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Politics / Re: Senate Uncovers NTA, StarTimes Fraud by samisj4real(m): 10:28pm On Aug 21
Senate house don turn EFCC Abi ICPC.
It is well ooh.
Romance / Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by samisj4real(m): 10:22pm On Aug 21
ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be having sex with the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?
All what you have said is none of my business.

My business is to ask you that all this money you are spending on upkeep are you spending it on your Mom and Family at large? Or Na because of you Olamide sing BOBO.

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Health / Re: Help!! Hiv Scare!! by samisj4real(m): 8:59pm On Aug 21
Dilemma247:

I don already cancel 2 plates of peppersoup.
Better days ahead. Lesson learnt.
Wow. A good thing to do...

Please stay guided.

Always use a condom bro.
Few minutes of pleasure doesn't equates life time of problems.
Health / Re: Help!! Hiv Scare!! by samisj4real(m): 5:38pm On Aug 21
Freelane33:
Do full std panel test if you have the money. It will bring out the exact problem . It’s not that easy to have hiv bruh .
What do you mean by its not easy to have HIV?
Health / Re: Help!! Hiv Scare!! by samisj4real(m): 5:35pm On Aug 21
Dilemma247:
So I summoned courage today, telling myself, anyway it goes life goes on..
Negative. I'd feel relieved.
Positive..I'd learn to see the bright side, I will still be alive at least , not dying any time soon.Besides everyone dies, so why should I kill myself.
Packed up and looked for a lab far away from home.
I inquired how much it will cost to do the test and how long should I be expecting the results. 30minutes tops.
Long story short, took my samples and asked me to wait.
I even wanted to run at a time sef.. grin grin
The test came even quicker than I thought, I had barely had time to think about my life while sitting and my strategy to pull myself together should the test turn out positive, or whether I should just run , and forfeit my money.
I heard my name loud , my heart sank .This was the end I told myself. I stood up slowly like a rock was on my head and slowly found my way to the desk. I said yes I heard my name, she handed me the result in an envelope. I quickly put it inside my bag and left hurriedly, I don't want to see the result oo make I no go faint inside the lab.
Got home and just lay on my bed. Thinking of what to do.
After some minutes my friends called me on video asking me when I'm coming over (they were both my classmates and left for graduate studies in the US last year), telling me how I dey slack, I suppose don japa too make I hurry.
I shook my head while giving a fake smile , in my heart I said to myself, how do I process visa and all with a positive result , so does this mean my plan of leaving this country next year is gone forever?? I wondered
After the call, I don't know what came over me , I was just angry , I opened the bag , picked up the result , and opened it, saying even if its positive, all die na die.
To my shock I saw NEGATIVE boldly written.


You know the rest!!Yes my dream is alive, and I'm happy after months of torment.

I have an offer letter to sign without fear of medical screening also.

Thanks all.
What are we celebrating this joyful moments with?
Health / Re: Help!! Hiv Scare!! by samisj4real(m): 5:34pm On Aug 21
Congratulations Mate!
Romance / Re: Man Dies In My Shop After Loosing 49 Million PHOTOS by samisj4real(m): 5:35pm On Jul 31
Alishuis:



Even me wey buy car some days ago from bet9ja one game just cut me this night.
NARO escape
How Fa, Baba make we align Na.
They drop me your Longshots abeg.
Celebrities / Re: Hushpuppi To Phyno: "If Your House Can Buy My Shoes, I Will Give You N5 Million" by samisj4real(m): 12:35pm On Jul 07
bomasek:
How far
Hushpuppi na FOWL.

Foolish & Greedy soul.

Bragging on top ill gotten money.
Romance / Re: How Did You Catch Your Cheating PARTNER. by samisj4real(m): 12:49pm On Jun 25
yanabasee1:
I suffered eh....


Was madly in love with this girl..She has cheated on me more than twice and I was still holding to love... She had to leave me for another man...


But today, I am happy she left..... Because, my brain got extra sense overtime.....
You really must have loved her, to forgive her twice. cry
Romance / How Did You Catch Your Cheating PARTNER. by samisj4real(m): 10:31pm On Jun 24
How did you catch your partner cheating & what format did you use?



