Hmm.  Well, you can see why many of the people tells you that your man could have married you to get the "opportunities" in Austria that you think he wouldn't have gotten it in Nigeria.

My husband waited 2 years for me, because I was to young to marry him and it was hard for him. He could marry a lot of women this time to get what he want. A Nigerian women with Austrian citizenship was interested in him, but he waited for me and I think that speaks for him . Now he has me  , our lovely children and a good job in Austria what he wants more? His hopes for a better life , haben sich erfüllt  

So their concerns are sensible not saying it is true for YOUR MAN and that explains why Home Offices aren't issuing out any type of visas all nilly willies which is sad for those who are legit.  

Of course I understand.

do fat women be desperate? . . . Undecided i know lots of "beautyful" babes who fall into the trap of some nigerian men. and believe me, desperation is the same for all sizes. . . Wink

Again: I know it. I just repeat what Austrian men say to me when they see us together.  

anyway, let me just give u a little advise . . .
what happen in your home is only your bussiness, its not meant for friends, for acquaintance and even less for forums like this one. cant u just enjoy your relation and ignore what people say?
u know, if somebody gets so much confidence to tell u such things abt your husband, that means u gave them the chance to do so. this kinda things happened to me when i just newlywed . . .after 4-5 years this shouldnt happen anymore.

this happen do me all the time. most is strangers who come up to me. They do not know us but they judge us  

South Africans aren't the only ones that people on this side say are HIV infected predominately.

Again: I do not talk about people on this side.
I talk about the Austrian people I met in real life (yes there is something like a real life   ) and that is what they say and think. most of them.

So you saying your Nigerian husband moving or moved to Austria for a better life? Lips sealed

Well, she said it people!

Yes of course. like most immigrants here.

mrs chima:

I do not think that you can compare Nigeria with Austria. Nigeria is beuatiful but the life is to hard. Austria is beautiful and you have a lot of chances. Human beeings travel because they are searching better opportunities.

antonion:

what would you say when people say about south african men that they are all hiv infected?
(because this is what most of them think about you)

do you like that? do you think its true?

Excuse you. If you go back and read what I said. I said to tell THOSE AUSTRIAN men that made the comment about YOUR MAN having a big Joystick. Tell them it is a hype which they shouldn't fall into.

They won`t believe. What they believe is, that I need the sex and he needs my money Whatever you say, they do not care.

I do not know why a Nigerian would want an Austrian citizenship. Beats me.

maybe because Austria is such a beautiful country and someone would like to live here permanently.

hello leahsarahk,

I am happy with my marriage.
Of course we have had some problems because of our young age but we did it and since then I never regret it.

Hello leahsarahk,

I am speachless. I am sorry for you. It must be hard.

^^STAY WITH THE GUY^^
I AM SURE HE DOES PHUCK YOU REAL HARD THAN THOSE WEAK WHITIES?

Please dont be a racist or make them deport our bros o

so respectless  
Is it fun to post those stupid comments  

You need to tell the Austrian men that just like some of them have small joysticks so does some of the African men.

Just because they are Austrian doesn't mean they all have small joysticks and just as well as not all BLACK MEN are endowed.  That's a myth that get many of you pale women caught up.

Just because you THINK YOU ARE PRETTY and thin doesn't mean you can't be scammed.  Not saying you are per se.

Why would a Nigerian want a green card to AUSTRIA?

Why you tell me that?
I know that. My husband do not have a large , its just normal and good how it is. I never believe in this myth that black men have bigger , than others. Thats stupid. But I see now that many Austrian men believe it and they are angry when they see us together.

And why so aggressive?  

I did not say that because I am pretty , I can not be a victim of scamming. I just repeat what Austrian men tell to me. And why a Nigerian should not want to have the Austrian citizenship  

I thought I can meet some nice girls and boys here who understand my problem. I did not know that this forum is full with haters.

First someone aksed me where I am from.
I am from Austria.

Second I can not say that Nigerian men do not care about girls feeling. No that s not true.
maybe some of them are bad ok, but there are also a lot of austrian men here who are bad!
thats just normal for men who never fall in love with a girl I think.

Third I read about sex and green card comments  
this is what i hear from austrian men  
when they see me with him they will come later and aks me why i am together with him. That sound like this: Oh you are so pretty and not such a fat and desperate woman why you are with him? does he have got a huge dick that you are with him?



this comments really makes me angry! they do not have any respect!

I do not talk about the users in this forum.
I talk about my experience in real life.

I am a white girl and when I say that my husband is a Nigerian they feel like they can say any rubbish to me what comes into their mind and I am tired of this.

I do not think that Nigerian men are worster than other men of other races.

Really I can not understand it.

When I meet Africans of other nations they are telling me to be careful with my Nigerian husband.
They are all players and liars and so on.

A white woman who is married to a man from Guinea tells me all the time that I am stupid to be with a Nigerian. She said she know it from here husband that Nigerian men are bad and only play with women.

I do not want to hear all this. I know my husband. He is a very good person and I do not like how people talk about him and the whole nation. Is that normal? Why does they say something like that. It really piss me of and whatever I say back to these ignorant persons, they are laughing at me and they say I will see in future that that what they said was true.

Hello Leahsarahk,

I am a white girl too and I am married with a Nigerian man.
Your story is very sad. I am so sorry for you 

Do they?

I never made this experience.

Of course love does exist, but sometimes the love is not strong enough and people change.
In the Western world the divorce rate is so high because most of the women do not depend on their husband again. There are free to go, if they want.

In India it is much more difficult for a woman to get divorced, so the rate of course is low.

I would say no.
Good looking people have got a lot of haters.

Hello,

I would like to introduce myself.
I am Sarah-Maria, I am 22 years old and I am married with a Nigerian man since 4 years now.
I know him since I am 16 and we have got two wonderful babies together.
He is from Benin City.

I am very happy to find this forum.