, I could put in a good word for you so he includes you in his long list of conquests.

thank you not interested

y'all can share your shagamu soups together

bet remind him to take you and his numerous wives for the ojude oba festival o

Nigeria has issues like any other nation but why Nigerias own is obvious is because all eyes are on Nigeria and the international media places unnecessary attention on Nigerias negative side that's why it looks like that

MRBrownJ:
racism is very real all over the world, included in the US... but yes, 9ja has much more issues.



the judge decision will be final unless they appeal... but then they will only get the settlement when they accept and sign for it. after that there is no way going back on what they have signed for!



well private therapy for mum will cost anything between $60-250 PER SESSION. so let's assume it costs $150, and that she needs a session per week, for 10yrs, that will equal to $78K

a private psychologist for the child will cost between $50-150 PER SESSION. so let's assume it costs $100, and that she needs a session per week, for 10yrs, that will equal to $52K

now also take into consideration that they will need to GO and RETURN from the sessions, so add transport cost back and forth, and possibly baby sitting cost if nobody can stay with the child while mum goes to therapy. right there we are getting a total of about $200K cost that we will call EXTRA COST A



thats great... we all should teach our children what WE believe is RIGHT.



and again, i ask you: how much do you think is a fair amount to compensate someone that you've just messed up their lives?!



again, you too are being a woman and being emotional about this issue, rather than looking at the facts.
having an opinion about who you want to associate with is NOT wrong, same as where you want to live. are you now saying that they SHOULDNT live in a racist environment?! how dare you want to impose YOUR views on others?! they have the right to decide who they desire to associate with OR where they want to live... and if the clinic had not fukced up, these women would be happily living in their community with a WHITE child.

so relocation + getting a new house in a fancy community $500K, starting again to do all these fancy activities in order to make new friends, thats another $50K per year, for 10yrs (its not easy to make new friends) grand total= $1M
so lets call that EXTRA COST B



are you sure about that?! here:
DuPage County judge Ronald Sutter tossed the lawsuit alleging wrongful birth and breach of warranty on Thursday, the Chicago Tribune reported. But he said Jennifer Cramblett of Uniontown, Ohio, could refile her lawsuit against Midwest Sperm Bank under a negligence claim.
source: http://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2015/sep/05/judge-dismisses-white-woman-lawsuit-black-sperm-donation

so the judge BELIEVE there is a case of negligence



what a pile of HIGH GRADED NONSENSE, of course you CANT!
you have the right to have your own views, and as much as you can share them with who you desire, you have ABSOLUTELY no right to impose them on others! take a clue from ignorant BH fighters who want to impose their own views on us all.



now you are simply being stupid (with all due respect) in order to make a point.
in all these so called country with laws against racism:
- can you report someone who does not want to associate with coloured people?!
- can you report someone who believes that white people shouldnt have babies with coloured people?!
- can you report someone who teaches his children to not associate with coloured kids in school?!
- can you report a friend who doesnt want to associate with you because you had a bi-racial kid?!
- can you report a community because your kids is the only coloured kid there and he/she cant fit in?!

what you wrote is only RIGHT if, for example, someone refuses to give you a job, refuse to rent you a home OR refuses to let you in an establishment because of you race/religion etc



NONSENSE UPON NONSENSE!!!!! i suggest you check again the definition of DEMOCRACY, to understand how WRONG you obviously are. you MUST respect each and everyone's views, whether you like them or not because everyone has the RIGHT for freedom of speech and opinion!

being a racist isn't illegal, its the action in which your racist beliefs would conflicts with the law that is illegal (aka refuse to give a job to a coloured person etc). there is NO law that says that a person A) cant believe that other races are inferior to their own, B) cant say it publicly and privately, C) cant print material stating such belief, D) cant start an organization whose members share these racist beliefs, and subsequently spread them.
PLS EDUCATE YOURSELF!



you should accept what is tolerable TO YOU, and let others decide what they want to accept for themselves, whether you like it or not. trying to force people into thinking the way YOU think is not only wrong but also crazy. so long as their views are not against the law, then they have the right to have them?! if we think like you do and ENFORCE people to think one way only, then christians and muslims would never be able to live in harmony in Nigeria!



ok, we are finally getting somewhere!



in my calculation EXTRA COST A + EXTRA COST B = $1.2M
and thats without all the extra hair/skin care etc



fair enough



thats all on the mothers, to know how they will raise their child

Ok o let me excuse you o


happy married life in advance

EfemenaXY:
You sef.

My bobo (Sagamite) is whispering in my ears. Why d'you choose this moment to distract me, Kulyie?

And in response to your question, no babes, you don't fall into the category @OP is describing na. I mean, I know you have wacky ideas and we've disagreed many many times but it's never got out of hand now. Or has it?

Happy Sunday!

cococandy:
Addicted.

If you have netflix, watch it.

Nymphomania is common?

yes na.that is the propelling force of r@peest and pedophiles

Chillisauce:

happy rainy Sunday chilli sauce

e dey rain for una side?

EfemenaXY:


One of who?

ya last paragraph na

What is the title of the film you people are talking about sef

by the way isn't sexual addiction=nymphomaniac tendencies. I think it is more of a psychological problem and it's common. Very common

cococandy:
You're welcome.

