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chukwuma0000:
From a friend to Nairalanders.
Hello everyone,

My story is a very long one but please take your time and digest to help me and my siblings handle this situation.

I am not the kind of person that do share my issues with people, I rather find a solution to heal the situation than allowing people's opinion that would be decisive at times and can also get you more confused to decide my next in action.

My Dad's attitude has totally changed towards his children and this is exactly what's about to tear us his children apart from him.

I don't even know where to start from.

Before I start, I want to let you know that my Dad is a good and a God fearing man even up till this moment but we his children don't really understand what's going on in our family again.

My Dad lost his wife about 12years ago and till date we have been living happily after we lost our dear mum to breast cancer.

Then, being the first son amongst my Dad's 7 children ,I was in Jss3 and about writing my Junior waec when my mum gave up the ghost.

Since I lost my mum, Dad has been taking a very good care of us to the extent of making sure he cater for our spiritual through prayers, seeing i and my elder sister through university although we also contributed enormously to our educational project and thank God today we are graduates waiting to be mobilized for Nysc.

I and my sister (graduate also) are currently working as we wait for Nysc mobilization and make sure we don't bother our Dad financially.
Still, we make sure our family don't lack little things we can afford.

Another Sunday came, one of these girls announced to one of my sisters of her decision to attend a handcraft training institute close to my house and a bit close theirs.

This my sister jokingly asked her where she would be staying for the one year training (abi she would be staying in the school hostel) my sister was shocked when one of the girls told her she will be staying with us.

Beware, this my sister is not in any way in support of my Dad's sudden attitudinal changes that have made him channel all his attention to these girls and their household.

My Dad never told us all these, even to to consult us his children, but we heard it from one of the girls.

In our two room apartment(face me I face you house).

My elder sister had to calm everyone of us down in order confront my Dad.

We are about saying our prayer and interrupted by asking him if what one of the girls said is true.

My Dad became angry, yelling and telling us that no one has the right to question his decision and it final.

And no one would stop him.

Please help us.

I don't know what to do about this situation as I have younger ones my Dad should focus on than giving all your attention to these girls and family of a mother and a father still young and alive with 11 children.

Badmanwizzi:
Need advice on what to do on something urgently ,I recently gained admission in the university and I could not stay in the hostel so I decided to get a house outside school .but houses over is really expensive so I had to look for a roommate that's we would be paying the house rent just to reduce cost. This my roommate now is my problem , this guy brings is friends to the house � ,and now they've turned my room to another thing there like eight people in my room right now smoking and drinking it very annoying ,I told this guy about this but it seems it only gets worst ..for goodness sake we both student but those is friends are none student he feeds them with our foodstuff ,one of them even stole my phone � now I had to get another one please helpe I'm bout to loose my mine

desgiezd:
So this girl won’t go and complete her degree course!

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Itiaba007:
Good morning i have a property in calabar that is very close to unical containing 12 single rooms and two self contains.i wanted demolishing it so i can erect a standard hostel for student.maybe a two storeys containing upto 30 self contains.so i had plans of keeping it as a collateral,get money from a bank and erect the structure but am just scared if bank can offer good sum of money.pls bankers in the house i need ur advice.

mikezuruki:
The stupid person here is you. Walahi.

ChiOne7:
Go and read what you typed again if that wasn't direct definite stereotypical judgement.

Please, it's early in the year. Follow the advice you just dished yourself, " judger "

Xj2020:
I would pardon your level of ignorance for referring to me as a kid afterall it's just the beginning of the year. Nairaland is a faceless forum maybe that's why things are the way they are

ayindejimmy:
Tattoo doesn't have anything to do with people joining gangs.

Later, some fools will start comparing the United States with China.

China that doesn't allow freedom of religion, speech, and now opinions

Angelfrost:
That's one country I will never visit or reside in...

LutanFyah:
They own,manage and service the national teams, if you want to play for them, remove your tattoos. It's their organisation and they decide what happens there. If you want to keep your tattoos, go play for another team.

Baamm:
China is too fixated on perfection and it the sole reason it will always stay one step behind the western powers and there propaganda media

Originakalokalo:
Good one.

kiako:
Is there any grant givers that concentrate on startups ?

Need about 200 million naira

kiako:
To be Frank, I have not got much. Not up to a million. I'm at the scratch of setting up the business.

Already putting up my business plan.


Can you list some of them ?

Wawelexy:
Hope they re not trying to blackmail this man cos he's yet to register with them...

Once all this governmental body can't extort from u, they tag u as a fraudster...

This chinmark guy, is well known, can be located(unlike other investment group that only operate online), also does humanitarian work or charity... And never heard anything closed to scam bout him and his company....

Nigeria, u must join one group for u to operate any business, whether big or small....

OtemAtum:
We are waiting for him to turn Covid to David

Slurity:
I would have love that you pick number 2 on the list considering the amount of money involved, if you don't have other source of surviving outside the business and you don't have a sure already customers to patronize you, don't do it even though you have knowledge of it. I would have suggest another business that is not here but because you already have a list you want to consider. In conclusion. Look for other source of money you can survive on till the business stabilize or you keep your money and save more to about 1m before starting the number 2 option

mrkings84:
Let him rend a farm space,buy 4 female and one male pig, that's about 200k, then start a pig farming....

In next two years his farm will be worth over 3m....

gfon:
bossman,make i link up with you.Even if na as your PA

phemmyfour:
Driving school
You start making profit almost immediately

festacman:
See:
https://www.nairaland.com/5267958/charly-boy-remembers-tyna-onwudiwe

deransom:
You don’t need a trading skill to achieve this, all you need is your fund and a bot trading for you dm or WhatsA me for info 0.8.1.4.8.7.3.5.6.8.0

festacman:
Freedom of speech is guaranteed in a democracy but I am sorry but Charly Boy is a fat head for judging Ooni unjustly. Everyone in this unbalanced world struggle with something. Simply simpish for a man to mock a fellow man in his struggles.

Charly Boy struggled with poverty and as an adult, had to be supported by late Tina Onwudiwe and his late Father, Justice Oputa to stand on his feet. Even currently, he is dependent on his wife Lady Diana for sustenance in between handouts from friendly politicians. On the other hand, Ooni struck wealth very early in life.

On the flipside, Charly Boy, after some failed relationships, married faithful Lady Diana and is enjoying happy marriage while Ooni is struggling at it.

The realities are that the world no balance and nobody holy pass.

Empressabbie:
That's why I added my contact in my signature. We can talk better on the phone/WhatsApp. I can't start putting everything about my business here, it's confidential.

Thanks.