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The girl feels almost perfect. It's hard to see her type, it's actually love but with the threat I'll advise you to back off.


Being alive and single is better than being dead. And she sure will move on trust me so just save yourself the stress, time, money, emotions and bail out.


There's a high chance of you not meeting someone you'll love and connect with like her sha, that's for sure.













Or you could just talk to her about what's bothering you and risk it.

Goodluck!

Uniquekriss:
wow. U are missing alot. I'm a dish washer, in fact, I sanitize dishes

Typical ass kisser

Chibae4real:
If you've never experience heartbreak, you will never know how it hurt!

I've dated two guys, but both took advantage of my love. I'm just me in a relationship. I've said to myself i will continue to be nice no pretense, no matter the experience I've had in a relationship previously.

Most times i do ask myself; what do guys really want? Although, one of my friend that is based in U.S.A have told me severally that my type of lady will definitely be taking advantage of by Nigerian guys, and this is what i don't want to believe! I believe individual personality differs.

However, the second guy i dated was from a broken home. Based on my personal experience with him; i wouldn't advised anyone to date someone from a broken home. Their views on relationship and marital affairs is nothing to write home about. Most especially the ones that grew up from the street.

1000000 likes for you
I wish you the best partner

delectablegyal:
I delivered my message. now fvck out of my mention.

Chill, you don't have to be harsh :/

Sturd:
Well that's why pillow dey there. No time

Cover her ugly face dey bang



No go kill person pikin though

Pancakeey:
Okay, ReluctantAdult you’ve said well on this topic
I want to feel good too

See her

delectablegyal:
I wonder how a married woman gallivants the romance section like a single lady.

Anyone can be here.
Besides it's not like love is found in the romance section, infact there's more hatred (redpill-ers and Alpha gorilla dem)

delectablegyal:
he is not good at licking plate. he doesn't know how to lick plate after he finishes eating.

Tell him what he needs to do

Greatfullheart:
am single i have tried to have a girlfriend but all to no avail. I have been in love with many ladies but just cant bring myself to tell dem due to low self esteem.

Just have plenty female friends first to get comfortable with women for a long time.
Don't confess love to any of them, just catch cruise. Later when you're comfortable with your esteem, find another babe and move from them.



Wait, what do I know?
I've been single since time immemorial......but I don't care

Chiwetalu1:
Please go through and comment to help a brother...its a long read sha



Earlier this year I decided to start a relationship with a casual friend (a girl). She accepted my proposal although not without giving me much headache sha


So we started, having known alot about our past and in a bid to get the best out of what we have, we gave it all. Shared all our deepest secrets to each other - although I don't have any past still trailing me, my pasts (relationships) where gone and are very far from me. Same with her except for one.


He is a very trusted family friend of hers. Currently a seminarian for almost a decade and has a good chance of being a priest but still does fling with her until I came into the picture. Was a member of the mums prayer group and have been very close to the family for long.


She has been having this affair with the said guy without the knowledge of anyone around but a very close sis, I happen to be the second person to know. So this dude still has assess to her home and she to his home (although both of them don't spend much time with family again but occasionally come around).


MY FEARS

*They really really had a lot in the past, even as a seminarian, he indirectly made her end relationships, she claims to be over him but I usually see it as a conscious denial.
*When she's home and the guy is around, they get to meet- he even made advances at her sometime ago.
* My girl once told me she will want the want the guy (as a priest) to officiate our wedding.
* All about him is seriously threatening my religious life as a Catholic. Each time I see a Seminarian I will be like "hypocrite, this might be the guy who did this with my girlfriend". Imagine what this will be when he eventually becomes a priest.
**the talk plenty sha


WHAT I ASKED FOR

When she told all about him around March or April this year. I insisted on her completely cutting communication with him, but she vehemently refused then, somehow I accepted. I also wanted to know the said guy in person somehow (even if it's through Facebook since I wasn't close), but she still refused. I decided to give her time since we barely started. We've been good since then and things are going well. And I thought we've gotten over that.


Some days ago I stumbled upon a post on her Facebook wall over a sensitive topic. A guy who share a lot of similarities with this ex of her commented on it, using just a sentence to my explain my girls position on that topic. I concluded it's him. So i casually approached my girl - even with a plea not to get offended by what we will be talking about - that I have seen the guy shes been hiding from me. She said I was wrong about my assumptions, and later asked why I was bent on knowing this guy.

