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PoliticsRe: Atiku Can Only Travel To Dubai, We Need A Pres. Who Can Go Anywhere - Oshiomhole by sanmtiago(m): 12:28pm On Jan 05, 2019
Is it not better atiku travels to only dubia other than our incumbent on embarks on numerous and futile travels wasting transport and jet fuels grin
CelebritiesRe: Yemi Blaq: My Voice Once Got Me An Instant Job by sanmtiago(m): 10:53am On Jan 05, 2019
My voice sexy pass this paddy own cool
CelebritiesRe: Dj Cuppy Poses With Her Grandma In Adorable Photos by sanmtiago(m): 9:41pm On Jan 04, 2019
lilmax:
from her mother's side or father's side?
your question just threw me into laughter... cheesy
CelebritiesRe: Dj Cuppy Poses With Her Grandma In Adorable Photos by sanmtiago(m): 9:39pm On Jan 04, 2019
I hate to sound like a pervert but on a more serious note this babe go sweet die kiss
CareerRe: 2019 Goal: How Do I Become Skilled In Public Speaking? by sanmtiago(m): 9:10pm On Jan 04, 2019
Okay now my own problem is knowing to many vocabularies and not being able to curb my circumlocution. Sometimes I feel embarrassed for knowing to many vocabs. Peers even laugh at me when I speak to them in numbers and they treat whatever my opinions are with unsavory flippancy.. Please guys how do I learn to speak without being too verbose??
PoliticsRe: Video: PDP Youth Leader, Others Storms Dino's Residence In Solidarity by sanmtiago(m): 4:43pm On Jan 04, 2019
Lord of the bush grin cheesy police is your friend na
PoliticsRe: Police Escorts Dino Melaye Out Of His Residence by sanmtiago(m): 4:41pm On Jan 04, 2019
Why was he hiding all these while knowing full well he was still gonna surrender?? undecided lord of the bush hunger don take extreme revolution for e belle grin
CrimeRe: Fulani Herdsmen Kill People Coming Back From Church In Jos (Graphic Photos) by sanmtiago(m): 10:15am On Jan 04, 2019
I reiterate this is not a country. Nigeria is a failed experiment. cry
CrimeRe: Lady Found Dead By The Roadside In Edo State (Disturbing Photos) by sanmtiago(m): 7:50am On Jan 04, 2019
Why is the heart of man so wicked? cry
RomanceRe: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of Three Years Cause He Has Never Seen Her Angry by sanmtiago(m): 10:40am On Jan 03, 2019
It's funny.I have a girlfriend just like that,she has never gotten angry with me for no reason.I can even remember calling her mom a proustite and the reply I got was 'please don't call my mom that'in a remorseful tone and immediately I felt so ashamed.
Christianity EtcRe: Apostle S.S. Aderibigbe 2019 Prophecies: '1 Governor, 4 Senators Will Die’ by sanmtiago(m): 10:18am On Jan 03, 2019
Ugly man
CrimeRe: Father Kills Two Sons With Poison Over Witchcraft In Bayelsa (Photo) by sanmtiago(m): 10:07am On Jan 03, 2019
Illiteracy is a disease
FamilyRe: I Think I'm Battling Depression. by sanmtiago(m): 5:25pm On Jan 02, 2019
MiaB:
By having compassion for yourself and recognizing this inner voice as a destructive enemy, you can begin to see who you are more clearly and realistically.

Think About What You Could Be Angry At

While some experience depression as a continual state of sadness or increased painful emotions, some depression can come in the form of a state of numbness - a lack of feeling that weakens all excitement and smothers your potential to feel joy. Suppressing or cutting off emotions could be a defense against something you aren't comfortable feeling. Many people who suffer from depression are actually masking a feeling of anger, turning their rage toward someone else on themselves. Anger can be a hard feeling to accept, as from a very young age we are often told it is bad to be angry, that we need to behave, and not to throw tantrums or get in fights. While acting abusive is never acceptable, feeling anger is a natural part of our everyday lives. By acknowledging and accepting or discussing your angry feelings, you are much less likely to turn these feelings against yourself or allow them to lead you into a depressed state.

