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Superwave:
I don't feel sorry for people like you with poor judgement. I am not perfect but when I see struggling single mother especially those who never wanted the pregnancy n out of foolishness chose not to abort cos of religious or whatever conviction they have I just shake my head. One cos you tot having a child is play play n 2 for not understanding aborting unwanted pregnancy is giving your self a second chance in life.

Check the rate of single mother n tell me if you can count 3% of them in Nigeria thag are not vengeful, filled with regret n bitterness. Did you think they brought all that from heaven ? You will learn that is all I have to say to you. I have close to 50M in cash n asset n I still know what am going tru taking care of a single child. You that u can't care for a child don't have common sense to have protected sex.

This too
100%

abdullahi45:
You are correct.

I really hope someone/people can help her without asking her to give up her child. A business and shelter would be enough to sustain her and her daughter. Where are all indefatigable people of goodwill on nairaland?

Please someone should put her distress on twitter after her consent, for people who can help. I really don't know how to push tweets to a wider coverage, she really needs help and we as humanity must not betray her.

If we can all agree, I am personally willing to help, she must not be made to lose her child because of financial mess, that will not only leave a hole in her heart but will be a permanent source of emotional and psychological trauma.

Let's up please!!!

This too.
100%%

spiralwedge:
Mizflo,
Give her up for adoption. That's the right thing now.

It will be tough at first, but best you adjust and face your life squarely while she's in safe hands.

If you don't, you will suffer her for nothing and it will affect you getting the best out of the remaining years in your life.

Never be tired of this life, always make use of new opportunities even if it is not conventional or popular. In this case, your opportunity is to be able to make something out of your life while your daughter grows elsewhere to be an adult.

You will be fine, she will be fine too. Which state are you?


Modified:
I just read other people's comments above mine. Please ignore them. They sit comfortably typing without empathy and with the typical Nigerian mindset.

Adoption is very good, your daughter will have people she can look up to as parents/guardians. She needs that foundation at least till when she is 18. You are merely 21 and this is your chance to restart your life. If you don't take this chance, you will suddenly reach 40, depressed, broke, miserable and suicidal. Please take this chance, especially for your daughter to have a home.

100% concurs
100%

Ibadanpikin:
But their exchange will make a Nigeria hammer easily,imagine 1000 kuwait and bahrain dinar is more than 1 million naira.

Right. When you get it nah abi

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
Bahrain, Oman, Kuwait and other dope Asia nation Anyday anytime twice on Wednesday
Although these Asia and Arab countries hardly give you time to reside but their money too long
Just go there do your dope shit shaperly and make your dope money..... imagine a day my client gave me 700 omani rial...it was when i got to the bank i realize 700 omani rial equal 720,000..which means one omani rial equal 1000 naira or more than..,...... damnnnnn..dope money...Arab money....

Ain't going to those overated dumb fuckkk countries like America, Canada and Uk

Phew. Dude. The rate of exchange doesn’t mean it’s easier to make that money
How many billionaires in US, How many billionaires in Kuwait or Oman or all these countries you mentioned
Exchange rate doesn’t determine rich population

chinchonglee:
Look for ur types... Not me and you

I’ll pass

chinchonglee:
If u like dnt go and trace the cause of ur poverty...
Be blaming me okay!

Poverty will descend on u

Funny enough we are all poor

Mgtowmonk:
there is nothing you girls offer in that "scam" called marriage that I don't get as a single bachelor.
You girls know deep within your heart's that it's all a ploy to hoodwink young gullible men into paying your bills.
If it was in the past where there wasn't much technology, then I can say marriage benefits a man...but in the 21st century??
It's a huge rip off!!

Then don’t marry.

But quit typing trash.

chinchonglee:
We all knw u wuld fvck him.

U jst came here to exhibit excess buga.

U dnt need advice, u jst need a condom

And this is your advice with 78 mumus supporting you?
Nigerian government didn’t mess up our country
Idiots like you and your likers did

Mgtowmonk:
can't your sister rent an apartment with her own money?
The guy is doing her a favor by marrying her yet she still dictating how he should live his life

Doing her a favor marrying her?
Some people dey mad sha

DaddyRochie1642:
I also strongly suggest you Shut The Fvck Up next time you can't Comprehend Simple English.

Simple english my a**

DaddyRochie1642:
Another "Free Kpekus" in the shadows..if you know you know

You don’t know people’s situation
So stfu!

cruxgemmata:
What is Second class upper doing in this headline

Mtchewwww.

