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DaKing008:
fiverr traffic one thing I have noticed about Fiverr is that millions of people visit it daily and no amount of external traffic will will get you sales. Do the needful in your description and tags and you will see yourself getting orders even without promotion. I created new account last 15days and I have already made more than 31sales with no promotion . considering also am a student, I normally cancel many orders as to have time for my studies.
my 1cent.

pls what software do you use in creating logo? Again did you open the account as a Nigerian or US citizen? What service(s) do you offer?

try 2checkout or open the pp account as a Niger citizen.

royalads:
same time as yesterday... 4.30 pm...
by the way, I have replied all your questions on
the page... hope you have seen my answers

Is your class still on? Do u sell ebook covering all the classes?

I think I can't really say for sure if your Aunty's house mate or whatever did that sincerely. You people should know her better. She could be sincere about it but if she wasn't then your Aunty has no business of letting her stay with her again because she could be evil.

BluIvy:
No dear I am not joking, it was on the 13h00 news today on South African E-tv or ENCA NEWS the lawyer was interviewed live.

The lawyer also said he is in possession of one of the said letters as he was speaking.

I know this is unbelievable, anyway one looks at it. To me it looks like a way to absolve SCOAN of responsibility. But what does the forensic results of the site say? If it was a bomb I am sure there should be some remnants of the bomb or tell tale signs.

What you don't understand, ask questions and stop talking nonsense. Go to youtube and watch videos on Controlled Demolition. I wonder what you think TB Joshua is. Why so much the hate on him?

@ BluIvy:Who told you his building collapse was as a result of structural failure?

How can this put food on the table of the artist? Who cares about these paintings?

remsonik:
Real techie guys don't love I know. I am a techie myself and I code. Its all about finding a balance,maybe you really need to look at what you both want from the relationship. Two can't walk together except they agree. The picture she's looking at might not be what you are looking at. That's why I encourage everyone to ask their partner what do u want from this relationship? It makes things smoother

I don't have any problem with her o. Just that she does some things at extreme. At times I'll just ask myself, would this girl always be like this or would she change? Other times, I feel like going for a bedroom flat so that possibly I can lock myself somewhere, do my work and watch what I like there too but I know she'll feel I don't love her [maybe] again. I want to be free. I want to be myself and let her be herself. I don't have any problem with her watching Telemundo or AM but my problem is when she wouldn't let me watch live matches and wouldn't like I go to a viewing center to watch. Asking me what is in football sef. At times I'll get mad then I'll just laugh and ask her "why are you doing this to me?" I have tried not to hurt her in any way because of these but...I don't know. You guys should just understand me. I've stayed for long without a girl. I prayed God for a real woman but it seems everything is coming overdose.

ireneony:
please don't take personal. OK sorry

We call it even then

remsonik:
I think you don't really love this girl. You are not into her and you seem not ready to bear the emotional attachment that comes with relationship. Well like a poster said I will advice her to quit since you are tired of her. Most times women just want to feel loved,its not just in what you tell her,its about your actions. I as a person won't be in a relationship with someone who isn't excited about me.

This is exactly what am talking about. Always wanting our lives to revolve around them. I shouldn't concentrate again because of love right? Why? You guys always like that we carry this relationship thing on our head before you believe we also love. And so sadly, real tech guys don't 'love'. You think coding is moi-moi.

ireneony:
after praying hard she will open her legs for u, how will God answer such prayer

Wallow in your own wrongdoings nah and forget about God. Don't even go to church again. To open leg is your highest sin right? Anyway, you can ask God how He answers prayers from such people but I know He does answer our prayers.

2buff:
I know, but at some point in time, you might need to tone down the attention your computer gets, even if just a little. They really need that stuff. Especially when a family gets into the picture. It's why our kind prefer staying single sometimes until we "release a few things", "launch a few startups" etc because women will generally start seeing your passion as a competition.