My own ordeal; loading/typing..
Investment / Making Income At Your Comfort Zone. by samisj4real(m): 11:27am On Jun 13
There's a new means of making $1k & more, but it only depends on time & how you are able to reach out to people.

Mail me if interested.

Can't drop link here in order to avoid Ban.

PS: NO MONEY IS TO BE PAID

You can mail or quote me.
Romance / Re: Share Heartbreaking Things Your Ex(es) Did To You by samisj4real(m): 1:26pm On May 14
johnkey:
Nothing like that here, we just split ways after I've eaten the coochie well of course, most times because they caught me cheating or discover I maintain a 5 years old relationship (which is going nowhere though), or when I refuse to spend money lol, remember you cannot break a heartless man's heart.
Funny Fellow....
Health / Re: Premature Ejaculation: Causes and Remedies by samisj4real(m): 4:57pm On May 02
DEHVEHLOP:


07010821068
Thanks Boss
Health / Re: Premature Ejaculation: Causes and Remedies by samisj4real(m): 1:02pm On May 02
Danchibez:
Drink raw pap(akamu), ur PE problem will b over
Hey Bro, are you serious about this?

Like it brings about permanent solution or just on demand?
Health / Re: Premature Ejaculation: Causes and Remedies by samisj4real(m): 12:56pm On May 02
DEHVEHLOP:
I got this on one Nairalander's thread.




1 big Onion

Big cut of watermelon

One or two lemon (liquid content only)

Few cloves of garlic

Moderate ginger

Pure honey.


Blend everything together and allow for like 30 minutes before sieving.

Pour the sieved solution into a cup of pure natural honey. Mix and take two spoonfuls a day.



Honestly may God bless the guy who posted it then.


It worked fantastically well for me
can i PM you on this please?
Crime / Re: POLICE Gratuity by samisj4real(m): 1:28pm On Apr 27
bigiyaro:
of course he can get something as far as he can prove that he's the next of kin.
Thanks so much for your comments.
I really appreciate it.
Career / POLICE Gratuity by samisj4real(m): 8:32am On Apr 27
Good day NL's.



Please I'm asking this for a close friend of mine.



His father died 10years ago, he was a POLICE MAN.



I believe there's a certain amount government workers normally pay to the

deceased family so far he or she was still working with them when death came.



So Firstly, I'd like to ask: DO POLICE GIVE A CERTAIN AMOUNT TO THE FAMILY OF THEIR DECEASED?



secondly: IF AT ALL THEY DO GIVE A CERTAIN AMOUNT TO THE FAMILY, IS THIS MONEY STILL REDEEMABLE BY THE FAMILY AFTER TEN(10) YEARS?

The next of kin hasn't been pursuing this money ever since his Dad died. 10years back now.


I'll want opinions from you all that has idea regarding this.

Thanks.
Crime / Re: POLICE Gratuity by samisj4real(m): 8:27am On Apr 27
bigiyaro:
if a policeman dies in active service ie while still in the force, a burial money is given to the family within 2 -3 weeks depending on the burial arrangement, after that, his gratuity depends on the strength of his next of kin. I advice that the next of kin use the "strategy of relentless pursuit" to get his gratuity and pension money released. Its not going to be easy, you go travel tire, fill more than 1k forms, snap passport tire, even in the end the money is released, na like 40-50% you go eventually enter your hand if you get luck. Generally policemen family dey mostly reap the fvckup wey dia father plant. so get his name and service number and start to hustle. Gudluck.

Thank you so much for your contribution.

The thing there is that, the gratuity hasn't been pursued by the next of kin who's my friend for 10years back now.

Na now him eye clear.

So after 10years, if he starts pursuing it now can he still get something to that percentage you mentioned above?

At all at all naim bad pass.
Crime / POLICE Gratuity by samisj4real(m): 7:44am On Apr 27
Good day NL's.

Please I'm asking this for a close friend of mine.

His father died 10years ago, he was a POLICE MAN.

I believe there's a certain amount government workers normally pay to the
deceased family so far he or she was still working with them when death came.

