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If the girl is good enough for sek then she should be good enough for his wife material whether na 1yard or 50 yards. If he doesn't marry her who will marry her AND ACCEPT THE CHILD TOO IN THIS DAY AND AGE so I don't see anything wrong. If not if he knew he wasn't going to marry her why was he sleeping with her


number 2. The mother didn't need to use violence except of course the man has shown violence against his mother in law because it is in this same Nigeria where we hear of men beating their wives and mother inlaw be that as it may she did the right thing in the wrong way that was why the marriage packed up.

bukatyne:
Can you compare Omo T's hubby to the man in the OP?

From the OP, I gather that the girl was married off to the man because she got pregnant. I still do not understand the concept of marrying off a lady because she got pregnant but again a lady/guy should not date someone she cannot marry. It is a very terrible cycle.

@MIL interfering: if it is because of the beatings, I support 100%; a man beats up my daughter, he might get locked up

That said, the marriage might have succeeded sha

cococandy:
The divorce is their best option before one of them beat the other to death.

5000naira for child support? Until when? Is that supposed to be pampers or baby formula money abi school fees?

Funny ruling

5,000 naira cannot even do a decent lace wig talk less of taking care of the baby

Who even knows him beyond Nigeria. That nigga should better shut the fok up and limit his rantings in his shrine. He even looks like a bomber with that his dirty looking bear bear oniranu

Trailblazer1:
Dr. Ngozi Okonjo Iweala

Late Prof. Dora Akunyili

Dr. Oby Ezekwesili

These are Trailblazers the world cannot deny.


BTW. Guru maraji power! Powerless power!!!

Skako:
If we reason with him he got good point and more over,if woman is a president what their husband would be calling is it fast man

and we know WOMEN ARE TOO AROGANCE that means they would be control their husband? Haaaa na wa hoooo

Nawa o.we see how intelligent you are. After na una go dey abuse Mr Oga at the top for not putting dot com in his website




illiterate too dey talk. Oga o

That one na redefined 21st century manna from heaven ni or what


At this point I don't trust federal government. Coogar where are you i want to see your take on this

pickabeau1:
No..
More of series

haves and haves not season 5?

cococandy:

by now you should know that there are certain people not worth arguing with because they are as obstinate to their opinions as smoked fish. Moreover this is nl where anybody can talk anyhow

Bukatyne, sophyrocks and mgbeketoto have summarised the matter. The rest that are arguing with them are arguing for argument and nairaland.com sake

lagos for show

crackhaus:
You're right, adultery is fornication and I have no point - forget I quoted you

o better

pickabeau1:
i don hear

iwo jebi
by the way you don watch movies lately


e.g knocking on heaven's door. A nollywood movie. Choiii that film is a film

azonto babes part 1 and contact babes part 2


don't mind the poster. The film is predictable though but very hilarious


try seeing it. Nollywood are becoming sensible small small sha

Like i said earlier she will be the one to determine how I will and should treat her depending on her actions. If she's good to my baby i will be good to her and if the reverse is the case she too go hear am. It's a simple matter of do me i do you law . No need for sentiments or putting me on a guilt trip. E no go work

pickabeau1:
So threats of violence or violence is justified where your daughter is concerned yet you come her ranting about the evils of abuse

That means you are not different from those who can seat their housemaids on hot stove or beat them

Is that not hypocrisy

Ow-KAY

crackhaus:
How you left out fornication/pre-marital sex is a mystery to me

adultery also consists of fornication and your point is?

Op I can see that you are courting for trouble from winners members and their stakeholders. I hope you have worn your rain coat

FrancisTony:
I was being sarcastic & using their word(s).

lol that's why I am not always surprised when kanwulia messes with the so called religionists

Sin is sin irrespective of location it is committed


adultery
dumping infants on the streets
child trafficking
prostitution
ritualism
murder
rape
paedophilia
beastiality
kidnap
filthiness
corruption
cursing
fraud
squander
greed
innate wickedness
creativity in crime

etc nigerians are all guilty of everyday all fall into the same category

FrancisTony:
If this was to be happening in western world; everybody would be echoing "end time things".

So much of morally stable continent named Africa.

I loath the day I was born into this continent.

like my boss will say, Africans are religious yet morally bankrupt . morally stable my foot

Awon afin mati daran ke

kestolove95:
Nna enh!!!...my left palm on one..the right palm on d oda one nd my maut on d middle one.....no sharin..evribody. gt him own

you no go even fear to touch the brez

rawpadgin:
op, are they ur family members?

Whatever! It's my daughter we are talking about and not just anybody. It's the house help that will determine the way i will treat her. If she treats my baby right i will also treat her right but if she abuses my baby i will also unleash on her. So issues like this are subjective

pickabeau1:
So to you the best way to keep your child's minder in line is to use threats and violence then you come online to rant when you see cases of domestic abuse...


Such standards

thorpido:
You are right in saying that treating them right does not mean they will do right but it's the same with children.There are children who turn out bad despite the fact that their parents make all efforts to lead them right.

Experience has shown that high handedness and violence has seldom produced the desired result.

so what produces the desired results

pickabeau1:
Are you saying the threat of violence against maids is good?

yes to scare them from perpetrating evil

FrancisTony:
She exudes stùpidity and gender inferiority complex

A lady dress isn't a criterion for some guys to do nonsense.
Yes! There's a freedom of looking, same way there's freedom in dressing how we(they) like.

o God. Thank you Tony.

Maybe they go to only quoranic schools and not western schools like their counterparts in the east or West

Coogar where are you o.come here right away. Awon pictures of certificateror adonbliv fans.



imagine why he was assassinated. Hiaannn



Nigeria

So many bitter peeps these days. The girl that made good money from her prenuptial agreement. Who said she's a hoe . she's a BUSINESS WOMAN

This one is a little man with fats on his chest. Those ain't brezs

thorpido:
How about your husband digging it with the neighbour when you are not there?

The phobia for househelps is unnecessary.

First you need to know the kind of man you married.You can also get a teenage househelp and not one that is full blown.
YOU SHOULD ALSO TREAT YOUR HOUSE HELPS LIKE YOUR DAUGHTER OR SISTER.SHOWING SOMEONE LOVE WILL MAKE IT HARD FOR THEM TO WANT TO HURT YOU

Lastly pray.You can ask God to bring the right people into your life.Bring helpers and indeed a good househelp.Also you can fix CCTV in your house to monitor activities.

@ The capitalized story for the gods. Your treating them right doesn't determine or limit what they can do or what they will do so the best thing to do is to create an air of fear when they are with you so that if they are entertaining anything stooped the fear of what they know you can do to their bodies will not let them dare it. E.g plugging hot pressing iron on their body till the mark shows . rubbish!

Seuns bae

He/she's so cute


she looks more of a girl. Like a sweet little girl

Ahannn mt man small small abuse am na



today's Sunday o

lillaowow:
i see you as jobless and a Whiner.
you mean to tell me you wrote all that cos of someone you met through a radio show was rude to you?

UI graduates needs to defend their Alma Mata just because someone told you she went to UI which you cannot verify.

Dude, you're really jobless and you lack class