We operate best with women who "have their own thing going" or who have been adequately trained enough to understand our nature.
The second type is usually best, but that just means, we have to be the one to train them..with love and understanding of her needs as well. Because the club-going, boozing, party-going guy whose lifestyle is a constant mating call (designer life, bling, social wahala, etc) is not going to train them for us according to our own spec, so best get busy bro

Bro u rock! MS-SQL is about Database and has so much to do with coding. It could be so frustrating trying to run a code and the thing shows error and you look around someone is just there asking you what you feel she should cook at weekend.

ireneony:
there is nothing wrong you are married to her.
but this one wey she be prayer warrior and still de wipe

pray gini

I love people that prays hard. I don't joke with prayers rather. It's what has kept me. I don't allow the wrong things that I may do to overshadow the good things am suppose to do. Life is all about creating a balance. Am not a club type and at the same time, I wouldn't say I don't f**k. And that shouldn't make me to turn away from my God or serves Him at low key. BTW, I have enjoyed so much divine health and I know it's my prayers that have been doing that for me. So if you think because you do some wrong things, your Christian life should suffer, well that's you. That's how I think.

2buff:
LOL we computer guys tend to need A LOT more space than most guys.

OP she is just a girl that likes attention.
There are ways to resolve it, but you shouldn't keep abusing yourself just to make her happy. It won't be sustainable past a couple months.

Basically, as per her love language, the things she wants from you are things that, to her, signify that she is being shown love.
You just need to communicate to her that you not wanting those things all the time does not mean you don't love her.

For example, you need to let her know that you find some things disrespectful, like excessive questions about stuff. That you need space and time on your own to do stuff and finish tasks. The summary is "She just doesn't know". Most women have no hobby or thing they do that requires "their space" unlike guys, so most of them find it hard to understand why someone will want to just be "all alone" like that. And if the person doesn't want them to come in, it means the person doesn't like them, and if in a relationship, means the person doesnt love them.

You just need to teach her. Like you said, she is humble.
Try all that with a woman that ISN'T humble or teachable. With THAT kind, you would best quit wasting your time, cut your losses and go find someone else.
But give clear communication a try with this one.

You understand me so much. You just nail it. Thanks so much.

But you sef no dey try sha. Why won't you hug her when you open the door for her?

I can't just do all those "love u wantintin" thingy. I like it straight and simple. But she'll feel am not really in love. I don't even talk to other girls o. I just need time. I love system so much too. With my two laptops, she wouldn't even care to pick one and get clued to it rather she'll choose to stay by the side, talk and laugh with herself. If I don't answer, wahala. At times, I'll just ask myself what is happening to me. She wouldn't let me work and when I stop to attend to her, she'll ask me why are u not working again! Just imagine.

Evina:
You mean you want out of the relationship just cos she demands a little sensitivity and romance from you?

My advice is for her to GET OUT of that relationship and GET a MAN that would gladly and willingly give her some TLC

You want her to quit? Is this the best you can give? Abeg, park one side.

ireneony:
you mean she is a prayer warrior and f***k like mad, are u sure is not praying to sango. Christianity is turning into something else

I don't think there is anything wrong with being a real woman and being able to pray hard? Stop sounding hypocritical.

farano:
Having enough space or let me say privacy, in a relationship is even more important to a couple's happiness than a good sex life.. Just be specific like, 'I need the afternoon to myself.' Simply saying 'I need space' sends confusing signals. She seemed like the jealous type.

She is very jealous o. I can't travel now without filling form or applying and wait for approval. The one that usually makes me feel bad is when she ask, "can I come to office with you today?" Haba, na my papa get work?

@ Begonia
That's who she is. No lies. Thought you guys would even ask why no. 6 is blocked.

mesoade:
Op . . I have one question . . Whc kain jazz u use 4 dis gal wey make her lov u lyk dis?

Is that love?

Summersland:
Mumu b ur real name walai

Why are u insulting me? Seun pls remove this comment pls.

talktimi:
a serious career can't be tied down to NGO's, those are just voluntarily organizations

I have colleagues that are retirees already. Top Naija NGOs manages HIV peeps.

1. She disturbs and talks a lot.
2. She wouldn't allow me concentrate with my computer. I do MS-SQL and most times, domain name search.
3. She always complains about missing me and visiting NL forum so much.
4. When spending the night in my place, she'll want me to be holding her throughout the night and always asking about my dreams in the morning when she didn't even allow me to sleep.
5. She calls so much and always asking "where are you?"
6. [BLOCKED]
7. She always wants to work where I work.
8. Always want me to hug her when I open the door to welcome her.
9. Always ask who I chat with at any time on Whatsapp. Wish there was a way I could be online and she sees me offline on her end.
10. She hates football and most times, we'll quarel fighting to choose between Telemundo and SS3 and she wouldn't let me go to viewing center.

