abdrazak:

Really got your point. I will take a bold step.
Nope. I'm not claiming my father's house. I am planning on settling down where I am working
NB: Not of the same city oooooo.

Really you should be careful of the kind of advice u take from here, so u dont cause problems when there is none.if your fiancee is a well brought up yoruba girl, ur mum doesnt have to tell her this for her to know the accepted way of addressing inlaws. getting advice from pple who do not understand the culture, and then implementing it , anoda poster even said ur mum is wicked, and u didnt refute that.

tell ur girlfriend what your mum has said, and her reply will help you to know if she is the one for you.if she refuses, then u'll know this potential wife will be stubborn when u are eventually married, and u'll have issues correcting her when you differ on issues.

all this disregard for our ways is what is eroding the family structure , i have elder wives in the family who call me Aunty, and I do not for once think that means i'm older than them.I still respect them, cos I understand its just a cultural thing. thats how u pple get wives who slap and insult ur siblings and parents, cos you want to be modernised.

People who are not native speakers of English , speak with an accent, have u heard a Chinese person speak English. we Nigerians with our inferiority complex, we think speaking English like the Queen, will almost make us white.

She is beautiful. she has your nose..Pls take care of her..and give her a hug from me.

Pimped beetle I saw a few days ago

how much would i need to get a toyota sienna 2004 model or later from cotonou.

Is dis car still available??

blackwall:
NL's I want to know if its possible to have twins out of wed luck? I love twins but I am not ready for marriage now, I got a lady pregnant but my prayers are for the baby to b twins. Pls do you know any twins born out of wed luck in Nigeria?

Yes. I know somebody who had twins out of wedlock, and d father didn't accept paternity. Tough luck

PPAngel:


He has bought a million of your type in the SW already so if he puts a toll on 3rd mainland bridge, I know you will be obliged to pay up like the muggus you are.

You are one bitter bi*at*ch. What's up with all the hostility?

Third mainland bridge nko, Atlantic ocean? is he not planning to buy those too?

This post is a reflection of my home, I am a very private person, have very few friends, and my husband is the exact opposite.We have disagreements, about him bringing people to the house.At the moment, I have three guests in my house, eating, sleeping and generally invading my privacy. What we argue about most times, is the lack of notice, I could get home from work today, to find yet another stranger in my house.

I work full-time, have two toddlers to watch, now I have to cook and clean after not only my family, but for all the strays he brings home too. when i complain, he'll say his mission in life is to help, very noble, but do u have to add to my stress while fulfilling your mission?.

I think its a two-way thing, I should respect his character, but he also needs to respect my feelings too.cant remember the last time i sat in my living room undressed or in a relaxed state, my house is always cluttered with people, and it makes me mad. I hope i will get other peoples views on this, cos for this problem, I have a very wonderful and loving husband.

MojAyo:
hmmm,u dnt even knw how rude dat black lady at the counter is,however if I went there back to knw what official channels available,they will want to see my old passport which I use while iin SA to give birth to my baby,dats where the overstay case will now come into show,dear,lemme go and collect it in SA,its vry easy to collect in SA,tanx

SA has stopped fining for overstay, since mid last year, dey issue a ban for 5 yrs. I hope u left earlier than this.period, and paying fine still applies to u. So u don't get any surprises at ORTambo

28 million

SA are not fining for overstay anymore, u will be banned for 5 yrs when leaving the country.

So Parisbookaddict,what do you propose to be the final solution, u've dedicated your whole life to being anti-islam.what is it exactly u want to achieve,and to happen to Islam and Muslims?

though are feelings arent good,she is a good person by being honest abt it.

Too bad,perfect candidate but he is male

Ive got two plots of land around.iyana iba in lagos,dat i.would like to put up for.lease.anybdy interested in space for cattle rearing etc, shud holla.its fenced with a gate.

The only problem in this marriage is the Op.he is a spineless silver spoon kid who lacks drive or motivation. His wife is just frustrated with him,and she is showing it by acting this way.
The marriage is not hopeless,d Op only needs to man up and take back the reigns of the marriage. And he'll see how.much the wife's behaviour will improve. Women do not like to hav to play tue role of a man.
Let her see u as driven and motivated, an u'll see how much her respect for u will grow. I can imagine how she looks at u with access to so much cash,and connections too possibly, and not being able to achieve anything with it in d.last six yrs... Op dont be decieved ooo,the problem is u,get ursef right and everything else will fall in place.

This story reminds me of a nephew my sis took in, about 10 years of age.funny thing is after like a year anoda family member went tp visit and asked this child about his family. He denied his parents in d village, acting so haughty like he has always lived a privileged life.
Dont know if its a need to blend in d city,or the child is one of.dose pple dt would grow up to be characters, claiming what they are not.

Not disappointed.knew some pple would end up making this thread about them.bickering like say tomorrow no dey..mmttcheww!!

D key to preventing the rice from burning is cook it under low heat, immediately the rice starts to boil,i reduce yhe heat and cover the pot with a newspaper. Thus will enable it steam.and would prevent it from getting soggy too just dont overload it with water.

shelter4luving:
Thank you all for your contributions.
well, when i said i was smiling. i do not mean anything serious. i was just be nice. and i wasn't nice because i wanted anything from him. i didnt even know him as the manager then.
as for the job i got, i didnt go there in his name. as a matter of fact, i went there to try my luck. i was even ask if someone directed me and i said no one. the manager told me she like my confidence, the manner of approach and boldness.
@sir Empero, i do not enter any contract relationship with this man pls. u sound as if am defrauding him.

I can't believe some of the comments here. OP, u owe him nada.next time he calls u with ridiculous request for sex,blow him off...shameless he-goat.