Diariess:


Well.. people are different. I have a value of repaying kindness but that's just me

Kindness ontop sufferhead
She needs someone to take care of her
Period!

SweetCunt97:
Bad belle as in? Pls let's stop this bias.

The guy is suffering what karma dished out to him.

And marriage with nothing. Phew!
Nah sand sand go dey pay una rent
I pity you if you stay with him
We all know that’s a second phase of suffering
Nah so you like suffering reach ni

Ps: sorry wrong quote. Was meant for op

Ask yourself would he have come back if he had made it?

Well, therein lies your decision.
All the best

Has someone at least been given a study visa?
There are only refusals on this page

If you get approval, please say it here as well

The way I talked

Londonboi7960:





Guidelines on How to write an SOP (Statement of Purpose)

Most important thing: Avoid Plagiarism

While writing SOP, the following things to be mentioned which will boost chances of convincing a VISA OFFICER and possibly getting a STUDY VISA APPROVAL:

1. Introduce yourself in first paragraph. Write, what kind of person you are, your interests and personality etc. This may also include one line background of work & study you did earlier. This should be related to the course your are going to pursue.

2. Explain what do you know about the area of study you are applying for.
Like HR, Marketing, Finance, IT, Multimedia, Engineering etc. Market trends, application of knowledge in work, organisations/roles where you can work after studying in this XYZ field and if possible, 1-2 real life example where you experienced this personally (in your current job or someone in family who works in this field etc.)This shows you are well read and know what you are getting yourself into.

3. Now explain Why Canada.
Mention all points Canada is famous for like low crime rate, diversity (which helps in learning), livability and quality of life related statistics etc. Facts & figures help you here. Google a little

4. Why this particular college/Univ. Explain ranking of the same or relevance of course being offered or if someone known is studying there etc. Mention positive points which you can gather from ex-student's testimonials and college website itself. Again, write in your own language and by your own understanding.

5. Why this Program:
Mention why you chose this program. Explain how courses (subjects) of this course will help you in your career, how some of these subjects you have learnt earlier (basic knowledge) and need better and upgraded knowledge about these (especially if applying for PG/masters), explain application of subjects in real job scenario etc.

6. Summarize with reason of coming back to home country: Now summarize all details by mentioning your career goals and what will you do post completing this course.Mention how this course will help you in making your career in your home country. Be passionate about job market of your home country and coming back to your country. Because "You'll not leave Canada" is one of the biggest reason for Student Visa refusal.

7.Travel history
If u av not travelled bfor, state the reason why u av decided to travel at this point of ur life, and how important the program is to ur career & personal development back home

8.Family Ties-Hime ties
U can talk about how children are apparent to family inheritance, and how u are obliged to take care of ur family (parent and siblings). U can attach their birth certificates

Secondly, talk bout Landed Properties (Documents, deed of assignment, Deed of conveyance,survey plans and other important doc.) to of prove ur Hometies

9. Proof of Funds
Mention that you have paid ur tuition fee or made a deposit of ur tuition fee and so so as amount has bin set aside by your sponsor for ur Tution fee (if not yet paid), so so amount for ur One year Living Expenses (might be more than one year) and so so amount for ur flight itinerary

10. Final Note
U can end it like this or in ur own language
Dear Sir/Madam, I hope that you will find all my documents in proper order and I kindly request you to process my visa application as soon as possible. I am very much thankful to you for giving me your valuable time to process my student visa application.


Your Sincerely,
Write ur name and Surname


Happy Writing


VERY IMPORTANT CLUES TO NOTE WHEN DRAFTING UR own SOP+


+2347086629685 for more details on it whatapp

Thank you

Stevenssen:

approval in principle. the first stage approval

Okay

Can someone please help me with an SOP sample or someone who had never studied before and is going for Social Work and economics

mazeb:


No, she did not receive AIP.

What is aip?

3k monthly

2012-2014

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Ps: Your location doesn’t matter.

Oncologist

Now it’s all about money

Afam4eva:
I don't know if i'm the only one who has this.

But i always feel sick whenever i get into most cars. I always feel like throwing up and it has been a problem i've had right from childhood. I don't know what exactly causes it but it makes it difficult for me to travel by car because i get sick throughout the journey.

Has anybody experienced this?

I have had it since I was a kid and
It’s worse in a car that is filled with lots of people
Even now I am having it
No matter how neat and clean this bus is
I only don’t have it when I drive and I am so thankful for that cause I hate it, my goodness!

kkins25:
wtf is exactly gods law??

Lol ask him
The god’s law that have turned their own land into cannibalism

Iceyjayzz:
Yes. all of you hungry and lazy girls.

People like you just make a little money and start feeling like kings insulting and looking down on others cause you think you’ve arrived

You disgusts me!

Iceyjayzz:
Lol look at this hungry girl, if I show you what's on my cashapp account, you will faint, am not sure if your family can ever see that kind of money on their lives.

Lmao show me.
I’ll show you mine

Not by mouth
Not by calling someone broke online
I like evidence like in court

Please blur your name out and show me your cash app acct and let me show you ONE of my BANK Accts.

