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make una follow me se wahala 4 dis dude hand ooooo, u c ur fiancee not wit one but two guys on bed and you are asking how to react with that. i think the lady is more sane than you else you wouldn't av asked that. Rubbish.

Must the both of them marry? Abeg poster tell ur guy/girl to fashie the relationship. it is only a stubborn fly that follows a corpse to the grave.

rubbish!

@poster, At times it does show you love the person that is probably why he went for something that is expensive, after all David said I will not give to my God that which costs me nothing, it is an act of love. but in some cases not.

lol

@michele, you really did cut the word out of my mouth.

Very good ques, had thought about b4, bt very bad of them.

otokx:
if she is handsome and rich plus lekpa; why not?

Go sleep my friend you don't even stand a chance with that look. and beside who told you that Girls are handsome,
olodoo. johnbull like you. itibolibor.

watin person no go see for here sef.

my ppl this beats my imagination, somebody pls tell me what in God's name is this man doing. kai kai unbelievable.
http://www.xclusivenigeria.com/breakingnews029.html

demand for 5million instead and when you get the cash elope with the babe if she is still interested.

whitesturd:
OMG.I thought we were through with all this Why Nigerian girls are dis dis dis and dat stuff.Why wud somebody be generalising like this.Who told u dat Being unfaithful is peculiar to any particular country.It happens everywhere for crying out loud.And who told u dt all Nigerian girls are unfaithful.simply because u ve been hurt does not mean u shd come here groaning like a wounded lion that all Nigerian girls are unfaithful cos almost everybody has been hurt before in life and we all get over it wtout this unnececessary generalisation.

to me ur are the one sounding like a wounded lion because of ur lack of sense of judgement. you totally mis-understood what the poster was trying to pass through to us.

o boy you are lucky oooooooooo, give it to her straight away, men dey find dat kind girl ni but only in a relationship ooooooooo. but na my wify talk so, kai na packing instanta.

selena:
I hope you do not take this adivise the wrong way.But i suggest you do a DNA test to prove if the baby is urs or not.But come to think of it,y did you sleep with her if you knew she was ugly to you?

don't mind the dude, slept with an ugly girl and did not dime it fit to use protection and now you want us to do magic or reverse the hand of time. like this lady rightly said do a DNA test to prove if the baby is urs and if urs congratulations to the latest dad in town and if not use protection at all time for this mistake not to occur again.

bethangel:
I call it stalking, he calls it love

Four to five phone calls a day
He's the first to comment on my FB status
incessant mail messages in my box
declaring his love barely two weeks after meeting me
suprise visits

I'm getting tired cos i think a guy should really get to know a girl before indicating his interested in more
or what do you think?

What is it with ur girls sef, if a guy does not call, u call him names now you av one who calls and you call it stalking,
if you dont give that a chance you would neva know if it is for real, so use your teeth to count ur tongue and do the rite thing.

posakosa:
I call this MADNESS.

what is mad about the situation?

What can i ever do without you guys. thanks a lot for all your contributions, you av all hit ten the nail on the head.
bravo.

love is not entirely fair so once none of the both party is ready to play the fool the it can never stand.
for any love to stand one person must be suffering and ready to suffer more for the sake of it. that is why after a while in a relationship they begin to tear apart because the other has taken enough and wants out at all cost.

you ignore them and move forward with your life.

My friend is in love with two women and does not know who to go for. And from his theory about them, he said one will make a good wife while the other will make a good mother. Please give you candid opinion; if you were in his shoes who would you go for.
And to go further he derived his theory from this point:

Good wife: she is pretty and well shaped just the way he likes it. She is full of life and she takes no nonsense and will not wait a sec to treat your fuckup when ever you mess up. She is fun to be with as there is never a dull moment with her. She is sex appealing and very good in bed, she could do him for hours. She is very jovial and a good entertainer if ever your friends come visiting, she could make them want to get laid the way she will be touching you in there presence as if you had been away for a long time. She is not shy and very outspoken. But she is not homely and does not care about house chores; she did rather eat out than cook. Not that she does not know how to cook but she hates it. She is too inquisitive and will never give you a breathing space. To crown it all to bore you guys she hates anything that needs to be done that would be her. She is simply lazy. Very extravagant, careless and would not mind when married to you to leave with you to any part of the world at the expense of her children. She just wants to always be you. While the

Good mother: is totally the opposite of the other who is very homely and does all the house chores even before you think of it. She is not the ongoing type. She is educated and very brilliant and from a respectable family. She is really not his ideal woman as she is kind of the opposite. She respects the guy with all honesty. She is slow in anger and acts maturely when annoyed. She is not that jovial but she is okay. And the most that gives him concern is that she is not active in sex like the other girl and makes him to fear not to be forced to cheat on her when married. If married to her would be the types that will make you children believe in their self and make them see reason to aspire to be great.
Any good thing a child would get from the mother she is ready to offer and more.

So my fellow NL you have heard it all and your candid opinion will be appreciated.

finemocha:
u know some of u guys make me really sick, u all can open your stupid hypocritical mouths and yap like fuccking morrons on some website that u can be anonymous, but yet when u see stupid babaric things going on in your neighborhood u keep your mouths shut and gap in awe.

u will see them burning people on the street and just watch
soldiers shooting innocent money xchange people and gapE
or worse policemen molesting couples and stripping them naked and laugh.

