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Coronabirus:

This is the reason why we call people like u dogmatic. In the whole Nigeria it is only in Jigawa that u will see each and every LG having good roads including villages, there is no single bad road in Jigawa except few FG roads, Jigawa has the most infrastructure in education across the LGs of the state than any other Nigerian state, have the best access to portable water, pregnant women and children have free access to healthcare, all Govt staffs have health insurance with reliable access to treatment and medicine, people of Jigawa receive atleast 12hrs electricity daily with access to Street light in all her 27 LGs and and Solar lamp in villages, wind mill sourcing water to herdsmen in RUGA. If other states will get average of Jigawa State social amenities they may start worshipping their Governors(this is true, no hype).
Do u know why I said all these? Because in other Nigerian states projects are built in state capitals only and the gullible followers praise their dubious Governors for this deceptive action by leaving other LGs in difficulties and suffering.
I call u dogmatic because if u believe in social media and Nairaland for concrete, authentic and reliable source of news and believe the hoax being dumped here then u are totally lost. I travelled to all Nigerian states and have seen a lot!

True talk, it's get annoying when someone judges from his limited view, you've not been there no Judge.
I schooled in Gombe, even in tiny communities motoroable roads, Jigawa and road network are you joking, their road network beats many other states by far, consistent electricity is common in Jigawa, they may not be "Loud" it doesn't mean they do no function.

Lasan get money go mars

Okay I School in Gombe, the matter loud pass this one, firstly the traditional kingmakers had chosen the other fellow, Governor no gree. Wahala burst tension plenty
Last last the matter go worsen if we no take time, you see religion crisis it's not funny at all.

It's rather shocking though.
Yet still they want us to adopt cashless policy
I laugh in pidgin

What many don't understand is this.
Nigeria biggest criminal business is DRUG PUSHING you think they are not organized?
Omo this men dey pay either through cash or kind to the various location heads that they are with.
They are in partnership with the
Japanese Yakuza
Italian Mafia
Irish Gang.
Read on organized crime in Nigeria and see that your country boys no dey play.

Any preparation should be done now, because if anybody as in anybody postpone this 2023 election.

It's easy send em to the North where they will be useful.

So suddenly Education now counts in Nigeria abi? And no corona virus again. The leadership of this country would forever be remembered as a big joke.
#CUTNASSSALARIES
#EndSARS

poshestmina:
Worst government in the history of Nigeria!

The lackadaisical attitude is on a new level.
Truth is ,the GOVERNMENT doesn't care if human live or die so long it doesn't affect his 27 infertile cows.

Uselessness at its peak.
#endsars#

If it doesn't reach their doorpost they are not affected, what a waste

You know many of the elites are scared of the massive responses following this, and then they are offering advice that are needless, I assure let this festers for three more month there would be total breakdown of law and order in the country.
Am no Prophet of Doom Kindly read about the Arab Spring and compare it to the Nigerian Situation, we are pained and tired of the ceaseless promises, failures from the elite, and massive and wanton waste of resources.
Everything in the country looks dysfunctional and this #ENDSARS is just the beginning.
#ENDPOLICEBRUTALITY

DonBenny77:

Shun that matter
Go to okokomyko lagos every young man, father, mother even teenager is a yahoo boy is that civilisation? when citizens aren't civilised you don't expect the force to be.
I hate to say this but "everybody is a suspect".
If you are innocent you won't engage sars in a chase and crash to death.
Police brutality isn't unique to sars it is worldwide...
Most of the protesters are doing it for their illicit benefits.
Economy is in shambles!!! Pandemic pandemonium ....
Things no dey flow like before.
Reformsars sounds better, if them endSARS after 1 month na returnsars we go hear

The place of security can never be downplayed but it seems in Nigeria, there's hardly a recourse to human life, with proper investigation make your arrest through right channels. Quick question what then is the work of the EFCC?
Oya Government fund the police no way, see their barracks totally dilapidated, nothing seems to work, accepted SARS over do the matter, but we say no more to the killings and discriminating searches again, we no want!

KingAzubuike:
This is part of what I'm saying. Most people protesting against SARS are Yahoo boys or affiliates/beneficiaries of Yahoo boys. SARS is going no where whether you like it or not

Kindly define the duty the duties of SARS, see I am not in support of the Yahoo boys and other social menace they act as, but when does the Special Anti- Robbery Squad turned into Search the Phone Squad, Threaten lives Squad, Extra-Judicial Killing Squad?
Kindly answer.