I am waiting man
If I am not **times richer than your rude a**hole
Lemme see why
The people who call others broke online are the broken ones
Penniless!
You are penniless and I am happy to show you!!

Ademoore07:
If that be the case, the best thing to do is to marry a black or foreigner. If i were the guy, i will just relocate to another country.

They are places where law actually works
He will be arrested if he run away

Iceyjayzz:
Yes. a all of you hungry and lazy girls.

Show me your acct balance
I’ll show you mine

Keypad warrior
Audio nonsense

Ademoore07:
The judgement can be appealed. They are not married neither are they with a child.

In Canada, common law is a thing

The people crying on this thread are they the ones paying the 50k

Stocktrader:
Since you say cheap, I can't comment on that, I would have advised you to try Holland, Finland, Norway, Germany, Austra. I reside in Norway if you can process yourself to Norway, Minimum wage per hour for unskilled worker as you can get job in construction, NOK 188 (more than €17), If you can work in fishing trawler you will earn higher.

What are the different ways someone can come there? Work visa?

Norway

Something that 50k would solve without a whim
Why do people like to suffer
Haba mana

bukatyne:


At this rate, I give up!

@your other post: Marriage gives legitimacy to a relationship between a man & his woman.

However, if you cannot be responsible and make the right decisions by your partner before marriage, the marriage vows possess no special powers to make one start to make the right decisions after marriage.

That is why people choose monsters and somehow expect them to change because they said their vows after marriage. Or choose partners who had multiple relationships and someone expect fidelity.

The responses on this thread are also hilarious to note especially as it is a rare sight of male & female NLers heading the same direction: whatever name we call the OP, he did right telling his current girlfriend about the Ex's request.

The current girl should have had more sense, dug into the matter and make a right decision else Bobo would stop telling her stuffs and when/if they marry, she would start lamenting her husband keeps secrets from her. If I can't trust you to make the right decisions, why shod I confide in you?

My tboughts: if the OP still feels very strongly about his ex after deep soul searching apart from her sexual prowess, he should end his current relationship (apart from the fact he doesn't love her, she is very selfish, greedy and would alienate him in future) and reach out to his ex.

Lay his conditions on the table, extract her and continue the relationship. If a her concern is to 'help her family' instead of finding an escape for herself, her story of dumping him to hustle for her family is believable.

Some people have a misguided sense of duty towards their families. I know a woman in her late 30s who said she couldn't leave her brothers alone (40s & late 20s) to get a job she was required to stay there for the week in addition to other factors.

When we meet people at certain stages of life, we must accept that others have contributed to the man/woman we deem attractive enough to date/marry and they might have debts to pay.

Why are you so SMART!!!
And REASONABLE!!!

17

bigpicture001:
Ur such a proud fellow....

You didn't complete any statement without mentioning "at 25"....

Fornur most mind na greatest achievement

It is his greatest achievement and it is not easy.

spyder880:


All of the approvals needed by the state and local governments were obtained.

Can you mention some and is this applicable to building everywhere

This is looking awesome so far.

What other type of approval did you get for this, legally

Nice

Superwave:
I don't feel sorry for people like you with poor judgement. I am not perfect but when I see struggling single mother especially those who never wanted the pregnancy n out of foolishness chose not to abort cos of religious or whatever conviction they have I just shake my head. One cos you tot having a child is play play n 2 for not understanding aborting unwanted pregnancy is giving your self a second chance in life.

Check the rate of single mother n tell me if you can count 3% of them in Nigeria thag are not vengeful, filled with regret n bitterness. Did you think they brought all that from heaven ? You will learn that is all I have to say to you. I have close to 50M in cash n asset n I still know what am going tru taking care of a single child. You that u can't care for a child don't have common sense to have protected sex.

This too
100%

abdullahi45:


You are correct.

I really hope someone/people can help her without asking her to give up her child. A business and shelter would be enough to sustain her and her daughter. Where are all indefatigable people of goodwill on nairaland?

Please someone should put her distress on twitter after her consent, for people who can help. I really don't know how to push tweets to a wider coverage, she really needs help and we as humanity must not betray her.

If we can all agree, I am personally willing to help, she must not be made to lose her child because of financial mess, that will not only leave a hole in her heart but will be a permanent source of emotional and psychological trauma.

Let's up please!!!

This too.
100%%

spiralwedge:
Mizflo,
Give her up for adoption. That's the right thing now.

It will be tough at first, but best you adjust and face your life squarely while she's in safe hands.

If you don't, you will suffer her for nothing and it will affect you getting the best out of the remaining years in your life.

Never be tired of this life, always make use of new opportunities even if it is not conventional or popular. In this case, your opportunity is to be able to make something out of your life while your daughter grows elsewhere to be an adult.

You will be fine, she will be fine too. Which state are you?


Modified:
I just read other people's comments above mine. Please ignore them. They sit comfortably typing without empathy and with the typical Nigerian mindset.

Adoption is very good, your daughter will have people she can look up to as parents/guardians. She needs that foundation at least till when she is 18. You are merely 21 and this is your chance to restart your life. If you don't take this chance, you will suddenly reach 40, depressed, broke, miserable and suicidal. Please take this chance, especially for your daughter to have a home.

100% concurs
100%