Be Active

When you're depressed your energy levels can drop drastically, but the last thing you want to do when feeling down is to keep yourself from getting up. It's a physiological fact that activity fights depression. Get your heart rate up 20 minutes a day, five days a week, and it has been scientifically proven that you will feel better emotionally. Exercising increases the neuro-plasticity of your brain and releases neurochemicals called endorphins, which help to elevate your mood. Even just getting out of the house for a walk, a game of catch with your kids, or a trip to the gym is a medically proven method of improving the way you feel.

Don't Isolate Yourself

When depressed, you may hear thoughts telling you to be alone, keep quiet and not to bother people with your problems. Again, these thoughts should be treated like parasites that try to keep your body from getting healthy. Do not listen to them. When you feel bad, even if you feel embarrassed, confiding in a friend or voicing your struggles can lighten your burden and begin a process of ending your unhappiness. Talking about your problems or worries is not a self-centered or self-pitying endeavor. Friends and family, especially those who care about you, will appreciate knowing what's going on.

Even the simple act of putting yourself in a social atmosphere can lift your spirits. Go to a place where there are people who may have similar interests as you, or even to a public spot like a museum, park, or mall, where you could enjoy being amongst people. Never allow yourself to indulge in the thought that you are different from or less than anyone else. Everyone struggles at times, and your depression does not define who you are or single you out from others.

Do Things You Once Liked to Do ... even if you don't feel like it

Depression is one of the hardest emotional states to endure, because the symptoms themselves can destroy your will and energy to engage in activities you once loved. Giving in to this lethargic state can give your depression even more power, whereas staying active in your life, pursuing anything and everything you may find of interest will re-ignite your spark and keep you on your own side.

Though easier said than done, the times you feel most like slumping on the couch are the moments you should force yourself to take a walk, cook a meal, or call a friend. If you've ever been depressed before, do whatever it was that helped you feel better before. Coping strategies that have worked for you in the past are a great place to start. Activities that help you calm down and that raise your spirits are important, even simple things like baking brownies, taking a bath, or listening to upbeat music. Act against the critical inner voice that tells you nothing will help. Remember its only purpose is to keep you from feeling better.
depression has a become a part of me.I've been feeling depressed for a year and a half and now nothing ever excites me like you said in your writeup.mine has metamorphosed into a state where it comes intermittently and it comes with full intensity and disrupts my normal thinking,making me feel like I'm a failure
Car TalkRe: Durojaiye Kehinde Obasanjo: I Drove My Amphibious Car From Lagos To Abuja by sanmtiago(m): 12:02am On Jan 02, 2019
delpee:
Great idea! It will be so useful in Lagos.

Just imagine that you're leaving VI to Ikeja only to get to Ozumba Mbadiwe and there's heavy traffic.. Change gear, drive into the lagoon to cross over to Ikoyi and link Osborne rd/Third mainland bridge. Traffic at Oworonshoki ...change gear again and fly to Ikeja. cool

Isn't that wonderful? He needs our support truly.
see your toy reasoning..lol
FamilyRe: I Need Help On How To Write An Emotional Appreciation Letter To Dad by sanmtiago(op): 10:09am On Jan 01, 2019
sisisioge:
Buy a best daddy card and pour out your mind on the blank space available for writing.

Or, get a T-shirt with the best daddy in the world imprint. He would be happy to wear it.

Or just write your letter with all your emotions on display. Avoid misspellings and grammatical errors so the guy don't wonder about money spent on your education.