Let's be factual here Sir, our school system and curriculum has never actually been friendly, there's an overwhelming need for us to do it rightly.
School is important but you developing yourself is IMPORTANTER. Oga, nobody want to employ someone whom all he has is educational certificate. Sir, add skills real life skills that are relatable, build yourself, no add excessive load that you cannot bear.
If you become better I assure you someone would refer you.
NB: The Nigerian Educational Curriculum seeks to solve a 21st Century problem with a 19th Century ideology, make yourself better.

I would not lie you would be laughed at, stigmatized and even worse negative statements would abound, share the news with your Dad tell him the truth.
Seek medical assistance as soon as possible.
Pray very well, God do heal and may he heal you in Jesus name.
Read the Scriptures.
Find a reason to be happy.

[size=11pt]It was just this evening, I watched the movie Nimbe, and I saw in the movie the reality of how an average Nigerian Home looks today. To all the Parents, reading here and elsewhere, parents must come to the cognizance that how things were done during your time is much different to the 21st Century Nigerian Youth. No doubt the 21st Century has everything in its abundance, left to many others the scale tips towards the side of Evil, but who is to blame for this reality today. Is it the Child or the Parent.
I listened recently to someone who said that "from your birth to the age of 18, you look like your parents (this includes their choices and decisions), but after the age of 18 you start looking like your decisions". Parents need to sit down and relate to their children very well, and by relate I do not mean you criticizing and finding fault in the child but building on his or her strength and helping them become stronger against their weaknesses. With the advent of the World Wide Web and high speed access to the internet at just a click away, things are actually worse in most areas.
How then do we deal with this Challenge?
1. Never Forget the place of Prayer
For the non religious, this would seem absurd but you see prayers goes a long way on the Children you have.
Parents must create out time to connect: It is understandable that the average job drains you mentally, physically and emotionally, but don't be too tired to connect to your children. Create out time to listen to them and hear them out, and in the discussion do not react angrily to everything, at times being too rash cuts the child off, and the child may never speak to the parent again. You must learn to listen your child if he or she is reported, you must not quarrel and kill the child emotionally and later ask "Oya what happened? Where do you want the explanation to come from?
2. Become Friends with your Children
You can actually be friends with your child, through you focusing on their interest and channeling their energies rightly, that child would amaze you if he sees you as a friend, for he would speak more, tell you his preferences amongst others.
3. Tell them First
I believe that if you hear something for the first time, it forms the basis of your mindset and even when you receive another different information contrary to the first information you heard, rarely do you just change your mindset.
For the Fathers is not by shouting or muscles, you should sit your children down (either male or female) with your wife and tell them about their bodies, tell them the truth and expose them to their first information on matters of Sex, Drugs and the dangers of a wrong lifestyle. If you consistently tell them it forms a mindset.
Settle issues with your spouse inside
The cases of parents shouting and quarreling in front of their children have already damage their emotional growth, and please stop pitting the Children against your spouse. The danger is this they will carry a mindset of negativity to their own families and a circle of pain and shame continues.
4.Be a Strict but Fair Parent
Naughtiness is inbreed in every child, but it can be corrected, be ready to discipline your child, constructively criticize them in fairness, do not transfer aggression or frustration on the child in your time of discipline.

Parents must understand that although we are in different timelines, experiences do count and the children can learn from the errors and failures of their parents.
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proclinician:
Would you rather have your own kids become cultists and also have frat boys cut of their heads and send you pictures? Every mallam to him kettle, mind your goddamn business.

I am not against parenting but you need to let individuals the children you have to sort things out by them self, you are to act as a guardian, a teacher. Not to be the enemy, most people would not even tell their parents nothing. So it becomes a problem tomorrow if the child has any issue at all, why? There is no relationship at all.

Unnerve:
What exactly is your relationship with these people?

We attend same church, it becomes a problem for these folks to even go to church.

Vyzz:
Bro try spacing and making use of paragraphs....




Eheh... That work u be one introduce to K... Is it still available...


Local man needs a job

Vyzz thanks a lot for the heads up on writing but for the job......

Mindlog:
OP, is their father not in the picture?

The father is late