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Happy married life..

This smile is able to attract a million girls.

What do you think of it?


Hit or Miss..



#IamSARANG.

Cutehector:
Tru that.. Some things just hav to be weighed...



Recently she jokingly asked me for a loan... And wen I asked her why she did dat, she said she was just tryn her luck.. Knowing fully dat I"m broke... She just totally killed evry likeness I had for her..

Lol thats it man.

[quote author=thebestonearth post=39596366][/quote]Bros you be spirit?

We have stages of a relationship, They progressively go till it reaches its climax, But the mistake we do most at times is that, at the first stage we start taking significant Decisions.

You see, The first stage of a relationship, You'll be infatuated, Flying on the wings of that thrilling feeling, Your hormones are strong that time. You'll be like: "I've met the love of my life"
"I can't do without him/her"
This is always a time when emotions are burning and there's this strong attachment too.
Now, The mistake we make is that We Start promising Marriage and making great promises at this stage, Which is wrong. Cos at this time we are almost blinded by emotions and been driven by irrationality. At this stage, We haven't discovered all about this person but yet we feel they're just the best for us.

Falling in Love is what every tom, Dick and harry can do, After the passion and romantic energy, and after the realisation of your senses, can you still stay in that love?

The day you wake up and say you have married the wrong person is the day that your marriage truly begins. It means that this is the day where the veil of infatuation lifts and the 20/20 vision of everyday living comes in.
At the second stage, the infatuation has cleared, that's when you'll be like:
"OMG, he tells the worst jokes."
"Mehn She's too short"
All this while na feelings blind you o!

That's when you'll start regretting your promises, for some people by then its late, maybe cos they are married..

Romantic love is really psychological. And we must understand its process if we don't want to make great mistakes.
Its very wrong to promise a person you are in love with marriage when you haven't discovered their weakness.

You must allow your relationship grow to a level where you completely know all the irritating things about your partner, that's when you'll know if You LOVED them, or you were just Thrilled with HORMONAL promptings..

The first one to two months of a relationship, Biko enjoy the feeling but don't make any serious promise. Cos at that stage, Everything will be sweet, Even the fart of your partner sef.

NWayo nwayo or you might regret your decision later.

I'll be continuing on this subject later, its very broad.


#IamSARANG.

Last year some of my classmates graduated from the university, This year many are graduating, But the truth is that I'm still an undergraduate. That doesn't give me any inferior feeling. Yesterday I was discussing with a friend who remonstrated bitterly cos he hasn't even gained admission into the university, meanwhile our mates are graduating.
He felt very insecure and had somewhat concluded that his lot was bad..

I tried talking to him, Making him understand that we are here on different assignments. Life to us all can't happen same way.
Maybe you are reading this, And all your mates are graduating, when you've just gotten admission..
All your mates are doing good jobs, And you're still hopping from one menial job to another..
All your mates are getting married, even your younger ones are getting married, But you haven't even found a compatible partner..
You have been married for many years, yet no child, and people who got married much after you have their children..

I just wanna tell you not to get discouraged. Let go of that competitive spirit. The first to graduate from school, get a job, or get married doesn't necessarily mean he/she is superior.
Time and chances happen to us all differently. Life is a personal race, if you wanna bring out your best and be happy, then don't judge yourself with the progress of others.

Sometimes circumstances beyond human control, we get entangled in. We have no option than to lean on God.
Build your esteem and don't define your life and worth based on what others have that you don't.
Sometimes what you lack isn't a result of laziness, and sometimes what others have isn't a result of their much hard work.
Its not left for us to evaluate and judge.

All we should do is accept the fact that we ain't others, and our life isn't close to same with theirs.
Appreciate people's progress, no matter how much you are not progressing.
Like Linda Ikeji said "Sometimes God delays a part of our life cos he wants to increase us in other parts"

You might not be where you want to be, You may not have met up with your mates, But if you look clearly, You'll see what you have that they don't have.

I'm not a graduate, But most graduate still seek my coaching, and knowledge. I have what they don't have.
Same with you, You might not have what you want, But what you have is what others want.

They are buying their cars, you don't have one now. But don't forget that when you'll get yours, theirs will be old model.
No time is late for God, he can bless you today for all the years that seemed wasted.

There's always a time to shine. There's always a season of celebration. It mustn't come when others are celebrating.
God is taking you somewhere.

Be encouraged and Motivated.

IamSARANG.

Can't help but appriciate just how wonderful she really look.


Simple yet Beautiful.



#Angel or #Bride??



#IamSARANG.

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