YOU ALL SHOULD GO TO FUCCKING HELL. NIGERIANS CANT EVEN FIGHT FOR THEM SELVES ANYMORE. BUT GIVE THEM A LAPTOP AND THE INTERNET AND THEY BECOME CIVIL RIGHT FIGHTERS OR BETTER THEY GROW AN OPINION

what is ur point here and secondly mind how you open your mouth.

are you daft that u can not read the hand writing on the wall.if the mother accepted you whole heatedly then you should shout hallelujah seven times and give thanks giving next sunday in ur church for the dude has got to be serious with to av done that,but if it were at festive season that he did that then they might be another meaning to it.
maybe he just want to prove that he living well and other stupid reasons.but since u went and came back whole,then you should not be sad about it as it is nothing.dont u go to girl friends village to attend traditional marriage and sort.there is nothing wrong in it.

am not among those who entirely believe that only the truth can set you free.what i can't understand is that you had the gut to sleep with your friend in your living room even when your wife was at home.even if you were so Hot, you should av at least managed to get to ur bedroom and if ur wife is sleeping wake her and tell her you want to make love than fall for her friend.this i find very hard to believe because it looks more to me that u av screwed dat lady b4.well coming to the solution of your problem telling ur wife is not an option as it will cause more proble m and ears that should not hear would hear.what i advice you should do in this case if you know truly u want to get rid of her is
[1] start avoiding her
[2] when she calls give your wife the phone to speak with her
[3] and if she does not stop bothering ur life and you think she is crazy enough to tell ur wife about the affair,plan a small accident for her that will send her 6feet.[KILL HER] B4 she kills u.that is self protection and no judge will crucify you for that.

what a greedy world, a not looking girl wants a good looking and gets pissed off when not looking guys ask her out.
what rubbish.lets call a spade a spade you are selfish.if it were a guy who made that comment it would av been better,hearing it from a lady pisses me off already and believe lots of folks in the house agrees with me.let me tell you the honest truth if you want good looking folks then you should also be ready for heart break as that is the reward of such desire.truth has to be told no matter how bitter it may be,and hate me all you want but that is the truth.

hello poster, what is the use of crying over a split milk. the did has been done,and there is no going back.
what i can say to you now is to move on with your life as pity cannot help you now.you are probably being uncomfortable around girl because u still see ur self as one of which you are not.forget this talk of getting laid only after marriage as it will not work.get ur self a girl even if you av to pay her to sleep with and after sleeping with several girls i tell u solemly that you will feel beta because your probs is that u still see ur self as a girl.use protection my broda.that is the only thing distinguishing your mate.virgin is equivalent to pervert because they see the world the other way round.do as i av told and u will feel beta for sure.

i may not be very useful here but the only thing i can tell u folks is that for any love to survive one must be fool to the other.love entirely is not sincere and truthful as u call it.there is always one at the gaining end while the other in distress but what makes it true love is ability of the one playing fool and taking all the blames to hold on pray for better days.dat is my opinion.

This is not my story thou but i av to share it. a certain girl was dating a guy for a while and the guy hide is real self,personality and sort,everything was going because the dude was active in bed and the gurl her self was machine,the only attraction then was good sex.this gurl in ? was seeing other men but the guy kept complaining and gave plenty of time to discharge this men as perhaps she knew them far b4 they met.but it did not get any better.because this dude loves this gurl real gud kept his fingers and hoped things to get beta. which it did not.i believe by now u guys know why she is seeing other men{money}if u ar not flowing with me.then suddenly the dude invites the she to his palace spends about 3 days and the gurl got to really meet this dude cling and know who he really was. behold after flexing this girl for 3 days he went to put her on a bus as she was to leave but b4 the bus could leave for half mile a text popped into this dude phone and i quote "I CAN'T WAIT TO SAY I DO I DO TO YOU ON THE ALTER" My people listening what can we call this one?

my broda dont mind all this things this folks are telling you, if they were in your shoes would av done what am about to tell you. screw the girl,there is no way ur boss will find out or is either of you ready to tell him?no is the answer so why dont just av some moment of pleasure after all she is the one who wants you so no much expenses on ur side.sex is much beta when done to some who really is in need of it.you may neva know ur boss is castrated and cant perform and the young lady just need someone to screw with.dont let this opportunity pass u by.but incase it backfires jobs are not finished on the street or can hala me at 08091673822 and i will get u fixed up so tight that is only if you are fired.that is my candid advice which is the best you can ever get.these folks telling u to let her be are probably virgins or perverts who are either jealous of ur position or no sabi do dude.

@op, i don't know about other guys but i really hate it around women when my pockets aint telling me the truth.
while most of them would love to be with me those period to cheer me up,but i don't oblige because reasons best known to me.so i don't really see all women that way.but there are some very few thou who are.which could be detected and prevented if only you were not infatuated by her beauty in the first place.shine your eyes bro,nothing is hidden under the surface of the sun.unless u are so dumb and daft.

Am posting this for the bored ladies in the house who needs the services of gigolos. You can hook up,arrange a meet with them on s_dav1956@yahoo.com, don't say i gave u this cos some of you may end up wishing the fun never stops. I guarantee that they are professionals and good looking,strong,energetic,smooth,with fresh lips.

If you are tired of a bored life catch a date with them and the experience will blow your mind.
thank me later after having a good run for your money.

it happened to me two days ago with a friends cousin,and i know rite now dat the girl will be wondering what manner of guy i was.but i was only trying to be nice or the word friendly.nothing else in mind.well reading this now,will proceed in giving her a call b4 she begins to hate me,lol or look down on her self.she is cute n well figured bt cant just figure why i didn't call.perhaps no credit to waste.sorry fellas. just doing wat makes me happy as a friend told me today,"do wat ever makes u happy no matter what". 4 those who saw my previous thread,u will know wat am talking abt.tired of runaways n back girls.