Diva I wana ask you if you were aware that a thread of same content as yours was created by redgem yesterday?
In other news, Redgem what's the motivation behind your new found madness. Did I insult you with my initial post? I only clarified diva's stance based upon verifiable fact. Was that an insult?
My Advice: Don't get carried away by the fake attention you received from your lame cohorts, you are just one of those sanitary pads tussling for power with the G-string...
P:S Diva please clarify coz I seem to see a lot of backtalks on this.
naijaboiy: [b][color=#1980BC]What's this one saying?
1) There are very old grown men that play nairabet they even play more than the young guys you see on the streets,,and yes they are married,,have jobs and kids. As long as the man doesn't channel the money he's meant to use for the family's upkeep into betting then there is nothing wrong in it.
The owner of the betting site is also married and with children who gets his income from the betting site. If you were married to him will you advise that he stops it? Something that has made him a multi-millionaire.?
2) And who told you playing video games at any age is bad. There are men that still play video games at their leisure. It doesn't stop him from knowing he's a man. It's part of having fun.
You are not even happy he's staying at home to play video games with the kids. What if he decides to be going out with his friends to drink is that the one you'll like?
3) so supporting a football club now makes someone an "agbero". I clap my hands for your Logical reasoning. you have forgotten that it's this same football that men play and get their money. It's a sport.
From what you typed up there I will just conclude that you just have hatred for the simple pleasurable things men do to relax and have fun. You better have alternatives for your man if you don't want him to be doing any of these things,,if not just let him be.
The main thing is that he doesn't make those things a better priority than you. Shikena!
That's how many of you girls will be trying to change their man from the good things he did that make him happy meanwhile you lots can't drop your own irritating behaviours that we hate.
Such double standard. [/b][/color]
Eleniyan I hail u ontop transformer ooo
Well crafted!
Am sure u spoke for most of us......
As per changing things like s******y pads, baba d tin tire me oooo. To roll out EX's list come be like calling Buhari's Ministerial List
Evathyst: Your points are quite valid so is your submission. But even you have opined that whatever a man does for fun shouldn't reduce his fondness for his wife. Oya, clap for yaself!
But as per playing online bet or any kinda bet, I just can't tolerate it in a man. For any reason whatsoever. Being an ardent supporter of a club also has it's toll on some guy's rationality. I've seen a lotta them argue, shout, and fight over the issue of football. Gosh! It's a sign of irresponsibility.
You must be from Mars.
Don't worry 20point on the reverse of this thread is loading inside cooler sogbo !
Mzdivacious: The way some guys act clearly indicate that they will end up as chronic headache for their wives in the nearest future if care is not taken. I can’t really blame guys who are involved in the act of humiliating ladies in public and online because these ladies in question must have torment their heart but going to the extent of destroying their intrinsic values is the major concern here. Therefore let’s take a look at signs that indicate a guy will become an irresponsible husband.
1. Extremely stingy Some guys are so stingy to the extent that they can’t call their girlfriends for just 1minute in a day. The only time they call for long period is during free night calls or bonus awarded from telecom providers. If they call for 30secs, they will hang up and later explain through whatsapp/BBM that it was network failure.
2. Highly promiscuous This issue is common to perverts who has never zipped up for once in their life by chasing every tom and harry in skirt. These are the kinds that will eventually become sugar daddy, chasing ladies who are young enough to be their daughter in future.
3. Very lazy Some guys are so idle to the extent that they have no goal, vision and purpose in life. They are just too lazy to seize opportunities around them as they are only seen in betting shops like nairabet, etc. to make money.
4. Ridicule ladies I hate when a guy beat or disgrace his girlfriend in public just because she hangs out with a guy. I consider this as a dysfunctional act because a man in making will not stoop so low to involve himself in this thrash. Meanwhile on nairaland some consider all ladies as whores of which we still have the rare and good ones like mhizkel, prettythicksme, redgem, aminat508, midehi, adeh39 and others.
5. Habit of alcoholism and smoking For a guy that consume too much alcohol and smoke probably in the bid to control his anger is not a man. Such guys cannot become responsible husbands to their wives because they can use children’s school fee and other budgetary money to drink and smoke.
6. Wrong lifestyle Some guys rock and roll with the wrong peer groups who have influence them to have shameful lifestyles like yahoo yahoo occupation, rape gangs and area touts.