But I love her on the other hand...
1. She'll wake me up early to go to work anytime she's around and prepares food [arranged] in a tray for me.
2. She's a friend with the kitchen.
3. She does her 'home work' very well like a Calabar woman.
4. She is slim and looks small but matured (fig 8 ).
5. She is very humble.
6. She hates joints.
7. She is hardworking.
8. She encourages a lot.
9. She prays a lot.

I need your advice. Am just feeling confused but I need my own time and space. I need to be free.

talktimi:
in other words you're saying the livelihood of NGO staff is more important than the lives of hiv/aids victims. Ok

Not necessarily so but think if your career was in this direction.

talktimi:
I've been following this mans story for a very long time now and it proved to me that there are very powerful vested interests in this hiv/aids scourge

Do you know how many people would lose their jobs because of one man? Do you know how NGOs survive in Nigeria? Pls pls let's leave HIV the way it is.

luluosas:
Your whatsapp number please. Thank you.

The MTN up there.

luluosas:
Does it work?

Put me for the group nah

barcanista:
When General Muhammadu Buhari came to power, there was wide corruption in the Second Republic. A decree was passed that nobody take out or bring in foreign currency into the country. Offenders are liable to 10years in Jail. This decree was to curb money laundering by politicians and corrupt businessmen.

FELA KUTI
Fela had performed abroad, he was paid in foreign currency in cash and had it on him on his return to Lagos. He was subsequently arrested for breaking the law and was prosecuted, found guilty and jailed.

PLEA:
There was a plea by human right groups to Head of State Buhari to "pardon" Fela, he refused because he believe that the law be served to the letter.

THE OFFENSE, GMB AND FELA:
First, there was an existing law/decree.

Secondly, Fela bringing in cash means it contradicts the law/decree, however, the money is from hard work.
Morally, he's justified! Legally, he is not.

Buhari had refused to grant pardon, because the law was broken. If he grants pardon, some section of politicians will accuse him of preferential treatment. He didn't because he believes in absolute discipline.
By law, he is justified. Morally, he is not, considering that it was Fela's sweat(my opinion). The law does not work with emotion unfortunately.

MY OPINION:
GMB should have pardoned Fela. The law should have made for exception. Buhari should have tampered justice with mercy

Waoh!!! For the first time, this is coming from "Buhari" himself. Very good analysis and opinion.

mooremedia:
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Should this be a kind of booking space?

Yes! You've got to have atleast one of them to make a mark in this life.

1. Spiritual Power
This is the most powerful of them. You really need some spiritual powers to be a Superman. Not spiritual powers to do evil but to challenge evil. I also call it the power of faith. Atleast everybody believes in something to make things happen. So spiritual power comes through your believe in something, usually a Deity. A man full of spiritual powers can challenge anybody. Just imagine yourself having such an ability to call forth healing for a dying brother or even predicting the future not yet seen. You really need loads of spiritual powers. Don't just stay there empty.

2. Economic Power
This refers to money power. A broke man in the society is a nobody. He has no voice. Money gives Power. You'll believe me that the sight of some cars can send fears to you. Just cars! Imagine you sponsoring the less privileged ones in school; paying hospital bills of people held hostage in some hospitals because they couldn't pay their bills. Just imagine yourself using your money to make the society a better place for everyone. My people, you really do need some raw cash.

3. Political Power
A politician can easily challenge someone with economic power. No matter how much he owns, he can easily make a road run across his residence using the powers of government. For instance, President Jonathan can frustrate Dangote out of Nigeria using political powers available at his disposal but Dangote may be far richer than him.

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4. Emotional Power
This encompasses everything about love, sex and romance. Not necessarily important but helpful. You need it for some emotional satisfactions. You may have all of the above but your wife still decides to keep a man outside because she believes this person always keeps her happy, make her feels loved and knows how to send her to cloud 9. Most people are simply not romantic. They just feel their money should do the romance.

So what do you think? Which do you think is most important? Which do you have presently? Which do you lack? How do you plan to get them? Which do you think is missing?

Add yours...

You guys should rest o
I don't think Google would be able to do all the work.
Let's just bear with GEJ till 2019.