₦airaland Forum

Wawelexy:
That's not my question, were you a single mother before you became a grandmother? Are you a single grandmothI'ller too?

I have been following your msgs.. this man be careful

id4sho:
Who's Prof yemi osibanjo? Remind me please

I think you have amnesia. Visit the nearest hospital

MadamExcellency:
There should be offsprings to keep the love going in turbulent times?

But this is about tradition. Your judgement is not needed, the people are happy to celebrate their long age tradition.

I love ancient people notwithstanding their foolishness.



This is an ancient tradition. In the Bible, in the city of the wise they wrote To the unknown God as attribute to God Almighty in heaven.

on colos

femmy0078:
I don't believe in all these cook and bull stories .
Show is a pix

The reason you can't spell cock. Don't be consumed by your foolishness

OluwaLina1:
Happy sunday nairalanders.
I moved to a new area(Student area) and decided to attend a nearby church.

These are what I noticed.

-- I was the only one that used scarf.Even the choristers and the female ministers didn't use scarf.

--Almost all the female members are putting on trousers,ladies that put on gowns/skirt are not up to 20%.
I was even surprised that the two female ministers and the female choristers also put on trouser to climb the church alter.

--During prayer intersection,I noticed everybody were praying in tongues and it seems am the only person not filled with the holy spirit to speak in tongues.
Even when we were asked to pray on our offering,people still prayed in tongues.

And it just seems I'm odd among them or is it that am not modernized?

1. Go and start reading your bible
2. Listen to Christian messages. I'll recommend apostle Joshua selman's messages.
3. Grow spiritually and know God.
4. Attend the church you feel you're welcome and they preaching Jesus christ.
5. You have no business with how anyone dresses in the church. It's you and God.
6. Do you think you will find answers coming on nairaland?? You will only be discouraged and you will draw far away from God

You just dey give yourself issue untop something wey no concern you. Na your baby??

If i was messi ill join my ppl in saudi

Olosho runs gone wrong

This grandma?? Nothing wey 9ja ppl no fit do for money. She go soon collect 50% of your family wealth

Temidayo9:
This people mumu no be here. Time without number they have raised this issue of pay per view any time there is upward price review, nothing like pay per view in cable subscription. Only exclusive channel payment is available which is even more expensive. Besides what concerns students with watching cable TV, they should protest for not having light and water in there various campuses.

most stupid Union ever formed

BrotherSade:
😎

Marry them at your own peril 😎

Abeg talk silently na

TheMaterialist:
Your post is the single most intelligent reply I
have read today.


You prevented yourself from making a hasty
conclusion, given the that the information
remains incomplete.

There is a lot we are not being told.

Thank you. Well said

tomi4life:
I am 35 and my wife is 29, we have been married for 6 years now, we have 2 children a boy and a girl. We didnt court much during our courtship because of long distance.

I really have a problem with my wife and not sure what can be done to address, now I must be very honest am not sure there is anything I can do I just want to use the platform to vent my frustration.

My marriage has not been very good, lately myself and my wife leave like room mates and not lovers, despite the age difference between me and my wife she doesnt really respect me. For the 6 years we have been in marriage 3 things have caused all our fights: cooking, Sex and finance

My wife rarely cooks in the house, things around welfare are not taken seriously, actually in a week, my wife can cook for me just 1 time. She cooks for the children and baths for them daily, we also have a help who does alot of cooking. She rarely askes me what I will eat, honestly I always have to go to the kitchen to sort myself, sometimes I buy food outside from eateries and bucker. Sometimes when she cooks it usually very late 10pm. I have complained severally and what happen is she tries to change, after a week, we are back to the same state. My wife can do without cooking for me for weeks. It really really pains me cos am a foody and I knw hw my mum treats matters of food. she is this person that forms busy, either she is busy with work or some church activities, she always has an excuse. She goes to work only ones a weeks the remaining 4days are remote. To address this issue I now order soups from major restaurant outlets, An example is today easter sunday, I had to tell our maid to prepare rice for myself and the kids, cos my wife was in church, we all went to church but she decided to stay back, knowing fully well no food was prepared.

Sex: [/b]our sex life is very boring, when we got married we always fight about sex, cos anytime I ask for it she always complain she is tired, so what I now do is ask for it only sat morning, brethen this is only day I get sex. If I miss that day, it is still next week. We sleep in different rooms, she sleeps with the children in the master bedroom while I sleep alone in another room. I can tell most time she doesnt enjoy it and never ever askes for it, I always ask and initiate it. She just lays like a log, even kisses is a no no, except she is really on, which rarely happens.
[b]
Finance: I have always earned more than my wife, when we got married, I was earning 3 times what she was earning, but she changed jobs and got promoted severally and we were earning the same amount. she also does alot of side runs where she gets 200-300k monthly as side hustle, there was even a time she was earning more than I did. I dint let it bother me I continue to foot the entire house bills. 95% of the enitre house of comes from me, she only pays the maid , buys cooking gas and my sons diaper. Every other thing in the house is covered by me, house rent, school fees, project, all the bills. I give her 75k as food money monthly. I have continue to question her why I should give her food moeny if I still have to end up going out to eat. I think the only reason she sometime listens to me is cause i still provide the finances for the house. The time she was earning more I could see how she belittle some of my decisions. I just prayed to God, cos I noticed the respect was gone, when I talk to her about her role as a mum and mother to the home, she says she is working, she is busy, I mentioned to her that the money she works is for her, she doesnt share with the house, I have never asked her for it and am not against her working, she however should not neglect her responsibility as a mum. That my role as a father, God helping me is to provide, and this is why I work. I also noticed when I got a new job and my salary increased she kinda off felt jealous she didnt tell me but i noticed it, she began to aggressively look for jobs.