Nice job. Skills over anything.

More money in her account as she continue to hustle legitly unlike some lekki and abuja fake mofos

Or some yahoo bois

Durentt:
Like 20 million dollars rich, if given the option to be that rich or have a man that rich that would stay with you indefinitely. What would you choose.

Feminists you are welcome to comment

Be rich

teekay021:
I will try to be straight with you because I am also a victim of extortion, I leave in canada and I have large friend base as a matter of fact I champion most of the gathering we organized before I left Nigeria. My case is strangely someone who deliberately put himself in an uncomfortable position and protray myself as a friend in need and family to them all, even my first savings was shared among many . I think what we get wrong is gifting someone money without asking. I swear to God I have sent out money to someone while I never get a thank you message back I felt compel to do it over and over again . I'm still doing a bit but I have converted 80% of my resources to be solely for me and my family alone . You should know and learn how to say No. you will be amazed as they approach you with sense of entitlement and command . A friend of mine just got a venza ( on finance ) he upload the pucture with a native attire ( agbada) to his whatsapp . Immediately his i box was floode with requst message . You should do your best but remember you come first and you can't satisfy everyone.

Hahahaha

You are sending money to people who cannot say thank you
Don’t you work hard for your money?
There are good people in this life o..

ikoroduarea:
I have been doing this for them for over 10 years. I ma not a stingy person. I have a very active charity foundation for the support of less privileged, which they've benefited from too many times. My wife had earlier recovered from sick shortly before the second time ease of covid19. My major problme is the pressure and contstant demands. Its not even up to 48 hoursi sent the senior one money before the younger one demanded for money for his shop again. Thank you for your concern. Like i said earlier, insults are welcome. Thank you everyone.

Don’t even listen to that guy.

Raikishi:
1) Select an amount you want to save every month without thinking of anybody but yourself

2) Take out expenses for the month (transport, feeding, bills etc., school fees for children if any)

3) Take out 10% of what is left for unforeseen requests from close family (Mother, Father, Sister, Brother no friends whatsoever in this category)

4) Do you have anything left?

Yes: Based on priorities (your priorities) distribute this to help someone that you know needs it and that GOD will bless you for


No: I for talk but...

Follow this strategy
Stop being stupid mahn..
These people are just using you
If nah them dey abroad they probably wonmt remember you ever.

Dude you are so kind

Use all this money you are sending to them and start saving for your kids future
Nah you born them?
They are probably as old as you are
Why are you being responsible to adults who are not even your family members??

Samfloxin:
Let her pray I don't have my brothers with me cos we will beat her and her brothers until blood starts oozing out of their noses.

Be ready then
I hope you find what you are looking for someday since some of una like fight pass food

Walk:
I won't wait till he slaps her, i'll do it myself. That's really disrespectful to my man. Most girls never respect themselves in public. No girl will disrespect my man.

Shift abeg. Dem never beat you before

Walk:
No that's weakness. If that happened and i was with my man, i'll lose my respect for him if he stands up to wal.k away.

Nigerian mentality!
Violence everywhere!

Wait till he go slap somebody wey never shop and kill her
Na that time you go see respect.

Samfloxin:
If a lady raises her hand and slap me, I will give her a very heavy slap and embrace the consequences. U can't use the guise of weaker vessel and humiliate me and go scot-free. I will teach her a lesson that she will never have the morale to raise her hand and beat a man in the public.Besides ,those seats were not meant for them alone during the wedding.

Pray the ladies does not have brothers with her cause they will beat you sotee blood will be oozing everywhere NO MATTER what their sister did

Cause you will do the SAME.

traware:
If any of the ladies in the OPs story ever behaves towards me the way the OP described,Insha Allah I shall beat her to death

You never beat someone to death and they arrest you and your entire family..

You think if you beat someone to death you will just go scot free..?

Dumba**

purpinkx:
Don't mind them.

And NockMedia is here saying he should have walked away, with juice in his clothes.

And when the same guy meets another woman at the ATM claiming she came before him, he should make way.

And then at the filling station, the supermarket.

Men should always walk away.

Untill women start feeling entitled, every “Good’ man should walk away when a woman start nonsense

He should have walked away when they told him it was their seat

That’s gentleman

30naira:
But ladies can raise their hands on a man?

Why didn’t they leave their seats for them

I need a twitter acct with good number of and responsive followers