Lastly, avoid big words like those in your original post tongue. Cheers to an awesome 2019.
alright thanks
FamilyRe: I Need Help On How To Write An Emotional Appreciation Letter To Dad by sanmtiago(op): 9:19am On Jan 01, 2019
gaby:
How much you go pay make i help you draft one wey go make the man cry and hopefully no go kpeme the man from too much emotions lol
you no fit do am for your guy via the brotherly life wink..I go certainly regard you..I don run out of words as e be say na my papa I wan send am to
FamilyI Need Help On How To Write An Emotional Appreciation Letter To Dad by sanmtiago(op): 7:53am On Jan 01, 2019
First and foremost I'd like to wish everyone a Happy new year,I pray 2019 be a great year for us all and I also pray for Nigeria to be a better place.
Okay guys I'd be needing your help on this one,i know most of you predominantly guys know how difficult it is to tell your dad how much you love him and how immensely he has impacted in you whether orally or face to face. My dad has showed me unabated care and love a real man should give to his child so I'd like to show in return how much I appreciate him and let him know how valuable he is to me.
So guys like i said earlier i'd be needing your residue of knowledge and your sagacious ideas on this one. I promise to appreciate even the most exiguous of opinion thank you!
RomanceRe: Lady Dumped By Boyfriend On Christmas Eve, Rescued After Drinking Sniper by sanmtiago(m): 8:50pm On Dec 25, 2018
Samzzy94:
Bro......I also have the same issue.......my own gf's own is even worse....if she calls me continuously and I don't pick her calls....she can commit suicide.....she almost did recently.....I was so scared..... though I love her and I can't imagine losing her.....but I am also concerned about her obsessive love
we many oo...I feel say na only me get girl were fit die for me... grin
RomanceRe: Jane Mena Shares 'Merry Christmas' Twerking Video To Celebrate Xmas by sanmtiago(m): 8:36pm On Dec 25, 2018
So laidis now this one just they use nyash they make money...I wonder the big men were go don pounce on that nyash. undecided
CelebritiesRe: Davido Orders One Of His Camera Men Off His Private Jet After He Used The Toilet by sanmtiago(m): 8:31pm On Dec 25, 2018
oluwatosink:
And will these put food in our table.. angry
on our table
I wonder how you learn preposition pass sad
Christianity EtcRe: Dreams: What Are The Implications Of Not Dreaming Or Remembering Your Dreams? by sanmtiago(m): 10:57am On Dec 23, 2018
Dream is just our psychology at work while we're unconscious (sleep) nothing special...
EducationRe: Group Demands Sexual Harassment Policies In Varsities by sanmtiago(m): 7:18am On Dec 23, 2018
It's supposed to be a jail term of 5years so that lecturers nation wide go get sense. He goats where no get shame they find children to harass were them don reach to born.
EducationRe: IMSU Stabbing & Suicide Saga: Nigerian Students And Campus Marriage, The Way Out by sanmtiago(m): 6:42pm On Nov 22, 2018
The world is indeed going crazy!
CelebritiesRe: Anyang Nyong’o: Woman Sending Nude Pictures To Lupita Nyong’o’s Governor Father by sanmtiago(m): 5:29pm On Oct 19, 2018
I bet this guy is still gonna have a clandestine affair with this bitch..he's only trynna vindicate himself from every possible means of blackmail..
CelebritiesRe: Rico Swavey And M.I. Abaga (Throwback Photo) by sanmtiago(m): 9:21pm On Oct 11, 2018
Rico da freshest
CrimeRe: Baby Found Abandoned In Church Bathroom (photos) by sanmtiago(m): 10:51pm On Sep 24, 2018
Stupid society undecided
CrimeRe: 13-Year-Old Boy Arrested Over His Phobia For The Police In Lagos by sanmtiago(m): 9:20pm On Sep 23, 2018
Phobia ni phobia kor grin
CelebritiesRe: BBNaija's Khloe Steps Out In Bra Top, Disappointed Fan Reacts. Khloe Fires Back by sanmtiago(m): 9:18pm On Sep 23, 2018
We all got the right to wear whatever we like....MYB#
PoliticsRe: Politician And His Brother Stab Themselves During Fight In Imo. Graphic Photos by sanmtiago(m): 6:18pm On Sep 18, 2018
Bloody fight... Bloody fools
PoliticsRe: Politician And His Brother Stab Themselves During Fight In Imo. Graphic Photos by sanmtiago(m): 6:18pm On Sep 18, 2018
Bloody fight...
CrimeRe: Evans Gave Me Tetanus Injections After His Gang Shot Me –businessman by sanmtiago(m): 11:51am On Sep 15, 2018
My problem is not with Evans right now..my concern na the money N400million naim person pay as ransom!
TravelRe: Gridlock Holds Passengers Hostage For 72 Hours In Kogi by sanmtiago(m): 6:50am On Aug 27, 2018
I don't even wanna imagine how debilitating it is staying in such gridlock.. cry

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