₦airaland Forum

whitewitch:
GET THE FVCK OF MY MENTION

after you take your own advice

whitewitch:
ok keep buttlicking it makes u coll

keep trolling and looking for who to pick on


it must really make you feel good

In an ideal situation nigeria and nigerians have no business with poverty. Infact nigeria is too rich to be poor. We have every potential to make us a first world nation but nigeria seems blessed with pathetic leaders

na real Island of squalor

Disgusting

whitewitch:
are u dfending them and opposing ur fellow guy or what?

I'm not a sexist

and don't turn thiy thread into a man vs woman thing . If you are into that there are a thousand and one thread on nl to do that

Secondly stop gossiping/badmouthing anybody. It doesn't make you look cool

whitewitch:
yes they are bt cococandy, edwife and naijababe are nt humans.

speak for yourself

whitewitch:
lol bt y u con dey 4llow woman dey discuss film na?

and what's wrong with women


aren't they human beings

Indeed. Tell me why the civil rights activist and those passionate about nigeria are either mocked or assassinated but the obvious political criminals are celebrated. Bode George, ibori comes to my mind, tinubu, alameigsha etc. They've looted this country dry but same nigerians tend to kiss their ass and celebrate them after giving them small 10 naira change compared to the billions they've amassed

Curiouscity:
Madam, while these maybe true in most places, the question is are these acts enacted by the state or these are individual behaviours based on greed and indiscipline? What we see as a good society in the western world is a contribution of individuals. How many of us are ready to do the right thing even when no one is watching.

I can boldly say most Nigerians living abroad take simple Nigerian rules for granted. On many occasions I have witnessed the unruly behaviours of Nigerians coming in from diaspora at our international airports. Example, Jan. 2014 at the Schiphol airport, Amsterdam, everyone lined up quietly to board the 6 hours flight to Lagos. As soon as we landed, and we exited the the plane, you could see the aggression, and indiscipline of same people who were 'saints' in diaspora. They cut corners, shunted the line and cursed the very air the breathed. I was not surprised, after all I have had similar experiences in my previous trips.

March 2015, I went to an academic conference in one of the cities in Texas state (US), and was invited to a neighbourhood populated by mostly Nigerians. What I saw that day made me believe that we are our problem. We are indiscipline personified and always looking for short-cuts.

I repeat, we must make efforts to fix what is wrong with us. Running to 'obodo onyibo' is just a way of covering the wound rather than treating it. I sometime wonder if we know the sacrifices these people made, to make their society what it is today.

deniyor:
I was like you once but my eyes are open now.One thing I've learnt, the grass is always greener on the other side.

story for the gods

whitewitch:
YOU,COCOCANDY AND SAMBARRY ABI NA BLACKBERRY SELF I NOR KNOW, is this section a movie section or what? u guyz shud take ur yeye films 2 d movie section b4 i slap ur faces. 'i know edwife will join them soon.

no na purple berry.

She's a young lady na. Do you expect her to be tying wrappers because she married a governor

kinglekan:

Buhahahaahahah

that I forgot to laugh

You mean fake eye service values

Onegai:
Please where are these "Moral Values" in Nigerian society, I'd like to see them?

Police Brutality?
Lack of Honesty and Decency amongst our youth to even attempt to write exams without cheating or coercing a lecturer?
Breakdown of every institution known to Man?
Accepted Violence and Rape against minors and genders?
Widespread corruption amongst the masses?
Moral decadence dresses up in finery and attending church every Sunday hypocritically?
Parenting skills reduced to verbally and physically assaulting your child?

I could go on...

How they show Africa as being a backward village with war and famine is how they show the western world wih crazy antics . Bad news sells and peoole don't want to hear "Mike bought a home and Judy graduated" on the news, they want to see "Joe shot up a school in a drive-by" same way "Africa is a country and they are constantly starving and fighting brutal wars or committing crime". I personally have met kinder and more honest people outside Nigeria. Heck, the average Nigerian person attempted to elbow and push my pregnancy out of the way because they were rushing to enter the cinema hall to watch FF7, meanwhile in the US, everyone courteously held doors open and enquired about my health (total strangers every time! ).

Abegl bone that Nigerian Values silliness...

pafra:
go and have kids in the moon who cares?

experienced mothers do not teenage clowns still dealing with associated growing up tantrums

delishpot:
Hahahahaaa. Make dem catch you
some men can carry sha.

I'm always ever ready

What dirty home is home


nigerians been deceiving themselves with that line since 1800

need I remind you of police brutality metted out on a pregnant woman I read here few minutes ago
the unpaid workers salaries
endless strikes
Complete break down of law and order
near existence of little or no infrastructure


you better don't let anyone deceive you with that line. Give birth in a country that has respect for the dignity of human persons

deniyor:
Home is always home. All the money you are going to waste abroad, lets use it to develop our own country.

That's all

HungerBAD:
Mind your business.

As usual on Nairaland *my friend story* again, and we too are ready to pretend that we believe it is not you it happened to, but your friend.

Anybody that is married is not a baby, and does not need any body's advice if they are in an abusive relationship/marriage.

I cannot from the outside advice anybody to forfeit their marriages, or stay in it until they get killed.