I really dont think we have that initmacy, we are just there, my wife cant come to tell me anything bothering her, she keeps to herself. Funny part is she is a very religious person, my wife will sleep with bible on her hand, wake up with bible pray and serve in various church unit, I however dont think she really understands what she reads. She also has a very bad temper sometimes when I raise certian issues, the ways she talks sometimes I have to hold back a response if not the whole thing will escalate. There are days I will raise certain issue up, the next things she mentions is " let just dissolve this marriage as it is not working" sometimes , I just refer her to her bible cos the utterances that come out of her mouth makes me doubt her understanding of Christianity.


I have never assaulted her, we have nt had any physically fight, what happens is most times when we have issues, I dont speak to her for days, then she come back apologizing. Sometimes when am wrong I also apologies.

Am not saying am perfect, I know there are areas I can do better, like in the buying off gift, I rarely buy her gift, not cause I cant but Cos she earns well and I believe she should buy whatever she needs with her money my wife earns approximately 800k monthy.


I expect my wife will support me but it like she is stressing me. when we go see my parent or our parent, it is all smiles, they dont knw hw stressful their daughter is, she even forms trying to serve me food and all.

Dont get me wrong she has some good side, but this thing is really getting into me. I dont drink, smoke or womanise, divorce is also not on the table for me.

Go and sit and talk about it. Go make it work

Lovilla:
My married sister kept complaining how thier house help is about to bring her marriage to the mud.

She said her husband is no longer giving her attention like before just few months the maid arrived.

The maid is taking over her marriage slowly, as her husband only eats food prepared by the house girl.

She has been crying all day.
She said she has tried everything possible to chase the girl away but her husband always kicks against it.

She is afraid of loosing her marriage.

Please, what must she do?

The info you gave is insufficient, therefore it's inconclusive

What is your problem young man. You know the right thing to do.

OboOlora:
I remember interviewing one guy while in Nigeria, dude was complimenting my dressing knowing fully well that I have big breasts and he kept staring at my cleavage.

He didn’t pass the first stage

What rubbish!

Erection-controlled freak, he should go and apply for porn jobs!

Wear a decent dress next time. Cover you cleavage we don't see rubbish

Godspowerpro:
Yorubas offer you up as burnt offering

he go just waste your firewood

Na scam jor

DodadaKoKigbe:
No be by praise and worship. Team wey good, good. There are atheists team in Europe that will defeat Super Eagles black and blue.

God does not take sides in football.

Cry more

EriMma1:
Some men don't have shame.

So now, he'll open this his big old body before this small girl and be having fun?? Some things shouldn't just be at all.

I dey shame for am.

that girl will grow old in no time

FalseProphet1:
Madrid to defeat Chelsea

Inter to defeat Benfica

Bayern to defeat Mancity

Napoli to defeat AC milian.

This I have seen.

Flesh and blood have not revealed this to you

Who sold propranol to you without Dr prescription?? You both need to be arrested

Oritna94:
It is most likely anxiety, Try and exercise, jog for 20 minutes everyday, and see the effect after 2 weeks of jogging. Thank me later. It is very therapeutic. The tremors will stop.

You may be right

salem1996:
You are wise. Relationship should bring peace and progress not pressure and insecurity

Just like Emefiele and buhari brought peace and progress

davodyguy:
The spy app can only send SMS to your phone as fresh message. It will never find it's way to the existing threaded SMS platform your bank is using.

Yes, they can clone anything
Yes the alert can come in, but if it comes as SMS to your phone separately, without showing previous debit/credit alerts, you should not fall

I understand your point, what if my bank alert sim is in a small itel phone. Would it also thread the sms alert?

Y0urUncle:
How una dey take fall for public toilet, bikonu?

toilet floor dey wet ni

This man is 72 years old

These things don't go but without fasting and prayer, surely its spiritual.

sojayy:
They r just acting movie, cos d side chick ought to have dressed up b4 coming down to meet d wife.

the man would have locked the door to the apartment, then the lady dress up.. the man sef dey do like mumu. How she go come down herself without the man escorting her. Confirm skit

9jaNoBeLagos:
Can Thïefnubu kick the ball not to talk of scoring 🤣🤣🤣

you like violence sha

everythinggirly:
What more can BBNija create? What do you expect of not sex and kissing scene?

Just like a footballer is expected to score goals.