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standd:
I just hope that the men on here are not poster boys for men out there Maybe, they separate real life from e-life. If not, if any male moniker comes near me spewing trash about Naija gals blah blah, I will e-slap him to death.
Hypocrites!

standd:
I think threads like this should come up more often, so we can see for ourselves what our men have become. And it will no longer matter when they call Naija women names because they already show themselves to be unfaithful and hypocritical.

naijaboiy:
Ok

naijaboiy:
Yes I think it's cool on the sentiments of friendship. Got a problem with that?

naijaboiy:
Yes she will share it benevolently

I don hear.

naijaboiy:

Why am I now the one getting all these lectures

I don die today

naijaboiy:
Ok I don hear

But mind you I never said my friends cheat.

I mean my real close friends that I can help out any time.

Except of course I know nothing of it.

naijaboiy:
I didn't even see this

I come dey waste my time on top argument.

Well as for me Op fùcked up sha!

naijaboiy:
This one is just angry

Abeg vent your frustration elsewhere

naijaboiy:
Lol,,you are trying to put words in my mouth.

But last I checked it's none of my business.
If my friend is cheating and I don't feel comfortable with it I tell him and that's where it will end. It is his decision to stop or continue. It will not stop us from being friends.

If the girl friend eventually finds out then that's left for him to face.

Ekaka1:
So let the irresponsible fellow go. That is one bad influence down in 2015.
Which kind rubbish smelly code be dat.

Op no even go explain nothing. If e bring nonsense leg for the matter just tell am say you big pass that level and he will find His "Square root"

naijaboiy:
Yea we are saying the same thing here.

That is why I said I don't think they are really close friends like he stated. Because true friends know what each other like and don't like. They know the limits.

If my friends wants to use my room,,they know that they must clean it up just like the way it was and they can't use it at a time when i'm inconvenient. If you can't follow my simple principle,,then don't bother to ask for my keys in the first place.

carefreewannabe:
You mean very poor and desperate women who are hungry or pr*ostitutes?

naijaboiy:
Yes I won't lie to you...friends actually do that. There are good friends and there a bad friends.

It depends on the ones you are compatible with.

If a guy finds it comfortable making players his friends then he doesn't see it as a bad thing.

It is stated somewhere that if a lady wants to know if her man is cheating,,she should check his conversation with his fellow guys and not girls. That's where the truth lies.

naijaboiy:
Yea I stated earlier that the guy should have later talked to his friend about his cheating behaviour.

A good friend won't go and tell my girl friend that i'm cheating...what would he stand to gain from it?

InZA:
I'm not the OP

Why the quote?

naijaboiy:
Oh wow!

I guess it's friendships which you don't really value that you would act like that.

I can't believe you'll do that to a really good friend

naijaboiy:
Your points are valid but I don't think that is the situation here.

The Op said they have been close friends for a long time which simply means he must have known the kind of person he has as a friend.

His own grouse is that he cannot allow his friend use his room to cheat on his girl friend.

That is the awkward situation i'm talking about here. It's a different situation if he has been allowing the friend before and chose to turn him down this time.

In my opinion they are not really friends because friends watch each others backs and they have their ways of correcting themselves when one does wrong.

If he says they are really close friends then he fùcked up.

InZA:
Everything is ok with me.


Thanks for your concern

standd:

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Clevvermind...do not let all the negative comments here get you down. You shouldn't sacrifice your personal convictions for any friend. If he is truly your friend, he will accept you for who/what you are and move on.
Btw, there are several hotels around, using your bunk isn't an absolute necessity. You are not a Jew, Obote or whatever crass names guys call themselves.

Besides, if he is truly your friend ,he should be able to forgive you too, abi?

And for all the guys yabbing OP, una welldone oh

LEAFLET:
A very good friend of mine recently did this same tin to me and I was hurt pretty bad... It doesn't end our friendship but it made doubt our long friendship.. What are fiends!!!!

acidtalk:
And you are there using a FAKE IDENTITY. SO OBVIOUS YOU ARE A GUY.

naijaboiy:
Its normal that females will support the guy.

But una no go understand.

Even those who have followed another guy to their friends room,,whether knowingly or unknowingly.

If the two of them are really close friends,,then the guy fùcked up.

Sometimes we do awkward things for friends. Even you can't deny that fact.

ifyalways:
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Those eyes, chai. Tomato jos. Happy New year, AJ.

@Topic, This is Naija, get used to it. Once, I phooolishly confronted one dude that was shamelessly urinating by the roadside, dude carry the thing for hand pursue me. Haa,I have since learnt to face my front.

ifyalways:
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Those eyes, chai. Tomato jos. Happy New year, AJ.

@Topic, This is Naija, get used to it. Once, I phooolishly confronted one dude that was shamelessly urinating by the roadside, dude carry the thing for hand pursue me. Haa,I have since learnt to face my front.