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No. I am from Austria.

I understand it better know.
The moment I read it I just felt bad.

For me it sounds like we are not together or we are having problems. Its not typical to say this where I come from only when problems are there.

That is why I was thinking.

My husband has exactly the same tribalmarks like the women on the first picture.
I never had a problem with that, but I was surprised that his parents make that for him.
Long time I always thought that he had an accident.

When this is a joke you should be more ashamed girl.
You do not look like a child again but you behave like one.

What I think is:

you girls should be ashamed because of this what you are doing here.

this is your sister, go and speak with her private about your problems and solve it

Is that a problem?
I see a lot of people here, who do not write a good English.

When that is your only problem, be happy

The photo in my profile is of course not me.
It is a model. Barbara Meier

I do not have red hair

I believe you can still ask questions here maybe not necessarily deep things like relationship, you can still learn from some sincere people here about African culture, general mentality etc, but you need to be able to disregard the, jokers, pranksters, bigots, racists and tribalists.

Yes I will do that

are you in your sister twins

Thank you for the comments.
I read them and I think I understand him now a little bit better. I think I just made a problem for nothing.

I spoke with my man yesterday and he was just smiling and ask me why I do not ask him directly. I should never keep something like this in my mind again.

So thank you a lot and I swear I will never start a discussion here again. Some people are to bad here
But for all the nice ones: Thanks a lot

No one is more important then your sister and of course a sister should not take the man from her sister.

That is so bad

I see.

time to introduce me to his wife

Why should I use his age against him

Thanks for your answers.
I feel much better now

So true what you iv4real wrote !

Yes that is true. I have problems with trusting somebody even my own husband.
I was on facebook because I try to contact his two sisters. I mean they are part of my husbands family and I feel like they do not accept me as his wife and you know this make me to think a lot.

I know a lot of user here can`t understand me but if I go and speak about my problems with other white people they just tell me the same things everytime. Yes divorce, he wanted the papers not you Cry

I love my husband so much and he is a very good man and a good father. Our relationship is just great. We do not have any problems.

BUT there is something, I was in Nigeria after we married. We stayed for two weeks. There was not enough time to meet all his family members. I met his parents, his brother and a lot of cousins. He has two sister here in Europe. 2 are in Nigeria with the parents. The parents were really nice to me. I felt good with them. When they are calling they are happy when they can here the children and they ask about me often. The older sister two aks about me and the children and I talk to her on phone sometimes, but the two younger sisters, Undecided, I have never met them and I have never spoke to them.

There are not on phone when I am there when my hsuband is calling. I saw their facebook profiles and I wanted to contact them, but no answer Huh

Today I saw a message on my husbands handy. he wrote his sis that he can not call now because he is going with the children and "their mum" to the playground. Shocked
He is calling me the children mum?? Am I to sensible or what? why he call me like that?
should I ask him abou that or does I cause problem for nothing?

Huh Another problem is that I think that his age is wrong. I found it out yesterday. He always told me that he have three younger sisters but I saw the profiles on facebook. 2 are defenitly older and the third is from 1981!!! how she wrote!! so he can not be from 84 when he is older. Huh

I am confused, but I am afraid to ask. Why he lie? Does he lie?
Why does he call me the childrens mum and not his wife??

Does I think to much about all these??

Thanks Goldielucks I will try that

Is true, white men are not better. they will run when you ask to much

why should I marry a white man?
I want my man!

2 cnd wife

Thats true, but My husband is a typical man.

Most of the time his answer is: We will speak tomorrow

It is very difficult to make him speak about important things.

Thank you for your post omulola.

I hope you are right.

I will do that. Maybe tomorrow when he comes home from work and he finished his meal

If I am light skinned?

I don`t know. What is a white girl for you? dark skinned or red skinned

Because you want a greencard

You think I should ask him?

I do not know how I should start it without making a problem from it.  

I hope you guys don`really think what you write

They have good and bad girls everywhere amd to take a girl just for a greencard is a very bad thing.

Is it fun to beat people who are already down

Maybe because women take a marriage more serious.

I am a catholik, I only marry one time in my life and I do not believe in divorce.
So when I found out that my husband just jokes with our marriage, thats like a catastrophe.

are nigerian women not marrying nigerian men and are happy with them?
what is this

190: I am not good today, no jokes ok

lefulefu: I am glad to hear that