You (your friend) should follow your heart. And do as it advises you.

kingdenny:
Monkey I can bet your father is a policeman

obviously or even him sef

Chaiii no wonder they always look pathetic and dirty no matter how far they rise in the force

GreenGeen:
No police in 9ja, before anytin in the morning Dem go don take their pelebe ogogoro n Igbo like 1-2 rap, so Dem no know any body at all, becos Dem don high level, so what's next, dey will go awire and do anytin dey like.
Once dey see DAT dis one nah mugun, Dem go maltreat am so as to extort the mugun.

Go to Ojodu Berger bridge, ojuelegba underbridge, pen cinema roundabout, iyana-ipaja to ipaja roundabout, k. Salem junction eko, Yaba Jibowu underbridge alakuko junction, sango underbrigde, to mention few.
When u hook into there hands they suck u extort u till u go blank all in the name of no evidence, but one dey monkey go go market it won't return.
Dats how one of my friend was ripped off his valuables, all becos he closed late in the office and he was pickup. Around 10.30pm around Yaba area going to Ikorodu and started taggin g arm robber, he show Dem his I'd and explains where he works or what he does for living, all the police men did was to snatch his I D and squeeze it away from their vanagon bus they usually use in disguise. Any time any body is in there custody they do like you r the company and they give u quotation and await your approval and instanct payment.
I know anybody DAT does bad, nemiesis must catch up with the person.

KanwuliaJara:
Nigerian MEN aaaaaagain?

I was about to call you sef. I nor know say you don reach here before me


To the matter.no its actually the nigerian police force that behave like savages. Even their women are brutish. Once they wear that their despicable black uniform they loose their sense of humanity what kindfof vulgar and religiously fake country is this for godsakes

A police man stripped a pregnant woman naked
physically abused her
called her a prostitute
dragged her from her car to theirs

Haba. What if she had died in this despicable behaviour

striker07:
What i can deduce from this post is case of unprofessional policemen dealing with a woman lacking decorum, disobeying constituted order and treating the police force with contempt with already prejudiced opinion on police by many people that have made comments, disobeying, slapping and biting a police officer is going too far, we cannot move forward as a nation if we do not regard our law enforcement .

you must be one of this useless police men



is beating and stripping a married woman and a mother for nothing dignifying even calling her a prostitute

the police made an unlawful arrest on top of that beat her and physically abused her


Is your sense of humanity taken away when you all wear that devilsh black uniform


I'm even surprised the police men didn't gang rape her because that's y'al trade mark in the police force

abusing
maimin
raping
unlawful arrest and torture
forcing innocent people to lie against themselves
stealing
renting guns to criminals etc


Tufiaaaaaaaaa. Enikure

Onegai:
@ SAMBARRY abeg clap for yasef!

seriously I must come and ask for your advise when I have to plan these things. Infact, should we not create an awesome blog for this stuff??

This time you will pay consultation fees and service charges

Insidous:
We are not human. We are superhuman. Regardless if any circumstances we find ourselves we must not react, we can endure. We know we can endure it because WE ARE WOMEN.

yea women are supposed to be emotiOn less aAnd have no feelings because they are women

cococandy:
I don't think I can find nollywood movies like that here.

It will be online. I'll search on YouTube later.

ok

I hope this one too will not cheat on her like his fellow brothers ranting adultery is normal for men claiming its impossible for married men not to cheat on their wives

We've read enough stories that touch on nl make Una no add to the list

cococandy:
Sambarry, I didn't find those movies on Netflix.
I guess I've to subscribe to iroko TV or something.

But I don't really wanna do that.

you didn't find after the proposal or 30 days in Atlanta ke? Isn't there a video club or where they sell movies there maybe you'll see it there

kITATITA:
Communication and NOT revenge. Failed relationship is not a celebrative occurrence. Talk to a philandering husband the way you talk to a drunk or gambler husband. Discuss with him and let him know that he is hurting you and hurting the family. Revenge burns the bridge.

Indeed

Unfollows thread.I've seen enough testimonies of the blessings of marriage

billyG:
This woman & her supporters are fooolish now this man will do d needsful outside without condom again?

and be dashed free hiv certificates


No wonder all this lines used at the altar during weddings don't mean a thing any longer. All this I promise to be faithful to you In sickness and in health bla bla bla yet their cheeks cannot just be zipped up

So much ado about the achievement of being married

Continue deceving unaselves

Nempi:
You won the battle but lost your Husband! Wise woman!

who wants to be dashed hiv for becoming Ruth abokoku.even the Bible says wisdom is profitable to direct

kITATITA:
Read again my dear, I didn't endorse the man's action but the woman went to the extreme. I am married and have a fantastic relationship with my family so I can't endorse anything that devalues marriage

OK so how then should a woman handle disrespect in her marriage


Please don't tell me you peoples usual lines prayer and fasting or red pant

Insidous:
LOLZ

Bunch of losers. They think life should be all about them

are you minding them

By now you should understand why they're so pained

Imagine someone saying now you've lost your friend

Tell me which married man does friendship with another man that he knows he's sleeping with his wife

Like say the friend cannot be replaced Immediately with decent one s

And that's why they claimed its a made up story


Adulterers in the house let me hear you scream


No wonder all this STDs are common among married men than even prostitutes sef

delishpot:
If na the man dey this womans shoes, you go pity his cheating wife and worry about the functionality of her pussy after the pepper therapy?