Lol. Talking about Africa, how many men will advice one another to stay with a wife who is sleeping around town because she may be addicted? Story story.
If he even does, they will cuss him out for being a weakling and what have you.
His family will turn on him for accommodating ashawo in his home.
Just try to advice them to endure and seek professional help with the woman and see the way they will react. Fear go catch you sef

So I'd say while I didn't even think about it that way (addiction) until I watched this movie, I can understand why more people including myself are clamoring for men to held to the same standards they hold women to.
Because none of them will take addiction as an excuse to forgive that kind of wife and stay to work it out. Lai Lai.

Although sexual addiction isn't very popular an ailment, it is understandable now to me.
The movie was a little eye opener.
I agree People should communicate more.
That could have saved this couple lots of heartache.

I'm glad they worked it out finally.

Well

Am I one of them

EfemenaXY:
Some people just aren't worth it, not one bit.

Take Nairaland for example. I tend to be an easy-going person and I usually give people a very, very, veryyyyyyyyyyyyy long rope with which to hang themselves if they so wish. Thing is, there are certain boundaries that shouldn't be crossed. Once that happens, I immediately cut off my so-called "friends".

Some may see it as keeping malice, but for me, it's a case of "I'm so done with you". Next thing is to move on. And if they like, they can quote me for all I care. I either ignore, or if I find their post offensive, click the "Report" button.

Life doesn't have to be that complicated.

But having said that, there are some folks on here that I do like, have known for a long time, and will always forgive & forget matter how much we fight. I guess it just boils down to personality. Hope I'm making sense this Sunday evening?

True

refreshrate:
exactly! wish that boyfriend you left could see you now sef how you people always assume the man get money is enough grounds to marry him I don't know.

ask me wetin she use the Money she collect from the guy do when they we're together

OP your foolishness na two ways in fact 3

1. you follow man because of money

2. you get belle for person wey you no sabi sotey the man get another family

3. The money sef you no keep any take do something wey go better your life

so why you come follow the man then?

Let me save my comment because if I type it as it's in my mind they will say sambarry titun bere.

anyway

KanwuliaJara:
Mtcheeeeeeeeeew!!!!

madam why you hiss? Can't you play big sister for once

Pele dear

Well different people see things differently.

I can look at the sky and you'll say it's sky blue. I can look at it and say it's green

Mindfulness:
I am a very forgiving person and of course I prefer to be free and happy. However, sometimes I wish I could stay angry for a longer period of time. I analyze situations from all the different perspectives involved and almost immediately develop understanding for all parties involved. The problem is that I am the first to apologize (even if the other party has wronged me more) and to forgive and then I have to wait till the other person calms down, and it is not a comfortable position to be in if you deal with people who take their time, long time.

EfemenaXY:
Would you be saying the same thing if it was the other way round?

can't the guy do facial surgery and turn to one smoking hot guy ni

Mindfulness:
@bold

My conviction but forgiveness does not always come easy. Sometimes it takes time. It is a process and it is a long one for some people.

which one do you prefer. Seeing the person and the pain they caused you pops on your head and then you begin to develop anger, hatred and murder tendencies or


being a free happy soul

Mindfulness:
So your telling the person "straight up" is your coping mechanism when people wrong and hurt you.
Could it be then that the people who hold grudges, hold them because they are for some reason bottling up their feelings of hurt instead of communicating them effectively?

gbam. Health practitioners have revealed that bottling someone who has hurt you is like drinking poison and expecting the person you are hating to die. Bottom line holding grudges hurt you more than the other so to free your soul tell him or her so his or her

Mindfulness:
So you never hurt? You have no feelings?

of course I feel hurt and I have feelings. I mean if someone does or says something I don't like I'll tell him straight up instead of holding grudges.

Nobody is worth having high bp for

The fastest way for him to grant you divorce is to commit adultery to his face, trust me you won't spend a night at home the moment he finds out. Men can't take what they give so he'll angrily grant you the divorce

however this doesn't apply to women cool with their husbands being public property

next

I don't know how to hold grudges. You do or say something I find offensive, I drop it like it's hot and move on

Lolol @ demonic creativity.

Anyway the baker did a good job but I'll feel like a canibal eating that. Mba.i can't

thelish:
Jesus Christ, I don laff break my ribs.
Ur own better say u dey use needle sew d edges, I don't even have that time n patience.
U sef, u too like owambe ooo.
If say I dey go owambe, I for still get plenty ooo.
most times, I dey forget to use d napkin sef, until my hand is burnt from hot pot before my brain dey boot to use napkin.

Idowuogbo:
Ghetto

is that so

edwife:
Lurking doing nothing.....hian After they don finish me.

Idowuogbo:
^ you are so hoood.

what is "hood?

Kimoni:
Hahahahahahahahahahhaha

I was expecting this

Naijababe, I'll be here for you as well. Unconditional love noni

mredwifeosband is around the corner. Be very kiafu


Eyes are lurking around you

thelish:
Hahahahaha. sambarry don kill me with laff ooo. abeg I support u jare.
Damiso, so even kitchen napkin get brand? I Neva knew oo. This my kpako strong ooo. Even clothes, I don't check brand ooo.

lol abi na.just carry scissors and cut the thing neatly into rectangular shape, take needle and thread fold the tips .lobatan.

I no dey buy napkin o in fact all the Napkins I have in my kitchen were gotten from owabme souvenirs and different napkins for different purposes. I can cut 3different napkins fromaan ankara gown or wrapper I'm no longer using. Das all