₦airaland Forum

FanOfMyself:
She's both male and female

Mrscarter:
Yeah same age or a little younger

IntersexSherry:
From what i experienced, guys are not used to sexual molestation and rape so when such things happen to them. Doesn't affect them that much as it does to women

Mrscarter:
I'm ok. Is just the reason I'd never date older men than me.

BlewLemon:
Wahala for who no get wife wey dey work for freebasic

Pearlla:
if you notice that your operamini no longer gives you free 50mb but gives 20 mb . means you've wrecked opera mini completely out. they actually no longer going to give you data sooner. so......my advice is gaw.
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want to know how I found out?
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Kondomatic:
Please how can I unread the first paragraph of this amazing piece of shit?

Comedian2019:
Op @ Mrflavvor, forget the past if you want to enjoy the present and the future.
No driver succeeds by focusing on the rear view mirror. Everyone you see has his own challenges in life. Focus on your life and make the best out of it. Stop all these self pity. Don't allow the society to decide how you think. Use your head and take charge of your life.
Above all, forgive those in your past and forgive yourself. What is in your past is in your past. That's where it belongs. Now look at the future with hope.

Mrscarter:
I was around nine wen my dad's friends son was around 16/17 used to do things to me n make me touch him n told me it was a game n I knew it was wrong but couldn't tell my dad cos he was a drunk n used to beat us kids n mum and I was terrified cos the boy told me dad would go mad at me n I knew he was right. It went on around a year n one day he tried actually penetrating me n I was fighting him off and my little brother saw n ran got dad and my dad drag me by my hair n beat me real bad n blamed me. The boy only had to go to church n talk to the pastor bout it n after a few months he was allowed to babysit me again n still touched me n tried making me touch him. Eventually we moved away.
Over the years in my childhood a few of my dad's friends have put their hand dwn my pants or stuck their tounge in my ear n things like that n I was to afraid to tell dad.
My mum's brother was a drunk n tried putting his thing in my mouth wen I was around six n I was sleeping n woke up n lucky my dad got up to go to the toilet n scared him n he sneaked out. I only told my mum about this around four years ago. I've never told anyone else ever. N now that I grew up I can't stand the thought of dating anyone older than me at all it'd make me feel dirty n I just couldn't even think of it.

Ppl don't realise how it can affect you.

Sunnyshinylight:
If you can not cherish a woman stay off ladies please for your own safety. The reason is very simple, whenever you hurt a lady I may not know why, the truth is you block your own way, a woman is to be handled with care because we are delicate, very precious and sexy. The pride of man is a woman. Without a woman beside a man, the throne isn't attractive and amiable.



I believe that the society have never been taught in how the world should treat a woman and cherish her going out and her coming in, if have, you experience everywhere you visit.



Some will dabble in the discussion to contribute nothing into the development, they begin to ask questions like, what if the lady is stupid, with bad character and sorts. Yes, it's because the society have not acted better, that's the fruits you have. You can not sow bad child and reap great children, have your children and enjoy.



If the taproot is holy, the lump also shall be holy, and so when you have ugly society don't expect your wards to be any better.



What's the point, if your dad ever knew the importance and what it means to love and cherish a woman, you will be forever grateful for wisdom who is our mother and understanding our very kinswoman which the builder have neglected and disposed for their own wisdom and understanding which is baseless.



But the very taproot has become the most precious lively stone holding the building, the woman, our body, our strong and breasted feast instead of fear.


Some may not comprehend the little bones I added towards the end. Love you all.

lefulefu:
but why will u be sharing toothbrush with another person nau.how much is toothbrush again?

Elxandre:
It can't survive outside a host or enclosed space for long enough for that to happen.

In the first place, I wonder why anyone would share toothbrush. That is disgusting.

Magnoliaa:
I see this is what you practice being a Naija gal, yeah?
I'm not surprise why y'all are getting mad at 'emancipation' of men and the redpill topics on NL.

Being a patriarchy princess has eaten so deep into you, you can't work for yourself, spend money.

Do you mind telling me the people who practice the true/real feminism, by the way?

ImaIma1:
As long as you are submissive and act only according to my instructions.

You make sure my food is ready right on time and in the perfect temperature.

You submit your body regardless of how you may be feeling.

Wash and iron my clothes and make sure I always have clean clothes.

You know you should also make sure the kids are tidy and well taken care of and the house is clean at all times even if they keep scattering.

I don't want a house help, when it is not like you are lame or handicap. You can't just sit down and cross your legs

I know this is sarcasm but lets imagine you were serious, i guess the programming to defeminised you has already been completed. go in peace House husband

How many women are working to even take your demand seriously, many of them are at home watching nollywood, only a few work, among those few that are working, only 1% earn good salaries the remaining 99% are with low pay and struggling to feed and waiting for a man with a higher salary to come save them..so we have 90% of total Nigerian women watching nollywood all day and 10% working, out of that 10% only 1% are earning well, even still, they still need men money to survive.

your demand is even dead on arrival because many of them are poor infact, 99% of women will fight against it.

Nigeria doesn't not have the basic things of life and you are fighting for feminism

If is equality women want, they are already equal at least in many organisation, they pay women the same salaries as men.

what you should be fighting against is the killings of women by men whether for rituals purposes or by domestic violence

in respect to men killing women for rituals in our culture, these things date back to the olden days, where virgin women were sacrifice to appeased the gods.

Easybela:
women's version of feminism is different from what you listed up there,their own version displays selfishness and stupidity. When it comes to spending money,just 4get it,they won't be available.

ImaIma1:
I demand the right for the wife to be the head of the family.

Elxandre:
Toothbrush doesnt transmit aids bro.
It's likely from sex however or blood transfusion in fewer cases.

ednut1:
see them. Illiterate. Educate yourself self. Blood transfusion 9250 in 10000 times, sex 4 and 8 in 10,000 exposures for man and woman

ednut1:
A lot of Nigerians believe once you have sex with an hiv person you don carry am. In reality its less than 1% chance of contracting it from vagina sex.

Anoth:
Who wrote this, Amazingboy1?

Amazingboy1:
Hmmmm,, lol,,,


I know dat guy before i joined nairaland,,,,,,

But i can't see him again,,,,,,,,

We type the same way,,,,,,,,,,

The way the guy talk about smoking is hilarious,,, i hope he's not a smoker,,,,,,

LadyTianna:
I repeat, Nairaland men lack manners and are misogynistic. Y'all are not worth the effort.
A lady will speak her mind or open up and all the men will come out to slut shame her and insult her. Why should any reasonable woman waste her time on such people?

LadyTianna:
Intelligent girls aren't motivated to create topics or participate much in this section because most of the guys here lack manners and are misogynistic. Y'all aren't worth the effort

Amazingboy1:
Yes my brother,,,, ✌️ ,,

Anoth:
Tell is the truth,,,,,,, is this you,,,,,, or your friend,,,,,,, ,,,,,, because I am seeing something else here,,,,,,,

Amazingboy1:
Don't change my sister,,,,,

I might look uncomfortable but the truth is the guy owe you nothing,,,,,,,,,,,,,


You're in a relationship to plan for the future not to make money,,,,,,,,,


If money is yaa priority,,,,, hmmmm,,, lemme reserve my comment,,,,,

nwaezeemmanuel:
Virginity is amazing and something to commend anyone of in this polluted times.

But being a virgin does not outrightly make you a better human being. That doesn't mean i support pre-marital sex. I'm a virgin, never had sex of any kind and don't see myself as a better person than some i know that may have.

There's more to humanity than whether you have been laid or not.