7. Careless attitude The way some guys behave can be likened to a voracious animal. They dump and change ladies like sanitary pads as they care less about their emotion by suggesting abortion for any sex journey that becomes foetus.
8. Poor financial planning Some guys blow money like trumpet without thinking about future investment. They spend their money on vague things like phones, prostitutes, etc. Such guys will eventually become an irresponsible husband.
9. Bad listening habit: most guys have this habit and it results in ineffective communication, which usually have an adverse impact on the productivity of the individual and their relationships. Poor listening definitely make a huge, negative impact on team morale and productivity. This situation usually results in conflicts and misunderstandings among partners , and it creates a negative environment.
10. Lack of Self control : some guys lack the ability to control their emotions, behavior, and desires. Guys should constantly be striving towards self-control and discipline, because these are foundations of integrity. One thing they need to understand about self-control is that it is not as much about saying no to certain fleshly desires, lusts and cravings but more about living and abundant life free from addiction regret and shame.
11. Interrupting a conversation: guys are good at Interrupting a conversation with improper body language or inappropriate words and this has a negative impact on their relationships. My bf does this a lot and it annoys me… I’ve told him severally yet, he can’t stop it.
12. Dirty: some guys are so dirty that if they should pass you, oh my God! you won’t be able to breathe for hours and most of them term it sexy…. Imagine animal odour is now sexy ta…go and sleep it’s a turn off to we ladies.. We love guys that are neat, guys that organizes their home. 13. Bragging : some guys brag a lot eg MrCork I have no problem with a guy having money. However, I do have a problem when you decide to treat women like gold-diggers whose eyes are bound to widen at the mention of “Bugatti”. Yes, we like money, just like you men, but that doesn’t mean you should also shout it…. Brags are a turn off for me
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Nice !!.
Guilty of one or two mildly....
But we all should strive towards becoming a better Man
Sundayme: My brother, many people wouldn't tell you the truth, but I will.
Please, why are the ladies dressed like that?
I don't know, is civilization synonymous with irresponsibility?
See the way they are even dancing.
After watching the pictures, what came to my mind (as well as the mind of many that will look at the pictures) is that: Did this guy rent prostitutes for his Randy party?
Nonybb: I WONDER WHY THE NEED FOR THIS KID TO SAG HIS TROUSERS EVEN WHEN THERE IS NO NEED TO. I WILL GRADE DEJI ADELEKE F9 IN TRAINING OF THIS CHILD. IMAGINE WHEN YOU CANT TRAIN YOUR SON TO KNOW WHEN TO DRESS AS A MUSICIAN AND WHEN TO DRESS AS A COOPERATE GENTLEMAN VISITING A PLACE OF LEARNING AND YOU WANT TO BUILD A PLACE TO TRAIN OTHERS JUST BECAUSE THERE IS MONEY. THAT UNIVERSITY WHEN COMPLETED WILL BE LIKE SODOM AND GOMORRAH BECAUSE DEJI IS NOT A DISCIPLINARIAN AS A FATHER
Yet u no own a single mushroom pry sch on top all ya discipline
Freecocoa oya wear your owambe garment and swerve to anoda wedding party , not his. If truly d wife insist, trust me its not coz she likes you its definitely coz she wants to size u up. Apparently her husby hasn't stopped whinning about you and on more occasions than one, he must have made some comparisons which could have awoken the ayamatanga in the lady. So this cud serve as a gud opprtunity to nicely-demean you and make you pay for being too gOod with her husby in d good old days...
Dakolo ain't relevant? lol. Funniest thing I've heard today...! Well he makes most of his money from shows, events, he's a sterling bank ambassador also in case you didn't know, amongst others... Do you even know how much he must have made during the whole election campaign period ehn lol
Just because he doesn't sing hip hop/rap like most other 'popular' singers you know doesn't mean he's not relevant or rich. For crying out loud this guy won the first west African Idol! And you know the other mega deals and contracts that come with that. He sure must have made a lot of other investments...
Baba no stress your self jaree, leave dat nigga to be wondering where he got his money from
By d ways, some girls be like "Geez I lov her shoe, very dope"......and na dem go still gossip behind her back dey talk say her gown na okrika. Mscheewwww