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nwaezeemmanuel:
Wow. Well not everyone can have that intimidating body frame.

I'm quite skinny, and i doubt my body can get that big. Each person has their genetic limit.

martineverest:
we dey the same shoes o..fat no gree come despite the heavy calories

martineverest:
it depends on your nature..if your system says u can't get fat there is nothing u can do.. especially if u have high metabolic rate.

I have eaten heaven and earth,buy still didn't add a kg

EmmaNuella77:
With Jesus joy I welcome you

nwaezeemmanuel:
Then, eat harder than last time!

You can choose to eat small portions frequently, spread across the day. Keep it healthy or you will just add fat and very minimal muscle (if you want to gain muscle as well)

Exercising helps, and in the end genetics play a huge role. Some folks are hard gainers!

nwaezeemmanuel:
I'm like you, it's as simple as eating more. But keep things healthy, or you can end up getting too fat, too fast.

Pancakeey:
Lol alright at least you can always be sure be with real estate because there’s always evaluation.

But yeah I get your point

Karleb:
How were you able to conclude that selfish people do better most of the time?

Flolovtri:
exactly guyyyy


The first time I decided to leave I should have just trusted my instinct. But give him another chance na, maybe he'd change baah blah blah,see where it got me to

I'd block my access to him


Oshey dear

EmmaNuella77:
Abeg if you're single, gather here lets weep

Pancakeey:
I want to say you’re a fool just for the sake of calling you a fool but it’s your money and you’re free to do whatever you chose to do with it.

But you were not wise to gamble your money in an investment that was shaky.
Why not buy a land or something. You can never go wrong with real estate

Plus lemme drop this here chop life problem no dey finish

Jannuxajj:
I am a guy that is very prudent with my finances. When I see guys buying things unnecessarily and chilling and living their lives especially when they spend anyhow on girls.I use to call them fools. I avoided having a girlfriend so I won't be spending thinking am smart. So as Usual thinking am smart I decided to make a couple of investment and boom I lost money in the investment. Now this got me thinking won't it have been better if I had enjoyed the money. Chop life and buy some nice clothings. I don't indulge in many stuffs due to wanting to save money. I am in my mid 20s and I earn 150k monthly but if you see me you will think I don't work. I am confused I don't know if I should continue doing akagum or start living the life. Funny enough my mum who usually advise us to save was even telling me one day that she hope I won't end up being a slave to money. This one that all the investment am putting money into just they enter voicemail. The most annoying thing is sometimes one useless thing will just come and chop the money person no one spend. what do you think?

humilitypays:
Omo Yoruba and bleaching eh, they all wan to be like Igbo boiz

UndauntedYOCA:
Oh really? Is this because this time it isn't a lady? I've seen numerous guys who bleached their skin!

fati2001:

Casalindal:
Hello guys. I have been really disturbed and a bit worried. I have noticed that quite number of guys here, let say 87% always beg and would cried out a river on any giveaway threads. It’s really alarming not to mention. I have done a couple of giveaways and most time I withdraw the offer because most people do not come back to show appreciation some will even denied even getting the alert. But that will not stop me from helping the very little ones I can.

I have taken a look at most giveaway thread and it’s so sadden that most of the beggars are men in quote self acclaimed “Redpill” this really got me to ask. Why are internet beggars always men? Why please

Shortyy:
Lmaoooooooooooooo

I don't know why it's hard for women to realize that most times men use them to catch cruise.

Flolovtri:
You are so blunt. True talk though but why he keeps coming back. I know you don't want me so why you back?

naija4life247:
For free sex of course. What else could it be?

Stephenmoka4:
Same here o, let's keep fingers crossed. One day man will see

Preshieben:
Eyaa

I for date you
unfortunately,i hate guys a lot now

Victoria407:
I have two bad behaviours:
The first one: whenever I wake up in the morning especially when I wake up in a bad mood I just pick someone around the house to fight with... I fight with that person and by the end of the day I always regret it..I remember my cousin that stays with us..I woke up as usual and i remembered something bad she did to me a year ago and I got into a fight with her..the next thing I didn't cook her food with the rest since I an in charge of cooking
the girl just kept her cool...by evening my anger was gone and I started talking to her again..
It can be either my mum,sister, dad or brother..
Once I wake up frowning ...don't just near me...
I wonder if this is a mood swing or devil at work...

