₦airaland Forum

That's why I no wan leave my girl ooo, i go try pay her bride price next year, before guy wey get money go collect am from my hand

How much is your take home first before I comment

Ekg911:
bro I get driving license ooh and I need keke to drive ooh. I dey Bayelsa state

I would have loved to help you but am in Anambra ( Ogidi ) to be precise

Chuksmonika:
its a freelancing site.

Thanks

Congratulations

Millionaire Baby

God's miracles/works is beyond science comprehension and analysis

vickydevoka:
As u put law I don vex with u

Destiny and opportunity/connections matters in everything in life, where that does not favor one person might be a success/favor room to another person, my advice be focuse and consistent in any field and make the right decision/connections and always look ahead for improvement.

Chuksmonika:
OP, this guy is right. Digital skills is just the way to go if you wanna live a quality life.

I'll advise you to take the job, do it for 6months, a year at most. Save up money and enroll in any digital skills that interest you, I'll advise video editing.

20k, WTF man! Just 2jobs I did on Upwork this week is 8times of that amount. Skills dey very important!

OP, go through this thread, it's a life changer https://www.nairaland.com/5898215/how-build-enviable-income-email/53#105940261

God bless my brother, friend and Boss, Venzal, for opening my eyes to Upwork. That nigga is a brother indeed!

What is upwork

PrinceMajestic:
Pls come and draw with me and make at least 30k daily depends on how many art frames you sell a day, you can also make 100k+ straight on a single portrait you make

For those that knows how to draw, or you think everybody can do it

Solofresh2:
I agree with you on this.I mean why should someone of 30 years of age accept a job of 20k.
20k wey guy man dey use buy drinks for club.
I would rather remain jobless than to work as a slave for 20k

Remaining jobless is not a best option, if he don't have any other options/help to venture into a better thing, he should take it and start learning a part-time skills after school hours like tailoring, haircut, digital skills, etc. Once he is perfect in any of them he can leave the job and start his own

Ndimkpurummiri:
whix skill at age of 30?

Age is just a number, with determination he will do. There are some skills that you can learn within 4 months, 1 year, 2 -- 7 years, some skills can even be a part-time stuff, if you are determined

Don't accept it, since it is a teaching job better learn a skill or start riding keke

No be small thing ooo

They will not see my girl

Let them give me 500k from the money let me use it for my own traditional/white wedding

Tell them that there is no Job in the country

Where are the Vanity Crew

Where are the vanity Crew

Clopto the highest paying goods after drugs

I tap from this kind blessing.

Vanity people should keep off

Let them continue.
Next time let them use transformer

Wonderful

Few people eating fat, while 99.5% of NIGERIANS are living in abject poverty this country needs urgent restructuring

RIP to the dead

Man makes man to be wicked

ngoziwrites:
So, I met this great guy online. After 2 weeks, we met in person and everything was perfect.

It's almost 2 months since we have been together.

He asked me out while we were together and I gladly said yes. (I have met a lot of players�). So while we were together, a discussion popped up and he said he can't discuss anything related to marriage until after 6 months. I pretended not to hear.


I don't know his financial capacity but I know he is doing okay. He controls the family business. They sell trucks, trailers and all. He is also a landlord in one of his father's houses at Festac. We stayed at a hotel. 25k per night. He paid for 2 night and I paid for one night. But during these times, we went to his house.

He said he didn't want me to come to see his place because it's the first time. And he said the house is very hot too.


Our communication is great but he doesn't look like he wants marriage soon. He has said things like marriage is hard work. He has also said in 10 years time, people will hardly be getting married.

Then one night, we were talking and he said I "see my wife as my responsibility"
I will take care of her and of cos, I am okay but I will still be very very rich, so I can't bring in any woman to suffer now" .. That's what I am sure I heard but I was scared to ask him to explain further or repeat himself.

He is actually okay, he has two cars but importantly, he has sense and he is very hard-working. But he is very principled and we have actually had several instances where he doesn't pick my calls at night. It happens often but I am starting to trust him, because sometimes I call by 5am and he picks and says he slept off. Sometimes we would be chatting on WhatsApp and after I call him 20 minutes later, he won't respond. He is not married!

So, I currently earn 450k monthly and I have been able to save something meaningful, so I can start a good business before getting married or after. I haven't stated because I don't know which one yet. I started a restaurant business when I was 23 but it failed.

If I ask him and he says 1 year, of course, I can wait. I will be 26 years next year April.

We will seeing for the 2nd time next week. I plan to ask him when he sees himself getting married but I am scared and the way he carries himself makes me reluctant to ask such.

About two weeks ago, I wanted to even surprise him with gifts. I asked for his account number and office/home address. (He picked me up the last time I traveled to see him, so I don't know the address". Well, he didn't give me these details. He said when it's time I will have them.


Two days ago, he said a friend's younger brother is getting married. He laughed and said people just dey marry. He has once asked me "You dey find husband?" jokingly-

I would like to settle before 27. Is it bad that I am thinking this way? If he says he is looking to get married in 2-3 years, i think it's a bit far. 2023 is still fine. But the problem is he doesn't really sound like marriage is on his mind. He will be 32 next year April too.

We vibe a lot. But he says I love you sparingly. Sometimes I say it and he doesn't respond, he will say tomorrow I will tell u or no, I told u yesterday.

But we are really really cool. I like him a lot and he likes me but I think I like him more. He gives me attention, I don't have to ask.

If I was 23, I won't have a problem waiting 3-4 years. But since I am ready mentally, financially, I am looking for someone who wants it within 6 months to 1 year. I can still try to do 2 years if I get someone great.

Ask him first
Secondly, I have a lots of friends that wants to settle down immediately if they see a good woman

I like Dogs

Good one for Anamberians and bad one for Lagos and P H and Asaba

Girls like it hot

Rtk5:
Every bashing or insult is accepted because of the gravity of my actions.

I went to shop the other day and just at the entrance I saw a wrapped gift fall off a woman's bag while she entered her car to drive off, I picked it then rushed to give her, she thanked me and we exchanged numbers.

We got chatting that same day and she told me she is married with 3 kids which was obvious right from when I saw her. She even sent me some of their family pix and boom i discovered that her husband was someone whom we grew together in the same street those years but we were never friends because of age diffrrence as he was like My senior with 10-12 years age difference. Our chat with her got so intensed that we agreed to hangout together but we needed a secret place due to our marital status, so the only place we could go for was a hotel.

Yesterday Sunday we went there and before i knew it we had sex. Since yesterday till this till now my conscience has been disturbing me, infact I couldn't sleep throughout the night till now. I've done what is evil.

How do I get this guilt off me?

Congratulations
You have found a free knacking, I am sure you will still Bleep her again and again

Why hunting Messi ? Is it because that he left Baca

Must is always be money, money etc everyime . This post made me laugh, you say they shud marry money right. Ok
But I will advise females out there, marry a guy/man with Vision. (Believe me, anything you can control has become possessed and obsessed).. ppl's obsession towards money is really getting out of hands
If you marry money, HV you forgotten money varnishes.
But vision never dies, if the Vision is sharp enough, it will even bring more money.
You don't even care if the guy has no sense of respect, no intelligence, nothing nothing.. all you care about is money .
HV you written off yourself that u can't make it??.
Pls, change that mind set, there is more to life than money you are shouting

I know many people that got married as a poor person but later become super rich.
Op is a DISASTER like APC Government

One thing usually lacks in ones life, it can be publicly noticed or not