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Unfortunately they r all the same. My plan is to never fall in love again. Just play along with my brain. Cos the last gal I fell in love with took advantage of it. I was even paying her salary. Had to force her out of my mind one day and in less than 2 weeks, I could do without her. That's when she knew she don cast. Its serious fvck up to be in love with a Nigerian gal. Money u can't give your parents, you will give her. Serious fvck up. And the gal is working o. Earning 80k but she must still collect my money. Even my sis n mom without job, na small change I dey give them. I thank God I'm out of that bondage called love.. And if I fall in love with a gal again, then I'm d biggest fool.

Someone help with this study material pls. God bless you

zoer:
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Pls can u send to d email above. I've sent u a request but no response

Kindly send me IELTS study material pls. My Email is scottbee85@gmail.com
Thanks and God bless you.

Most women. Not all

Who among the 2 do you love. I don't understand why girls try to decide who to marry and love is not part of requirement. Nawa o

miniziter:
Cucumber does not have muscles and milk. Don't forget that the "milk" is responsible for the fertilization of the egg.

And u r a guy. Imaging it happened to u

Be honest with then. Nov is by d corner. Tell em u can start working immediately n y can easily sort then at your PPA. They will surely take u. To answer your question, I can bet my life that they won't verify your nysc certificate. But its better to be honest

Do you know that this girl has guys who would love her genuinely, but she prefers a ready made guy. A fine boy with money. Guy she was not with when he was broke. Guy that has learned women are opportunist who can't fend for themselves but prefer to look for a ready made guy. Guy that had been bleeped up several times by girls when he was broke. That's why the guy is treating her like shit

Had an accident Nov 2019 and the fact that I've been unable to walk since then takes my joy away. I'm healing though. And God has made it easy for me to bear, I just wished it never happened.

You are 100% right. True love only exist between parents-children-siblings. Those are the only people that will have your back when things aren't right with you. I'm never going to love a gal again. Use n dump.

Girls don't deserve to be treated with love. They calculate and make best decisions in their own interest only. When they are loyal to you, trust me it's because they have no better option. That's the sad truth whether you like it or not. When u dating a girl, just know you are the best amongst all her options at that moment. Even if some of her toasters drive G-wagon. Trust me, she has thought about it n has chosen u based on selfish interest. When you date them, think about your interest alone cos they are selfish. Atleast 98% of them. Your family first in all you do cos they are the ones who will have your back in every situations.

jorion:
Did Whites also build timbuktu, gobekli tepe, Jerusalem, great Zimbabwe, the Egyptian pyramids, the Sudan pyramids, all the ancient pyramids in Ethiopia. Even the Portuguese who went to benin in the 1500's said that there was nothing inferior about the city. We outsmarted the whitemen in trade in the west coast of Africa especially in palm oil. They could not stand the fact that the black men were monopolising the market, so they assassinated everyone of them. The very last person to be killed was king jaja on his way back from exile in the Caribbean. Damn, how does it feel to have such inferiority complex. What is happening in Africa right now have nothing to do with our potential but all to do with corruption of tribalism. If we want our leaders out today, they will all flee from this country. It is black people who enables their behaviour.

So what achievement (technology wise) can you attribute to Blacks without education from whites. Pyramids? The fact that the whites can easily take us as slaves if they wish is enough reason why you shouldn't engage in this argument. Wtf. White vs blacks. Are u kidding me. We couldn't even find cure to our own malaria. Tell me what we can do by ourselves. Even basic 5 floor structures in Nigeria are been built by Chinese

khia:
Before you make such ignorant statements, Google inventions by blacks.

Trash. The most intellectuals amongst blacks had western education. Without education from whites, they would still be in Africa living in huts. Imagine there was no contact with whites, we still will be living like those African stories your grand parents told you. Even now, many Africans still live in mud houses. Even in Lagos right now in 2020, no clean water, light good road etc.

LilWarshy:
It's really nice.

Awww. Thanks boss

Guys, kindly start discussions in my forum. Its bigger n better. Also u can send PMs directly. Bless you

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How many people have you made love too.

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Kelvin581:
Am living with my uncle since I was in jss1 and now am currently doing my nysc and since then i haven't brought any girl to my uncle house.. so my gf told me she want to visit me ... So I envited her to our house yesterday.. we stayed on the corridor and we gisted and I didn't take her inside and she greeted my uncle well and I told my uncle she is my friend... So this morning my uncle called me and warn me not to bring any girl into his house again..... I just kept quiet and I was surprised

so I don't no.... was kinda annoyed

Baba make your money n get your own apartment. It could be annoying if you were in his shoes too. Like small time now, u go carry enter him apartment go Fvck.

His son ought to have informed him. And he ought to have called. Don't let their conception of u determine your joy. No send who no send u

I wish I can rip off my ex's leg

PrettyPrint:
workin put her salvation indeed o


Niggas will neva learn...

The person behind this account is a guy. U just proved it

Omar09:
Women need RELATIONSHIP from us more than we need it. We want sex from them more than they want it.