My people, I've spent since Monday trying to explain why i think it's important I know him, if not now but sooner considering how far we ( my girl and I) are going and cos we aren't in the same location. But she has totally refused insisting that she only did me a favour by letting me in on it and will not go further not even in future. She even threatened that we should walk away from the relationship if I insisted on knowing the guy.


So i kept asking myself...am I really asking for too much or is it right I know this person??

No you're not asking too much, it's natural and it's even proper in your case.
I think you already know what to do about the girl
Imagine, she even threatened you with breakup?!


It's obvious that she sees you more like a second fiddle and the upcoming priest assuperior which is bad for your future .

Don't continue investing emotions and time in the relationship and tell her you can't continue with the way things are going.

HRHQueenPhil:
yes, because I have noticed that of them and also they have a catlike nature. Never settle for poverty ...

Typical

damis28crown:
Never dated before

It's fine, it's mutual.

damis28crown:
well


relationship is sweet for some people and bitter for some


we all have different experience



BUT for me


i gat no time for baby am sorry


i gate no time for baby i love u


i gat no time for baby have u eaten


i gat no time for baby are u at home



i have a lot on my table now
maybe in the future


#singledamirocks

Eeeyyyyaaaaa Dami

Has someone done "strong thing" for you before?

JasperVII:
'twas on Nairaland that Jasper stumbled upon this

Redpills


(SMH-ing & LOL-ing)

Uzomacharles:
Baba u go marry 2020 BMW M5

I'm more obsessed with vanity/worldly item/material object is my point.



Not severely though

Queenserah26:
By all means please, I'm enjoying the comments

Be my guest bae

Uzomacharles:
Na people like you go come tomorrow make thread like "My girlfriend of 12yrs broke up with me"

Funny but I don't see myself in that kind of position .
Imagine, 12years?



I'd rather weep over my 2020 BMW M5 Competition mint condition that I used for 12 years and loved and one Lagos Agbero scratched the fender

Queenserah26:
Pass me a bottle of coke and popcorn, let me join you biko

Hey, take a seat with me!

Madibah:
I had a girl back in varsity days who is in love with me , in I didn't give her face bcuz na agege girl, she's very pretty but rugged so I gave her space bcuz make person no go burst bottle for my head.

So there was a day I saw her with a girl which is her friend .
Her friend was a bit calm not too pretty but sexy then I made a move toasting this girl and she accepted
So when agege girl heard this , she started weeping seriously , she wan run mad , she was even sick then her parents took her home

So to cut the story short I went to visit this girl since she was sick , I bought few things for her sha , when I was about leaving she said I cannot go unless I spend the night in her house , I was a bit shocked ,I was about leaving then her brother showed up with some guys and threatened me
I was so scared then I had to stay that night
So I had to sleep in the same room with her and she did what she wanted

Let me cut it here
But I enjoyed it sha
Since then I dey like ghetto girls
Them Sabi ride abeg

Wahala for who no go laugh for this story Infact, 600 years

Sameazy15:
I do nt think so , i sometimes heard abt it before,i pray one pretty lady also rape me

Men will just surprise you **sighs**


Some people can just be stupid

Are women really Rocket science?
I expected more actually.


I've been single my whole life though but all those people studying the female sex like its a course is something I can't even do.

There's more to life biko and when the time is right, we'd all be fine.





Concerning the topic, I found out we have a lot of tribal bigotry in Nigeria. Like now I know Nigeria can never be successful together as one anymore

StacyO:
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Give it a try

Read it like swiftly sef

HRHQueenPhil:
I pray for an educated ibo man. I love how they spoil their wives.
Am not a fan of delta and bayelsa..hoping for someone to change my mind

So you love educated Igbo men because you believe they spoil their wives?

**sighs**

Fitz22:
What about Luggage?

Chai! Why na?

Fitz22:
That's the brief story

How about we want the suitcase story

Fitz22:
Hahahahahahahah you are right ooo... I can relate, crazy people calling obsession love. I dated one like that, very mad dude.

Tell us
We are all ears

denvers:
Same here bro
still waiting for my first opportunity

Let it come naturally

mdchikezie:
WETIN DEY OCCUR

Nothing ooo

nwaezeemmanuel:
Funnily, single people can know so much about relationships.

Exactly.
na we dey dish the best advice

mdchikezie:
MY BRO NA SOOOOO.
ME WEY DON DEY SINGLE ALL MY LIFE

As in ehen?!