Second behavior::
I don't behave ladylike, not like I behave like a boy o ..i manage a poultry with my mum and whenever am working and my mum sent me on errand I don't even get to change, I just zoom off With that dirty working cloth unlike my younger sister who clean up even if she is going the next house..
I remembered my mum sent me fuel one day and I went without bra then I saw a guy staring at my chest,I gave him a bad stare that day..again I remembered going out with my friends and I ordered amala instead , I didn't pity the food at all, I was biting into the hard meat like I was at home...it was when I got up to wash my hands I discovered some people there giving me disgusting looks even , I didn't care anyways but my friends said I was shameless... Whenever I go to parties I tend to eat a lot without caring...my mom would have to caution me... My mom and dad are serious Christians and take no nonsense since am the first born and 21 years ...I had a bf once and when my parents found out ,my dad took belt and my mum turning stick and dealt with me...the next day I took out the anger on the guy and gave him a resounding slap..he broke up with me afterwards...my mom took me to all the pastors cuz of this bf issue .....all this made me view myself as a weirdo and its bothering me...
Someone pls advice...
Thanks

queenice7:
I've been heartbroken so many times that I am starting to believe that I am possessed, pls I need some care, love and advice because I am losing it.
This is not the first, second, third, or fourth time I've been heartbroken or taken advantage of. I am 23, very hardworking, very beautiful, smart, kind, with a heart of gold, I get all these compliments often. I am also cool, calm and collected. I don't understand how someone would decide to take advantage of me.
It usually starts when I demand to be treated right.
This last heartbreak, I was dating a Nigerian guy in another continent, b4 we officially started dating, he pestered me to date him, I was so scared, told him about the heartbreaks I've suffered, how fragile and soft I am, how people has returned back my good with evil, how I am so scared of giving love another trial, and how i don't think long distance relationship is worth it. He told me how he has gotten a fair share of heartbreaks from ladies, and how he'll never do shit to me, he swore, promised, every every and I believed him.
And one thing with me is that when I love, I love wholeheartedly, I won't withhold anything, my spirit, soul, body, everything, you'll just know that I love, and that is when the other party usually starts misbehaves, when they've seen how deep I've gotten into them, how I create time from my very busy work schedule just to speak/chat them all the time, how I try my best to please them. The most painful thing is that this guy made me so committed to the relationship, when he saw that I really have less believe in long distance relationship, he did everything possible to win my trust and commitment, he assured me ours would be different. When he'd won my heart he started replying late, stopped video calling and started pretending he missed my video calls, and all. We had an argument after I complained about how cold he has become, and I told him I wanted to be left alone at that moment. And that was it, up till now, no call or chat from him. Its been almost 2 weeks, I tried reaching out to him to know if he's owk, but he ignored my chat.
I feel so bad even though we're yet to meet in person, but because I really opened my heart and soul to him, after he made me believe he'll not hurt me. I feel so bad that my only wrong was demanding to be treated right, that's the only thing I've ever demanded from him, I feel so bad that I've been heartbroken yet another time simply for loving with all my heart.
I feel sad that I've not had any relationship that didn't end in tears, any relationship that was worth it, I'm yet to experience it. I am now having a feeling that I have offended somebody I don't even know. Even aside relationship, love matter, I've often been taken advantage of by other people, colleagues, so called friends in such a way that I became a loner, lost some self esteem. Pls help me with advises or books to read, else I'll give up on love and humanity

WrittyWritter:
In case u don't know. you are d side chick...she probably doesn't want u to know him so dat she can easily be with him we d time comes...I bet she is with u not because she wants to but because she doesn't have an option..u are plan B..sorry ..He has made her break up with other guys...wat is special about u ..maybe he asked agreed to share

She threatened to break up with u..den u threaten I own back na..if she doesn't tell u who he is better leave..Be4 u come and back telling us ur wife is sleeping with father and u need advice

Amazingboy1:
I can't just believe dat there's gonna be a human being that drink garri pass me,,,,,,,, before you quote me,,, have u drank 5 congos of garri in less dan one week,,,,,,,,,,,?


What happened dat time is just because my guys are with me so we have to rough ham,, it won't make sense if I'm eating rice,, while my guys dey drink garri,,,,,,,,,,,, so we have to suffer together,,,,,,,

The next one is when ano get money to buy data,,, i borrowed from network provider,,,, i use ham finish and i still need more data to browse,,,,,, gad I'm not happy dat time,,,,,,,,,,

HomerTimpson:
You sound like you want to make us believe she a narcissist.


Just say you have tasted the orange juice and afraid you might bite the seed sometime cos you know its bitter; actualy what am tryna say is that your 2month girl is cool but you are insecure just for the fact that you are prone to cheat anytime and you are seriouly scared of the penalties that will follow.

I see you are about to break her heart,you are just looking for a simply way to do it without stress since you are inexperienced,its your first relationship and your first breakup.

NOW MY ADVICE don't travel down this lane by cutting ties with her,it's dangerous & heartles, see it as a flaw,sit her down & [color=#000000]tell her this things. Who likes [/color]been cheated on? I also thinks she likes to be rational...it's a crazy world right?.