So Firstly, I'd like to ask: DO POLICE GIVE A CERTAIN AMOUNT TO THE FAMILY OF THEIR DECEASED?

secondly: IF AT ALL THEY DO GIVE A CERTAIN AMOUNT TO THE FAMILY, IS THIS MONEY STILL REDEEMABLE BY THE FAMILY AFTER TEN(10) YEARS?

I'll want opinions from you all that has idea regarding this.
Thanks.
Health / Re: My Addictions To Betting, Masturbation, Pepsi Will Soon Kill Me. I'm Sure! by samisj4real(m): 6:14pm On Feb 17
You & this your story every time.
Man with cat life.
Sports / Please Who Uses LOVING BET by samisj4real(m): 5:18pm On Feb 16
Please who uses LOVINGBET to play games?

Came across it today on Nairaland.

I really want to know how reliable it is.

How fast they pay on request on withdrawals.
Fashion / Re: 360 Waves For Guys by samisj4real(m): 5:11pm On Feb 16
Olamilec:
Durag for training your hair to lay down.
Thanks bro.

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Romance / Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by samisj4real(m): 12:10am On Jan 29
If you choose not to tell your girlfriend before marriage as some has adviced, my brother it'll later end in bigger tears.

Shay you see The lady sentenced to death by hanging yesterday.

Learn from that story.

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Romance / Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by samisj4real(m): 12:03am On Jan 29
OP, Allow her born the pikin fess.

After that go meet her pastor explain every to am, make e be say na her pastor call her break the news & tell the pastor to help you plead.

That's if you're a CHRISTAIN though.
Many good women tend to have great respect for their pastors.
Car Talk / Nissan Almera Car Sale. by samisj4real(m): 10:47am On Jan 28
A clean Nissan Almera 2004 for sale.
8 months Nigeria used.
Papers are complete.

Price: 700k

Location: Abuja.

Mobile: 08084508635

Car Talk / Re: Maintenance Tips On Cars. by samisj4real(m): 10:45am On Jan 28
08084508635

Abuja.

Car Talk / Re: Car Talk Chat Room by samisj4real(m): 10:44am On Jan 28
08084508635

Abuja..

Romance / Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by samisj4real(m): 7:53pm On Jan 25
Logan95:
My people, Something really terrible just occurred now.

I have dated my girlfriend for about 6 months, she is the most open individual I've ever met... She has told me most of her secrets. She is a very beautiful and intelligent girl and what really made us thick is that I was there when she had seizures in the past.

To the issue, She answered a call today and I felt suspicious and I decided to confront her immediately, but as she was trying to explain, I cut in and acted with mistrust and accusations that I suspect cheating. This was a major catalyst and it triggered her seizure. I started apologizing immediately to calm her down, she passed out for some minutes after she tried to use her clothes to suffocate herself.

She woke up irritated and I asked her to explain what is happening in her social world. She said it was really nothing and that she feels I don't trust her that's why she reduced telling me personal stuff. That there is no connection between her and the guy.

She said she has forgiven me but she has to leave my house that moment. I asked that I drop her but she refused and packed her belongings that has been here. She later accepted that I'd drop her because I could not stand the shame of her going alone but my car battery decided to die and she eventually entered bike home.

She left by saying she needs space but I feel I've lost her because I'll be once guilty of inducing her seuzures.

Ladies and gentlemen, red pillers, kindly advice me on how to handle this issue.

N:B kindly put into consideration that she is really emotional and her peculiar challenge.

There are two things involved, if you have money she'll come back but if you don't she won't.
Car Talk / Re: Nissan Almera Car Sale. by samisj4real(m): 9:57pm On Jan 15
grin grin cheesy all this nairaland guys Una get bad mouth ooh.
Car Talk / Re: Nissan Almera Car Sale. by samisj4real(m): 11:28am On Jan 15
So you guys didn't see negotiable there abi.?

All this nairaland guys sha.
Car Talk / Re: Nissan Almera Car Sale. by samisj4real(m): 10:59am On Jan 08
Holiegrail2:
1 million naira for this car?
You literally made me laugh
Thanks sir.

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