No they want sex as much. I can tell of my ex. She wants it more. She masturbates at least 5 times daily. Even perv guys don't masturbate daily. Her ego is just because she has a lot of attention online. And she can get a better guy online if she wants. They r too many. Even if they only want to Bleep her, at least they r there

U are just a dog who doesn't deserve fidelity from a guy. He should be serious with u so u can break is heart by fucking another guy like u did with your ex with him?

Bro u nailed it.. My babe will break up with me at least twice weekly and I would start begging. A gal I give up to 20k every month n she has absolutely nothing to offer me. So much attention from guys online. I have to man up n decide not to beg again after she broke up with me last week.

Maybe she's shy around u. Don't pressure her. Just be natural n overtime she will be more confident around u.

LinLinGentle:
Disclaimer: I AM NOT A SAINT AND MY WIFE IS NOT THE DEVIL. I HAVE JUST BEEN UNFORTUNATE TO BECOME A VICTIM OF MATRIARCHY WHICH MANY MEN SUFFER ABROAD...

I have been hustling abroad for a few years while wifey was working in Nigeria and living with children. Marriage has always been turbulent and we even almost got divorced after I travelled out. We somehow worked on our issues with the help of pastors, family and friends, and after a few years of ''roughing'' it abroad to pave way for them, I finally succeeded and my family arrived a few months ago.

I used to be hot tempered, but I have had enough time to gain insight into my inadequacies and reflect on them. I am now significantly calmer due to the determination to make my marriage better and as per ''abroad levels''. My wife on the other hand is fully taking advantage of me and the environment we find ourselves in. First thing she did on getting here was to cut of my entire family. She said she doesn't want to have anything to do with any of them anymore. She has also not been too keen to kickstart her career, as all she does is endless picture taking and editing for social media hyping. I know this might be due to the initial ''euphoria'' phase cos she is coming abroad to a big house, big car and having no limits on most things we used to manage back in Nigeria, and she thinks things are bread and butter. You would never think for a second that she is a married woman if you check her profiles on social media!

She has become even more toxic person than she ever was in Naija. Now very bossy, never backs down, always the attacker, ever ready for a fight, lazier, always on social media, communicates with me as little as possible, embarrasses me in the neighbourhood with the constant noises from our house, and finally her threats have now tripled! Madam is now so fierce that I have become the house chicken. Just within a few months of being here o! She tells me that she will show me for all the ''gra gra'' I used to do back in Nigeria. Friends advised me against bringing this woman here but I no wan hear word as per responsible family man wey I dey claim to be.

The popular threat is usually ''I will end your career''. I wasn't taking this too seriously initially, but she then started following through with the threats by constant calls to the police and other services, making spooky and baseless career ending accusations and allegations against me.

I have never been the one to first lay my hands on her, but I have spilled drinks on her before when she attacked me. My wife now gets very physical without having any element of self control, fear or restraint after the simplest argument and sometimes, she damages things out of anger. She does this so often and never hesitates to dare me to do my worst.

I discovered that she has signed up on dating sites and when I even caught her chatting about sex to a particular guy in our area, she said that it was all my fault. She did not apologise for this. She even referred to it one time after an argument that if I am convulsing like this over just a sex chat, she's waiting to see what I'd do when I see a man on top of her.

My productivity at work has declined significantly and I am now on the verge of depression. Neighbours called the police on us one time after a lot of noise from out house. She accused me of domestic violence. The police had to separate us and I was stuck at home for an extended period and could not go to work due to this. I am now being investigated for domestic violence, which is a serious crime as madam wants it and I have had to report the situation to my company! The whole thing is so messy that I am scared that I have not seen the worst yet.

I am so afraid of losing it all and returning to Nigeria broke cos I spent my last card and even racked credit card debt to bring them here hoping to pay off gradually. I still have a few years to get my citizenship and if I lose my job now, that is the end for all of us!

For now, I don't know what is going to happen to us, as this woman is so determined to cause great and irreparable damage that could ruin our lives, just to get back at me and she is being cheered on by her family and friends.

THE SITUATION IS SO MESSED UP!

UPDATE:

Divorce has now been filed. I also recently got lucky as I was able to secure a restraining order when she messed up again and hit me daring me to do my worst. I called the police and made a proper case and she was arrested. She has been banned from the house for a month. The police advised me to talk to my lawyer and extend indefinitely if I want to. I hope to get this done ASAP. The law here does not only protect women but also protects innocent men. All you need is patience and wisdom. Thank you all for your ideas. Still several hurdles to cross but I am on the winning side for now.

Try n get her back to Nigeria If u can. How will u take her there only for her to sign up on dating site. What d Bleep

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Alright I told dis computer technician to get an enclosure case for my hard drive and he said there's no enclosure case for it cos its SSD and I told him there are cases for SSD and he said this is not a regular SSD that's its an SSD card, the very small type. Pls is it true that there's no enclosure case for this type of SSD and no way I can get my data out of it? Pls help. The motherboard is faulty n I have no money to replace it for now

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